FabSwingers.com forum: How many Men

By *crumdiddlyumptious OP Man
over a year ago

No am not taking the piss out of the other thread

I was just wondering if I/another Man posted a similar thread about meeting up for a social, A few drinks game of pool etc, Would you go ?

As I am straight it wouldn't be anything other then that but have any Bi/gay Men ever thought about it or Men without veri's ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not really..if I want to hang around with other guys I'll do it with mates.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have mentioned it before, I think its a great idea for lads with a "common interest" to socialise. And to be honest a great deal of guys on here (myself included) should get out more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I come?

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By *crumdiddlyumptious OP Man
over a year ago

Yeah I doubt I would myself, Unless it was the male half of couples I had met before and possibly other Men I had talked to in clubs on a few occasions and got on with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there are no sexual intentions its just like any other club. I go out drinking with the lads from my local bike club I I didn't know them at first, when you group together men with similar interest and beer you cant not have a laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I come?

only for bukkake reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its a lovely idea there a few forumite men that seem to get on particularly well. There's something special about seeing men getting on with other men. Maybe its because they're miserable sods so its refreshing to see them have a laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think its a lovely idea there a few forumite men that seem to get on particularly well. There's something special about seeing men getting on with other men. Maybe its because they're miserable sods so its refreshing to see them have a laugh

I know, me and Adam from Gothamsfinest get on so well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They'd be having a laugh due to the 'no women' rule

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Nah.....I don't think they'd turn up.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"not really..if I want to hang around with other guys I'll do it with mates."

Other condoms are available of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No interest whatsoever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's probably a woman pretending to be a man

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I just the saw the 'other' thread.

Can I come to this one instead?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Probably not."

What about a m + f social?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just the saw the 'other' thread.

Can I come to this one instead?

The general consensus is that no guys would go to one so it would be just you and me?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Probably not.

What about a m + f social? "

There's the Sussex one on the 28th.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I just the saw the 'other' thread.

Can I come to this one instead?

The general consensus is that no guys would go to one so it would be just you and me?"

Sorted

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Probably not.

What about a m + f social?

There's the Sussex one on the 28th.

Tea Party March 18th

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By *haneleviMan
over a year ago

Kidderminster

"No am not taking the piss out of the other thread

I was just wondering if I/another Man posted a similar thread about meeting up for a social, A few drinks game of pool etc, Would you go ?

As I am straight it wouldn't be anything other then that but have any Bi/gay Men ever thought about it or Men without veri's ? "

Fair shout, tbf I'd meet anyone off of here. Not here for just sex, mates welcomed also

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Probably not.

What about a m + f social?

There's the Sussex one on the 28th.

What happened to your beach party anyway?

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"No am not taking the piss out of the other thread

I was just wondering if I/another Man posted a similar thread about meeting up for a social, A few drinks game of pool etc, Would you go ?

As I am straight it wouldn't be anything other then that but have any Bi/gay Men ever thought about it or Men without veri's ? "

If it was local I'd come no problem you can never have to many friends especially if they share simular interests .

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Probably not.

What about a m + f social?

There's the Sussex one on the 28th.

Tea Party March 18th

I was hoping more a single and single. I'm going to the Tea Party!

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By *crumdiddlyumptious OP Man
over a year ago

I don't want to set some sort of Male bonding club up or anything

It was just a hypothetical question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would, there's a few forum fellas I'd like to meet socially.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just another excuse to go out and have a drink?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Probably not.

What about a m + f social?

There's the Sussex one on the 28th.

What happened to your beach party anyway?"

I didn't think anyone would attend. A few people said they would but you know how enthusiastic people are when one suggests something.

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

Oh and by the way I play world of tanks on xbox one with a couple of guys from on here . So the girls who think us guys are miseries who don't socialise or have a laugh away from the pursuit of naughty fun you couldn't be more wrong .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know, me and Adam from Gothamsfinest get on so well

Here's me thinking you're ignoring me

Adam.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure men look for friendship the same way as women may do.

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

" Maybe its because they're miserable sods so its refreshing to see them have a laugh

Ooops the tar brush again getting us all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Btw what's the other thread?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probably not.

What about a m + f social? "

Really depends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Btw what's the other thread?"

"How many ladies..."

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/594087

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By *lan43sumMan
over a year ago

Leicester

There's enough active men on here to form a new political party. If we got elected imagine the fun potential opened up 'in that place' (not libellous honest)

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I would, there's a few forum fellas I'd like to meet socially. "

Tell me who and I'll try to lure them to the Tea Party

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I'm not sure men look for friendship the same way as women may do.

Probably not but they still like having friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hatter...are you still considering taking the Tea party on tour? Xxx

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

There are a couple I would have a pint with as I respect their forum posting style and how they conduct themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would, there's a few forum fellas I'd like to meet socially.

Tell me who and I'll try to lure them to the Tea Party

There will be other people of interest at the tea party.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Hatter...are you still considering taking the Tea party on tour? Xxx"

Yes I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hatter...are you still considering taking the Tea party on tour? Xxx"

If I can organise my life a bit better then i hope too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hatter...are you still considering taking the Tea party on tour? Xxx

Yes I am

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I would, there's a few forum fellas I'd like to meet socially.

Tell me who and I'll try to lure them to the Tea Party

There will be other people of interest at the tea party.

Do I have to start another guy candy thread?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hatter...are you still considering taking the Tea party on tour? Xxx

Yes I am

Fabtastic I'll help organise the north Wales one if you wish. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hatter...are you still considering taking the Tea party on tour? Xxx

If I can organise my life a bit better then i hope too. "

As above xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would, there's a few forum fellas I'd like to meet socially.

Tell me who and I'll try to lure them to the Tea Party

There will be other people of interest at the tea party.

Do I have to start another guy candy thread?

Go for it. Girl candy is looking good already.

Inform Joe though. I imagine he'll want a say.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I would, there's a few forum fellas I'd like to meet socially.

Tell me who and I'll try to lure them to the Tea Party

There will be other people of interest at the tea party.

Do I have to start another guy candy thread?

Go for it. Girl candy is looking good already.

Inform Joe though. I imagine he'll want a say. "

I know his tastes

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'm wary of making male friends on here now. I thought I was making friends with one and it turned out not to be the case. Once bitten, twice shy as they say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would, there's a few forum fellas I'd like to meet socially.

Tell me who and I'll try to lure them to the Tea Party

There will be other people of interest at the tea party.

Do I have to start another guy candy thread?

Go for it. Girl candy is looking good already.

Inform Joe though. I imagine he'll want a say.

I know his tastes

Young, dumb and handsome?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on other forums and have met and made good friends with members of them so I see no reason why not. Few pints, a common interest, normally goes down quite well

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I'm wary of making male friends on here now. I thought I was making friends with one and it turned out not to be the case. Once bitten, twice shy as they say. "

Yes, this is why I think there should be more than one word for friend.

My lifelong do or die friends are not the same as my chums on here. Well maybe one of them.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I would, there's a few forum fellas I'd like to meet socially.

Tell me who and I'll try to lure them to the Tea Party

There will be other people of interest at the tea party.

Do I have to start another guy candy thread?

Go for it. Girl candy is looking good already.

Inform Joe though. I imagine he'll want a say.

I know his tastes

Can there be a thread for the Tea Party regardless? I want to perv on attendees.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I would, there's a few forum fellas I'd like to meet socially.

Tell me who and I'll try to lure them to the Tea Party

There will be other people of interest at the tea party.

Do I have to start another guy candy thread?

Go for it. Girl candy is looking good already.

Inform Joe though. I imagine he'll want a say.

I know his tastes

Can there be a thread for the Tea Party regardless? I want to perv on attendees."

There will be

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

An 'official' one I mean. What other people post is up to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know, me and Adam from Gothamsfinest get on so well

Here's me thinking you're ignoring me

Adam.

Ignore you? Never

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I've often said those men who are too chicken to go to a club alone should team up. OK, they won't get the reduced admission they're hoping for by going with a woman, but they'll have someone they know there, and someone to chat to when they fail.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not sure men look for friendship the same way as women may do.

Probably not but they still like having friends

True but I think they tend to bond over a common ground like sport, hobbies as opposed to just meeting up for a chat.

Only an observation.

Would be interested to hear why the men who have said 'probably not' don't want to.

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By *ysnomiaMan
over a year ago

Preston

"I just the saw the 'other' thread.

Can I come to this one instead?

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not even seen the 'other thread' yet.

But I'd go for a social. It's just a social right?

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

I'm always open to the idea of a social

If I get on well with someone, probably a forumite, then I'd be interested to meet them

When I arrange group socials, then I'm as likely to spend my time with the guys, as well as the ladies and couples

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By *crumdiddlyumptious OP Man
over a year ago

"I just the saw the 'other' thread.

Can I come to this one instead?

not even seen the 'other thread' yet.

But I'd go for a social. It's just a social right?

I recon that is the main reason why most Men would say no, "It's just a social right?"

Like I said I probably wouldn't meet up with Men I hadn't met previously at a club or by meeting couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No am not taking the piss out of the other thread

I was just wondering if I/another Man posted a similar thread about meeting up for a social, A few drinks game of pool etc, Would you go ?

As I am straight it wouldn't be anything other then that but have any Bi/gay Men ever thought about it or Men without veri's ? "

I offered a meet up a few months ago to all newbies male and female for a coffee and a veri to get them along the way, but seeing as I am the wrong sex (male) nobody wanted to take me up on the offer.

If I was female I'm sure I would be inundated with people wanting to meet... just goes to show what people are like tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've often said those men who are too chicken to go to a club alone should team up. OK, they won't get the reduced admission they're hoping for by going with a woman, but they'll have someone they know there, and someone to chat to when they fail."

This is an excellent idea

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"When I arrange group socials, then I'm as likely to spend my time with the guys, as well as the ladies and couples

Me too, as in I'll talk to the women and couples

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

"No am not taking the piss out of the other thread

I was just wondering if I/another Man posted a similar thread about meeting up for a social, A few drinks game of pool etc, Would you go ?

As I am straight it wouldn't be anything other then that but have any Bi/gay Men ever thought about it or Men without veri's ?

If I was female I'm sure I would be inundated with people wanting to meet... just goes to show what people are like tbh."

I did that just last week, in Cardiff, as an impromptu meet

Forgot the fact that I want verified myself, as I used to be

Had a cracking evening, and am going to make it a regular thing again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Might do it again when I'm free.... doubt anyone wants to be verified by a bloke these days though, they might catch that 'ghey' what people talk about in here.

Mrs won't meet strangers before anyone asks! Prefers to meet in the club we go to.

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By *ysnomiaMan
over a year ago

Preston

"I offered a meet up a few months ago to all newbies male and female for a coffee and a veri to get them along the way, but seeing as I am the wrong sex (male) nobody wanted to take me up on the offer.

If I was female I'm sure I would be inundated with people wanting to meet... just goes to show what people are like tbh."
It seems a little weird when people complain that they can't get an initial veri.

But yeah, I expect they would a/ suspect an ulterior motive and b/ rather did at home and moan about it then actually do something about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do 2 guys get chatting ?

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

"How do 2 guys get chatting ? "

How dies a man and a woman start start talking ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do 2 guys get chatting ?

How dies a man and a woman start start talking ?

Good point

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

Noooooo

Apollo 13 'failure is not an option'

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I think if I spoke to a straight guy I'd be worried that he thought I fancied him or something when, of course, I wouldn't. I mainly talk to women.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I tried to get in to Chams at Darlaston on Friday night, as a single bloke, and as my first ever visit to any such club. There were no spare tickets for a single guy. So it would be a similar result for two single guys going in together

Hoping to pair up with a woman to get a reduced rate entrance fee? Come on! Not fair

You would certainly have more chance of getting in as a couple. Someone to chat to when they fail? Also harsh

I'm sure the 'regulars' in the club would recognize a 'newbie' and make them feel at home?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I think if I spoke to a straight guy I'd be worried that he thought I fancied him or something when, of course, I wouldn't. I mainly talk to women. "

I talk to women and they don't think I fancy them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah not for me, not really a fan of being sociable.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Nah not for me, not really a fan of being sociable. "

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nah not for me, not really a fan of being sociable. "

Believe it or not... a majority of people on here actually want some sort of chat first, you know the sort.... social ones!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who's going. The lady forumites planning to gatecrash?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nah not for me, not really a fan of being sociable. "

As in sociable full stop or with other men?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Myself and another forumite chap hope to meet up for a good natter and cuppa when mu shifts allow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nah not for me, not really a fan of being sociable.

As in sociable full stop or with other men?"

I'm not a fan of large groups of people generally but prefer it if there are more women.

Large groups of men tend to get all 'laddy' and it's not me at all. I just get on better with women and always have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nah not for me, not really a fan of being sociable.

As in sociable full stop or with other men?

I'm not a fan of large groups of people generally but prefer it if there are more women.

Large groups of men tend to get all 'laddy' and it's not me at all. I just get on better with women and always have."

Same.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Nah not for me, not really a fan of being sociable.

As in sociable full stop or with other men?

I'm not a fan of large groups of people generally but prefer it if there are more women.

Large groups of men tend to get all 'laddy' and it's not me at all. I just get on better with women and always have.

Same.

I'm the opposite. Large groups of women get all giddy, shrieky and gossipy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nah not for me, not really a fan of being sociable.

As in sociable full stop or with other men?"

Spending time with mates or the company of a lady is nice. Meeting a random guy/group of guys for some organised friendliness, no thanks. I'm probably unsociable full stop as I don't socialise with colleagues either but that's just me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nah not for me, not really a fan of being sociable.

As in sociable full stop or with other men?

That makes sense, it was along the same lines as I was eluding to earlier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a few blokes on here that I'd meet up with socially, because I find them interesting and in most cases, we have some common ground. However an all male social with a larger group, nah, that wouldn't be my thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't mind metting other men socially.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I'd come in disguise....

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Probably not.

What about a m + f social?

There's the Sussex one on the 28th.

What happened to your beach party anyway?

I didn't think anyone would attend. A few people said they would but you know how enthusiastic people are when one suggests something. "

Go for it this year then. Even if only 10 people turn up it would be fun! I'll bring the frisbee, you can buy the candyfloss

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