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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I saw a tgirl on here that I would never have guessed was a tgirl. I considered her to be more attractive and feminine that many many women. I think she is attractive. If you only find the female aspects attractive, then are you still considered straight? Comfortable in my sexuality, just curious to see what others think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why label yourself ? You like what you like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some tgirls are stunning and it's ok to appreciate even if you're not bi, same as you don't have to be gay to find another man good looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely part of that question depends on whether the person identifies themselves as female and whether you respect their right to that gender identity ......

To me the term trans fails to recognise or address either of those two issues...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Surely part of that question depends on whether the person identifies themselves as female and whether you respect their right to that gender identity ......

To me the term trans fails to recognise or address either of those two issues...

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Attraction doesn't pay attention to what you define yourself as. You are either attracted or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I saw a tgirl on here that I would never have guessed was a tgirl. I considered her to be more attractive and feminine that many many women. I think she is attractive. If you only find the female aspects attractive, then are you still considered straight? Comfortable in my sexuality, just curious to see what others think."
did you lose attraction when the illusion had gone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely part of that question depends on whether the person identifies themselves as female and whether you respect their right to that gender identity ......

To me the term trans fails to recognise or address either of those two issues...

Attraction doesn't pay attention to what you define yourself as. You are either attracted or not "

The term trans doesn't acknowledge the persons right to a gender specific identity to which they rightfully belong ....... which is surely a relevant factor when asking a sexuality related question ....attraction and sexuality are not the same thing...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So I saw a tgirl on here that I would never have guessed was a tgirl. I considered her to be more attractive and feminine that many many women. I think she is attractive. If you only find the female aspects attractive, then are you still considered straight? Comfortable in my sexuality, just curious to see what others think. did you lose attraction when the illusion had gone?"

No. There wasn't an illusion.

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Its a really curious one I guess, if you are attracted to there feminity... Don't concentrate on there cock and essentially treat them as a female....

I've been with a few guys that in person I think I have confused for this very reason tbh.

The bigger question is why do you care? Do what you wanna do and have fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Surely part of that question depends on whether the person identifies themselves as female and whether you respect their right to that gender identity ......

To me the term trans fails to recognise or address either of those two issues...

Attraction doesn't pay attention to what you define yourself as. You are either attracted or not

The term trans doesn't acknowledge the persons right to a gender specific identity to which they rightfully belong ....... which is surely a relevant factor when asking a sexuality related question ....attraction and sexuality are not the same thing..."

Nor is sexuality and gender.

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London


"Why label yourself ? You like what you like "

Poor is the man whose pleasure depends on the permission of others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I saw a tgirl on here that I would never have guessed was a tgirl. I considered her to be more attractive and feminine that many many women. I think she is attractive. If you only find the female aspects attractive, then are you still considered straight? Comfortable in my sexuality, just curious to see what others think."
fun is fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it matter? Or are you saying if there is cock play between you....then that now labels you as no longer straight?

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"So I saw a tgirl on here that I would never have guessed was a tgirl. I considered her to be more attractive and feminine that many many women. I think she is attractive. If you only find the female aspects attractive, then are you still considered straight? Comfortable in my sexuality, just curious to see what others think."

Some will think that you are straight because you are attracted to femininity

Some will think you are bisexual if you are attracted to a person with a penis

Ultimately what really matters is what her and you think. Infact, since you have asked, I would say, stop thinking too hard about such things and go with your feelings for the person and enjoy the time you spend with her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely part of that question depends on whether the person identifies themselves as female and whether you respect their right to that gender identity ......

To me the term trans fails to recognise or address either of those two issues...

Attraction doesn't pay attention to what you define yourself as. You are either attracted or not

The term trans doesn't acknowledge the persons right to a gender specific identity to which they rightfully belong ....... which is surely a relevant factor when asking a sexuality related question ....attraction and sexuality are not the same thing...

Nor is sexuality and gender. "

To the best of my knowledge that is not in question.....

But the absurdity of equating sexuality and attraction leaves the nonsensical situation where someone like myself who has no attraction to the male form at all, but happens to enjoy the intensity of same sex activity make me straight...

and that is utter bollix

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did she still have a penis?

My understanding and I'm aware I'm probably in the dark ages but my only experience is my sisters best friend from school formally Zach a boy, always friends with girls and fancied guys but knew it was more than being gay. I remember they went to download festival when they were 16 and he had sex with a girl for the first time. I went in my mums when they came back and he was violently sick and hysterical crying about sleeping with a girl. My sister said all their life he felt more like a girl than a boy, he had countless therapy sessions and then was allowed to officially change his gender on all documents and under a gp and psychologist was put on all the hormone therapy to change to a female and fast forward 5 years and she is now a she and had the operation to remove the penis and have a fanny and has had a boob job and you wouldn't think that she was ever a he. She has a fiancé who is straight. She was just born in the wrong body, it was horrifically sad but now she's happy.

I think if someone knows in their head that they're meant to be a boy or a girl then you've gotta respect that.

As for a straight guy shagging a t girl with a penis I'd say he was bi not straight. Anything where they want to do anything sexual with the same sex that still owns the same sex organs then you're bi.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why label yourself ? You like what you like

Poor is the man whose pleasure depends on the permission of others.

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Even their wives?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its a really curious one I guess, if you are attracted to there feminity... Don't concentrate on there cock and essentially treat them as a female....

I've been with a few guys that in person I think I have confused for this very reason tbh.

The bigger question is why do you care? Do what you wanna do and have fun

"

It's more out of curiousity than validation.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

I'm sticking to being a Hedonist, I am attracted in no way shape or form to a guy, yet last weekend with a stunning T-girl. Well.....

Using Fags description i'm bi because of "any interaction", using others description, i'm not.

So as far as im concerned i'm a Hedonist & thinking about it, I probably always have been.. Race,Religion,Colour have never been a bar to my pleasure seeking & now it would appear neither is gender (to a certain extent anyway).

Josie, Had the right answer imo.

x

S

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London


"Why label yourself ? You like what you like

Poor is the man whose pleasure depends on the permission of others.

Even their wives?"

Poor is the man whose pleasure depends on the permission of others.

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