FabSwingers.com forum: Does anybody else

By *andiceCool OP Woman
over a year ago

oldham

Find it a bit strange or stalkerish that you reply to a guys message,politely i might add, that they're not your type, yet they constantly look at your profile.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

They're probably pity wanking over your pics. Can't stop people from looking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*faps*

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"*faps*"

See?

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Sorry I'll stop honest. Then again na who am I kidding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Find it a bit strange or stalkerish that you reply to a guys message,politely i might add, that they're not your type, yet they constantly look at your profile. "

Block them if you don't like it. I actually find it funny, but that's my sense of humour

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By *haunMan
over a year ago

Halton

"Find it a bit strange or stalkerish that you reply to a guys message,politely i might add, that they're not your type, yet they constantly look at your profile. "

If you do find it a little strange (borderline stalker? in your opinion)

Then consider blocking them.

I know they are not doing anything wrong, just looking at your profile.

But if you have stated you're not interested and don't like them still looking.

Block them.

Easiest way to keep control and manage your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe they're figuring out how to become your type?

i never look at look at me so no idea if anyone stalks me like that, probably a good thing really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Find it a bit strange or stalkerish that you reply to a guys message,politely i might add, that they're not your type, yet they constantly look at your profile. "

Sometimes but only when it's the ones who tend to check in every couple of hours.

I guess they aren't harming anyone though so I leave them to it the majority of the time.

Eve. X

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By *haunMan
over a year ago

Halton

"maybe they're figuring out how to become your type?

i never look at look at me so no idea if anyone stalks me like that, probably a good thing really.

Maybe a good you don't check out your who's _iewed you list.

As I may have checked out once or twice your funky leggings photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"maybe they're figuring out how to become your type?

i never look at look at me so no idea if anyone stalks me like that, probably a good thing really.

Maybe a good you don't check out your who's _iewed you list.

As I may have checked out once or twice your funky leggings photos.

yes, that's what i mean. not the leggings thing though, just the rest of that.

omg, you should see the leggings i've had on today.

wouldn't mind i got them from china coz china people are small with thinner legs and they are too long still, and slightly baggy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank god for stealth mode on here

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By *haunMan
over a year ago

Halton

"maybe they're figuring out how to become your type?

i never look at look at me so no idea if anyone stalks me like that, probably a good thing really.

Maybe a good you don't check out your who's _iewed you list.

As I may have checked out once or twice your funky leggings photos.

yes, that's what i mean. not the leggings thing though, just the rest of that.

omg, you should see the leggings i've had on today.

wouldn't mind i got them from china coz china people are small with thinner legs and they are too long still, and slightly baggy.

Okay... I'll try to cut down checking our your photos then.

But the one's you've had today sound interesting.

Long way to ship them from and a pity that they are still a little long.

But hopefully something interesting and funky again?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would that freak me out, I'm fook'in gorgeous........

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

You may be on their local updates or hotlist, then every time you change status,put a new pic up or display a new veri, you will be on their list & they'd go to your profile to have a look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It wouldn't bother me. So long as they didn't keep chancing their arm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can only draw parallels with the bi or gay guys I've said no to who continue to look when i update...i thibk go for it whatever floats your boat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Find it a bit strange or stalkerish that you reply to a guys message,politely i might add, that they're not your type, yet they constantly look at your profile.

Sometimes but only when it's the ones who tend to check in every couple of hours.

I guess they aren't harming anyone though so I leave them to it the majority of the time.

Eve. X

Eve I've stalked you a couple of times when you comment in the forum cos you're both hot . Sorry not sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"maybe they're figuring out how to become your type?

i never look at look at me so no idea if anyone stalks me like that, probably a good thing really.

Maybe a good you don't check out your who's _iewed you list.

As I may have checked out once or twice your funky leggings photos.

yes, that's what i mean. not the leggings thing though, just the rest of that.

omg, you should see the leggings i've had on today.

wouldn't mind i got them from china coz china people are small with thinner legs and they are too long still, and slightly baggy.

Okay... I'll try to cut down checking our your photos then.

But the one's you've had today sound interesting.

Long way to ship them from and a pity that they are still a little long.

But hopefully something interesting and funky again?

i don't look, check them out all you want.

will pm you a link to the leggings if i can. can't even describe them, they are very crazy, lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Find it a bit strange or stalkerish that you reply to a guys message,politely i might add, that they're not your type, yet they constantly look at your profile.

Sometimes but only when it's the ones who tend to check in every couple of hours.

I guess they aren't harming anyone though so I leave them to it the majority of the time.

Eve. X

Eve I've stalked you a couple of times when you comment in the forum cos you're both hot . Sorry not sorry "

Ha ha that's cool, we don't mind.

Eve. X

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Find it a bit strange or stalkerish that you reply to a guys message,politely i might add, that they're not your type, yet they constantly look at your profile.

Sometimes but only when it's the ones who tend to check in every couple of hours.

I guess they aren't harming anyone though so I leave them to it the majority of the time.

Eve. X

Eve I've stalked you a couple of times when you comment in the forum cos you're both hot . Sorry not sorry

Ha ha that's cool, we don't mind.

Eve. X

I ninja _iew on occasion also, seeing as we're admitting to perving.

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By *aptivatingWoman
over a year ago

Chester

"Thank god for stealth mode on here

This!!!!

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By *haunMan
over a year ago

Halton

Okay... I'll try to cut down checking our your photos then.

But the one's you've had today sound interesting.

Long way to ship them from and a pity that they are still a little long.

But hopefully something interesting and funky again?

i don't look, check them out all you want.

will pm you a link to the leggings if i can. can't even describe them, they are very crazy, lol. "

Thank you.

In that case, I might just have to check them out every-so-often.

And thanks for the PM.

I am sure they are crazy.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

No but if I woke up in the middle of the night and they were staring at me and gently stroking my face,I might.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They don't stop being attracted to you because you've said no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Find it a bit strange or stalkerish that you reply to a guys message,politely i might add, that they're not your type, yet they constantly look at your profile.

Sometimes but only when it's the ones who tend to check in every couple of hours.

I guess they aren't harming anyone though so I leave them to it the majority of the time.

Eve. X

Eve I've stalked you a couple of times when you comment in the forum cos you're both hot . Sorry not sorry

Ha ha that's cool, we don't mind.

Eve. X

I ninja _iew on occasion also, seeing as we're admitting to perving."

We are also in stealth mode and have occasionally peeked in on you too ha ha.

Eve.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"Find it a bit strange or stalkerish that you reply to a guys message,politely i might add, that they're not your type, yet they constantly look at your profile. "

No. They liked you enough to message and just because you aren't interested doesn't mean they don't still find you attractive. Stalkerish or strange would be continuing to bombard you after you've said no. If they're wishfully thinking you might see them looking and change your mind then that's also understandable and harmless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Find it a bit strange or stalkerish that you reply to a guys message,politely i might add, that they're not your type, yet they constantly look at your profile.

Sometimes but only when it's the ones who tend to check in every couple of hours.

I guess they aren't harming anyone though so I leave them to it the majority of the time.

Eve. X

Eve I've stalked you a couple of times when you comment in the forum cos you're both hot . Sorry not sorry

Ha ha that's cool, we don't mind.

Eve. X

I ninja _iew on occasion also, seeing as we're admitting to perving."

Sounding like a right perve but I've checked you out loads too

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How dare they look at pictures that you've got on public display!!

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"Find it a bit strange or stalkerish that you reply to a guys message,politely i might add, that they're not your type, yet they constantly look at your profile.

Sometimes but only when it's the ones who tend to check in every couple of hours.

I guess they aren't harming anyone though so I leave them to it the majority of the time.

Eve. X

Eve I've stalked you a couple of times when you comment in the forum cos you're both hot . Sorry not sorry

Ha ha that's cool, we don't mind.

Eve. X

I ninja _iew on occasion also, seeing as we're admitting to perving."

We don't use Ninja

(Cough..Cough)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Find it a bit strange or stalkerish that you reply to a guys message,politely i might add, that they're not your type, yet they constantly look at your profile. "

Hmm... not really, they may be checking out your picture or if you've uploaded any more.... I wouldn't be thinking that they're just seeing if you're online.

I constantly look at people's profiles who are on my hot list or who I'm talking to as they might have new pics uploaded or I might just like an extra look at the ones they have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Find it a bit strange or stalkerish that you reply to a guys message,politely i might add, that they're not your type, yet they constantly look at your profile.

Sometimes but only when it's the ones who tend to check in every couple of hours.

I guess they aren't harming anyone though so I leave them to it the majority of the time.

Eve. X

Eve I've stalked you a couple of times when you comment in the forum cos you're both hot . Sorry not sorry

Ha ha that's cool, we don't mind.

Eve. X

I ninja _iew on occasion also, seeing as we're admitting to perving.

We don't use Ninja

(Cough..Cough)

Brave!

We are ninjas.

Eve. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you see a pair of shoes that you can't afford afe you going to stop looking at them? lol some people like looking at stuff they know they will never get there hands on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank god for stealth mode on here

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By *arley78Couple
over a year ago

OK City

We have a handful of people that repeatedly _iew our profile after we've declined them. Currently, 3 of these people are still sending us messages but we don't even read them anymore.

It doesn't bother us that they continue to check us out, but there is one that gives me the heebie jeebies and he is borderline stalker in my opinion.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Not really. Sometimes you do a search, as you're going through the results you click on a profile without realising you messages them before, realise, then click back out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have _iewed your profile 27 times in the past 2 hours, is that stalkerish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Find it a bit strange or stalkerish that you reply to a guys message,politely i might add, that they're not your type, yet they constantly look at your profile. "

I must admit to stalking you myself ha ha. Only a little though.

Eve. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How dare they look at pictures that you've got on public display!! "

The nerve of some people

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

"Find it a bit strange or stalkerish that you reply to a guys message,politely i might add, that they're not your type, yet they constantly look at your profile. "

Imagine all those profiles that hide themselves from having looked at you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't look at who's looked at you & you're non the wiser.

Seriously though I _iewed this one woman's profile quite a few times as I liked her wallpaper & was trying to find a similar match.

Thank gawd for stealth mode

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You may be on their local updates or hotlist, then every time you change status,put a new pic up or display a new veri, you will be on their list & they'd go to your profile to have a look.

This was my thought (depending on how often they are looking of course).

Maybe they see your pic pop up and think "HOT!". Then click, not realising that they have already messaged you, until they start reading your profile again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Find it a bit strange or stalkerish that you reply to a guys message,politely i might add, that they're not your type, yet they constantly look at your profile. "

Can't say that I have but a tgitl keeps trying to get me to fuck her....

For money as well

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I keep life simple - I block. No further observations or dilemmas.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Find it a bit strange or stalkerish that you reply to a guys message,politely i might add, that they're not your type, yet they constantly look at your profile. "

I have two verified local women who both _iew my profile pretty much daily but don't enter into any communication. I'm not expecting a meet or anything from them but it feels a bit rude to not just acknowledge me, maybe I'm being sensitive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you know what creeped me out once?

this guy kept messaging me every 10 mins, so i blocked his profile after a few messages, then he messaged me as soon as i blocked him from a different profile (same pics sent).

he's messaged me twice tonight.

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By *elloIntrigueMan
over a year ago

North West UK

"you know what creeped me out once?

this guy kept messaging me every 10 mins, so i blocked his profile after a few messages, then he messaged me as soon as i blocked him from a different profile (same pics sent).

he's messaged me twice tonight.

Thats all very strange!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Find it a bit strange or stalkerish that you reply to a guys message,politely i might add, that they're not your type, yet they constantly look at your profile. "

If they don't carry on messaging whats the problem?

They like your pics block them.or tell them to turn off "looked at me" so that they dont show up and you dont know theyre looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"you know what creeped me out once?

this guy kept messaging me every 10 mins, so i blocked his profile after a few messages, then he messaged me as soon as i blocked him from a different profile (same pics sent).

he's messaged me twice tonight.

Thats all very strange!"

literally as soon as i blocked him i got another message from the other profile.

maybe he was on more than one device?

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By *elloIntrigueMan
over a year ago

North West UK

"you know what creeped me out once?

this guy kept messaging me every 10 mins, so i blocked his profile after a few messages, then he messaged me as soon as i blocked him from a different profile (same pics sent).

he's messaged me twice tonight.

Thats all very strange!

literally as soon as i blocked him i got another message from the other profile.

maybe he was on more than one device? "

I'm just imagining him having ten profiles now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Find it a bit strange or stalkerish that you reply to a guys message,politely i might add, that they're not your type, yet they constantly look at your profile. "

I don't mind the ones I can see doing it I consider it harmless especially as my daily status is on my profile not the one that display locally.

It's one I can't see I that worry me I can't choose if I want to block those ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im guilty of this, but only because I have a slight memory problem in that I can only remember that I have messaged people from their profile rather than just their name/picture.

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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago

secret town

"Find it a bit strange or stalkerish that you reply to a guys message,politely i might add, that they're not your type, yet they constantly look at your profile. "

Block them

Then they can't look at your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"you know what creeped me out once?

this guy kept messaging me every 10 mins, so i blocked his profile after a few messages, then he messaged me as soon as i blocked him from a different profile (same pics sent).

he's messaged me twice tonight.

Thats all very strange!

literally as soon as i blocked him i got another message from the other profile.

maybe he was on more than one device?

I'm just imagining him having ten profiles now!"

maybe these people who leave and make new profiles every day don't even leave? they just make new profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"you know what creeped me out once?

this guy kept messaging me every 10 mins, so i blocked his profile after a few messages, then he messaged me as soon as i blocked him from a different profile (same pics sent).

he's messaged me twice tonight.

Thats all very strange!

literally as soon as i blocked him i got another message from the other profile.

maybe he was on more than one device?

I'm just imagining him having ten profiles now!

maybe these people who leave and make new profiles every day don't even leave? they just make new profiles."

Sometimes worth reporting both the profiles for trying to get round the block. Had someone suspended before means they need new emails to get a new account.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are quite a few profiles I look at several times a day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"you know what creeped me out once?

this guy kept messaging me every 10 mins, so i blocked his profile after a few messages, then he messaged me as soon as i blocked him from a different profile (same pics sent).

he's messaged me twice tonight.

Thats all very strange!

literally as soon as i blocked him i got another message from the other profile.

maybe he was on more than one device?

I'm just imagining him having ten profiles now!

maybe these people who leave and make new profiles every day don't even leave? they just make new profiles.

Sometimes worth reporting both the profiles for trying to get round the block. Had someone suspended before means they need new emails to get a new account. "

i did report him last time yeah, both profiles reported.

not blocked him yet, he's not gone mad so far. don't wanna experience that creepy thing again.

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By *elloIntrigueMan
over a year ago

North West UK

"you know what creeped me out once?

this guy kept messaging me every 10 mins, so i blocked his profile after a few messages, then he messaged me as soon as i blocked him from a different profile (same pics sent).

he's messaged me twice tonight.

Thats all very strange!

literally as soon as i blocked him i got another message from the other profile.

maybe he was on more than one device?

I'm just imagining him having ten profiles now!

maybe these people who leave and make new profiles every day don't even leave? they just make new profiles."

Well I know I left about 18 months or so ago and came back with this profile. But I don't think I'm going anywhere this time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Manners don't cost anything so why not be polite and say no sorry your not my type x

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