FabSwingers.com forum: I was wrong how?

By *ire_thorn OP Man
over a year ago

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So I sent a user a message based on something their stats said, user responded. . We messaged for a few minutes, not once was I disrespectful rude or anything of the sort. Infact I could have said those things without a person batting an eye. User even fab'd a pic of mine. Next thing I know I get blocked...

Maybe had I been a jerk and treated said user like a piece of meat and not like a human being, I would not have been blocked

I just don't get it

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Could be any number of reasons, perhaps in the space of those messages they decided you weren't for them and decided there was no point continuing the conversation and blocked you to save getting further messages either now or at some point in the future when they'd forgotten you.

Now it might have been considerate to tell you before blocking you - but it happens on here, no point in worrying about it. Just move on.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"So I sent a user a message based on something their stats said, user responded. . We messaged for a few minutes, not once was I disrespectful rude or anything of the sort. Infact I could have said those things without a person batting an eye. User even fab'd a pic of mine. Next thing I know I get blocked...

Maybe had I been a jerk and treated said user like a piece of meat and not like a human being, I would not have been blocked

I just don't get it"

People block for all sorts of reasons, I block some people to stop them messaging me. It means nothing, just move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're only wasting your time wondering about it. There could be a any number of reasons different reasons...

They changed their mind,

They got bored,

They weren't who you thought they were,

Maybe, on second glance they decided there was no attraction,

I could go on buy you get the picture.

We all get blocked by folk, shit happens. Chin up and move on.

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By *ire_thorn OP Man
over a year ago

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I'm not mad by any means

Just confused I suppose... and I agree all the user had to do was say bye I would have quit talking... oh well

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"I'm not mad by any means

Just confused I suppose... and I agree all the user had to do was say bye I would have quit talking... oh well"

Sometimes it's easier to just block and move on though - saves all the follow on messages that *some* users (sadly mainly men!!) send asking for a reason someone doesn't want to take things further.

That's Fab life for you and you're right not to let it get to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are strange, when you're a stranger.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

If they just say "no thanks, you're not for me" there is nothing to stop you messaging them at a later date. Once you have chatted you bypass any filters they may have active. If they block you there is no way of you contacting them unless they choose to unblock you again.

Sometimes it is easier for everyone this way.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Interactions here typically end with a block - where one party isn't going to pursue further interest.

As much as one side may perceive a match made in heaven, the other party is likely not to. Most people just don't do it for others - it will just be a minority selection that does it. It is about them and not you op. Their preferences, their lives, their sexual needs and style of interacting. Move on to all the other people or try interacting at clubs and don't expect to always know what people think or want.

Blocking is standard on fab, without a goodbye message. Accept it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, just as the person was about to press send on a message inviting you round to insert your penis into various orifices multiple times, they got abducted by aliens. Obviously the FBI guy who smokes a lot had to cover up the alien abduction, so HE pressed block.

Happens a lot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You weren't for them. Next....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree if you've been chatting a "sorry no longer interested" would be polite but in the fab world the unexplained block rules

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dunno fella. It's a mad fab world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe the attitude in your opening post came across in your messages?

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

You have more chance of understanding the meaning of life, the universe and everything else before you'll understand why a stranger blocked you after 5 minutes..

Don't worry about it.. I've had people leave the site after I've sent them one message..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They just weren't that into you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe had I been a jerk and treated said user like a piece of meat and not like a human being, I would not have been blocked

I just don't get it"

So.. A nice m/f couple (supposedly) Winks at me and I respond politely.. Another message to me I respond again politley. I then get a line with "off," with a line concerning the team I support..

Fuck it.. I Called him out and he blocked me......

You know who you are fella.. You want serving get in touch.?

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Competition is tough on here, maybe a few other people came on the scene that they fancied more? Maybe it was just their abrupt way of saying your fired. May not be you doing anything wrong per se.

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