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By *amyam5627 OP   Man
over a year ago

Swadlincote

Well for the first time on here I got a complaint saying my opening introduction message to a couple was too long and detailed!!

Guess I should have just messaged his a fuck!!

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By *eviant and BemusedCouple
over a year ago

Burton

A complaint?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A complaint is still a reply so congratulations on that.

Can you share your verbose message for us to admire/mock?

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By *essiejamesABCCouple
over a year ago

Salisbury

We have to say well done you for putting a bit of effort in, get soooooooo annoyed with three or four word mails x

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By *amyam5627 OP   Man
over a year ago

Swadlincote


"A complaint is still a reply so congratulations on that.

Can you share your verbose message for us to admire/mock?"

Why thank you for the congratulations, I won't post exactly what they said as I'm not like that but needless to say it's got me laughing.

Guess you can't win them all

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"A complaint is still a reply so congratulations on that.

Can you share your verbose message for us to admire/mock?"

No... we don't post messages on the forum. They're called private messages for a reason.

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By *amyam5627 OP   Man
over a year ago

Swadlincote


"We have to say well done you for putting a bit of effort in, get soooooooo annoyed with three or four word mails x"

I even spell check it before sending lol.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"We have to say well done you for putting a bit of effort in, get soooooooo annoyed with three or four word mails x"

Exactly,most people would be happy with someone who has made an effort.

Miss

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By *amyam5627 OP   Man
over a year ago

Swadlincote


"A complaint is still a reply so congratulations on that.

Can you share your verbose message for us to admire/mock?

No... we don't post messages on the forum. They're called private messages for a reason. "

My thoughts exactly......though I've got to laugh.......please can all that want short l, concise messages please put that they want potential meets to send the message gis a fuck.

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By *amyam5627 OP   Man
over a year ago

Swadlincote


"We have to say well done you for putting a bit of effort in, get soooooooo annoyed with three or four word mails x

Exactly,most people would be happy with someone who has made an effort.

Miss"

I try to make an effort,still hard work though for a single male like me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well it's their loss. They should appreciate the effort that you've gone to. I don't reply to all messages but if I can see they've put effort in and made it personal then I reply nicely.

Don't let people out you off, but I guess you're getting the feeling you can't win.

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By *amyam5627 OP   Man
over a year ago

Swadlincote


"Well it's their loss. They should appreciate the effort that you've gone to. I don't reply to all messages but if I can see they've put effort in and made it personal then I reply nicely.

Don't let people out you off, but I guess you're getting the feeling you can't win."

Best part is, I messaged back saying that I apologised for the long message but I couldn't see in the small print that they wanted a short message.............................reply back saying Thick or what and now blocked.............I'm just smiling like a loon now

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"Well it's their loss. They should appreciate the effort that you've gone to. I don't reply to all messages but if I can see they've put effort in and made it personal then I reply nicely.

Don't let people out you off, but I guess you're getting the feeling you can't win.

Best part is, I messaged back saying that I apologised for the long message but I couldn't see in the small print that they wanted a short message.............................reply back saying Thick or what and now blocked.............I'm just smiling like a loon now "

Sounds like you dodged a bullet lol

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By *essiejamesABCCouple
over a year ago

Salisbury

We're fairly new but it is like panning for treasure. Youve got to sift thru endless muck to get the occasional diamond. I understand it's similar for the single guys, gotta send a hundred mails to get a couple polite enough to reply. Still beats watching eastenders though.

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over a year ago

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By *amyam5627 OP   Man
over a year ago

Swadlincote


"Well it's their loss. They should appreciate the effort that you've gone to. I don't reply to all messages but if I can see they've put effort in and made it personal then I reply nicely.

Don't let people out you off, but I guess you're getting the feeling you can't win.

Best part is, I messaged back saying that I apologised for the long message but I couldn't see in the small print that they wanted a short message.............................reply back saying Thick or what and now blocked.............I'm just smiling like a loon now

Sounds like you dodged a bullet lol"

Yep dodged the bullet, blanket bottle and dummy I think. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep making an effort! The rest of us fully appreciate it!

Ruby

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By *amyam5627 OP   Man
over a year ago

Swadlincote


"We're fairly new but it is like panning for treasure. Youve got to sift thru endless muck to get the occasional diamond. I understand it's similar for the single guys, gotta send a hundred mails to get a couple polite enough to reply. Still beats watching eastenders though. "

I agree with your analogy about the diamonds, though I'd be happy with a bit of tin or glass lol. Definitely beats watching eastenders!!

I wish you luck in your search!!

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By *amyam5627 OP   Man
over a year ago

Swadlincote


"Keep making an effort! The rest of us fully appreciate it!

Ruby"

Thank you Ruby. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well it's their loss. They should appreciate the effort that you've gone to. I don't reply to all messages but if I can see they've put effort in and made it personal then I reply nicely.

Don't let people out you off, but I guess you're getting the feeling you can't win.

Best part is, I messaged back saying that I apologised for the long message but I couldn't see in the small print that they wanted a short message.............................reply back saying Thick or what and now blocked.............I'm just smiling like a loon now "

Hahaha that's hilarious. Such petty people on here at times that take it all far too seriously.

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By *amyam5627 OP   Man
over a year ago

Swadlincote


"Well it's their loss. They should appreciate the effort that you've gone to. I don't reply to all messages but if I can see they've put effort in and made it personal then I reply nicely.

Don't let people out you off, but I guess you're getting the feeling you can't win.

Best part is, I messaged back saying that I apologised for the long message but I couldn't see in the small print that they wanted a short message.............................reply back saying Thick or what and now blocked.............I'm just smiling like a loon now

Hahaha that's hilarious. Such petty people on here at times that take it all far too seriously. "

Yep I agree, after all we are just here for fun!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well it's their loss. They should appreciate the effort that you've gone to. I don't reply to all messages but if I can see they've put effort in and made it personal then I reply nicely.

Don't let people out you off, but I guess you're getting the feeling you can't win."

Definitely need to have more ladies like you on here, for those like me and OP that actually make an effort when messaging

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By *amyam5627 OP   Man
over a year ago

Swadlincote


"Definitely need to have more ladies like you on here, for those like me and OP that actually make an effort when messaging "

I agree!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well it's their loss. They should appreciate the effort that you've gone to. I don't reply to all messages but if I can see they've put effort in and made it personal then I reply nicely.

Don't let people out you off, but I guess you're getting the feeling you can't win.

Definitely need to have more ladies like you on here, for those like me and OP that actually make an effort when messaging "

Thank you, I'm just awesome I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely need to have more ladies like you on here, for those like me and OP that actually make an effort when messaging

I agree!! "

Not all women can be ladies

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By *amyam5627 OP   Man
over a year ago

Swadlincote


"Not all women can be ladies "

your obviously one of the rare ones that can be lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely need to have more ladies like you on here, for those like me and OP that actually make an effort when messaging

I agree!!

Not all women can be ladies "

And not all men can be gentlemen

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Well at least you made an effort op. Probably better than the message we got this morning.

'Hi'

Brilliantly thought out lol. Jack.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not all women can be ladies

your obviously one of the rare ones that can be lol. "

I wouldn't have it any other way, well not when in public at least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely need to have more ladies like you on here, for those like me and OP that actually make an effort when messaging

I agree!!

Not all women can be ladies

And not all men can be gentlemen "

Very true, hard to resist a naughty gent though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely need to have more ladies like you on here, for those like me and OP that actually make an effort when messaging

I agree!!

Not all women can be ladies

And not all men can be gentlemen

Very true, hard to resist a naughty gent though "

Resist no more. It's not healthy

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By *amyam5627 OP   Man
over a year ago

Swadlincote


"Well at least you made an effort op. Probably better than the message we got this morning.

'Hi'

Brilliantly thought out lol. Jack."

Think I may start my messages with Sorry if this is to detailed......if it is please just read this bit.......fancy a shag? ...........if that's to short the rest of the message is better lol.

I have even been known to start my messages with Good Evening or Good Morning depending on when I sent them.

Can't beat being polite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well at least you made an effort op. Probably better than the message we got this morning.

'Hi'

Brilliantly thought out lol. Jack.

Think I may start my messages with Sorry if this is to detailed......if it is please just read this bit.......fancy a shag? ...........if that's to short the rest of the message is better lol.

I have even been known to start my messages with Good Evening or Good Morning depending on when I sent them.

Can't beat being polite "

Haha that's class, try it

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By *amyam5627 OP   Man
over a year ago

Swadlincote


"Haha that's class, try it "

I would try it but I have hardly any luck now.........let alone if I tried that lol

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