FabSwingers.com forum: Doing the rounds messaging.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Does anyone else ( I can't be alone in this) have the problem of repeat messages? I tend to get the same people message me every other week even after a no thank you reply. I hate to block unnecessarily as from reading past forums knows it offends others greatly. Also my block list now is HUGE! Worst of all is the ones who I tell, ie, you've already messaged last week bla ba bal and I'm still not interested. Only for them to come back with " I thought I'd try again or oh yeah I forgot" . makes the whole process of the poor genuine opposite sex (well in my case) to actually stand a chance. I've now become one of those people that just hits the delete button half the time when I can't be bothered to open a message... that or the first line before opening is already unacceptable so don't waste time with the rest of the message.

It has made me wonder if these serial message offends ever get any meets or replies or do they just go loopy in the forums when they receive no responses?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once we've told someone no, they're blocked so we can avoid the repeat business messagers.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes. especially if i change my avatar photo.

i get some guys who message me several times a day. my block list is tiny, i really don't care if they spam my inbox any more.

never seen any in the forums complaining.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *an Holo-Man
over a year ago

Yorkshire Dales

Nobody messages me, so I'd take repeat messages.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Once we've told someone no, they're blocked so we can avoid the repeat business messagers. "

Maybe that's the way I'll have to go. Such a shame.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nobody messages me, so I'd take repeat messages. "

Bless. X

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I try not to message again if I've sent one and not had a reply.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Once we've told someone no, they're blocked so we can avoid the repeat business messagers.

Maybe that's the way I'll have to go. Such a shame. "

I do get quite a few people send repeat messages which if they are exactly the same message each time ie cut and paste do get deleted but I tend not to block unless they get abusive...one guy did message me twice before I replied to his third message which ended up sparking a great connection & a really amazing meet...

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon

I block if I'm not interested. I don't care who it offends. If someone gets offended by my using the site tools, then the block list is where they belong.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I message once and once only, if they read it and don't reply, I take that as a no and pop them on the block list so I don't message again, pretty simple process really, why messaging the same person again a week later to think they'd change their mind is something I could never understand.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope I don't get same messages week in week out would be nice to be popular lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's why I block. I wouldn't want to have to turn down the same people more than once. If they aren't site supporters they won't know they have already messaged you.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire

OP with a set if profile pictures as sexy as yours it's understandable that some men may get distracted and hogan bothered enough to.make the mistake of sending you repeat messages.

Please don't block me I promise not to do it again. I shall not send any more messages and instead just perv from afar.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tended to be blocked before I even tried to message. I don't have the face that launched a thousand blocks for nothing

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP with a set if profile pictures as sexy as yours it's understandable that some men may get distracted and hogan bothered enough to.make the mistake of sending you repeat messages.

Please don't block me I promise not to do it again. I shall not send any more messages and instead just perv from afar.

Haha. Perv away and thanks for the compliment.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

Until I blocked him (I only do it in extreme circumstances) I had a guy message me at least 20 times over a few months with the sentence

'Can I ask you anything?'

Presumably it got him success with some women or he wouldn't use it week in week out!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Until I blocked him (I only do it in extreme circumstances) I had a guy message me at least 20 times over a few months with the sentence

'Can I ask you anything?'

Presumably it got him success with some women or he wouldn't use it week in week out!

Doubt it, that's a frequent offender of my message box

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Until I blocked him (I only do it in extreme circumstances) I had a guy message me at least 20 times over a few months with the sentence

'Can I ask you anything?'

Presumably it got him success with some women or he wouldn't use it week in week out!

lol, his name begin with M?

he still messages me from time to time to ask me anything.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Still only Tuesday.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Very rare I send proactive messages... So it's very unlikely I've repeat messaged ..

I suggest it often to ladies and couples..if your inbox has messages you'd prefer not to receive, block those genders and do the searching and proactively message those that interest and appeal to you...after all who knows better what you're seeking than you.

. you might be the repeat offender then though

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *arvin35Man
over a year ago

penrith

2 messages from me, second one just in case the first got lost in the vast amount of messages some get, is this too much ?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ysnomiaMan
over a year ago

Preston

"Nobody messages me, so I'd take repeat messages. "

Hey!!! I messaged you back. Or did you just mean someone female/fit?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ysnomiaMan
over a year ago

Preston

"It has made me wonder if these serial message offends ever get any meets or replies or do they just go loopy in the forums when they receive no responses? "
Makes me think of what a real spammer said "we only need a one percent success rate to make it all worthwhile."

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread