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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

that is the question.....

Dare I head to a club tomorrow night when I'd have to borrow someone else's car to get there......not sure I dare take the risk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is at the root of the dilemma?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What is at the root of the dilemma?"

Read my profile and take a guess

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

Of course you dare

Is it cos you are going to a club or that you are driving someone else's car?

Enjoy and relax

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is at the root of the dilemma?

Read my profile and take a guess "

Well yes that is obviously an issue - I thought it was the 'taking a friends car' that was holding you back.

Unless that is a euphemism I've missed?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What is at the root of the dilemma?

Read my profile and take a guess

Well yes that is obviously an issue - I thought it was the 'taking a friends car' that was holding you back.

Unless that is a euphemism I've missed? "

It is taking someone else's car. How would I explain if I broke down.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is the car your OH's?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Of course you dare

Is it cos you are going to a club or that you are driving someone else's car?

Enjoy and relax"

Taking someone else's car, worried I break down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's not a reliable car thrn don't go. Simples

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is the car your OH's?"

No it isn't.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If it's not a reliable car thrn don't go. Simples "

That was my thought, but really want to go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Of course you dare

Is it cos you are going to a club or that you are driving someone else's car?

Enjoy and relax

Taking someone else's car, worried I break down."

You went for a night out with a friend, felt wide awake so went for a little drive around and it broke down and you needed to be rescued.

And you never know - the recovery bloke could be a good end to the night

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Are you hoping someone offers to take you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Of course you dare

Is it cos you are going to a club or that you are driving someone else's car?

Enjoy and relax

Taking someone else's car, worried I break down.

You went for a night out with a friend, felt wide awake so went for a little drive around and it broke down and you needed to be rescued.

And you never know - the recovery bloke could be a good end to the night "

Haha I like your thinking about recovery bloke but I couldn't explain being all that distance away from home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you hoping someone offers to take you"

Brilliant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then don't go, no need for a drama.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Of course you dare

Is it cos you are going to a club or that you are driving someone else's car?

Enjoy and relax

Taking someone else's car, worried I break down."

I think you've answered your own question

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are you hoping someone offers to take you"

Not at all, I'm already meeting my FB there

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Of course you dare

Is it cos you are going to a club or that you are driving someone else's car?

Enjoy and relax

Taking someone else's car, worried I break down.

I think you've answered your own question "

That's what I'm beginning to think too

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Are you hoping someone offers to take you

Not at all, I'm already meeting my FB there "

Can't he pick you up and take you there

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Then don't go, no need for a drama."

Drama ?? You call this a drama

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are you hoping someone offers to take you

Not at all, I'm already meeting my FB there

Can't he pick you up and take you there"

Not really

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"What is at the root of the dilemma?

Read my profile and take a guess "

Whoopee, jumps in air and claps hands

A lady within her age group who is bi and will meet smokers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Then don't go, no need for a drama.

Drama ?? You call this a drama "

I'd call it an attention-seeking thread tbh. Go, don't go, who gives a monkeys

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What is at the root of the dilemma?

Read my profile and take a guess

Whoopee, jumps in air and claps hands

A lady within her age group who is bi and will meet smokers "

And meets married men

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Then don't go, no need for a drama.

Drama ?? You call this a drama

I'd call it an attention-seeking thread tbh. Go, don't go, who gives a monkeys"

Its called seeking advice. You don't have to comment if you don't like the thread

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Are you hoping someone offers to take you

Not at all, I'm already meeting my FB there

Can't he pick you up and take you there

Not really"

Cool

Safe drive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Then don't go, no need for a drama.

Drama ?? You call this a drama

I'd call it an attention-seeking thread tbh. Go, don't go, who gives a monkeys

Its called seeking advice. You don't have to comment if you don't like the thread "

Whatever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Then don't go, no need for a drama.

Drama ?? You call this a drama

I'd call it an attention-seeking thread tbh. Go, don't go, who gives a monkeys

Its called seeking advice. You don't have to comment if you don't like the thread

Whatever"

Someone got out of the wrong side of bed.

It's in the Lounge, general chit chat.

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

Honestly.. life's too short. I reckon its unlikely you will break down. You're over thinking it.

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By *entleman.kMan
over a year ago

close by

Do you go or not, i know its tricky being as you are married and guessing other half doesnt know about you being on here, but this has cropped up before on the forums where someone has gone to a club and saw their neighbour there, it came up whether they should speak or get together. In the end it was kept a secret as it should be, and went together at a later date,although its still putting trust in someone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is at the root of the dilemma?

Read my profile and take a guess "
risks are there to be taken,live for the moment! You are a naughty sexy little minx!! If only I lived closer I'd pick you up and join you and take you back home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honestly.. life's too short. I reckon its unlikely you will break down. You're over thinking it. "

Have you seen the car she is driving? It could be a proper banger

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you go or not, i know its tricky being as you are married and guessing other half doesnt know about you being on here, but this has cropped up before on the forums where someone has gone to a club and saw their neighbour there, it came up whether they should speak or get together. In the end it was kept a secret as it should be, and went together at a later date,although its still putting trust in someone else. "

I'm more worried I break down at somewhere I shouldn't be, it's an old car

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"What is at the root of the dilemma?

Read my profile and take a guess

Whoopee, jumps in air and claps hands

A lady within her age group who is bi and will meet smokers

And meets married men "

*rushes off to Ratners and gets a pound or two out of his pocket

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is at the root of the dilemma?

Read my profile and take a guess

Well yes that is obviously an issue - I thought it was the 'taking a friends car' that was holding you back.

Unless that is a euphemism I've missed?

It is taking someone else's car. How would I explain if I broke down..... "
is the car likely to break down lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you go or not, i know its tricky being as you are married and guessing other half doesnt know about you being on here, but this has cropped up before on the forums where someone has gone to a club and saw their neighbour there, it came up whether they should speak or get together. In the end it was kept a secret as it should be, and went together at a later date,although its still putting trust in someone else.

I'm more worried I break down at somewhere I shouldn't be, it's an old car "

Okay worst case scenario, you break down....how will you get home? If you can't then don't go.

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By *entleman.kMan
over a year ago

close by


"Do you go or not, i know its tricky being as you are married and guessing other half doesnt know about you being on here, but this has cropped up before on the forums where someone has gone to a club and saw their neighbour there, it came up whether they should speak or get together. In the end it was kept a secret as it should be, and went together at a later date,although its still putting trust in someone else.

I'm more worried I break down at somewhere I shouldn't be, it's an old car "
lol ok you are a minx, what car is it and how far you planning on travelling.?

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"Then don't go, no need for a drama.

Drama ?? You call this a drama

I'd call it an attention-seeking thread tbh. Go, don't go, who gives a monkeys"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't, but I have a low tolerance for risk when it comes to fab.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you go or not, i know its tricky being as you are married and guessing other half doesnt know about you being on here, but this has cropped up before on the forums where someone has gone to a club and saw their neighbour there, it came up whether they should speak or get together. In the end it was kept a secret as it should be, and went together at a later date,although its still putting trust in someone else.

I'm more worried I break down at somewhere I shouldn't be, it's an old car lol ok you are a minx, what car is it and how far you planning on travelling.?"

It's an old car and travelling a fair few miles away from home, I know it's a risk, but then....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wouldn't, but I have a low tolerance for risk when it comes to fab."

I'm quite the opposite

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"If it's not a reliable car thrn don't go. Simples "

She can borrow my Lamborghini if she likes, although it uses more juice than the Koenigsegg

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Then don't go, no need for a drama.

Drama ?? You call this a drama

I'd call it an attention-seeking thread tbh. Go, don't go, who gives a monkeys

Its called seeking advice. You don't have to comment if you don't like the thread "

Ah the beauty of an open forum....

Why. It ask your husband for a lift?

Or show him your profile on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's causing that much angst, get a cab.

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By *entleman.kMan
over a year ago

close by


"Do you go or not, i know its tricky being as you are married and guessing other half doesnt know about you being on here, but this has cropped up before on the forums where someone has gone to a club and saw their neighbour there, it came up whether they should speak or get together. In the end it was kept a secret as it should be, and went together at a later date,although its still putting trust in someone else.

I'm more worried I break down at somewhere I shouldn't be, it's an old car lol ok you are a minx, what car is it and how far you planning on travelling.?

It's an old car and travelling a fair few miles away from home, I know it's a risk, but then...."
can always put the question on the forumm on a new thread whos local to you and going to same club, share their car then no hassle.or go onto club forums and find out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If it's causing that much angst, get a cab. "

A cab....I'm well off, but not that rich

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Then don't go, no need for a drama.

Drama ?? You call this a drama

I'd call it an attention-seeking thread tbh. Go, don't go, who gives a monkeys

Its called seeking advice. You don't have to comment if you don't like the thread

Ah the beauty of an open forum....

Why. It ask your husband for a lift?

Or show him your profile on here? "

Come on, that would be so silly

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

What is with all the bitchy women?! Jeeze... if you don't like a post or a person ignore it. Some days I think you all just need a right good shag!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She's who dares!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What is with all the bitchy women?! Jeeze... if you don't like a post or a person ignore it. Some days I think you all just need a right good shag! "

Well said girl

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"She's who dares! "

I know, that's what the minx in me says.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She's who dares!

I know, that's what the minx in me says."

Which club is it that you want to go to? Are you still in York? X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"She's who dares!

I know, that's what the minx in me says.

Which club is it that you want to go to? Are you still in York? X"

No I'm not in York until the social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She's who dares!

I know, that's what the minx in me says.

Which club is it that you want to go to? Are you still in York? X

No I'm not in York until the social "

Well if you fancy the club I'm sure a little car trouble won't put you off! Just think all the single guys will probably push you home lol

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By *AM2214Man
over a year ago

Manchester Area

Its not the age of the car but how well its been maintained ..does it break down a lot? If so the risk is higher if not its the same as parachuting 50/50 every time not matter how many times you jump ....sounds to me like youd enjoy freefall so go for it with a reserve to hand ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the advice everyone.

Minx is going out to play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for all the advice everyone.

Minx is going out to play "

You go and have some fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for all the advice everyone.

Minx is going out to play "

Hope it all works out, and the car is reliable.

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By *eedsandyMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Just hire a car for a day. Most car hire firms are open on Saturday mornings, so pick it up tomorrow afternoon and drop it back on Saturday morning.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

If it was me I'd ask my friend if it's broken down recently. Are you with the RAC? If so it doesn't matter if it breaks down but then I guess you have to work out what to do with your outfit when you get back to yours.

Have fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm getting a lift most of the way

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"I'm getting a lift most of the way "

Sorted

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just hire a car for a day. Most car hire firms are open on Saturday mornings, so pick it up tomorrow afternoon and drop it back on Saturday morning."

That would raise some very difficult questions for me

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