FabSwingers.com forum: Are you really 40??

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I turned 40 a couple of months ago and now so many of the messages I get say "are you sure youre 40?? You look great!" I know theyre trying to be complimentary but really? Whats so wrong with being 40? Starting to rather annoy me lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi I had that too n still do & im forty four ...take it as a compliment n enjoy it..even thou you get so fed up with hearing it...lol

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By *s ParisWoman
over a year ago

My Dungeon Room

"I turned 40 a couple of months ago and now so many of the messages I get say "are you sure youre 40?? You look great!" I know theyre trying to be complimentary but really? Whats so wrong with being 40? Starting to rather annoy me lol x"

Take it as a compliment they obviously think you look younger than 40 because your looking so great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your both gorgeous and you can't bet an older women they no all the tricks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're 40? No way!

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By *obwithkiltMan
over a year ago

Belton

I'm 47...Regularly have to prove I am to people who I am working with... Long may it continue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with it, but not every 40 year old is as hot as you

Apologies for the cheese

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're just trying to compliment their way into your knickers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only just noticed that Twirl is a year too old on our profile

Fortunately I don't think she checks our profile too closely (or reads the forum too often)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Take it as a compliment they obviously think you look younger than 40 because your looking so great "
I do of course take it as a compliment but I think women of 40 look great anyway. Dont think the distinction needs to be made. Ah well

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You're 40? No way!"
Theres always one and its usually you lib

lol x

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

In your 20s 40 sounds old. It's only when you get near it you find it isn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

another excuse to talk to you.

i get loads of bullshit comments like wow, stunning, etc. i'm just a dumpy housewife with not big tits.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"In your 20s 40 sounds old. It's only when you get near it you find it isn't

Nah, I'm sure I'll still think it's old.

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

Yeah I get it all the time, no way you are 30 no way you are 35 etc etc,

It will be even worse next week when I actually turn 40

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In your 20s 40 sounds old. It's only when you get near it you find it isn't

Nah, I'm sure I'll still think it's old."

It is. But the bonus is you get to fancy old people and young people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"In your 20s 40 sounds old. It's only when you get near it you find it isn't

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It really isnt!!! Lol x

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"In your 20s 40 sounds old. It's only when you get near it you find it isn't

It really isnt!!! Lol x"

Same for 50 and 60 I'm sure

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"In your 20s 40 sounds old. It's only when you get near it you find it isn't

Nah, I'm sure I'll still think it's old."
just you wait _eli, you wont always be so young and perky!

lol x

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Pah! No fucker says that to me any more!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In your 20s 40 sounds old. It's only when you get near it you find it isn't

It really isnt!!! Lol x"

Is.

And don't listen to anyone. You don't look a day under 40

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"In your 20s 40 sounds old. It's only when you get near it you find it isn't

It really isnt!!! Lol x

Is.

And don't listen to anyone. You don't look a day under 40

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you charmer you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

40 is nothing I'm nearly 51 soon ahhhh!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In your 20s 40 sounds old. It's only when you get near it you find it isn't

It really isnt!!! Lol x

Is.

And don't listen to anyone. You don't look a day under 40

you charmer you

A fit-forty

Come on, own it

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"In your 20s 40 sounds old. It's only when you get near it you find it isn't

Nah, I'm sure I'll still think it's old.

It is. But the bonus is you get to fancy old people and young people."

Pfft. I'll always fancy older grumpy buggers.

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By *unguy2757Man
over a year ago

newcastle

I must congratulate all the ladies on this thread .. all I can say is you must all of had very very easy paper rounds ... lol ...

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

we sometimes get messages saying "no way are you 60" which is lovely I'd much rather that than the faint praise of "you look great...for your age"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a way in message wise.

I'd estimate a 1/4 of my inbox starts with *no way are you 48, you look better than women half your age, you can get away with saying you're 38*......yeah righty-o.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is interesting how tastes/fancies change with age.

I remember when I was younger that anyone over 35 was just somebody's mum, but then you get there and they all look attractive (now).

I find Twirl more attractive now than when she was 18.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Ahhh forty, I remember those heady days...(wistful emoji)..Anyway Boo, despite you cracking the big 40 we still would

Now, did someone else mention old grumpy gits?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look rather splendid BooBoo.

As a chap on the dying cusp of his forties I am splendidly happy

Enjoy your forties I never had so much fun

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Count yourself lucky OP. No-one's ever messaged me to tell me that. Now that is annoying.

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

Well I'm hoping my 40s is more exciting and adventurous then my 30s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Count yourself lucky OP. No-one's ever messaged me to tell me that. Now that is annoying."

I would but you have blocked all chaps

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"Count yourself lucky OP. No-one's ever messaged me to tell me that. Now that is annoying.

I would but you have blocked all chaps

Don't use your logic to spoil my huff!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there is nothing wrong with turning 40, they are just being complimentary.. obviously they are also hoping for a shag as well cos that's what they do..

I get it a lot too and I'm well past 40..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Count yourself lucky OP. No-one's ever messaged me to tell me that. Now that is annoying.

I would but you have blocked all chaps

Don't use your logic to spoil my huff!

Chuckle ha ha now I win the battle.of logic , pooch thinks it was rigged mind you . Let's cwtch

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

40 is not that old!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha ha that old chestnut

Kinky

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Take it as a compliment they obviously think you look younger than 40 because your looking so great I do of course take it as a compliment but I think women of 40 look great anyway. Dont think the distinction needs to be made. Ah well

Not all women of 40 look great

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

They're just trying to compliment their way into your knickers

Yes, this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And so?????

Are yah?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish i had the same problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's just way if making conversation cos I get told I don't look nearly 50.by god I feel it at times

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By *ddit...Man
over a year ago

Land of the giants... ;-)

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"I think it's just way if making conversation cos I get told I don't look nearly 50.by god I feel it at times

I'm always getting told I don't look 50, but then I'm 55

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beats being told u look 43 when you are 27

Stopped using mac makeup after that... I blame Mac!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You look rather splendid BooBoo.

As a chap on the dying cusp of his forties I am splendidly happy

Enjoy your forties I never had so much fun

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love that

And marvellous bottom btw x

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By *ackStrakerMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Oh dear 40, the cut off age for so many profiles. Why can't we have moving age ranges, so many years older or younger than me that moves with our age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with being fab and forty, is it more likely that so many on here (and mainly men) lie about their age?

So many times I get messages from a forty something guy to look at his face pic and wonder if he had the toughest paper round on the planet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be worse, they could be saying are you sure you are ONLY 40

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hah you're old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being honest i always thought you looked young for your age.

I understandvthough that receiving the same 'compliment' over and over can get dull.

I guess many people have in idea of whwt a 40 y.o should look like snd in truth. There is no set look for any age. I know 20 y.o that have aged badly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with being fab and forty, is it more likely that so many on here (and mainly men) lie about their age?

So many times I get messages from a forty something guy to look at his face pic and wonder if he had the toughest paper round on the planet!"

I look older than my age always have. I just need to deal with it.

Fyi. I did the milk, not a paper round

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By *accaMan
over a year ago

leicester

Turn 46 in December... Been out and about tonight locally and been questioned on my age, apparently I don't look older than 35,I may just take that and sleep comfortably tonight... Happyboydotcom!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with being fab and forty, is it more likely that so many on here (and mainly men) lie about their age?

So many times I get messages from a forty something guy to look at his face pic and wonder if he had the toughest paper round on the planet!

But are you actually 38 or lying about your age like so many do?

I look older than my age always have. I just need to deal with it.

Fyi. I did the milk, not a paper round

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 46... Always get "no you not" ermm yeah, I am lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hi hunny corr blimey your super hot you cant be 47 your a babe super fit hun love your slim body babe hun darling mmm you husband must be mad sharing you hun babe golden candy floss shit I get it everyday and it don't work my bum wobbles just like most do hate cheesey talk insant turn off no matter who is saying it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hi hunny corr blimey your super hot you cant be 47 your a babe super fit hun love your slim body babe hun darling mmm you husband must be mad sharing you hun babe golden candy floss shit I get it everyday and it don't work my bum wobbles just like most do hate cheesey talk insant turn off no matter who is saying it

Dont care how fit you look, I am not shaving my eyebrows for anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i get what OP means though. i've been told i could get away with being 30, as if being 40 makes you look like an old hag or something.

i think people can look youthful up to their 60s, have seen that personally and anyonw who doesn't just looks old for their age. no offence, i know people can't help how they age and that looking old isn't necassarily unattractive.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

52 nearly here...I think men just blow smoke up your ass to get laid ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some mature like a fine wine, some people mature like milk.

Take every compliment while you can. Enjoy the moment.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

I'm sure some on here that put 40 or 50 something are talking about the year they were born, not their age.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I'm sure some on here that put 40 or 50 something are talking about the year they were born, not their age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In your 20s 40 sounds old. It's only when you get near it you find it isn't

It only seems a few years ago that I turned 25 but I'll be turning 40 this coming summer... I don't feel that age (or think I look it either!) but the years seem to have been flying by at an alarming speed!

To the OP, you look great... with a body that could put a 20 something to shame!

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By *ustylikesgentsCouple
over a year ago

North wales coast

You know they re being over complimentary when they ask for I'D for booze lol

40, approaching your prime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"52 nearly here...I think men just blow smoke up your ass to get laid ha ha"

I wish they'd blow some up mine! 'you're 45? Um ok...'

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"52 nearly here...I think men just blow smoke up your ass to get laid ha ha

I wish they'd blow some up mine! 'you're 45? Um ok...' "

You look great and age is but a number

*no smoke was blown in the making of this post*

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hah you're old

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youngster should be seen and not heard

hush it x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Youngsters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hah you're old

youngster should be seen and not heard

hush it x"

Ball gag?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had it a few weeks ago in town was chatting to a nice lad but suggested he maybe too young for me. He was quite put out and suggested I prefer 'coffin dodgers'. I said no not at all but you told me your 24 I'm 18 years older than you!!. He wouldn't believe me had to show him my drivers leisence. We did laugh.

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