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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do i have to constanly diet and pray i dont get to big otherwise men wont even look at me. Had to do this since i was a teenager.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is praying working ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe because you're only attracted to men who won't meet overweight women. I'm overweight and I don't have trouble meeting men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do i have to constanly diet and pray i dont get to big otherwise men wont even look at me. Had to do this since i was a teenager."

If being slim was easy everybody would be slim.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You shouldn't feel you have to diet and be slim just to please men. Your only priority should be yourself and how you feel about yourself.

I'm loosing weight but I'm doing it for me, no one else.

I'm also nowhere near slim but I don't have a problem attracting men. Maybe choose your men more carefully. There are plenty out there that love curvy women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do i have to constanly diet and pray i dont get to big otherwise men wont even look at me. Had to do this since i was a teenager."

Dont let get bother you larger ladys get just as much fun on here as slim ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not slim and we have no problem getting meets,especially with men,if someone doesn't like what you are its their problem not yours, diet for yourself not for others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your prayers have been answered Op...... you don't have to diet anymore.... just go into the bbw appreciation thread that's running.

I think they are up to part 60 now

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Why do i have to constanly diet and pray i dont get to big otherwise men wont even look at me. Had to do this since i was a teenager."

Because the media and weight loss industry tells you that slim equals successful and that you can't start properly living until you reach a certain weight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do i have to constanly diet and pray i dont get to big otherwise men wont even look at me. Had to do this since i was a teenager.

Because the media and weight loss industry tells you that slim equals successful and that you can't start properly living until you reach a certain weight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As i say world wiuld be pretty dull if we was all the same variety is the spice of life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you shouldn't have to constantly diet. just eat healthily so that you're looking after yourself then accept the body weight you stay at when looking after yourself.

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By *appytrailmanMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"you shouldn't have to constantly diet. just eat healthily so that you're looking after yourself then accept the body weight you stay at when looking after yourself."

This is he best advice out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you shouldn't have to constantly diet. just eat healthily so that you're looking after yourself then accept the body weight you stay at when looking after yourself.

This is he best advice out there."

it makes sense that not everyone is naturally slim, nor naturally overweight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been on a diet for 10 years ha. Although I don't do it for any man....

Reconsider your reasoning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because this like most of your threads is attention seeking and you want 175 comments of "your beautiful at any size, you dont need to be slim" etc?

Or is that too simple?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

learn to love yourself - confidence is very very sexy -

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