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What do you do for safety on first meets

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By *airymagic OP   Woman
over a year ago

goblin city

I know the advice given out lol

But what do you guys do?, personally dont meet without verifications who themselves have verifications.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only meet as a couple with hubby so i feel safe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't meet anyone without speaking on the phone or webcam..... it baffles my mind why people can't give a phone number , but have no problem giving a home address....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I normally meet at clubs as been stood up numous times. But if I've chatted to then a fair few times will meet for a coffee/drink to see if we click.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't meet anyone without speaking on the phone or webcam..... it baffles my mind why people can't give a phone number , but have no problem giving a home address...."

I don't give out either of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet socially first, usually in a coffee shop.

Never allow meets in my home and never give out my address.

Always give a fellow Fab friend details of who I'm meeting and where. If she hasn't heard from me by a certain time she knows to check.

The scary thing is you can do everything possible to be safe but the only truly safe meets are the ones where you never actually meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Harness and hard had

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social or club visits only. Tho with limited time I tend to not arrange meets and just go to a club.

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"I don't meet anyone without speaking on the phone or webcam..... it baffles my mind why people can't give a phone number , but have no problem giving a home address...."

I've had lots of stalkers with phone numbers aa it links to fb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normmaly turn up wearing body armour and reinforced knuckles

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

I tend to do socials coffee or water or something. Once I'm ok with the person ita different but prefer going to theirs. Means I can just leave

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Social in public place works for me. Some non verified people have turned out to be smashing fun

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