FabSwingers.com forum: Bit of advice for a new starter?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey guys,

Firstly, let me say happy Monday and I hope your week flys by

I'm fairly new to this scene, to give you a little background information I was in a loveless relationship for a long time but it ended and since it did a good friend of mine introduced me to this side of life and "released the inner kink in me" lol, she even suggested this site.

I've been on sites that are similar to this but that was a LONG time ago so I'm not new to the whole internet side of things but I really want to explore being with couples.

I was wondering if you had any tips or ideas on the best way to proceed? Also any insight into clubs/socials as I would love to attend some of these.

Thanks in advance

Mike

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By *emplarWarriorMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok, first off, we don't need to know about your past like that.

So your not looking for a fuck buddy to fall in love with !! Few of us are..... it's a casual site, so again it's a negative you can remove from profile.

Chat in forums and interact, it's a great way to get people viewing your profile, also get to some clubs, get to know people.

The forums are a great way to get to know people, and also what people don't like

Good luck, and enjoy

Veronica x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be patient, this site is full of single men so you are out numbered but join in on the forums and have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Be patient, this site is full of single men so you are out numbered but join in on the forums and have fun."

Jolly splendid advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same advice I give to all single males seeking to increase the frequency of their success

When all else fails, shave your legs and buy a frock....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be patient.. Be polite.

It works mate and don't worry about green ticks.

(sounds like a disease lol)

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Why did you stay in a loveless relationship for a long time?

Sally

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks guys, I'll take all that on board :D and happy fabbing.

Sally I'll let you know in a PM lol, as said before I suppose it makes sense that I don't need to go into that detail with people if they don't want to know

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Grantham.......I know a lady in Grantham.

OP, get rid of any hint of negativity on your profile (if there is any). Join in...good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Grantham.......I know a lady in Grantham.

OP, get rid of any hint of negativity on your profile (if there is any). Join in...good luck

Yeah I've taken that part out now thanks

and thanks for wishing me luck :D nice to see nice people on the forums being friendly and helpful.

anyone got any ideas about clubs? which ones are worth going to? any to avoid?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I suppose TheAttic in Derby is the nearest. I have no idea really as I don't frequent them.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Most of the above advice is good, and great to see you're taking it on board OP. Only other thing I'd mention is your location, shows as Grantham yet your profile suggests you're in Germany currently but moving to London soon, which could cause confusion, so might be worth adding some clarity around that and even rough timescales.

As for clubs, depends how far you're willing to travel I guess but from direct and indirect personal experience can recommend The Vanilla Alternative (on the A1 just north of Biggleswade) and Liberty Elite (nearish Leicester) which both have nights where single men are allowed. Further afield you have Mingles (Colchester). All of those are classy and clean.

Otherwise check out the club reviews section of the site.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Most of the above advice is good, and great to see you're taking it on board OP. Only other thing I'd mention is your location, shows as Grantham yet your profile suggests you're in Germany currently but moving to London soon, which could cause confusion, so might be worth adding some clarity around that and even rough timescales.

Otherwise check out the club reviews section of the site.

Good luck

Awesome advice thank you and yes you're right, I can see how my profile is a bit confusing location wise lol, if anything my location is a bit confusing to me right now too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Be patient, this site is full of single men so you are out numbered but join in on the forums and have fun."

This

Good Luck Tink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key lol

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