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"It's been a fucking weird week for body issues. " I know jesus i was raised to accept people for who they are and treat everyone with reapect! Seems that has gone out the window on here! X | |||
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"It's been a fucking weird week for body issues. I know jesus i was raised to accept people for who they are and treat everyone with reapect! Seems that has gone out the window on here! X" Respect* before spelling police show up | |||
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"Do fat people bleed more? " Its fat not extra blood or wed make for good blood doners! Lol | |||
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"Do fat people bleed more? Its fat not extra blood or wed make for good blood doners! Lol " That would make interesting marketing for blood banks | |||
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"Do fat people bleed more? Its fat not extra blood or wed make for good blood doners! Lol " I would make a good fat donor | |||
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"Doesn't this thread just highlight it though? " Its literally all ive seen all week you are probably right but its a positive thread rather than all the negativity x | |||
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"Do fat people bleed more? Its fat not extra blood or wed make for good blood doners! Lol I would make a good fat donor " Me too! | |||
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"Do fat people bleed more? Its fat not extra blood or wed make for good blood doners! Lol I would make a good fat donor Me too! " So, we are doing the skinny people of this world a favour; smile | |||
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"Has someone upset you, Betty? Let me know and I'll give 'em a nipple cripple! I think you have a wonderful body " Nobody in particular im very happy with myself but some are not and all this body shaming dosnt help any one who already has confidence issues! Nipple cripples are painful!! Just as much as a kick in the balls | |||
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"Do fat people bleed more? Its fat not extra blood or wed make for good blood doners! Lol I would make a good fat donor Me too! " You should be able to donate to people whod like to gain and remove from those whos like to loose but if everyone was perfect the world would be boring lol | |||
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"Do fat people bleed more? " We bleed lard. Or chocolate milk. | |||
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"It's been a fucking weird week for body issues. I know jesus i was raised to accept people for who they are and treat everyone with reapect! Seems that has gone out the window on here! X Respect* before spelling police show up " Ah fuck it I had my red pen ready | |||
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"It's been a fucking weird week for body issues. I know jesus i was raised to accept people for who they are and treat everyone with reapect! Seems that has gone out the window on here! X Respect* before spelling police show up Ah fuck it I had my red pen ready " Hehe pmsl this made me chuckle | |||
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"Do fat people bleed more? We bleed lard. Or chocolate milk. " Hahah | |||
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"It's constant. And apparently perfectly acceptable to be as rude as you want to people with a bit of weight on them. " Ive seen people with weight on them be rude to smaller people too x | |||
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"It's constant. And apparently perfectly acceptable to be as rude as you want to people with a bit of weight on them. Ive seen people with weight on them be rude to smaller people too x" Oh totally. Works both ways | |||
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"It's constant. And apparently perfectly acceptable to be as rude as you want to people with a bit of weight on them. Ive seen people with weight on them be rude to smaller people too x Oh totally. Works both ways " Yup its so uncalled for! X | |||
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"They should give out free cakes while people give blood as a future investment " You get a free biscuit - only reason I give | |||
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"They should give out free cakes while people give blood as a future investment You get a free biscuit - only reason I give " Actually your right you do! Haha couldnt be that people genuinely need it for medical reasons and to save lifes nope we go for biscuits | |||
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"Doesn't this thread just highlight it though? Its literally all ive seen all week you are probably right but its a positive thread rather than all the negativity x" I'd like to think we won't be disheartened by any negative body comments because for each negative one there are 100s of positive ones | |||
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"Doesn't this thread just highlight it though? Its literally all ive seen all week you are probably right but its a positive thread rather than all the negativity x I'd like to think we won't be disheartened by any negative body comments because for each negative one there are 100s of positive ones " That is true babe i agree | |||
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"I've not been on the forums much recently ( better things to do ) It doesn't seem to change much though. Same people (mostly) with the same high opinion of themselves. Yawn. " Ironic | |||
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"I've not been on the forums much recently ( better things to do ) It doesn't seem to change much though. Same people (mostly) with the same high opinion of themselves. Yawn. Ironic " Very | |||
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"Doesn't this thread just highlight it though? Its literally all ive seen all week you are probably right but its a positive thread rather than all the negativity x I'd like to think we won't be disheartened by any negative body comments because for each negative one there are 100s of positive ones That is true babe i agree " I've got quite a high opinion of myself though so I take no notice I don't need to chase men | |||
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"If anything this site has shown me that you are who you are and there's plenty of people who will like you. And if they don't do what. I'm a lot more body confident than I was 18 months ago " Your photos | |||
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"I've not been on the forums much recently ( better things to do ) It doesn't seem to change much though. Same people (mostly) with the same high opinion of themselves. Yawn. Ironic " Really? In what way? I hardly ever post on the forum for this very reason. | |||
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"I've not been on the forums much recently ( better things to do ) It doesn't seem to change much though. Same people (mostly) with the same high opinion of themselves. Yawn. Ironic Very " You seem to have a problem with me. Not the first time you make your snide little pathetic comments. No wonder people are put off posting on the forums with the likes of you. | |||
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"I've not been on the forums much recently ( better things to do ) It doesn't seem to change much though. Same people (mostly) with the same high opinion of themselves. Yawn. Ironic Really? In what way? I hardly ever post on the forum for this very reason. " You'll have missed all the fun threads today then. Such fun...the usual. | |||
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"I've not been on the forums much recently ( better things to do ) It doesn't seem to change much though. Same people (mostly) with the same high opinion of themselves. Yawn. Ironic Very You seem to have a problem with me. Not the first time you make your snide little pathetic comments. No wonder people are put off posting on the forums with the likes of you." Funny, it was you came bursting in with a snide comment but project if you feel it helps | |||
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"I've not been on the forums much recently ( better things to do ) It doesn't seem to change much though. Same people (mostly) with the same high opinion of themselves. Yawn. Ironic Really? In what way? I hardly ever post on the forum for this very reason. You'll have missed all the fun threads today then. Such fun...the usual. " Ah ok. I gave up looking at the forum for a while as it just seemed very negative. Pity as it can be fun sometimes. | |||
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"I've not been on the forums much recently ( better things to do ) It doesn't seem to change much though. Same people (mostly) with the same high opinion of themselves. Yawn. Ironic Very You seem to have a problem with me. Not the first time you make your snide little pathetic comments. No wonder people are put off posting on the forums with the likes of you. Funny, it was you came bursting in with a snide comment but project if you feel it helps " Nope nothing snide but if you feel it was then I can't help that. Just think the forums can be very negative sometimes with the same old shit! | |||
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"They should give out free cakes while people give blood as a future investment You get a free biscuit - only reason I give " I got a mince pie last time. | |||
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"Its not all thats been discussed in the forum all week, theres been plenty of other topics discussed, not just fat bashing. Why do people keep bringing the subject up? " I wasnt just on about fat bashing i meant people being nasty to eachother in general for not fitting into peoples opinions | |||
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"Its not all thats been discussed in the forum all week, theres been plenty of other topics discussed, not just fat bashing. Why do people keep bringing the subject up? " your police outfit | |||
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"Doesn't this thread just highlight it though? Its literally all ive seen all week you are probably right but its a positive thread rather than all the negativity x" To preface, I'm not attacking you in anyway This is probably confirmation bias on your part (to some degree) | |||
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"Doesn't this thread just highlight it though? Its literally all ive seen all week you are probably right but its a positive thread rather than all the negativity x To preface, I'm not attacking you in anyway This is probably confirmation bias on your part (to some degree) " Thats ok Your right lol im tired! The aim of the post was just for people to be nicer thats all i think being polite goes a long way as do manners | |||
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"Your right lol im tired! The aim of the post was just for people to be nicer thats all i think being polite goes a long way as do manners " But we're grown ups and know this | |||
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"If anything this site has shown me that you are who you are and there's plenty of people who will like you. And if they don't do what. I'm a lot more body confident than I was 18 months ago Your photos " Thank you x | |||
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"I've not been on the forums much recently ( better things to do ) It doesn't seem to change much though. Same people (mostly) with the same high opinion of themselves. Yawn. Ironic Really? In what way? I hardly ever post on the forum for this very reason. You'll have missed all the fun threads today then. Such fun...the usual. " Can you point me in the direction of the fun threads.... | |||
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"I've not been on the forums much recently ( better things to do ) It doesn't seem to change much though. Same people (mostly) with the same high opinion of themselves. Yawn. Ironic Really? In what way? I hardly ever post on the forum for this very reason. You'll have missed all the fun threads today then. Such fun...the usual. Can you point me in the direction of the fun threads.... " Erm....that Way? | |||
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"Your right lol im tired! The aim of the post was just for people to be nicer thats all i think being polite goes a long way as do manners But we're grown ups and know this " Well you would think so x | |||
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"Here here OP. PS your legs in them stockings...Sheez I need a lie down. " Thankyou | |||
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"Anyway i must go to bed mum duties and an early start, good night everyone enjoy rest of your evenings x" Goodnight lovely lady. You have a beautiful soul xxx | |||
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"Really people get a grip?! Who gives a flying monkeys what body you have what shape it is and who likes or dislikes what! i dont care if your fat thin slim curvy bi gay straight black white asian or alien love yourself and eachother and this fab site would be a much less bitchy and nicer place!! All ive seen on here all week is people putting other people down! Shameful! We all bleed the same! " | |||
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"So I genuinely don't know how to define myself. Curvy? Slim? Athletic? Any help and opinions would be much appreciated and welcomed. Eve. X " I would say athletic and curvy? But seeing as you can't choose both, choose the one you feel best reflects you at the time. It's a tricky one what with your body shape fluctuations and not fitting neatly in to one category! Fabulous is always an option. Sorry for being of little help. | |||
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"I considered putting up a thread to ask folk how they would describe my body type but didn't want to cause arguments between people. It's hard as I go through fitness and nutritional stages and my body looks gradually different throughout each stage. When I am in a cutting phase, I am maybe considered athletic as I am working to show my 2/4/6 pack abs depending on how far into the cut I am, my biceps, quads, calves etc are all defined too. When I am attempting to put on muscle mass, I also put on body fat and although my waist stays relatively small, my abs slowly stop showing and my definition does too until I start my body fat cut again. So I genuinely don't know how to define myself. Curvy? Slim? Athletic? Any help and opinions would be much appreciated and welcomed. Eve. X " Just put fabulous. It's what all the fabulous people do. | |||
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"I would say athletic and curvy? But seeing as you can't choose both, choose the one you feel best reflects you at the time. It's a tricky one what with your body shape fluctuations and not fitting neatly in to one category! Fabulous is always an option. Sorry for being of little help." "Just put fabulous. It's what all the fabulous people do. " Thank you ladies. That's really helpful actually. I had no idea what fabulous meant so I was confused about that too. I also don't want to sound like I'm vain if I put fabulous ha ha, I'm actually really shy and quite self conscious so I don't want to give a false illusion of self importance? That's not to say people who use it do, I'm just wary of coming across wrong myself. Eve. X | |||
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"Do fat people bleed more? Its fat not extra blood or wed make for good blood doners! Lol " | |||
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"Really people get a grip?! Who gives a flying monkeys what body you have what shape it is and who likes or dislikes what! i dont care if your fat thin slim curvy bi gay straight black white asian or alien love yourself and eachother and this fab site would be a much less bitchy and nicer place!! All ive seen on here all week is people putting other people down! Shameful! We all bleed the same! " Here here! As a wise man once said, 'judge me by my size, do you?' We are happy to say we know the OP and you couldn't hope to find a more straight forward, down to earth individual. If you judge her, or anyone for that matter, by anything other than the brain between her ears, you a f##king moron! | |||
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"Really people get a grip?! Who gives a flying monkeys what body you have what shape it is and who likes or dislikes what! i dont care if your fat thin slim curvy bi gay straight black white asian or alien love yourself and eachother and this fab site would be a much less bitchy and nicer place!! All ive seen on here all week is people putting other people down! Shameful! We all bleed the same! " ..xx | |||
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"Oh there's always the make-up/no-make up debate! " Aw feck - I knew I'd forgotten something! | |||
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"Really people get a grip?! Who gives a flying monkeys what body you have what shape it is and who likes or dislikes what! i dont care if your fat thin slim curvy bi gay straight black white asian or alien love yourself and eachother and this fab site would be a much less bitchy and nicer place!! All ive seen on here all week is people putting other people down! Shameful! We all bleed the same! " To be fair we are not sure if Aliens do bleed, but the rest of what you say is all good, people will have preferences and that's all fine, but no need to knock others. | |||
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"Really people get a grip?! Who gives a flying monkeys what body you have what shape it is and who likes or dislikes what! i dont care if your fat thin slim curvy bi gay straight black white asian or alien love yourself and eachother and this fab site would be a much less bitchy and nicer place!! All ive seen on here all week is people putting other people down! Shameful! We all bleed the same! " Absolutely, well said. I love everybody of every shape, colour or persuasion. Apart from the gingers, I hate them ruddy gingers. | |||
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"Really people get a grip?! Who gives a flying monkeys what body you have what shape it is and who likes or dislikes what! i dont care if your fat thin slim curvy bi gay straight black white asian or alien love yourself and eachother and this fab site would be a much less bitchy and nicer place!! All ive seen on here all week is people putting other people down! Shameful! We all bleed the same! Absolutely, well said. I love everybody of every shape, colour or persuasion. Apart from the gingers, I hate them ruddy gingers. " 'Koff then! You're coming off my hotlist! | |||
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"Really people get a grip?! Who gives a flying monkeys what body you have what shape it is and who likes or dislikes what! i dont care if your fat thin slim curvy bi gay straight black white asian or alien love yourself and eachother and this fab site would be a much less bitchy and nicer place!! All ive seen on here all week is people putting other people down! Shameful! We all bleed the same! Absolutely, well said. I love everybody of every shape, colour or persuasion. Apart from the gingers, I hate them ruddy gingers. 'Koff then! You're coming off my hotlist! " But you are Strawberry Blonde | |||
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"Really people get a grip?! Who gives a flying monkeys what body you have what shape it is and who likes or dislikes what! i dont care if your fat thin slim curvy bi gay straight black white asian or alien love yourself and eachother and this fab site would be a much less bitchy and nicer place!! All ive seen on here all week is people putting other people down! Shameful! We all bleed the same! Here here! As a wise man once said, 'judge me by my size, do you?' We are happy to say we know the OP and you couldn't hope to find a more straight forward, down to earth individual. If you judge her, or anyone for that matter, by anything other than the brain between her ears, you a f##king moron! " Haha thankyou this made me chuckle so early on a monday morning but yup thats me to a t | |||
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"Really people get a grip?! Who gives a flying monkeys what body you have what shape it is and who likes or dislikes what! i dont care if your fat thin slim curvy bi gay straight black white asian or alien love yourself and eachother and this fab site would be a much less bitchy and nicer place!! All ive seen on here all week is people putting other people down! Shameful! We all bleed the same! To be fair we are not sure if Aliens do bleed, but the rest of what you say is all good, people will have preferences and that's all fine, but no need to knock others. " Ha ur right!! Maybe they bleed choc milk too? Lol x | |||
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"Really people get a grip?! Who gives a flying monkeys what body you have what shape it is and who likes or dislikes what! i dont care if your fat thin slim curvy bi gay straight black white asian or alien love yourself and eachother and this fab site would be a much less bitchy and nicer place!! All ive seen on here all week is people putting other people down! Shameful! We all bleed the same! To be fair we are not sure if Aliens do bleed, but the rest of what you say is all good, people will have preferences and that's all fine, but no need to knock others. " Unfortunately knocking others is what most like to do, and attacking their physical attributes is the easiest way to do it, direct or indirect, and not forgetting to add the cause that means it's just a joke right? | |||
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"Unfortunately knocking others is what most like to do, and attacking their physical attributes is the easiest way to do it, direct or indirect, and not forgetting to add the cause that means it's just a joke right? " Spot on. I recently had a guy 'attack' me for my size but it was at a club. He told me I was so fat I shouldn't be going there, and that no guys in their right mind would even look at me. My retort was that he obviously wasn't man enough to handle a big lady | |||
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"Really people get a grip?! Who gives a flying monkeys what body you have what shape it is and who likes or dislikes what! i dont care if your fat thin slim curvy bi gay straight black white asian or alien love yourself and eachother and this fab site would be a much less bitchy and nicer place!! All ive seen on here all week is people putting other people down! Shameful! We all bleed the same! " Whaddya mean "week"?! | |||
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"Really people get a grip?! Who gives a flying monkeys what body you have what shape it is and who likes or dislikes what! i dont care if your fat thin slim curvy bi gay straight black white asian or alien love yourself and eachother and this fab site would be a much less bitchy and nicer place!! All ive seen on here all week is people putting other people down! Shameful! We all bleed the same! Absolutely, well said. I love everybody of every shape, colour or persuasion. Apart from the gingers, I hate them ruddy gingers. 'Koff then! You're coming off my hotlist! " I thought you were strawberry blonde | |||
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"Really people get a grip?! Who gives a flying monkeys what body you have what shape it is and who likes or dislikes what! i dont care if your fat thin slim curvy bi gay straight black white asian or alien love yourself and eachother and this fab site would be a much less bitchy and nicer place!! All ive seen on here all week is people putting other people down! Shameful! We all bleed the same! " Well said although shallow bastards won't agree | |||
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"Do fat people bleed more? Its fat not extra blood or wed make for good blood doners! Lol That would make interesting marketing for blood banks " The larger the body, the more blood required to supply it. This puts additional strain on the heart, as the heart grows to cope the walls get thinner also. So not a good combination. | |||
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"Unfortunately knocking others is what most like to do, and attacking their physical attributes is the easiest way to do it, direct or indirect, and not forgetting to add the cause that means it's just a joke right? Spot on. I recently had a guy 'attack' me for my size but it was at a club. He told me I was so fat I shouldn't be going there, and that no guys in their right mind would even look at me. My retort was that he obviously wasn't man enough to handle a big lady" Omg thats awful as if you would be interested in some one that rude anyway? No loss! | |||
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