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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If you see someone you really like on here but can't message them IE they have your sex blocked, is it weird to message them through the forums to grab their attention?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, every little helps mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

If they've blocked all people of a particular gender or age group or even blocked you as an individual they've done so for a reason and have no obligation to reveal that reason either.

You should respect that and leave it at that.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"If you see someone you really like on here but can't message them IE they have your sex blocked, is it weird to message them through the forums to grab their attention?"
you can conversate with them but not directly try to use a post to get round their filters, that's against the rules i do believe..ie: pestering someone to get them to message you, on a thread post isnt allowed, but, if you have a conversation with them on a thread, not mentioning there filter preferences, that's ok..

good luck xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you see someone you really like on here but can't message them IE they have your sex blocked, is it weird to message them through the forums to grab their attention?"

Do they come on forum.not huge percentage does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes do not mention the username and the fact they have filters. You'll get in trouble ie timeout.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"If you see someone you really like on here but can't message them IE they have your sex blocked, is it weird to message them through the forums to grab their attention?"

Yes. If it's meant to be, it's meant to be. Have a normal forum conversation by all means but don't push it; I have felt icky when people have tried that with me in the past.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I dont mean to pester etc. But when you get profiles that say for example will get in touch if need a guy/girl or something along those lines. If that makes sense.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im just trying to familiar myself with the rules of the site by the way

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"I dont mean to pester etc. But when you get profiles that say for example will get in touch if need a guy/girl or something along those lines. If that makes sense.

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no harm in chatting to people on a public forum, if they are on it OP x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

. To be honest I do find using forums easier to chat rather than message a person. Always struggle to find what to say.

Least in here you can join in convos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have my messages blocked because of getting inundated by messages. Wink or Fab her photos if she is interested she'll message you. Dont go creeping in forums its creepy what creepy do so dont...

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"I have my messages blocked because of getting inundated by messages. Wink or Fab her photos if she is interested she'll message you. Dont go creeping in forums its creepy what creepy do so dont... "
everyone saying hello to you is creepy...am i being creepy ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I cant have pics on my profile (kinda makes it harder for me)

And not hiding from a partner or wife as Im single. Just work related crap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I cant have pics on my profile (kinda makes it harder for me)

And not hiding from a partner or wife as Im single. Just work related crap "

So body parts would be recognised by those you work with?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Body parts wont but I wouldn't like to talk to a pair of boobs or a pussy. So I wouldnt expect anyone to expect to talk to a body part of mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they've blocked all people of a particular gender or age group or even blocked you as an individual they've done so for a reason and have no obligation to reveal that reason either.

You should respect that and leave it at that."

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Body parts wont but I wouldn't like to talk to a pair of boobs or a pussy. So I wouldnt expect anyone to expect to talk to a body part of mine. "
your logic is not helping you..resistance to you changing, is what is not helping you imho x this is about here, and what works here, you want to be part of that, then some understanding of that requirement, is necessary x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its very much a light hearted kinda response. Not meant to offend anyone just my personal opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you see someone you really like on here but can't message them IE they have your sex blocked, is it weird to message them through the forums to grab their attention?"

course its wierd, they have blocked you because they are not interested in you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you see someone you really like on here but can't message them IE they have your sex blocked, is it weird to message them through the forums to grab their attention?

course its wierd, they have blocked you because they are not interested in you"

Ive not been blocked by anyone to my knowledge. Person in question had an interest same as mine and when I went to message them about it I couldn't. Hence me asking about the rules of the forumn?

Didnt expect Id be made out to be creepy

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

Respect their preferences is the advice I'd give

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ass checks to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ass checks to it "

Cheeks

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By *ehind blue eyes38Man
over a year ago

Hunstanton


"Respect their preferences is the advice I'd give "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes do not mention the username and the fact they have filters. You'll get in trouble ie timeout. "

Literally just tried to message you and bam! Users of my sex are blocked!! Damn you fabswingers! Hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dumb ass lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you see someone you really like on here but can't message them IE they have your sex blocked, is it weird to message them through the forums to grab their attention?"

Not weird at all,though they still might not get the hint!

Then crank it up a few notches to stalking them n they can't fail to recognise the fact that you're truly meant to be together,forever n ever,n if you can't have them........well,you know......because of the implication!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've kind of done this before (at least attempted, but very, very discreetly). I got laid.

It depends how you go about it? It's generally frowned upon though. Just don't be a dick about it.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"I've kind of done this before (at least attempted, but very, very discreetly). I got laid.

It depends how you go about it? It's generally frowned upon though. Just don't be a dick about it."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont mean to pester etc. But when you get profiles that say for example will get in touch if need a guy/girl or something along those lines. If that makes sense.

"

Ah. You mean when their profile says the meet men. But they have single men blocked?

It's odd isn't it. But, They like to find the men they want. They don't like being chased.

That's how I see it.

Suck it up. . I have to aswel.

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