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By *aisyDD OP   Woman
over a year ago

North West

I'm trying to get my head round the idea of having fun with more than one guy at once. I always admire the ladies that say they've been with multiple men in a session but I think if I did it myself I'd feel really bad about myself.

I realise it's all in my head but wondering how others deal with it.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I did it with someone who hadn't done it before and someone regular who had and I trusted. I met the first guy alone so we could both get a little more comfortable with no added pressure and then the second guy arrived and it went swimmingly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i just don't feel guilty, never have done despite being called a slag for it. i'm entitled to enjoy sex and share my body with who i choose to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have no desire to meet purely for this - but at a club or party its been getting that way 2 or 3 times without planning -

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By *aisyDD OP   Woman
over a year ago

North West


"i just don't feel guilty, never have done despite being called a slag for it. i'm entitled to enjoy sex and share my body with who i choose to."

I can totally say that on here but imagine I'd be worry what folk would say when I was home alone. I never give a shit what anyone thinks so this is an odd one for me.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Oh, my follow up point was that I didn't feel bad about it and I thought I might have done. I would still have fucked them both individually so it was more excellent time management on my part.

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By *aisyDD OP   Woman
over a year ago

North West


"i have no desire to meet purely for this - but at a club or party its been getting that way 2 or 3 times without planning - "

I was thinking of it more in a club. Not been to one yet. Pretty sure I'd go with the flow once I'm there.

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By *aisyDD OP   Woman
over a year ago

North West


"Oh, my follow up point was that I didn't feel bad about it and I thought I might have done. I would still have fucked them both individually so it was more excellent time management on my part."

Love that. I'm a busy person so maybe I can just call it better time management

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

OP it's still just sex and if you enjoy it it's not a bad thing.

You may be still on your path to losing all inhibitions?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"excellent time management on my part."

Brilliant

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By *aisyDD OP   Woman
over a year ago

North West


"OP it's still just sex and if you enjoy it it's not a bad thing.

You may be still on your path to losing all inhibitions? "

Guessing I am. Must say it's coming along nicely but still some work to do

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I've only been in an fmm situation before but one of my fantasies is to have 3 guys, maybe more. Pretty sure I wouldn't feel bad about it, as in a negative way. I would make sure I knew at least one of them pretty well though from a safety point of view

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

My first club experience was a full immersion. It was a little overwhelming at first but I didn't feel guilt. Those that knew about it didn't bat an eyelid.

It's been ages since I've had one on one, let alone more, but it's good fun if you can find two (or more) men than get on well enough to put you at the centre of everything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've only been in an fmm situation before but one of my fantasies is to have 3 guys, maybe more. Pretty sure I wouldn't feel bad about it, as in a negative way. I would make sure I knew at least one of them pretty well though from a safety point of view "

has to be safe - i only meet where fellas are involved with my close friend present - possibly only the one guy id trust to totally have my interest foremost

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By *aisyDD OP   Woman
over a year ago

North West

Yes I'd go with someone that had my back, so to speak.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Yes I'd go with someone that had my back, so to speak. "

That has always been the way I have done it. Feeling secure means you can let go and enjoy yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go to clubs regularly & multiple guy fun has never been my thing, it's not a issue in clubs because no one expects it out makes you do it. If it gets a bit cock heavy I hold my hand up, say time out & watch for a bit. You do what you want at your pace op & believe me there's no judging in clubs or parties X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I understand where you're coming from OP.

I'm really wanting to do my first MMF but I plan on doing that with 2 men I've met on a one on one basis, and I trust them.

I have a fantasy of a few men at once, a ganbang even, but I worry that I would feel cheap and used afterwards, (not that I think ladies who do that are cheap) it's just how I'd feel about myself, so I think that will be one fantasy that just stays as a fantasy.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I understand where you're coming from OP.

I'm really wanting to do my first MMF but I plan on doing that with 2 men I've met on a one on one basis, and I trust them.

I have a fantasy of a few men at once, a ganbang even, but I worry that I would feel cheap and used afterwards, (not that I think ladies who do that are cheap) it's just how I'd feel about myself, so I think that will be one fantasy that just stays as a fantasy. "

Start with two and see how you feel.

My experience is that rather than feeling used I feel that I have the power in the situation. That may be because the men I have met have all wanted to ensure I enjoyed myself.

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By *aisyDD OP   Woman
over a year ago

North West


"I understand where you're coming from OP.

I'm really wanting to do my first MMF but I plan on doing that with 2 men I've met on a one on one basis, and I trust them.

I have a fantasy of a few men at once, a ganbang even, but I worry that I would feel cheap and used afterwards, (not that I think ladies who do that are cheap) it's just how I'd feel about myself, so I think that will be one fantasy that just stays as a fantasy. "

Exactly how I feel! I'd not think that about anyone else so why should I think that about myself. Seriously admire the women that go for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when I did it, it was with someone I knew, and his friend..(what could possibly go wrong! )

tbh we had all had a drink beforehand (only one though) just to calm any nerves but it went really well..no awkwardness at all...I'd recommend it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a few mmf 3somes. Never felt guilt, just enjoyed myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm trying to get my head round the idea of having fun with more than one guy at once. I always admire the ladies that say they've been with multiple men in a session but I think if I did it myself I'd feel really bad about myself.

I realise it's all in my head but wondering how others deal with it. "

Ok ask yourself why you want this?

I personally have had a couple of mmmf and the buzz from it is wow..i was left with a big smile for days and wanting more more more. I chose first time a very well verified mm profile.

Mx

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By *aisyDD OP   Woman
over a year ago

North West


"I'm trying to get my head round the idea of having fun with more than one guy at once. I always admire the ladies that say they've been with multiple men in a session but I think if I did it myself I'd feel really bad about myself.

I realise it's all in my head but wondering how others deal with it.

Ok ask yourself why you want this?

I personally have had a couple of mmmf and the buzz from it is wow..i was left with a big smile for days and wanting more more more. I chose first time a very well verified mm profile.

Mx"

That's what I'm after. I knew there would be a way to turn my thoughts around.

I want the wow buzz. Love the idea of a 'few' men taking care of my needs and finding me sexy. I'd love the boost I'd get.

Thank you x

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