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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why does not being able to accommodate stop me from getting a social meet with someone? If its just a social it shouldn't matter

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By *SPrincessWoman
over a year ago

Nowhere near you

Because if you can't accommodate and they can't accommodate, they might be thinking where are we going to meet if it goes beyond a social? If they don't fancy going halfsies on a hotel room, they'll move on to someone who can accommodate.

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By *ustMe06Woman
over a year ago

...the naughty spot.

In fairness this site is geared towards NSA fun, if someone wouldn't take it further than a social because of the fact they'd have a problem with you not accommodating then there's not much point in a social meet.

...just a suggestion...

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because if you can't accommodate and they can't accommodate, they might be thinking where are we going to meet if it goes beyond a social? If they don't fancy going halfsies on a hotel room, they'll move on to someone who can accommodate. "

I wouldn't meet anybody for a social if i didn't feel it would go past that, whats the point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because if you can't accommodate and they can't accommodate, they might be thinking where are we going to meet if it goes beyond a social? If they don't fancy going halfsies on a hotel room, they'll move on to someone who can accommodate. "

This. Some folk don't like the faff and expense of finding hotel for a few hours.

And a lot (not all!) of women like the comfort of a hotel rather than getting piles by sitting on cold damp grass.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Because if you can't accommodate and they can't accommodate, they might be thinking where are we going to meet if it goes beyond a social? If they don't fancy going halfsies on a hotel room, they'll move on to someone who can accommodate.

I wouldn't meet anybody for a social if i didn't feel it would go past that, whats the point "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok then what if the women can accommodate but still wont meet for a social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your randy status doesn't help your chances.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok then what if the women can accommodate but still wont meet for a social "

Then maybe they just don't want to meet you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok then what if the women can accommodate but still wont meet for a social "

then she's clearly not attracted to you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol so its ok for a women to put she's horny in a status but not when a man does

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish


"Ok then what if the women can accommodate but still wont meet for a social "
that's called choice op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol so its ok for a women to put she's horny in a status but not when a man does "

You didn't write that u were horny... you were ranting saying you can't get a meet. Not great advertising

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol so its ok for a women to put she's horny in a status but not when a man does "

yeah because men like to read that kind of thing women don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you're jumping way ahead of yourself basically. people aren't gonna meet just anybody.

this sites not for services. just coz one of you an accom doesn't mean anyone should meet up.

not got much experience of women i'm guessing?

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By *ozwon2016Man
over a year ago

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I wouldn't stress it. Age old saying whats for you wont pass you by, dont pressure or push anything and just accept what appears to be rejection gracefully lol

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By *emplarWarriorMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I think its because not being able to accommodate is a tell tale sign that they may be attached.

I know that is not everybody's reason and I know there are many many reasons why people may not be able to accommodate but it is still how some people work.

And some people just dont like cheaters

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

OP perhaps it's not that you can't accomodate at all, or has that been given as the ONLY reason that they won't meet you?

Perhaps it's your profile and/or pics that aren't appealing to this particular user? Either way no use bemoaning the fact - and certainly not in a status update. Just move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You claim to be straight, but profile says looking for single guys... probably should have a "not" in front, but either the lie or the carelessness will put lots off. Can't accomodate with no explanation, even more put off...

You have not asked for profile advice, perhaps you should! Effort in results out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You claim to be straight, but profile says looking for single guys... probably should have a "not" in front, but either the lie or the carelessness will put lots off. Can't accomodate with no explanation, even more put off...

You have not asked for profile advice, perhaps you should! Effort in results out."

I think he means looking for couples who are into single guys like him. I read it the way you did too. Dangerously unclear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You claim to be straight, but profile says looking for single guys... probably should have a "not" in front, but either the lie or the carelessness will put lots off. Can't accomodate with no explanation, even more put off...

You have not asked for profile advice, perhaps you should! Effort in results out."

it says looking for women and couples looking for men

I think that means them looking for men not him

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Ok then what if the women can accommodate but still wont meet for a social "

Then she's not interested and clearly looking for more than a social OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You claim to be straight, but profile says looking for single guys... probably should have a "not" in front, but either the lie or the carelessness will put lots off. Can't accomodate with no explanation, even more put off...

You have not asked for profile advice, perhaps you should! Effort in results out."

Where does it say he's looking for single guys?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm not but apparently it says I do. I might just give up all together I Cleary dont know know what I'm doing

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Also, your negative status is doing you no favours whatsoever, would be wise to change it to something more positive!!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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You've not asked for profile advice but have a look at some of the more 'successful' profiles on here OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You claim to be straight, but profile says looking for single guys... probably should have a "not" in front, but either the lie or the carelessness will put lots off. Can't accomodate with no explanation, even more put off...

You have not asked for profile advice, perhaps you should! Effort in results out.

Where does it say he's looking for single guys? "

Not giving profile advice here, but given no punctuation in the entire profile... the last 4 words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You've not asked for profile advice but have a look at some of the more 'successful' profiles on here OP."

By the sounds of it... he reckons his profile is A-ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not but apparently it says I do. I might just give up all together I Cleary dont know know what I'm doing "

It doesn't say that, but your negative attitude on here won't help you.

If someone doesn't want to meet you for a social, then just move on until you find someone who will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You claim to be straight, but profile says looking for single guys... probably should have a "not" in front, but either the lie or the carelessness will put lots off. Can't accomodate with no explanation, even more put off...

You have not asked for profile advice, perhaps you should! Effort in results out.

Where does it say he's looking for single guys?

Not giving profile advice here, but given no punctuation in the entire profile... the last 4 words "

And the three words before the last four words which you appear to have left out

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh sorry my punctuation is crap. I'm not very good at writing things down but thanks anyway.

I dont think my profile is a ok I just don't know what to add. You try and be honest about yourself people have a moan, you dont put much on people have a moan. Cant bloody win

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh sorry my punctuation is crap. I'm not very good at writing things down but thanks anyway.

I dont think my profile is a ok I just don't know what to add. You try and be honest about yourself people have a moan, you dont put much on people have a moan. Cant bloody win"

This has already been said, and I was trying to say it badly, but effectively.

Your profile is not selling you well, I would think the can't accomodate part is low on the list of why you are struggling.

I would recommend that you search for guys around your age group, look at the profiles that have multiple meet verifications and see they type of things they put in their profiles, don't copy them but use them as guides to which aspects of your personality need to be expressed in your profile.

p.s. don't read mine, 1 I don't meet here, and 2 I am completely mad, which my profile makes clear

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

People search for others based on their listed preferences - if you don't fit the bill, others will.

If they are left in doubt, due to profile uncertainty, vagueness etc - they move on to the next person who matches them.

We mostly all have sufficient friends and busy lives. Meeting 1 to 1 isn't probably viewed as attractive a social met as s group is.

If you want sex then fix the sex meets issues and don't your for Social meets that many would view with hesitancy as a cover for a sexual need. Unless meeting with nuns, priests and the avowedly celibate or getting together with local gay men etc - and they may expect sex.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

One is tired, hence typos

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"Cant accom" to us usually means "attached"...and before people start jumping up and down, yes, we know there are other reasons why people cant accom, (we don't accom through choice, and having our adult daughter living with us) but with single guys we prefer not to take the chance, there are plenty out there that can.

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By *ozwon2016Man
over a year ago

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"Also, your negative status is doing you no favours whatsoever, would be wise to change it to something more positive!!"

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