FabSwingers.com forum: when being nice gets me blocked.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Meaby i should not be so nice next time.

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By *nsert user name hereMan
over a year ago

Manchester

If that's what happened it probably was the best thing to happen, saves you doing it again?

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By *lessure_you69Man
over a year ago

Sydney

"Meaby i should not be so nice next time."

It's their loss babe. Stay nice. Xx.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Always show respect - you'd appreciate it in return and a race to the bottom in our society will do us all no favours.

If there is no interest from another, the expected response is nothing, or to get blocked.

Not continuing interaction with others who aren't compatible, is the best outcome - we can then put our energy into resolving any disappointment and pursuing other interests.

If we have much emotional involvement within a no strings sex environment, it can mean that we're open to getting hurt - and it happens to guys as well as women - it helps us to look after our emotional well being as much as we can.

Take care

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always grateful for being blocked being nice or not it's a fantastic timesaver.

Just be you don't let the buggers change you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you messaged aomoen they didnt fancy you so blocked you and now are here for sympathy and a bs story about being blocked for being nice?

Imagine a guy posting a thread about this i suspect "read the FAQ" and "being nice doesnt entitle you to a reply" would have been the dominating theme of the messages

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By *nsert user name hereMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"So you messaged aomoen they didnt fancy you so blocked you and now are here for sympathy and a bs story about being blocked for being nice?

Imagine a guy posting a thread about this i suspect "read the FAQ" and "being nice doesnt entitle you to a reply" would have been the dominating theme of the messages"

IF that's what happened your probably right but I don't think that was what the OP said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So you messaged aomoen they didnt fancy you so blocked you and now are here for sympathy and a bs story about being blocked for being nice?

Imagine a guy posting a thread about this i suspect "read the FAQ" and "being nice doesnt entitle you to a reply" would have been the dominating theme of the messages

IF that's what happened your probably right but I don't think that was what the OP said

Go make a thread saying you got blocked for "being nice" see how it goes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/50773

Hah what do you know

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By *nsert user name hereMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/50773

Hah what do you know"

Not to make assumptions without knowing the whole story

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hugs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm always grateful for being blocked being nice or not it's a fantastic timesaver.

Just be you don't let the buggers change you."

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It was remarkably kind and thoughtful of the blocker to let the OP know the reason why she was blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Show must go onnnnnnn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't sweat about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm intrigued...how did being nice get you blocked. And how would not being nice have helped?

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"So you messaged aomoen they didnt fancy you so blocked you and now are here for sympathy and a bs story about being blocked for being nice?

Imagine a guy posting a thread about this i suspect "read the FAQ" and "being nice doesnt entitle you to a reply" would have been the dominating theme of the messages"

Sorry, did I miss something. Where does it say she messaged someone, it's not apparent from this thread, but if that is the case, then we would block someone we have no interest in, saves wasting time for everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So you messaged aomoen they didnt fancy you so blocked you and now are here for sympathy and a bs story about being blocked for being nice?

Imagine a guy posting a thread about this i suspect "read the FAQ" and "being nice doesnt entitle you to a reply" would have been the dominating theme of the messages"
But is different for women, men are not meant to reject them

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

Doesnt matter how nice you are if they dont like you they dont like you. Some people think and say they are nice but they arent really that nice at all, i dont mean you i mean certain other people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meaby i should not be so nice next time."

How do you know this was the reason you got blocked?

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