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what next a bit of tongue
bit of finger
maybe some fisting
maybe a bit of all of the above
should i made her air tight
should i edge her or not .
decisions decision you know your losing your mojo when you can't make instant choices .
yes I think I've lost my way somewhere as I cant make up my bloody mind over anything other than tea or coffee at this minute in time .
total shut down and reboot needed I may go and get pissed as I've not been d*unk in over 15 years and see if that helps  | |||
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"what to reach for the handcuffs the rope her stocks the flogger the paddle the belt or maybe nun of the above after all i have a hand . the doxy the rabbit the glass dildo or mr eye watering
what next a bit of tongue
bit of finger
maybe some fisting
maybe a bit of all of the above
should i made her air tight
should i edge her or not .
decisions decision you know your losing your mojo when you can't make instant choices .
yes I think I've lost my way somewhere as I cant make up my bloody mind over anything other than tea or coffee at this minute in time .
total shut down and reboot needed I may go and get pissed as I've not been d*unk in over 15 years and see if that helps "Ooo can I opt for rope and belt. Doxy and edging then fisting. Followed by some rough anal.  | |||
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"what to reach for the handcuffs the rope her stocks the flogger the paddle the belt or maybe nun of the above after all i have a hand . the doxy the rabbit the glass dildo or mr eye watering
what next a bit of tongue
bit of finger
maybe some fisting
maybe a bit of all of the above
should i made her air tight
should i edge her or not .
decisions decision you know your losing your mojo when you can't make instant choices .
yes I think I've lost my way somewhere as I cant make up my bloody mind over anything other than tea or coffee at this minute in time .
total shut down and reboot needed I may go and get pissed as I've not been d*unk in over 15 years and see if that helps
Ooo can I opt for rope and belt. Doxy and edging then fisting. Followed by some rough anal. "is that all well that's one hour accounted for what about the next five | |||
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"what to reach for the handcuffs the rope her stocks the flogger the paddle the belt or maybe nun of the above after all i have a hand . the doxy the rabbit the glass dildo or mr eye watering
what next a bit of tongue
bit of finger
maybe some fisting
maybe a bit of all of the above
should i made her air tight
should i edge her or not .
decisions decision you know your losing your mojo when you can't make instant choices .
yes I think I've lost my way somewhere as I cant make up my bloody mind over anything other than tea or coffee at this minute in time .
total shut down and reboot needed I may go and get pissed as I've not been d*unk in over 15 years and see if that helps "Spellchecker? | |||
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"You need a hand john ? " truthfully I don't know what I need fella I have a very real lack of desirer when it comes to my own sexual needs. kind of think i maybe fuck out which is a unpleasant thought . don't get me wrong everything is working ok its a motivating thing lack of . | |||
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"You need a hand john ? truthfully I don't know what I need fella I have a very real lack of desirer when it comes to my own sexual needs. kind of think i maybe fuck out which is a unpleasant thought . don't get me wrong everything is working ok its a motivating thing lack of . " You may want to consider having a break of sex | |||
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"You need a hand john ? truthfully I don't know what I need fella I have a very real lack of desirer when it comes to my own sexual needs. kind of think i maybe fuck out which is a unpleasant thought . don't get me wrong everything is working ok its a motivating thing lack of . " You may find a new muse will ignite things again...or just find a nice friend and do some normal stuff for a while  | |||
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"You need a hand john ? truthfully I don't know what I need fella I have a very real lack of desirer when it comes to my own sexual needs. kind of think i maybe fuck out which is a unpleasant thought . go away and 'find' yourself again.. sit crosslegged in a field and contemplate the meaning of life.. don't go looking for it at the bottom of a bottle..getting pissed is for losers don't get me wrong everything is working ok its a motivating thing lack of . " | |||
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"You need a hand john ? truthfully I don't know what I need fella I have a very real lack of desirer when it comes to my own sexual needs. kind of think i maybe fuck out which is a unpleasant thought . don't get me wrong everything is working ok its a motivating thing lack of . You may want to consider having a break of sex" I would tend to agree if it wasn't for the number of bloody erections I have a day . as it is I never wank think I need to go wild for hour or two to much restraint is a possibility . I'm naturally restrained in all I do for the benefit of those I interact with sexually and socially . I may just need to do something for myself and only myself kind of let the demon out for a hour then put him away again . reset myself in the process that's why I'm thinking about getting d*unk losing control . | |||
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"You need a hand john ? truthfully I don't know what I need fella I have a very real lack of desirer when it comes to my own sexual needs. kind of think i maybe fuck out which is a unpleasant thought . don't get me wrong everything is working ok its a motivating thing lack of . You may want to consider having a break of sex I would tend to agree if it wasn't for the number of bloody erections I have a day . as it is I never wank think I need to go wild for hour or two to much restraint is a possibility . I'm naturally restrained in all I do for the benefit of those I interact with sexually and socially . I may just need to do something for myself and only myself kind of let the demon out for a hour then put him away again . reset myself in the process that's why I'm thinking about getting d*unk losing control ." Find someone who doesn't want you to be restrained with them and let lose on and with them. No need for drink | |||
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"You need a hand john ? truthfully I don't know what I need fella I have a very real lack of desirer when it comes to my own sexual needs. kind of think i maybe fuck out which is a unpleasant thought . don't get me wrong everything is working ok its a motivating thing lack of . You may find a new muse will ignite things again...or just find a nice friend and do some normal stuff for a while "that's sound advice but I live two lives as it is one normal one non normal . that's simplifying things to the extreme but true a new muse maybe the answer ,but again that would involve me meeting someone new which could impact on what I already have which is absolutely great . its not my sexual partners that are at fault its me my desire levels are high but the will is lacking so bloody strange . that's why I posted on here you never know someone may say something that clicks and gives me a insight to what's going on in my subconscious . | |||
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"Put em all in a hat n see what she picks out. xxx"does she get to have a few picks? xx | |||
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"You need a hand john ? truthfully I don't know what I need fella I have a very real lack of desirer when it comes to my own sexual needs. kind of think i maybe fuck out which is a unpleasant thought . don't get me wrong everything is working ok its a motivating thing lack of . You may want to consider having a break of sex I would tend to agree if it wasn't for the number of bloody erections I have a day . as it is I never wank think I need to go wild for hour or two to much restraint is a possibility . I'm naturally restrained in all I do for the benefit of those I interact with sexually and socially . I may just need to do something for myself and only myself kind of let the demon out for a hour then put him away again . reset myself in the process that's why I'm thinking about getting d*unk losing control . Find someone who doesn't want you to be restrained with them and let lose on and with them. No need for drink "I have the kind of personality that means I cant not be satisfied sexually by someone I'm truly into , it not uncommon for me to spend 5 or 6 hours resetting my fwbs. I cant be satisfied when I'm in the zone I have to try and push the envelope which is not fair on my play partners . one play partner slept for 22 hours after a 8 hour play session . Jesus that sounds like bragging but sadly its true . | |||
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"could I have the handcuffs flogger glass dildo tongue and maybe a little fisting please (kat) xx" kat your a darling you sure you hearts up for that much pleasure  | |||
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"could I have the handcuffs flogger glass dildo tongue and maybe a little fisting please (kat) xx kat your a darling you sure you hearts up for that much pleasure "why thanks your not so bad yourself and don't worry my heart can take that then some more xx | |||
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"You need a hand john ? truthfully I don't know what I need fella I have a very real lack of desirer when it comes to my own sexual needs. kind of think i maybe fuck out which is a unpleasant thought . don't get me wrong everything is working ok its a motivating thing lack of . You may find a new muse will ignite things again...or just find a nice friend and do some normal stuff for a while
that's sound advice but I live two lives as it is one normal one non normal . that's simplifying things to the extreme but true a new muse maybe the answer ,but again that would involve me meeting someone new which could impact on what I already have which is absolutely great .
its not my sexual partners that are at fault its me my desire levels are high but the will is lacking so bloody strange .
that's why I posted on here you never know someone may say something that clicks and gives me a insight to what's going on in my subconscious .
"What you already have may be absolutely great but there's clearly something still missing in that. What need do you want to fill or emotion do you want to feel? (And sleeping 22 hours after a long session sounds bloody good to me) | |||
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"You need a hand john ? truthfully I don't know what I need fella I have a very real lack of desirer when it comes to my own sexual needs. kind of think i maybe fuck out which is a unpleasant thought . don't get me wrong everything is working ok its a motivating thing lack of . You may find a new muse will ignite things again...or just find a nice friend and do some normal stuff for a while
that's sound advice but I live two lives as it is one normal one non normal . that's simplifying things to the extreme but true a new muse maybe the answer ,but again that would involve me meeting someone new which could impact on what I already have which is absolutely great .
its not my sexual partners that are at fault its me my desire levels are high but the will is lacking so bloody strange .
that's why I posted on here you never know someone may say something that clicks and gives me a insight to what's going on in my subconscious .
What you already have may be absolutely great but there's clearly something still missing in that. What need do you want to fill or emotion do you want to feel?
(And sleeping 22 hours after a long session sounds bloody good to me)"its not emotion that's missing I get a massive high from knowing I'm emotionally connected to my fwbs and them to me even though that brings added pressure to the table. lack of will possibly focus the flesh responds but I am not fully into the act yes I am always slightly disconnected restrained but never to the point where a lack the will to push for more . i think you may have hit on something though my last six resets have been resets only ,not dinner dates before hand no social interaction until afterwards could be a need to re-establish a connection past the physical so i can let go just enough for it to feel real instead of just a act played out in front of my eyes . which is a good way of explaining my feelings during play you see if its lacks context I have no will to do . maybe if I have a date meal before hand I will reconnect with my emotions enough for the will to push limits to return . thanks for your input you have given me food for thought about why I lack the will to fuck even though my body is working fine . | |||
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"You need a hand john ? truthfully I don't know what I need fella I have a very real lack of desirer when it comes to my own sexual needs. kind of think i maybe fuck out which is a unpleasant thought . don't get me wrong everything is working ok its a motivating thing lack of . You may find a new muse will ignite things again...or just find a nice friend and do some normal stuff for a while "So did you find a new muse to ignite things again? I can be somewhat prescient  | |||
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"You need a hand john ? truthfully I don't know what I need fella I have a very real lack of desirer when it comes to my own sexual needs. kind of think i maybe fuck out which is a unpleasant thought . don't get me wrong everything is working ok its a motivating thing lack of . You may find a new muse will ignite things again...or just find a nice friend and do some normal stuff for a while
So did you find a new muse to ignite things again? I can be somewhat prescient " may have she seems to like washing machines so its a great start so far | |||
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