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By *ikeC81 OP   Man
over a year ago

harrow

Last night I got told I should be a bit more direct

I had a think about this and it made me smile as I am not like that I sometimes will say something that is a bit more forward than usual

But for me I just like to chat

People sometimes think i just want to chat and not play because of that that's not the case

Normally I am chatting to you because I like talking to you. Does anyone else have same challenges

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

well it depends on what you talk about i suppose but i think you can tell more about someone if you chat with them before you meet, so you can maybe find out if they are the right ones for you.

I dont like it much when men send me a message when they expect me to say straight away if i will meet them. Then again if a man is slow on calling me when i have given him my phone number i can easily lose interest. Friendly not pushy is the way to be.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Shall we make pancakes and then have sex? Direct enough?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

It's a fine line between being too quick (creepy, desperate, sexist pig) and being too casual (not interested after all even though he said he was)

And it can be confusing at our end too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I like to chat and sometime I like to play. I prefer when the people who want to play are direct (but not rude) about it because otherwise I assume it's just chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a fine line between being too quick (creepy, desperate, sexist pig) and being too casual (not interested after all even though he said he was)

And it can be confusing at our end too "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Last night I got told I should be a bit more direct

I had a think about this and it made me smile as I am not like that I sometimes will say something that is a bit more forward than usual

But for me I just like to chat

People sometimes think i just want to chat and not play because of that that's not the case

Normally I am chatting to you because I like talking to you. Does anyone else have same challenges "
with single females a man should be direct but with couples better to let them invite you.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Last night I got told I should be a bit more direct

I had a think about this and it made me smile as I am not like that I sometimes will say something that is a bit more forward than usual

But for me I just like to chat

People sometimes think i just want to chat and not play because of that that's not the case

Normally I am chatting to you because I like talking to you. Does anyone else have same challenges "

yes.... i got told "less chatting more doing"....

I think that was there way of telling me i am a gobshite.....

i've been told i am way too laid back in clubs.... a lot of other people just scuttle about like they patrol the play areas... i just sit back and watch the people patrol....

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By *ikeC81 OP   Man
over a year ago

harrow


"It's a fine line between being too quick (creepy, desperate, sexist pig) and being too casual (not interested after all even though he said he was)

And it can be confusing at our end too "

I tend to air on not intreasted and 2 people said to me why didn't i invite the person I was talking to for a play

She was a semi newby and I kinda was waiting for right time

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Well when the OP messaged me I remember him being very direct!

If I want to chat I use the forums. If I message people its to arrange a meet. It might come across as short but I am not the friendliest person around.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

Years ago i met a couple of men not both together on the spur of the moment and it was really good so you just never know.

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