FabSwingers.com forum: Would you rather be admired for your looks or personality?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

IMO, beauty comes from within.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality. I can't change my looks, I can be a better person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personality. I can't change my looks, I can be a better person.

Personality every time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im attracted to a good personality

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Both. The way I look is part of my personality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Both. The way I look is part of my personality."
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Agree. Difficult to separate the two.

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By *appytrailmanMan
over a year ago

Manchester

100% personality, in not too bothered if someone finds me attractive or not as long as they don't think I'm a knobhead (unless I dislike them) I'm happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Luckily I'm gifted with a winning personality and pure charm.

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By *aramelMINXWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Defo personality

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Mind you I don't much care if strangers admire me or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality. Looks fade, then what are you left with?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality everyday of the week.

Except Saturday.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Personality. Looks fade, then what are you left with?!

Only if you believe that physical beauty is only found in youth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks, as I spend alot of time in the gym.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Personality. Looks can be tweaked and altered far more easily.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on the context, really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personality. Looks fade, then what are you left with?!

Only if you believe that physical beauty is only found in youth."

I believe beauty comes from within. If you have a good personality. Beauty is timeless.

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By *ambslass48Woman
over a year ago

Peterborough

Definitely personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personality. Looks fade, then what are you left with?!

Only if you believe that physical beauty is only found in youth."

Yes, looks can develop beautifully over time, showing more of your personality through your experience and attitude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

personality..

beauty is only skin deep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

“You know when sometimes you meet someone so beautiful, and then you actually talk to them, and five minutes later they're dull as a brick. But then there's other people, and you meet them and you think 'not bad, they're okay', and then you get to know them, and their face sort of becomes them, like their personality's written all over it, and they just they turn into something so beautiful

Amy Pond..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither, I don't seek admiration from anyone.

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

I'd prefer to be admired for having a great personality, though not sure I do ... think I'm a bit of an acquired taste

The only people I want to *also* like the way I look are those I find attractive myself. Don't mind what anyone else thinks so long as they keep it to themselves and don't insult me ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone admiring me for my looks needs to go to Specsavers!

So, personality it is!

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By *nsert user name hereMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Looks - as I don't believe I'm conventionally attractive

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Personality

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Personality. I'm fucked on the looks already but 1 out of 2 isn't bad

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

Thankfully people are too shallow and so obsessed with my matinee idol good looks to even notice my stinking personality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know I'm no oil painting. So far I'm hoping it's personality that has been helpful here.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

Personality is the one I get to control... I have no say over if someone likes my looks.... unless I have a ridiculous Barnet!

I did straight hair and the little dreds back in the day.. I still shudder

I may start a bad hairstyles you have had thread later... see how many former mullet wearers will admit to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personality is the one I get to control... I have no say over if someone likes my looks.... unless I have a ridiculous Barnet!

I did straight hair and the little dreds back in the day.. I still shudder

I may start a bad hairstyles you have had thread later... see how many former mullet wearers will admit to it

Oh, do that thread!!

I had my hair cut in a really short bob. I have a pictur from when I was younger of my hair cut to my ears and I'm wearing a NY Knicks (cringe!) cap, looking far too much like a 12 year old boy. I might burn it the next time I see it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be admired for either would be progress

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

*flaunts in and drapes self on a deckchair, lights up an exotic cheroot and smiles*

Evening all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personality. Looks can be tweaked and altered far more easily."

Not sure my looks can. E altered that easily - kind of etched in with age

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"IMO, beauty comes from within."

Portable CAT scanners?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality any time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"*flaunts in and drapes self on a deckchair, lights up an exotic cheroot and smiles*

Evening all.

40+ minutes? You're slacking

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By *imited 3EditionCouple
over a year ago

Live in Scotland Play in England

"Both. The way I look is part of my personality."

This

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Merton

"IMO, beauty comes from within."

That is not an answer

Personality gets you further than looks and usually comes with respect, admire etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality

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By *loppsyWoman
over a year ago

marlow

Personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality... You'd get bored of the personality wasn't interesting.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Looks will open doors before personality. Watch a group of guys if a beautiful woman needs something done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality and character.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

personality

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Neither, would rather be admired for my values, integrity and authenticity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personality. Looks fade, then what are you left with?!

Only if you believe that physical beauty is only found in youth.

I believe beauty comes from within. If you have a good personality. Beauty is timeless. "

That contradicts the initial looks fade remark

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Both. The way I look is part of my personality."

I like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither - you don't do anything to get either of them, they're just part of you. I'll take admiration for achievements instead

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