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By *edzy OP   Woman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Ok so I like anal...but it's uncomfortable- I think I need to "train" my ass to stretch when required....

Any advice?

I'm looking for advice from bottoms or ladies

Thanks

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Find a patient/skillful top

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

Butt plug loads of lube and just relax into it. Best advice I can give you and if uou do wish to use a vibrator make sure it isn't too rigid

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By *edzy OP   Woman
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"Butt plug loads of lube and just relax into it. Best advice I can give you and if uou do wish to use a vibrator make sure it isn't too rigid "

Thanks ??

How long does it take?

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"Butt plug loads of lube and just relax into it. Best advice I can give you and if uou do wish to use a vibrator make sure it isn't too rigid

Thanks ??

How long does it take?"

Don't think there's a specific time. Build yourself up over a cpl weeks. There was a point I needed anal plus clit to get off for diy purposes. If you enjoy and relax then a lot quicker. Just remember to push into it

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By *arvin35Man
over a year ago

penrith


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How long does it take?

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about 8" should be enough!!

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By *edzy OP   Woman
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"

How long does it take?

about 8" should be enough!! "

Think I can manage without that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of lube, and start small. Also try and make sure you're relaxed when trying. X

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By *arvin35Man
over a year ago

penrith


"

How long does it take?

about 8" should be enough!!

Think I can manage without that "

This is where all those guys with 10" cocks aren't any use what so ever!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"

How long does it take?

about 8" should be enough!!

Think I can manage without that

This is where all those guys with 10" cocks aren't any use what so ever! "

I've advised people to start small but actually found, when younger and moving away from my anal virginity, that longer cocks were easier to accommodate and adjust to.

Advice: use toys, always loads of lube, whether with toys or otherwise and time it so that your horniness is at its peak: you will much more easily enjoy and take it. Regular and frequent repetition will increase your abilities. Everyone is unique: but I'd expect that as you increase to daily frequency, one to two weeks should be sufficient for most people. Less frequent training will draw it out and some people will be fine within a week.

The right partner or assistant is a massive help: some tops are inherently more accomplished and adaptable to their bottom's responses and needs. If you get negative experiences then you'll likely delay learning how to fully relax as needed.

As with most exercise, good breathing technique really helps - you'll be ensuring your body has all of the oxygenated blood that it needs. Ensure that you're warm and as comfortable as possible. There are other ways of learning, including just grinning and bearing it but you can enjoy learning this way far, far better.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Lots of great advice but all you need is a trusting partner and just learn to relax the area but most of all enjoy

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By *edzy OP   Woman
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"

How long does it take?

about 8" should be enough!!

Think I can manage without that

This is where all those guys with 10" cocks aren't any use what so ever!

I've advised people to start small but actually found, when younger and moving away from my anal virginity, that longer cocks were easier to accommodate and adjust to.

Advice: use toys, always loads of lube, whether with toys or otherwise and time it so that your horniness is at its peak: you will much more easily enjoy and take it. Regular and frequent repetition will increase your abilities. Everyone is unique: but I'd expect that as you increase to daily frequency, one to two weeks should be sufficient for most people. Less frequent training will draw it out and some people will be fine within a week.

The right partner or assistant is a massive help: some tops are inherently more accomplished and adaptable to their bottom's responses and needs. If you get negative experiences then you'll likely delay learning how to fully relax as needed.

As with most exercise, good breathing technique really helps - you'll be ensuring your body has all of the oxygenated blood that it needs. Ensure that you're warm and as comfortable as possible. There are other ways of learning, including just grinning and bearing it but you can enjoy learning this way far, far better."

Great advice thanks

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By *edzy OP   Woman
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"Lots of great advice but all you need is a trusting partner and just learn to relax the area but most of all enjoy "

thqnks

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