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"My wobbly tummy. On a mission to reduce it. " Once you get rid of it... will you change your name? | |||
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Most other things I can do stuff about.
But inherited chapped hands is a pain in the arse.  | |||
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"Excessively dry hands. I know could be worse.
Most other things I can do stuff about.
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"Especially when I'm in this position. Xxx" -- Very hard to argue with you about that.
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"Yep same here my tum never liked it  "You've got a fantastic body though | |||
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"So much, I wouldn't know where to start! "Oh stop that. I'd do ya. | |||
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"Plenty "Doesn't stop me tho' | |||
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"Plenty "Like what, big nose? | |||
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"My legs(covered in thread veins) My feet (fat - and covered in veins) My inner thighs (too fat) My mummy tummy (loads of saggy skin) My boobs are ok at the moment but they'll do a disappearing act when I diet! Having said all that - overall I think I look pretty good for an old fart! And if you close one eye and squint with the other - I'm fucking gorgeous! "Nothing wrong with you at all. | |||
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"So much, I wouldn't know where to start!
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"Nothing. Im perfect. xxx"we're doing this wrong. we need to fish for compliments here. my saggy tummy needs cuddles. *insert flirty emoji*  | |||
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Having lost all my hair, waddling when I walk due to an old injury that left one leg shorter than the other - as if I can afford to lose more height! Lol! ;-p
Trying to lose the expansion around my middle (old age) and being an odd shape that sometimes makes it hard to buy shirts that fit!
Other than that i'm a bit of a catch! Lol! ;-p
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"Tummy / upper arms / broad shoulders for starters." But looking pretty damn fabulous all the same apparently! | |||
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"So much, I wouldn't know where to start!
Oh stop that.
I'd do ya.
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Is it my birthday?"Not yet! | |||
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"Nothing. Im perfect. xxx
we're doing this wrong. we need to fish for compliments here.
my saggy tummy needs cuddles. *insert flirty emoji* "--- Just your tummy that needs cuddles? It's nicer to give full all over body cuddles. | |||
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"Nothing. Im perfect. xxx
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Just your tummy that needs cuddles?
It's nicer to give full all over body cuddles.
"can't believe that worked, but thankyou. yeah i love all body cuddles. legs wrapped in legs and everything.
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"Nothing. Im perfect. xxx
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Just your tummy that needs cuddles?
It's nicer to give full all over body cuddles.
can't believe that worked, but thankyou. yeah i love all body cuddles. legs wrapped in legs and everything.
i also don't like my bum now...it's so big. "It worked!!!! Well done. You proved the theory! | |||
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"Nothing. Im perfect. xxx
we're doing this wrong. we need to fish for compliments here.
my saggy tummy needs cuddles. *insert flirty emoji*
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Just your tummy that needs cuddles?
It's nicer to give full all over body cuddles.
can't believe that worked, but thankyou. yeah i love all body cuddles. legs wrapped in legs and everything.
i also don't like my bum now...it's so big.
It worked!!!! Well done. You proved the theory! "men don't like confident women.
anyway about my bum. i used to love it coz it's nice and firm and big but now i hate it and it needs a nice rub, i will reply to all men and flirt with all men, even if you have no pics. | |||
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"Nothing. Im perfect. xxx
we're doing this wrong. we need to fish for compliments here.
my saggy tummy needs cuddles. *insert flirty emoji*
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Just your tummy that needs cuddles?
It's nicer to give full all over body cuddles.
can't believe that worked, but thankyou. yeah i love all body cuddles. legs wrapped in legs and everything.
i also don't like my bum now...it's so big.
It worked!!!! Well done. You proved the theory! "-- What theory?
And going back a post.
Nothing wrong with your bum.
Slight curves means more to cuddle and massage.
Legs and bodies all wrapped up together.  | |||
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"Nothing. Im perfect. xxx
we're doing this wrong. we need to fish for compliments here.
my saggy tummy needs cuddles. *insert flirty emoji*
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Just your tummy that needs cuddles?
It's nicer to give full all over body cuddles.
can't believe that worked, but thankyou. yeah i love all body cuddles. legs wrapped in legs and everything.
i also don't like my bum now...it's so big.
It worked!!!! Well done. You proved the theory!
men don't like confident women.
anyway about my bum. i used to love it coz it's nice and firm and big but now i hate it and it needs a nice rub, i will reply to all men and flirt with all men, even if you have no pics. "Pretty sure most men (myself included) love confident women! We just don't like bitchy, arrogant or entitled ones | |||
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"It's easier to say what I like. I like my little toe on my left foot. Just that toe "Found a 'piccy' of every part of your body except for your USP; if I had found that then I'd have fabbed it | |||
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"Nothing. Im perfect. xxx
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Just your tummy that needs cuddles?
It's nicer to give full all over body cuddles.
can't believe that worked, but thankyou. yeah i love all body cuddles. legs wrapped in legs and everything.
i also don't like my bum now...it's so big.
It worked!!!! Well done. You proved the theory!
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What theory?
And going back a post.
Nothing wrong with your bum.
Slight curves means more to cuddle and massage.
Legs and bodies all wrapped up together. "just a little something i noticed a long time ago. it does seems to work though. thanks, ooh yeah nothing nicer than a nice rub. | |||
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"It's easier to say what I like. I like my little toe on my left foot. Just that toe
Found a 'piccy' of every part of your body except for your USP; if I had found that then I'd have fabbed it "I only photograph the bits I don't like
The little toe is just for me | |||
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"Pretty sure most men (myself included) love confident women! We just don't like bitchy, arrogant or entitled ones" All these negative labels originate in the fact that women were brought up to be "nice girls." We grow up being encouraged to be cordial and pleasing. Boys, by contrast, are told to stand out. They’re praised when they are competitive, outspoken, and even combative. This differentiation continues into adulthood. Women are expected to fit in and not challenge others. And too often we accept these terms. If we disagree with someone in the boardroom, we stay silent because we don’t want to make someone else look bad. We go along with these stereotypes, and reinforce the expectations others have of us. But that behavior does not serve us well. It reinforces the impression that women should be soft spoken—and weaker than men. It’s when we defy those stereotypes—when we are strong, confident, and assertive—that we encounter those harsh labels. In fact, it is during the moments of our greatest confidence and self-assertion that we often get pushback and are labelled as "aggressive." How can we combat these stereotypes and break the spell they cast on us? I’d suggest four ways. 1. Reclaim The Labels Worrying about being labeled bossy or aggressive will not serve you well. If you fear being labeled in this way you might lose some of those great qualities that are rightfully yours. So rise above it….don’t worry about what labels others might pin on you. There is no need to "Ban Bossy." Just don’t give such labels power. 2. Don’t Give Them Power Your first instinct when called a name might be to lash back. Avoid that first response. When you react with anger, emotion, or frustration, or when you sulk or go silent, you are giving power to your accuser. You’re saying, they’ve "gotten to you." Reacting with anger gives others power over us. Just think of it, when you react, you are not acting, you are re-acting. Your actions are shaped by someone else. 3. Be Confidently Assertive Every situation is different, but in general, you can combat these labels by confidently affirming your right to present your ideas. Think through what you will say before you say it. Get right to the point. And confidently assert yourself when challenged. I once worked with a woman who went to her boss to share her views with him. She didn’t agree with him about an approach he was taking to a customer situation, and she told him why. In response, he said, "You are one ballsy bitch." After catching her breath, she replied, "At least you heard me." It takes courage to combat stereotypes. But we need to exercise that courage if we are to change the way others view us—and, indeed, the way we view ourselves. 4. Educate Your Daughters And Sons As parents we have a huge opportunity to change stereotypes. Let’s bring up our daughters to be confidently assertive; encourage them to think for themselves, speak clearly and confidently, and know their worth. When they speak in a loud voice, don’t "shush" them. Let’s also educate our sons to believe that women can be strong and confident, and that men can show their softer side. Raise children that bury these older stereotypes. These four strategies will enable you to combat stereotypes and hold your own. And the good news is that over time, attitudes are shifting and will continue to shift. These stereotypes will disappear if we refuse to play to them. | |||
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"It's easier to say what I like. I like my little toe on my left foot. Just that toe
Found a 'piccy' of every part of your body except for your USP; if I had found that then I'd have fabbed it
I only photograph the bits I don't like
The little toe is just for me "Selfish so-n-so | |||
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"Nothing. Im perfect. xxx
we're doing this wrong. we need to fish for compliments here.
my saggy tummy needs cuddles. *insert flirty emoji*
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Just your tummy that needs cuddles?
It's nicer to give full all over body cuddles.
can't believe that worked, but thankyou. yeah i love all body cuddles. legs wrapped in legs and everything.
i also don't like my bum now...it's so big.
It worked!!!! Well done. You proved the theory!
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What theory?
And going back a post.
Nothing wrong with your bum.
Slight curves means more to cuddle and massage.
Legs and bodies all wrapped up together.
just a little something i noticed a long time ago. it does seems to work though.
thanks, ooh yeah nothing nicer than a nice rub. "-- Not alluding to us men being slightly simple and easily led now.
And you're welcome.
Completely agree, a nice long all over rub followed by interwoven cuddles.
Great way to pass a fun couple of hours. | |||
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"It's easier to say what I like. I like my little toe on my left foot. Just that toe
Found a 'piccy' of every part of your body except for your USP; if I had found that then I'd have fabbed it
I only photograph the bits I don't like
The little toe is just for me "Although there is a pic with it in - I clearly didn't crop it well enough or hide it with a vignette- such shoddy work | |||
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"It's easier to say what I like. I like my little toe on my left foot. Just that toe
Found a 'piccy' of every part of your body except for your USP; if I had found that then I'd have fabbed it
I only photograph the bits I don't like
The little toe is just for me
Selfish so-n-so "You can go hunt it in the pic that I edited so poorly - before I delete the imperfectly perfect picture of my left little toe | |||
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"It's easier to say what I like. I like my little toe on my left foot. Just that toe
Found a 'piccy' of every part of your body except for your USP; if I had found that then I'd have fabbed it
I only photograph the bits I don't like
The little toe is just for me
Although there is a pic with it in - I clearly didn't crop it well enough or hide it with a vignette- such shoddy work "Oh yeah; the ones where he is doing push-ups Fabbed | |||
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"Pretty sure most men (myself included) love confident women! We just don't like bitchy, arrogant or entitled ones All these negative labels originate in the fact that women were brought up to be "nice girls." We grow up being encouraged to be cordial and pleasing. Boys, by contrast, are told to stand out. They’re praised when they are competitive, outspoken, and even combative. This differentiation continues into adulthood. Women are expected to fit in and not challenge others. And too often we accept these terms. If we disagree with someone in the boardroom, we stay silent because we don’t want to make someone else look bad. We go along with these stereotypes, and reinforce the expectations others have of us. But that behavior does not serve us well. It reinforces the impression that women should be soft spoken—and weaker than men. It’s when we defy those stereotypes—when we are strong, confident, and assertive—that we encounter those harsh labels. In fact, it is during the moments of our greatest confidence and self-assertion that we often get pushback and are labelled as "aggressive." How can we combat these stereotypes and break the spell they cast on us? I’d suggest four ways. 1. Reclaim The Labels Worrying about being labeled bossy or aggressive will not serve you well. If you fear being labeled in this way you might lose some of those great qualities that are rightfully yours. So rise above it….don’t worry about what labels others might pin on you. There is no need to "Ban Bossy." Just don’t give such labels power. 2. Don’t Give Them Power Your first instinct when called a name might be to lash back. Avoid that first response. When you react with anger, emotion, or frustration, or when you sulk or go silent, you are giving power to your accuser. You’re saying, they’ve "gotten to you." Reacting with anger gives others power over us. Just think of it, when you react, you are not acting, you are re-acting. Your actions are shaped by someone else. 3. Be Confidently Assertive Every situation is different, but in general, you can combat these labels by confidently affirming your right to present your ideas. Think through what you will say before you say it. Get right to the point. And confidently assert yourself when challenged. I once worked with a woman who went to her boss to share her views with him. She didn’t agree with him about an approach he was taking to a customer situation, and she told him why. In response, he said, "You are one ballsy bitch." After catching her breath, she replied, "At least you heard me." It takes courage to combat stereotypes. But we need to exercise that courage if we are to change the way others view us—and, indeed, the way we view ourselves. 4. Educate Your Daughters And Sons As parents we have a huge opportunity to change stereotypes. Let’s bring up our daughters to be confidently assertive; encourage them to think for themselves, speak clearly and confidently, and know their worth. When they speak in a loud voice, don’t "shush" them. Let’s also educate our sons to believe that women can be strong and confident, and that men can show their softer side. Raise children that bury these older stereotypes. These four strategies will enable you to combat stereotypes and hold your own. And the good news is that over time, attitudes are shifting and will continue to shift. These stereotypes will disappear if we refuse to play to them."
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"It's easier to say what I like. I like my little toe on my left foot. Just that toe
Found a 'piccy' of every part of your body except for your USP; if I had found that then I'd have fabbed it
I only photograph the bits I don't like
The little toe is just for me
Although there is a pic with it in - I clearly didn't crop it well enough or hide it with a vignette- such shoddy work
Oh yeah; the ones where he is doing push-ups
Fabbed "There's a much clearer one than them | |||
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"Nothing. Im perfect. xxx
we're doing this wrong. we need to fish for compliments here.
my saggy tummy needs cuddles. *insert flirty emoji*
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Just your tummy that needs cuddles?
It's nicer to give full all over body cuddles.
can't believe that worked, but thankyou. yeah i love all body cuddles. legs wrapped in legs and everything.
i also don't like my bum now...it's so big.
It worked!!!! Well done. You proved the theory!
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What theory?
And going back a post.
Nothing wrong with your bum.
Slight curves means more to cuddle and massage.
Legs and bodies all wrapped up together.
just a little something i noticed a long time ago. it does seems to work though.
thanks, ooh yeah nothing nicer than a nice rub.
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Not alluding to us men being slightly simple and easily led now.
And you're welcome.
Completely agree, a nice long all over rub followed by interwoven cuddles.
Great way to pass a fun couple of hours. "lol, it wasn't about men being simple no. it was about how to get attention on the forums. i've been here a while and i enjoy studying people. | |||
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"It's easier to say what I like. I like my little toe on my left foot. Just that toe
Found a 'piccy' of every part of your body except for your USP; if I had found that then I'd have fabbed it
I only photograph the bits I don't like
The little toe is just for me
Although there is a pic with it in - I clearly didn't crop it well enough or hide it with a vignette- such shoddy work
Oh yeah; the ones where he is doing push-ups
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There's a much clearer one than them "Gotcha 14 November 2016 | |||
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"The only thing I like about myself are my eyes. I don't like the size I am and all my flabby parts but I'm happy to say I am 14 sone lighter than I was "My goodness, that's an incredible achievement, you should be very proud of your determination | |||
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"It's easier to say what I like. I like my little toe on my left foot. Just that toe
Found a 'piccy' of every part of your body except for your USP; if I had found that then I'd have fabbed it
I only photograph the bits I don't like
The little toe is just for me
Although there is a pic with it in - I clearly didn't crop it well enough or hide it with a vignette- such shoddy work
Oh yeah; the ones where he is doing push-ups
Fabbed
There's a much clearer one than them
Gotcha
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" lol, it wasn't about men being simple no. it was about how to get attention on the forums. i've been here a while and i enjoy studying people." --
Spending time on the site and forums, studying people and understanding and appreciating how to gain attention of the forums.
That's not very fair.
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"Ladies on here should not think men think their 'wobbly bits' are a turn off. " I for one am very glad they're not | |||
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"lol, it wasn't about men being simple no. it was about how to get attention on the forums. i've been here a while and i enjoy studying people. --
Spending time on the site and forums, studying people and understanding and appreciating how to gain attention of the forums.
That's not very fair.
But hats off to you as it's worked. "i work for sidney university.
tbh i have to study people to know who is safe for me to interact with or not.
also, i know what topics to avoid because the OP will message everyone who replies wanting dirty chat or a meet, as well as other stuff, little things like that help your experience be better on here. | |||
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"Ladies on here should not think men think their 'wobbly bits' are a turn off. " I'll second this.. I hate my left side torso!! | |||
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"My spot prone skin. Urgh. I take back every boast I made in my teens about my then flawless complexion. " Yes what kind of vicious shit is that? | |||
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"lol, it wasn't about men being simple no. it was about how to get attention on the forums. i've been here a while and i enjoy studying people. --
Spending time on the site and forums, studying people and understanding and appreciating how to gain attention of the forums.
That's not very fair.
But hats off to you as it's worked.
i work for sidney university.
tbh i have to study people to know who is safe for me to interact with or not.
also, i know what topics to avoid because the OP will message everyone who replies wanting dirty chat or a meet, as well as other stuff, little things like that help your experience be better on here."-- You shouldn't give away all your secrets.
Besides..
If you work for the university, can I have copies of all the photos you collect off everyone on here.
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"lol, it wasn't about men being simple no. it was about how to get attention on the forums. i've been here a while and i enjoy studying people. --
Spending time on the site and forums, studying people and understanding and appreciating how to gain attention of the forums.
That's not very fair.
But hats off to you as it's worked.
i work for sidney university.
tbh i have to study people to know who is safe for me to interact with or not.
also, i know what topics to avoid because the OP will message everyone who replies wanting dirty chat or a meet, as well as other stuff, little things like that help your experience be better on here.
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You shouldn't give away all your secrets.
Besides..
If you work for the university, can I have copies of all the photos you collect off everyone on here.
But fully appreciate and understand where you are coming from."yeah i'll keep stuff to myself. might experiement occasionally to work out more things. we never collected photos, that's a myth we started to make it easier to find the gullible to message them and study them. | |||
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"lol, it wasn't about men being simple no. it was about how to get attention on the forums. i've been here a while and i enjoy studying people. --
Spending time on the site and forums, studying people and understanding and appreciating how to gain attention of the forums.
That's not very fair.
But hats off to you as it's worked.
i work for sidney university.
tbh i have to study people to know who is safe for me to interact with or not.
also, i know what topics to avoid because the OP will message everyone who replies wanting dirty chat or a meet, as well as other stuff, little things like that help your experience be better on here.
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You shouldn't give away all your secrets.
Besides..
If you work for the university, can I have copies of all the photos you collect off everyone on here.
But fully appreciate and understand where you are coming from.
yeah i'll keep stuff to myself. might experiement occasionally to work out more things.
we never collected photos, that's a myth we started to make it easier to find the gullible to message them and study them. "-- Nothing wrong with keeping things to yourself. Always makes it more fun and interesting, especially when you do occasionally experiment and experience more.
And seeing the amount of profiles with it still on... You must still be inundated with gullible people. | |||
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"lol, it wasn't about men being simple no. it was about how to get attention on the forums. i've been here a while and i enjoy studying people. --
Spending time on the site and forums, studying people and understanding and appreciating how to gain attention of the forums.
That's not very fair.
But hats off to you as it's worked.
i work for sidney university.
tbh i have to study people to know who is safe for me to interact with or not.
also, i know what topics to avoid because the OP will message everyone who replies wanting dirty chat or a meet, as well as other stuff, little things like that help your experience be better on here.
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You shouldn't give away all your secrets.
Besides..
If you work for the university, can I have copies of all the photos you collect off everyone on here.
But fully appreciate and understand where you are coming from.
yeah i'll keep stuff to myself. might experiement occasionally to work out more things.
we never collected photos, that's a myth we started to make it easier to find the gullible to message them and study them.
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Nothing wrong with keeping things to yourself.
Always makes it more fun and interesting, especially when you do occasionally experiment and experience more.
And seeing the amount of profiles with it still on... You must still be inundated with gullible people."we use bots to contact them. they don't notice. | |||
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" yeah i'll keep stuff to myself. might experiement occasionally to work out more things. we never collected photos, that's a myth we started to make it easier to find the gullible to message them and study them.
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Nothing wrong with keeping things to yourself.
Always makes it more fun and interesting, especially when you do occasionally experiment and experience more.
And seeing the amount of profiles with it still on... You must still be inundated with gullible people.
we use bots to contact them. they don't notice. "-- That will explain it then.
You don't want too much unnecessary attention. Just a nice level of attention from the right people. | |||
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"My wobbly tummy. On a mission to reduce it. " Nothing I love all of me | |||
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"My wobbly tummy. On a mission to reduce it. Nothing I love all of me " Me too | |||
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"Quite a few things to be honest. " Not from were i am the most gorgeous smile on the site xxx | |||
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"So much, I wouldn't know where to start! "Snap | |||
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"Nothing. Im perfect. xxx
we're doing this wrong. we need to fish for compliments here.
my saggy tummy needs cuddles. *insert flirty emoji*
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Just your tummy that needs cuddles?
It's nicer to give full all over body cuddles.
can't believe that worked, but thankyou. yeah i love all body cuddles. legs wrapped in legs and everything.
i also don't like my bum now...it's so big.
It worked!!!! Well done. You proved the theory!
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What theory?
And going back a post.
Nothing wrong with your bum.
Slight curves means more to cuddle and massage.
Legs and bodies all wrapped up together. "The theory that if someone is self deprecating, some people will jump in to say " no no! That simply isn't true!!" | |||
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"My legs(covered in thread veins) My feet (fat - and covered in veins) My inner thighs (too fat) My mummy tummy (loads of saggy skin) My boobs are ok at the moment but they'll do a disappearing act when I diet! Having said all that - overall I think I look pretty good for an old fart! And if you close one eye and squint with the other - I'm fucking gorgeous! "Haha sounds exactly like me.....I love the dark haha
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"Nothing. Im perfect. xxx
we're doing this wrong. we need to fish for compliments here.
my saggy tummy needs cuddles. *insert flirty emoji*
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Just your tummy that needs cuddles?
It's nicer to give full all over body cuddles.
can't believe that worked, but thankyou. yeah i love all body cuddles. legs wrapped in legs and everything.
i also don't like my bum now...it's so big.
It worked!!!! Well done. You proved the theory!
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What theory?
And going back a post.
Nothing wrong with your bum.
Slight curves means more to cuddle and massage.
Legs and bodies all wrapped up together.
The theory that if someone is self deprecating, some people will jump in to say " no no! That simply isn't true!!" "--- Well it works for me. More than happy to support through positive comments and messages if people are doing a little self deprecating. Nice is good. But also interesting that what someone doesn't like about themselves is seen as a positive or something that doesn't matter to someone else. xxx | |||
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