FabSwingers.com forum: I think my mums friend is a swinger

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Last night my mum had some friends round as I was at home, as I went down stairs to get a beer while watching television in my room one of her friends looks like a women on here (not giving names away) i think she knows I'm on here but not messaged as I think she is very attractive, but I am unsure if it is here I looked at the profile and the picture to see if it was her and I think it is should i message her and chance it but I'm afraid she will tell my mum that I'm on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing ventured nothing gained!

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Nope block and move on - if it is her she may be embarassed and it could affect her relationship with your Mum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Last night my mum had some friends round as I was at home, as I went down stairs to get a beer while watching television in my room one of her friends looks like a women on here (not giving names away) i think she knows I'm on here but not messaged as I think she is very attractive, but I am unsure if it is here I looked at the profile and the picture to see if it was her and I think it is should i message her and chance it but I'm afraid she will tell my mum that I'm on here "

"Afraid she will tell your mum" haha your not a kid

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Don't shit on your own doorstep mate. If she knows your here and is interested she will contact you.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell you what, I'll meet her for you and report back

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york

"Don't shit on your own doorstep mate. If she knows your here and is interested she will contact you....."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't shit on your own doorstep mate. If she knows your here and is interested she will contact you....."

And then you can shit on your own doorstep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say you do it!

It'll be a laugh if nothing else!

Probably for us more than you lol

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Don't shit on your own doorstep mate. If she knows your here and is interested she will contact you.....

And then you can shit on your own doorstep

Hell ye

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Don't shit on your own doorstep mate. If she knows your here and is interested she will contact you.....

And then you can shit on your own doorstep

Thinking about it I'd not complain finding you on my doorstep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As tempting as it may seem, I would avoid going down this road, it appears to have the ability to get messy and not in a good way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A cheeky wink won't hurt. If she doesn't respond, that's a good enough sign to leave well alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't shit on your own doorstep mate. If she knows your here and is interested she will contact you.....

And then you can shit on your own doorstep

Thinking about it I'd not complain finding you on my doorstep

But surely not shitting on your doorstep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be an easy veri lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How old are you? 15? lol I don't mean that in a nasty way. If she is on here she won't be telling anyone you are. If it is her maybe check her profile and age preferences etc if it's a match and you think it won't get strange then sure but do think of the extra ramifications of playing so close to home

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Don't shit on your own doorstep mate. If she knows your here and is interested she will contact you.....

And then you can shit on your own doorstep

Thinking about it I'd not complain finding you on my doorstep

But surely not shitting on your doorstep.

Well no not literally but hey each to there own an all that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah you might have a point like if her and your mum are good friends and your mum knows she is on here and is ok with it, not sure I'd want my mum knowing I was on here. But I'd risk it for a biscuit if she's fit I mean how fucking horny is that, I'd get hard at the thought of how kinky that shit is. Good luck I would!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't shit on your own doorstep mate. If she knows your here and is interested she will contact you.....

And then you can shit on your own doorstep

Thinking about it I'd not complain finding you on my doorstep

You'd have to move

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Don't shit on your own doorstep mate. If she knows your here and is interested she will contact you.....

And then you can shit on your own doorstep

Thinking about it I'd not complain finding you on my doorstep

You'd have to move

If only I could but a visit is always possible...... God loves a trier as they say

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Why do you think she knows you're on here because if she does the risk that she'll tell your mum is already present. I don't think you should contact her because I think you're reading too much into things.

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By *r havin a laughMan
over a year ago

Innerleithen

Surely the riskiness/thrill itself would make you want her. Dangerous liaisons' are what most people want/seek. It's human nature to put some risk into the chase.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Steer well clear.....

she may be swinging with her 'friends'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let us know what you decide and what happens!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All this talk of "wouldn't want my mum to know"

So what! If you're on here you're apparently at least 18 and I'd rather explain that it's a way to meet a like minded women or two for mutual enjoyment and preferred over the alternative 'dating' sites. Which is essentially what this place is.

Jesus, believe it or not, your parents probably enjoy sex too!

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I cannot believe the number of responses suggesting the OP go for it here - the ramifications of doing so are huge, not to mention the potential embarassment and awkwardness approaching her could cause, and that's before you even get on to the possible impacts on the friendship between this lady and the OP's Mum.

As I said before block and move on is the only sensible option.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

.....................

Some spare for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely the riskiness/thrill itself would make you want her. Dangerous liaisons' are what most people want/seek. It's human nature to put some risk into the chase."

For you maybe. I like to risk assess any situation i'm gonna get naked in

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Have you thought your mum might be here with her

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Go for it, you're both adults!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't could get messy (and not in a good way) plus a lot of swingers prefer discretion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Easy. Just tell her she looks Fab.

Should be able to detect any expression in her face?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you thought your mum might be here with her

I thought that also

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Fuck her right in the pussy!

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

If she thinks you might be on here, Let her make the first move, As for her telling your mum I doubt she would but you are a adult anyway, What would you say to a friend if they was in your shoes ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't want to tell you what to do because that's completely up to you. However, I would just consider your mum and how she would feel should your meet impact her friendship with this woman. If your mum wouldn't really mind potentially losing a friend due to awkwardness her friend may feel about sleeping with her friends son then fair play.

Plenty more fish in the sea.

Eve.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd leave it alone. There are plenty more women out there and she's given no indication she'd even be remotely interested in you, assuming it's her in the first place. Why make things complicated for yourself for the sake of a shag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just worry that she has a FF profile with your mother.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As others have said don't shit where you eat. While you don't seem to be capable of seeing beyond the risk if her telling your mother you are on here there us plenty of potential for drama. Just block and move on

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

As people have said and some people wanted to know what I was going to do I have decided to block and move on plenty more people out there that I might have a chance of meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Contact her. I doubt she would tell anyone your here. She can only block you.

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire

"Don't shit on your own doorstep mate. If she knows your here and is interested she will contact you.....

And then you can shit on your own doorstep

Elpis, can I come to your doorstep and then enter?

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

Could be worse .... she could be double teaming with your mother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a female friend contacted my sons on a sex site i'd rip her tits off.

And my sons would feel my wrath too.

Battle lines would be drawn in blood. I would seek my vengence.

Some things are just a NO!

Plenty of women in the world, go shag one not friendly with your ma. It'll end in tears.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"I'd leave it alone. There are plenty more women out there and she's given no indication she'd even be remotely interested in you, assuming it's her in the first place. Why make things complicated for yourself for the sake of a shag."

Yes, I can't believe how often men seem to let the little fella do all the thinking - duh!! A shag is SO not worth the hassle of making things awkward for your Mum or her friends, just leave it be.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"As people have said and some people wanted to know what I was going to do I have decided to block and move on plenty more people out there that I might have a chance of meeting "

Good decision!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably done the right thing there OP,

I'd honestly like to find someone on here I know. I think it would / could be fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where's Jim with your mum when you need him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't help but wonder if she had replied in the threads to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She's definitely a swinger.

Your mum is too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lolz!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Afraid she will tell your mum" haha your not a kid"

Not everybody wants their family knowing they are on a sex site its got nothing to do with age some like their privacy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

IF it bothers you if your mam knows then block and forget about it -

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