FabSwingers.com forum: The meaning of LOVE

By *ed wine OP Man
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

Continuing with the series of trascendent threads ( ghosts, consciousness...), let me ask you about your concept of romantic... LOVE

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

Standing by someone even when it breaks your own heart.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

No idea

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By *emplarWarriorMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Standing by someone even when it breaks your own heart.

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By *airymagicWoman
over a year ago

goblin city

"Standing by someone even when it breaks your own heart.

Sadly beautiful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the ghostly figure stood on a hilltop staring out to sea... forever waiting for their lost love to return

It's the unbreakable bond

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By *ondon-guy68Man
over a year ago

London

Lying to get in her knickers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forgiving your husband/boyfriends philandering more than 5 times....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Forgiving your husband/boyfriends philandering more than 5 times...."
love means never having to say sorry though

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I genuinely don't know. Despite being with someone for 22 years I never felt there was 'real' love

Maybe it means knowing that the other person will never deliberately hurt you.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Not entirely sure I know the answer

How do you know when you are in love?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the true story that inspired countless fairytales

True love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loving every part of someone flaws an all .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I genuinely don't know. Despite being with someone for 22 years I never felt there was 'real' love

Maybe it means knowing that the other person will never deliberately hurt you."

i think that's part of it, yes. they would be truly sorry if they realised that. they would humiliate themselves with an apology because the bond they feel for you means something and they don't want to break that or want to repair it.

maybe go off how you've loved other people to give you an idea of what it is? also, there's different ways of showing love and ways of feeling loved. so just because someone doesn't make you feel loved it might not be true that they never loved you. if they abuse you they probably do not.

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i don't think romantic love is unconditional OP. not sure what it is myself either, i know i can feel it for people and i want to tell them i love them. i want to feel close to them physically, mentally, and sexually. but i am somewhat fucked up so idk.

i've only ever felt once i would die for someone i loved, and that feeling went before we split up after he did things that made me feel not loved.

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By *ed wine OP Man
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

Someone wrote years ago, that romantic love needs 3 fundamental aspects:

-Reciprocity of sensual passion

-Reciprocity of affection

-Compatibility of situations and individual aspirations

I would add, compatibility of personality traits, mutual confidence, flexibility and commitment.

Too many factors to keep the fire burning under the storms of Life...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pain

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By *ed wine OP Man
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

"Pain

I am very sorry. Indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clinging on for dear life, hoping.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feeling happy when you know they are on their way home to you.

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By *emplarWarriorMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Clinging on for dear life, hoping.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Forgiving your husband/boyfriends philandering more than 5 times...."
Thats just being a damn right idiot/fool....

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