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By *itmanAndHerr OP   Couple
over a year ago

st helens

We've come across a few people who want to meet but insist on filming it. We understand that may be for themselves or even absent partners but we're not exactly comfortable with it for various reasons.

I'm wondering what experiences (good or bad) others have had with meeting people who insist on filming at meets.

We've got visions of worst case scenarios of appearing on amateur porn sites etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've come across a few people who want to meet but insist on filming it. We understand that may be for themselves or even absent partners but we're not exactly comfortable with it for various reasons.

I'm wondering what experiences (good or bad) others have had with meeting people who insist on filming at meets.

We've got visions of worst case scenarios of appearing on amateur porn sites etc. "

If somebody insisted on filming i just wouldn't meet them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a complete hypocrite about this. I will NEVER let anyone film me. However, we do like to film some of our meets. We don't insist on it, though. We just ask if they're ok with it and if they say yes, game on.

Its been pretty hot and getting to look back on various meets is pretty horny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're not happy doing it just don't, it's that simple, no matter how much your cock/pussy is say yeah yeah yeah...

xx

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?


"We've come across a few people who want to meet but insist on filming it. We understand that may be for themselves or even absent partners but we're not exactly comfortable with it for various reasons.

I'm wondering what experiences (good or bad) others have had with meeting people who insist on filming at meets.

We've got visions of worst case scenarios of appearing on amateur porn sites etc. "

Have enjoyed taking pictures and videos but only with someone I trust

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

We would have to have alot of trust with someone to allow that,the footage could end up anywhere .If you don't feel comfortable with it,dont meet.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are not comfortable with anything a potential meet wants or 'insists' happens then surely that meet is not for you.

Move on and find people who respect what you are also wanting

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I've had it asked a few times and it's a quite simple no from me as you don't know what will happen to it. There's only one person on this planet who has a few videos of me and I trust them a huge amount.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never meet someone who "insisted" on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've come across a few people who want to meet but insist on filming it. We understand that may be for themselves or even absent partners but we're not exactly comfortable with it for various reasons.

I'm wondering what experiences (good or bad) others have had with meeting people who insist on filming at meets.

We've got visions of worst case scenarios of appearing on amateur porn sites etc. "

Problem is. Amir Kahn apparently has a movie out. Who can you trust?

And I've just shown your post to the guy sat next to me in work.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"I'm a complete hypocrite about this. I will NEVER let anyone film me. However, we do like to film some of our meets. We don't insist on it, though. We just ask if they're ok with it and if they say yes, game on.

Its been pretty hot and getting to look back on various meets is pretty horny. "

Yep. This. I know I won't bung the footage online or not protect it. I can't vouch for anyone else in that respect regardless of how much I like and/or trust them.

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon

nope nope nope, not for me. I dislike my photo taken anyway, but the 1 occasion I allowed pics taken, has bit me on the butt ever since, as it was an ex and he refuses to delete them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We film most of our meets . If I (Mrs ) was meeting one on one and someone said they didn't want to film then I would decline the meet as part of the turn on for us if for Mr to watch it after . If the meet was with both of us they said no to filming we'd happily not film.

The footage is just for us (actually I don't even watch it) , will never get shared with anyone else . But of course people who meet us only have our word for that I guess

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By *itmanAndHerr OP   Couple
over a year ago

st helens


"We film most of our meets . If I (Mrs ) was meeting one on one and someone said they didn't want to film then I would decline the meet as part of the turn on for us if for Mr to watch it after . If the meet was with both of us they said no to filming we'd happily not film.

The footage is just for us (actually I don't even watch it) , will never get shared with anyone else . But of course people who meet us only have our word for that I guess "

Does this result in you losing alot of potential meets?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No would never agree to be filmed or photos taken while playing. Says this on my profile.

Don't think I've lost any meets because of this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've come across a few people who want to meet but insist on filming it. We understand that may be for themselves or even absent partners but we're not exactly comfortable with it for various reasons.

I'm wondering what experiences (good or bad) others have had with meeting people who insist on filming at meets.

We've got visions of worst case scenarios of appearing on amateur porn sites etc. "

I wouldn't meet with anyone who "insisted" on doing anything that I was not comfortable with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We film most of our meets . If I (Mrs ) was meeting one on one and someone said they didn't want to film then I would decline the meet as part of the turn on for us if for Mr to watch it after . If the meet was with both of us they said no to filming we'd happily not film.

The footage is just for us (actually I don't even watch it) , will never get shared with anyone else . But of course people who meet us only have our word for that I guess

Does this result in you losing alot of potential meets?"

One since we joined

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

OP would it help if you took "making videos" off your profile interests? Maybe people assume you enjoy filming your meets.

Sally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We wouldn't like to be filmed as such, photos on the other hand

We'd ask another couple to take pictures of us with 'our' camera so they can take pictures of themselves while fucking us making sure that they keep thier faces out of it, and then vice versa with thier camera keeping our faces out of it, that way we could both edit our faces out prior to using anything on our profile pics for example

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh we wouldn't agree to being filmed. I know people say it's for their own pleasure but not for us.

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By *LUKCouple
over a year ago

Loughborough


"I wouldn't meet with anyone who "insisted" on doing anything that I was not comfortable with."

Is the right answer.

We only film stuff with people we trust 100%. Just not worth the risk otherwise.

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By *heaspieswingerMan
over a year ago

Peak District


"We've come across a few people who want to meet but insist on filming it. We understand that may be for themselves or even absent partners but we're not exactly comfortable with it for various reasons.

I'm wondering what experiences (good or bad) others have had with meeting people who insist on filming at meets.

We've got visions of worst case scenarios of appearing on amateur porn sites etc. "

Whilst we love filming ourselves (and would love to film us with others) we would never, ever insist on it.

If people are insisting then they've got no respect for you and we wouldn't trust them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We wouldn't meet anyone who insists on filming.

We would have to trust people a lot for that.

We have taken pictures as you can see from our profile but we have met the couple various times and have become great friends.

Eve. X

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Nothing to hide so yes I have been filmed. Done a couple of pro shoots as well as amateur.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a chance.

Also a good reason to only do hotel/club meets, I have fears of hidden recording devices in people's homes!

Ruby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a meet where i played with the wife while he took pics. was assured my face wouldn't be in any pics. had access to camera after if i wanted to check it

It all comes down to what you are comfortable with if it doesn't feel right you can always say no. Then if they don't like it its their problem

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By *itmanAndHerr OP   Couple
over a year ago

st helens


"OP would it help if you took "making videos" off your profile interests? Maybe people assume you enjoy filming your meets.

Sally "

I'll look at that now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hahaha you might appear on the porno shared at a swingers club

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

We just wouldn't meet them.

If you are not comfortable with being film then don't.

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By *itmanAndHerr OP   Couple
over a year ago

st helens


"Hahaha you might appear on the porno shared at a swingers club "

Swingers club I can handle.

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By *hyguyMan
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Hahaha you might appear on the porno shared at a swingers club "

Seen that happen

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