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Why do some women act like tbey want nsa, but decline when offered???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not saying you have to jump into bed with everyone, but alot women are here to stroke their ego... Bit of a shame really

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Just because we turn certain men down, doesn't mean we're not meeting.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Hi

I make it my goal to sleep with every one that sends me a message asking do nsa discrete fun right now providing they have attached a cock photo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi

I make it my goal to sleep with every one that sends me a message asking do nsa discrete fun right now providing they have attached a cock photo "

You too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you're saying that you're NOT saying we have to jump into bed with everyone, but if we turn any men down we're just here to stroke our egos?

Ok then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NSA isn't fuck and go to everyone. even i've got it on my profile i want wooing and that and i'm not a service.

got sick of guys messaging me asking if i'm free now, can i meet now, i notice we have the same interests i want *blah selfish line here*.

fuck that shit. make some frigging effort for me to think i'm gonna enjoy meeting you.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Hi

I make it my goal to sleep with every one that sends me a message asking do nsa discrete fun right now providing they have attached a cock photo

You too? "

You take the North and I will take the South

Together we will conquer England one cock (not exclusive) at a time.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Many a times I'd love to meet someone when they say, are you free tonight, unfortunately I have a life that means my legs can't be open 24/7 so I have to say I'd love to fuck you but sorry it tonight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because the chase is better than the catch lol

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

I really, really want a facepalm emoji

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Going by the thread title I'd say they didn't fancy you OP.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Because not every woman wants to shag you...

Shit happens.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Not saying you have to jump into bed with everyone, but alot women are here to stroke their ego... Bit of a shame really"

I dunno, I really like it when they stroke my ego

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Because not every woman wants to shag you...

Shit happens."

I'd rather shag you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not saying you have to jump into bed with everyone, but alot women are here to stroke their ego... Bit of a shame really"

The bitterness of rejection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps explain why you think its a shame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not saying you have to jump into bed with everyone, but alot women are here to stroke their ego... Bit of a shame really"

do you mean in a kind of 'can you meet now for NSA?' because if you do I am sorry but that isn't the kind of meet I'm here for...

but I'm certainly not here to stroke my ego..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not saying you have to jump into bed with everyone, but alot women are here to stroke their ego... Bit of a shame really"

I don't meet everyone I chat to, doesn't mean I'm stroking my ego! It just means at first glance I liked the look of them but once we got chatting we've both realised we're not sexually compatible in some way........

I think some men on here automatically think because a female has said 'hello' or exchanged a few messages then they're getting some fun together. Expect nothing then you can't be disappointed well that's my own moto xx

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Not saying you have to jump into bed with everyone, but alot women are here to stroke their ego... Bit of a shame really

do you mean in a kind of 'can you meet now for NSA?' because if you do I am sorry but that isn't the kind of meet I'm here for...

but I'm certainly not here to stroke my ego.."

Sometimes I find that stroking myself has a better outcome than a meet

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"Because not every woman wants to shag you...

Shit happens.

I'd rather shag you "

I know, Honey. You'd love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find some men folk on here fail to read my profile and the two places at least that I've stated that I'm not meeting n then get all huffy when I delete their messages. xxx

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Because the chase is better than the catch lol "

Sometimes this is unfortunately the case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Many a times I'd love to meet someone when they say, are you free tonight, unfortunately I have a life that means my legs can't be open 24/7 so I have to say I'd love to fuck you but sorry it tonight

"

Hahahaha perfectly put

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Not saying you have to jump into bed with everyone, but alot women are here to stroke their ego... Bit of a shame really

I dunno, I really like it when they stroke my ego "

Oh so that's what you call him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Precisey because it is just that , except with you of course.it can of course be down to something and nothing,for example, if you message someone with any combination of but nothing added to , "HI, HOW ARE YOU? Or," HOWS IT GOING? Or FANCY MEETING UP? Then i can assure you ALL women will seem to fit your original description , why wouldnt they? Say something, why you like their profile ,their photos, Their preferences ,your preferences but dont say nothing! On that note ill say no more

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Because not every woman wants to shag you...

Shit happens.

I'd rather shag you

I know, Honey. You'd love it "

Grrr

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I think your post is rather contradictory.....what exactly do you mean OP?

On my terms I fuck who I want to, not whoever wants to fuck me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Although I'm here for NSA fun, there has to be an attraction and a level of respect or it just don't work for anyone"

In your own words OP ..... this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not saying you have to jump into bed with everyone, but alot women are here to stroke their ego... Bit of a shame really

do you mean in a kind of 'can you meet now for NSA?' because if you do I am sorry but that isn't the kind of meet I'm here for...

but I'm certainly not here to stroke my ego..

Sometimes I find that stroking myself has a better outcome than a meet "

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By *XHNHWoman
over a year ago

Stokeish...

Oh, another one....

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Many a times I'd love to meet someone when they say, are you free tonight, unfortunately I have a life that means my legs can't be open 24/7 so I have to say I'd love to fuck you but sorry it tonight

Hahahaha perfectly put "

Thanks I have my moments

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Not saying you have to jump into bed with everyone, but alot women are here to stroke their ego... Bit of a shame really"

Yeah, that's why I fuck everyone and anyone who offers. I don't want people thinking I have an inflated sense of ego.

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By *heBlueEyedBBWWoman
over a year ago

Berkshire


"Not saying you have to jump into bed with everyone, but alot women are here to stroke their ego... Bit of a shame really"

Nothing at to do with ego and everything to do with choosing who that NSA is with. at least for some.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Not saying you have to jump into bed with everyone, but alot women are here to stroke their ego... Bit of a shame really"

oh dear lordy........

really?????????

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Because the chase is better than the catch lol "

And you have to throw some back once caught.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just because I am on here and want sex doesn't mean I will say yes to every guy who wants to also. Some factors have to be taken into account. Attraction. Charm.distance.

Each to their own.

Don't turn bitter because you've been turned down.

Move on.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Not saying you have to jump into bed with everyone, but alot women are here to stroke their ego... Bit of a shame really"

you just dont make their minge moist...get over it

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon

I want NSA. I dont want NSA or anything else with you. That doesnt mean I'm just here to stroke my ego,.It means I dont fuck every guy who asks, and you are not what I'm here for.

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

Perhaps the OP should try another website called Adult dot work? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the women here have the right to who they want to have fun with so do not pick on the women here even if they are very picky.. have fun all you fab women..

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

And I do meet men, women and couples for NSA just I find them sexually, mentally and physically attractive first (check my veris)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not saying you have to jump into bed with everyone, but alot women are here to stroke their ego... Bit of a shame really

you just dont make their minge moist...get over it"

Evie just laughed out really loud... best reply on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bloody cock teases the lot of them!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Not saying you have to jump into bed with everyone, but alot women are here to stroke their ego... Bit of a shame really

you just dont make their minge moist...get over it

Evie just laughed out really loud... best reply on here "

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Because the chase is better than the catch lol

And you have to throw some back once caught."

Imagine buying a fishing boat and all the equipment, chatted to some other fishermen and cast your rod. You hang around...get a few bites.....some nibbles...a few tugs on ya rod that come to nothing. After a few months, you catch one. All sparkly and lively and pretty.....it's worth the wait after all. Which is why men go fishing.

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"Not saying you have to jump into bed with everyone, but alot women are here to stroke their ego... Bit of a shame really"

Is this addressed to singles or couples? I only ask because as a couple we have had a few meets, my other half would have shagged every one of them (you'd love him) however they weren't quite for me... so we only shagged a few...

I'm bad i know. I'm old, overweight and STILL trying to keep some sort of standards going....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe they only decline your offers OP...

and to find out why try looking a bit further than the end of your cock (clue..it begins with P)

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Because the chase is better than the catch lol

And you have to throw some back once caught.

Imagine buying a fishing boat and all the equipment, chatted to some other fishermen and cast your rod. You hang around...get a few bites.....some nibbles...a few tugs on ya rod that come to nothing. After a few months, you catch one. All sparkly and lively and pretty.....it's worth the wait after all. Which is why men go fishing. "

Yeah but what happens if all you hook is an old boot?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because the chase is better than the catch lol

Sometimes this is unfortunately the case "

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By *heRealMccoyMan
over a year ago

london


"Hi

I make it my goal to sleep with every one that sends me a message asking do nsa discrete fun right now providing they have attached a cock photo "

Lol that's y I ain't message u !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi

I make it my goal to sleep with every one that sends me a message asking do nsa discrete fun right now providing they have attached a cock photo

You too?

You take the North and I will take the South

Together we will conquer England one cock (not exclusive) at a time.

"

How come I get the north? I live in the south west too you know.

Anyway. I've already done most of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because the chase is better than the catch lol

And you have to throw some back once caught."
That is right too, then you just need to change the bait

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Hi

I make it my goal to sleep with every one that sends me a message asking do nsa discrete fun right now providing they have attached a cock photo

You too?

You take the North and I will take the South

Together we will conquer England one cock (not exclusive) at a time.

How come I get the north? I live in the south west too you know.

Anyway. I've already done most of them "

Why did I think you lived north? Fine we will go on a tour together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi

I make it my goal to sleep with every one that sends me a message asking do nsa discrete fun right now providing they have attached a cock photo

You too?

You take the North and I will take the South

Together we will conquer England one cock (not exclusive) at a time.

How come I get the north? I live in the south west too you know.

Anyway. I've already done most of them

Why did I think you lived north? Fine we will go on a tour together "

i've pretty much done the north west, and some of the midlands.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the women here have the right to who they want to have fun with so do not pick on the women here even if they are very picky.. have fun all you fab women.. "
I've not been luck but no skin off my nose....

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Hi

I make it my goal to sleep with every one that sends me a message asking do nsa discrete fun right now providing they have attached a cock photo

You too?

You take the North and I will take the South

Together we will conquer England one cock (not exclusive) at a time.

How come I get the north? I live in the south west too you know.

Anyway. I've already done most of them

Why did I think you lived north? Fine we will go on a tour together

i've pretty much done the north west, and some of the midlands."

Draw up a map and lets go

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By *heBlueEyedBBWWoman
over a year ago

Berkshire


"Because the chase is better than the catch lol

And you have to throw some back once caught.That is right too, then you just need to change the bait "

Cola bottles for you then Shag

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"Not saying you have to jump into bed with everyone, but alot women are here to stroke their ego... Bit of a shame really"

When I met men alone it was because my gut told me they would be trouble, wanting more than nsa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi

I make it my goal to sleep with every one that sends me a message asking do nsa discrete fun right now providing they have attached a cock photo

You too?

You take the North and I will take the South

Together we will conquer England one cock (not exclusive) at a time.

How come I get the north? I live in the south west too you know.

Anyway. I've already done most of them

Why did I think you lived north? Fine we will go on a tour together

i've pretty much done the north west, and some of the midlands.

Draw up a map and lets go "

haha. i'm trying to retire.

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

Sometimes we aren't looking for sex. Sometimes we are on to chat to friends made and folk (men) presume we are and make the assumption of inviting themselves over then take offence when we say no.

Everyone has a life and I'm sorry if no pics on a profile abd np previous chat why would we say yes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi

I make it my goal to sleep with every one that sends me a message asking do nsa discrete fun right now providing they have attached a cock photo "

I've done that loads of times and I'm yet to see your waffle?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because the chase is better than the catch lol

And you have to throw some back once caught.That is right too, then you just need to change the bait

Cola bottles for you then Shag"
Yes and I like them as well, those cola bottles are my favorites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi

I make it my goal to sleep with every one that sends me a message asking do nsa discrete fun right now providing they have attached a cock photo

You too?

You take the North and I will take the South

Together we will conquer England one cock (not exclusive) at a time.

How come I get the north? I live in the south west too you know.

Anyway. I've already done most of them

Why did I think you lived north? Fine we will go on a tour together "

Well don't forget the Midlands!

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Did the op just start a thread, then disappear?!

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Hi

I make it my goal to sleep with every one that sends me a message asking do nsa discrete fun right now providing they have attached a cock photo

I've done that loads of times and I'm yet to see your waffle?! "

I don't show my waffle to just anyone you know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not saying you have to jump into bed with everyone, but alot women are here to stroke their ego... Bit of a shame really

you just dont make their minge moist...get over it"

That made me snort. xxx

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I want NSA but with who I want, not any bloke who offers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi

I make it my goal to sleep with every one that sends me a message asking do nsa discrete fun right now providing they have attached a cock photo

I've done that loads of times and I'm yet to see your waffle?!

I don't show my waffle to just anyone you know."

But....But.... I sent dick pics?! AND I spelled 'fancy a fuck' correctly?!

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By *heBlueEyedBBWWoman
over a year ago

Berkshire


"Not saying you have to jump into bed with everyone, but alot women are here to stroke their ego... Bit of a shame really

you just dont make their minge moist...get over it

That made me snort. xxx"

I have to agree did me too

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Hi

I make it my goal to sleep with every one that sends me a message asking do nsa discrete fun right now providing they have attached a cock photo

I've done that loads of times and I'm yet to see your waffle?!

I don't show my waffle to just anyone you know.

But....But.... I sent dick pics?! AND I spelled 'fancy a fuck' correctly?! "

I sent a dick pic back...ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi

I make it my goal to sleep with every one that sends me a message asking do nsa discrete fun right now providing they have attached a cock photo

I've done that loads of times and I'm yet to see your waffle?!

I don't show my waffle to just anyone you know.

But....But.... I sent dick pics?! AND I spelled 'fancy a fuck' correctly?!

I sent a dick pic back...ffs"

Yeah but I didn't ask for it, therefore you still owe me a photo. It's how it works here

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Because the chase is better than the catch lol

And you have to throw some back once caught.

Imagine buying a fishing boat and all the equipment, chatted to some other fishermen and cast your rod. You hang around...get a few bites.....some nibbles...a few tugs on ya rod that come to nothing. After a few months, you catch one. All sparkly and lively and pretty.....it's worth the wait after all. Which is why men go fishing.

Yeah but what happens if all you hook is an old boot? "

That's what happens when the bait is naff

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Not saying you have to jump into bed with everyone, but alot women are here to stroke their ego... Bit of a shame really"

What are you here to stroke?

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

Oh, and by the way, decalring to the whole world that you are a drug user isn't going to get some of us flocking to your door

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Oh, and by the way, decalring to the whole world that you are a drug user isn't going to get some of us flocking to your door "

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"Why do some women act like tbey want nsa, but decline when offered???"

That's easy!

In my case it's because I'm short, ginger & ugly. But just to make sure I grew a moustache & only bathe twice a year. Mrs ddc also helped by removing one of my front teeth, and the stress of being married to her made most of my hair fall out.

Frankly all I have going for me is my dodgy sense of humour - and even that lets me down at times...

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bloody cock teases the lot of them!"

Yes we are, none of us ever meet anyone, we are only on here just to tease

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By *ork norriesCouple
over a year ago

Cork

Ehhhhh maybe cause u ugly??????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men and couples do it too not just women. A lot of men have no idea what nsa means....they think it means a woman to fk excusively with no commitment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can someone suck my penis ?

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff


"Hi

I make it my goal to sleep with every one that sends me a message asking do nsa discrete fun right now providing they have attached a cock photo

You too?

You take the North and I will take the South

Together we will conquer England one cock (not exclusive) at a time.

"

Can you move on to Wales then please

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Hi

I make it my goal to sleep with every one that sends me a message asking do nsa discrete fun right now providing they have attached a cock photo

You too?

You take the North and I will take the South

Together we will conquer England one cock (not exclusive) at a time.

Can you move on to Wales then please "

I'll be there now

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

I'm shaving me plums as we speak.

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

I'll put bunting out too. Proper red carpet welcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cos we cant say yes to everybody - some of us are fussy fuckers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I didn't decline men I'm not interested in I'd have smoke coming out of my vagina

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I didn't decline men I'm not interested in I'd have smoke coming out of my vagina "

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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales


"Not saying you have to jump into bed with everyone, but alot women are here to stroke their ego... Bit of a shame really"

What about the men stroking their cocks with no intention of meeting?

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"If I didn't decline men I'm not interested in I'd have smoke coming out of my vagina "

Good quality lubricant. Liquid engineering for hard-working vaginas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi

I make it my goal to sleep with every one that sends me a message asking do nsa discrete fun right now providing they have attached a cock photo

You too?

You take the North and I will take the South

Together we will conquer England one cock (not exclusive) at a time.

How come I get the north? I live in the south west too you know.

Anyway. I've already done most of them

Why did I think you lived north? Fine we will go on a tour together

Well don't forget the Midlands! "

I did the midlands already. How did you get missed?

Trollopes on tour

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Can someone suck my penis ? "

Wrong thread but ok if I have to

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Yep, I want my ego stroking in a non-stringy way. Once that has been stroked I might engage in some non-stringy sex.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I don't want strings. Mainly because I have plenty of other non-sexual strings to contend with. They make meet windows infrequent and there is no way I could meet even half of the people I might share a few PMs with. People that get that and don't bombard me stay in the running. They can occasionally stroke my ego if they like but it's not a prerequisite; I'd much rather someone I can have the odd normal conversation with while I'm in a fallow period.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's been said well by others. If we didn't chat with the many, including no-hoppers, then ee wouldn't be able to sort the wheat from the chaff. The chaff and my no hopers will all potentially have to play the same numbers games.

I don't meet most people that i chat with. Do they bitch or just get on with it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not saying you have to jump into bed with everyone, but alot women are here to stroke their ego... Bit of a shame really"

You see, you do yourself a disservice with posts like these. A lot of men on here are far too desperate.

The amusing thing is it turns out the opposite behavior (aloofness and arrogance) produces a much desired effect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi

I make it my goal to sleep with every one that sends me a message asking do nsa discrete fun right now providing they have attached a cock photo "

Where am I in the queue now?

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By *essThePirateWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"Hi

I make it my goal to sleep with every one that sends me a message asking do nsa discrete fun right now providing they have attached a cock photo

You too? "

Saves so much time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not saying you have to jump into bed with everyone, but alot women are here to stroke their ego... Bit of a shame really"

But do that state they have NSA with ANYONE? Because if they do...I'll take your case, I think we could win this one!

Call me.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...


"Not saying you have to jump into bed with everyone, but alot women are here to stroke their ego... Bit of a shame really

But do that state they have NSA with ANYONE? Because if they do...I'll take your case, I think we could win this one!

Call me. "

What about men who say they want nsa and then get all weird on you?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see some one is confused about the swinging world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not saying you have to jump into bed with everyone, but alot women are here to stroke their ego... Bit of a shame really"
1 us guys out number women on this site by 300 to 1, also there only gonna hook up with ppl there attracted too lol or click with lol, I'm single guy on here too and it is hard lol but bare with it an be patient

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ehhhhh maybe cause u ugly??????"
harsh!!

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

It seems a shock to some guys that we decide who we do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not saying you have to jump into bed with everyone, but alot women are here to stroke their ego... Bit of a shame really"

Possibly some do - I'm sorry to hear that you've been led on. But it's the same way that some men are here for a fantasy with no intention of meeting. This is the Internet after all. The best thing to do is try persuing woman who do meet and do play (look at verifications to find out who these ladies are). It won't necessarily mean they want to meet or play with you), but at least you'll have a fair chance of being the one who's picked for that NSA sex you are looking for. Do remember though that with the ratios of men to women, there will always be men that get left out. The status that you've put up saying women don't know what they want won't do you any favours. Are you sure you know what you want? You say you are only looking for single ladies, yet your profile also states you are interested in threesomes and cuckolding. Sounds like you are confused about what you want.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not saying you have to jump into bed with everyone, but alot women are here to stroke their ego... Bit of a shame really1 us guys out number women on this site by 300 to 1, also there only gonna hook up with ppl there attracted too lol or click with lol, I'm single guy on here too and it is hard lol but bare with it an be patient "

Stop justifying it with numbers. I can't stomach this anymore.

In the real world it 50/50 (ish). But it's still a woman's/mans prerogative to have sex with who they choose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not saying you have to jump into bed with everyone, but alot women are here to stroke their ego... Bit of a shame really1 us guys out number women on this site by 300 to 1, also there only gonna hook up with ppl there attracted too lol or click with lol, I'm single guy on here too and it is hard lol but bare with it an be patient

Stop justifying it with numbers. I can't stomach this anymore.

In the real world it 50/50 (ish). But it's still a woman's/mans prerogative to have sex with who they choose. "
haha you can't what!! Oh please lol were not talking about the world we're talking about a swing/sex/dating site and there is a greater number of males on here fact, and for that reason it is hard being a male on this site whether you can stomach it or not lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't poke the fire!hahahaha

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Not saying you have to jump into bed with everyone, but alot women are here to stroke their ego... Bit of a shame really"

Must be a right kick in the bollocks being tall, dark and handsome and turned down by bitches on a sex site hey!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not saying you have to jump into bed with everyone, but alot women are here to stroke their ego... Bit of a shame really1 us guys out number women on this site by 300 to 1, also there only gonna hook up with ppl there attracted too lol or click with lol, I'm single guy on here too and it is hard lol but bare with it an be patient

Stop justifying it with numbers. I can't stomach this anymore.

In the real world it 50/50 (ish). But it's still a woman's/mans prerogative to have sex with who they choose. haha you can't what!! Oh please lol were not talking about the world we're talking about a swing/sex/dating site and there is a greater number of males on here fact, and for that reason it is hard being a male on this site whether you can stomach it or not lol"

Sorry. I meant to say...,I think it's great when I read posts or listen to somebody use stats/facts/figures to balance out their reasoning to why ssomething isn't working out for them, or it's notgoing their way.

I call it an excuse.

Weather men out number women or not, if they don't like you. They won't shag you. fact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

YES i know. Lots of spelling errors.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Not saying you have to jump into bed with everyone, but alot women are here to stroke their ego... Bit of a shame really1 us guys out number women on this site by 300 to 1, also there only gonna hook up with ppl there attracted too lol or click with lol, I'm single guy on here too and it is hard lol but bare with it an be patient

Stop justifying it with numbers. I can't stomach this anymore.

In the real world it 50/50 (ish). But it's still a woman's/mans prerogative to have sex with who they choose. haha you can't what!! Oh please lol were not talking about the world we're talking about a swing/sex/dating site and there is a greater number of males on here fact, and for that reason it is hard being a male on this site whether you can stomach it or not lol

Sorry. I meant to say...,I think it's great when I read posts or listen to somebody use stats/facts/figures to balance out their reasoning to why ssomething isn't working out for them, or it's notgoing their way.

I call it an excuse.

Weather men out number women or not, if they don't like you. They won't shag you. fact.

"

I shagged someone I didn't really like. I did call him average though so...

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"It seems a shock to some guys that we decide who we do "

I know...on a site looking for sex and declining offers?!! Wtf?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not saying you have to jump into bed with everyone, but alot women are here to stroke their ego... Bit of a shame really1 us guys out number women on this site by 300 to 1, also there only gonna hook up with ppl there attracted too lol or click with lol, I'm single guy on here too and it is hard lol but bare with it an be patient

Stop justifying it with numbers. I can't stomach this anymore.

In the real world it 50/50 (ish). But it's still a woman's/mans prerogative to have sex with who they choose. haha you can't what!! Oh please lol were not talking about the world we're talking about a swing/sex/dating site and there is a greater number of males on here fact, and for that reason it is hard being a male on this site whether you can stomach it or not lol

Sorry. I meant to say...,I think it's great when I read posts or listen to somebody use stats/facts/figures to balance out their reasoning to why ssomething isn't working out for them, or it's notgoing their way.

I call it an excuse.

Weather men out number women or not, if they don't like you. They won't shag you. fact.

"
I totally agree with you

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

I get the OP's point although he may have worded it in the wrong way,there are indeed people on here who are just here for an ego boost,there are many people on here who you would walk past on a daily basis and not give them a second glance,however,once on a site such as fab they become "hot" "gorgeous" "amazing" "stunning" and so on and so forth. If they want an ego boost then no harm no foul but some people do lead others along with the "NSA" thing only to pull out when it actually comes to the participation. They are perfectly entitled to do so but it would obviously be quite an inconvenience for someone who has put in the effort in getting to know someone on here and then get let down in the end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not saying you have to jump into bed with everyone, but alot women are here to stroke their ego... Bit of a shame really"

You must have messaged a woman and thought she was a sure thing..... then when she read and deleted your message, you made this thread.

Well my friend welcome to the new world order.... on sex sites women have all the power

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get the OP's point although he may have worded it in the wrong way,there are indeed people on here who are just here for an ego boost,there are many people on here who you would walk past on a daily basis and not give them a second glance,however,once on a site such as fab they become "hot" "gorgeous" "amazing" "stunning" and so on and so forth. If they want an ego boost then no harm no foul but some people do lead others along with the "NSA" thing only to pull out when it actually comes to the participation. They are perfectly entitled to do so but it would obviously be quite an inconvenience for someone who has put in the effort in getting to know someone on here and then get let down in the end."

I'll say it before the police attack you.... ugly/overweight women still have standards and can still be picky

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"I get the OP's point although he may have worded it in the wrong way,there are indeed people on here who are just here for an ego boost,there are many people on here who you would walk past on a daily basis and not give them a second glance,however,once on a site such as fab they become "hot" "gorgeous" "amazing" "stunning" and so on and so forth. If they want an ego boost then no harm no foul but some people do lead others along with the "NSA" thing only to pull out when it actually comes to the participation. They are perfectly entitled to do so but it would obviously be quite an inconvenience for someone who has put in the effort in getting to know someone on here and then get let down in the end.

I'll say it before the police attack you.... ugly/overweight women still have standards and can still be picky "

Let the attacks commence my post is not in any way wrong or unfair and if people don't agree with me that is their entitlement

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"Not saying you have to jump into bed with everyone, but alot women are here to stroke their ego... Bit of a shame really

You must have messaged a woman and thought she was a sure thing..... then when she read and deleted your message, you made this thread.

Well my friend welcome to the new world order.... on sex sites women have all the power

"

that has always been the case in the bedroom no new world order needed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do want nsa fun however I'm entitled to actually fancy the person I want it with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys this is how fab works. You go onto whos near. Find the sexiest girl you can. You send her a message that says FAF? Twenty minutes later shes there at your door with tears in her eyes because she's finally found that one in a million guy whos willing to shag her without her having to marry him first.

If it doesn't work that way for you then you're doing something wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They are perfectly entitled to do so but it would obviously be quite an inconvenience for someone who has put in the effort in getting to know someone on here and then get let down in the end."

In my experience, the kind of guys who whinge about women they think are ugly turning them down (why the fuck are you messaging people you think are ugly?) are not the kind of guys who have put any effort at all into trying to meet people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get the OP's point although he may have worded it in the wrong way,there are indeed people on here who are just here for an ego boost,there are many people on here who you would walk past on a daily basis and not give them a second glance,however,once on a site such as fab they become "hot" "gorgeous" "amazing" "stunning" and so on and so forth. If they want an ego boost then no harm no foul but some people do lead others along with the "NSA" thing only to pull out when it actually comes to the participation. They are perfectly entitled to do so but it would obviously be quite an inconvenience for someone who has put in the effort in getting to know someone on here and then get let down in the end.

I'll say it before the police attack you.... ugly/overweight women still have standards and can still be picky

Let the attacks commence my post is not in any way wrong or unfair and if people don't agree with me that is their entitlement "

Lol lol lol ...... just like in court...... it's not the truth that counts only what you can prove. This is a fact .... if you call anyone woman on the forums unattractive, you will get accused of body shaming from men and women. Walk softly around these forums , it's worse than North Korea

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

Never understood the b*ll*cks spouted over here by some men

If you are so successful in the big wide world where there are actually slightly more women than men, they why the hell do you come over here and complain about not having any luck on this site

Fact is that a gormless idjit is rejected in the world out there more than he is here; so stop trying the reverse psychology guys; it ain't workin'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a fact .... if you call anyone woman on the forums unattractive, you will get accused of body shaming from men and women. Walk softly around these forums , it's worse than North Korea "

Funny how the other day when I called someone out over bodyshaming you messaged me and told me that I was 'brilliant', eh?

Or is that the building up of egos that the OP mentioned?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get the OP's point although he may have worded it in the wrong way,there are indeed people on here who are just here for an ego boost,there are many people on here who you would walk past on a daily basis and not give them a second glance,however,once on a site such as fab they become "hot" "gorgeous" "amazing" "stunning" and so on and so forth. If they want an ego boost then no harm no foul but some people do lead others along with the "NSA" thing only to pull out when it actually comes to the participation. They are perfectly entitled to do so but it would obviously be quite an inconvenience for someone who has put in the effort in getting to know someone on here and then get let down in the end."

Axactly. So the way round this problem, as I said in my post, is to try to avoid those that have no intention of playing. Men are guilty of going on Fab with no intention of meeting too, and there will be always that sort of thing on this type of website. Some of these women the OP is complaining about may not even be women! But there are plenty of women, men and couples who are out there having a good time. Those are the people the OP needs to focus on. And if he still gets rejected, maybe he should consider what he may be doing wrong to not attract ladies who enjoy NSA sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a fact .... if you call anyone woman on the forums unattractive, you will get accused of body shaming from men and women. Walk softly around these forums , it's worse than North Korea

Funny how the other day when I called someone out over bodyshaming you messaged me and told me that I was 'brilliant', eh?

Or is that the building up of egos that the OP mentioned? "

you're grossly mistaken... I messaged you to tell you , you have a future in politics and you told me no. You preferred to be a lecturer. First and foremost don't ever try to portray me as coming on to you on these forums... let's just say we are into different things.

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over a year ago


"This is a fact .... if you call anyone woman on the forums unattractive, you will get accused of body shaming from men and women. Walk softly around these forums , it's worse than North Korea

Funny how the other day when I called someone out over bodyshaming you messaged me and told me that I was 'brilliant', eh?

Or is that the building up of egos that the OP mentioned?

you're grossly mistaken... I messaged you to tell you , you have a future in politics and you told me no. You preferred to be a lecturer. First and foremost don't ever try to portray me as coming on to you on these forums... let's just say we are into different things.

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Didn't think you were coming onto me at all - I just think it's amusing that you seem to think those who call out bodyshaming are problems when talking in public, but you're complimentary in private.

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over a year ago


"This is a fact .... if you call anyone woman on the forums unattractive, you will get accused of body shaming from men and women. Walk softly around these forums , it's worse than North Korea

Funny how the other day when I called someone out over bodyshaming you messaged me and told me that I was 'brilliant', eh?

Or is that the building up of egos that the OP mentioned?

you're grossly mistaken... I messaged you to tell you , you have a future in politics and you told me no. You preferred to be a lecturer. First and foremost don't ever try to portray me as coming on to you on these forums... let's just say we are into different things.

Didn't think you were coming onto me at all - I just think it's amusing that you seem to think those who call out bodyshaming are problems when talking in public, but you're complimentary in private."

Ohh ok you miss understood me. I like the fact they you can debate someone with facts instead of insults. That is a talent and I still think you should go into politics or at the very least become an advocate for the LGBT community.

On the forums I like honestly and different opinions. What is truth to some is body shaming to others.... I like to point out hypocrisy when I see it....

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

Anyone else fancy a hot cup of tea and a cheese sambo?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the end of the day you like who you like and choose to have sex with?? No more to it!!......wish someone would hurry up and like me my balls are touching the floor Hahaha

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"...

......wish someone would hurry up and like me my balls are touching the floor Hahaha "

Is that because you have put on weight over Christmas?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hahahaha shhhh to much turkey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They are perfectly entitled to do so but it would obviously be quite an inconvenience for someone who has put in the effort in getting to know someone on here and then get let down in the end.

In my experience, the kind of guys who whinge about women they think are ugly turning them down (why the fuck are you messaging people you think are ugly?) are not the kind of guys who have put any effort at all into trying to meet people."

do you not think though that some people come on here, expecting porn type of people (hot fabbed pics kind of represents this type of person as well) and then they see that most people are just average, coz let's face it all people are average and that's what average means, and they get disappointed?

i don't mind average but i am surprised the amount of average/lesser than who expect NSA based on their looks alone. they don't exactly fit any type of fantasy...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At the end of the day you like who you like and choose to have sex with?? No more to it!!......wish someone would hurry up and like me my balls are touching the floor Hahaha "

now now i like a bit of hang for the slap against my arse effect but not sure i want my calves pummelling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At the end of the day you like who you like and choose to have sex with?? No more to it!!......wish someone would hurry up and like me my balls are touching the floor Hahaha

now now i like a bit of hang for the slap against my arse effect but not sure i want my calves pummelling "
haha lol they could tickle your heals

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By *BW SnowbunnyWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere over the Rainbow


"Bloody cock teases the lot of them!"

Why? Just because we women don't jump on every cock available We aren't prostitutes. Would you fuck every pussy you're offered regardless of what the woman looked like?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bloody cock teases the lot of them!

Why? Just because we women don't jump on every cock available We aren't prostitutes. Would you fuck every pussy you're offered regardless of what the woman looked like?"

i've just messaged a pest telling them this, and telling them i'm used to good sex with decent men. sick of selfish men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bloody cock teases the lot of them!

Why? Just because we women don't jump on every cock available We aren't prostitutes. Would you fuck every pussy you're offered regardless of what the woman looked like?that's me out the question then !!

i've just messaged a pest telling them this, and telling them i'm used to good sex with decent men. sick of selfish men."

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"They are perfectly entitled to do so but it would obviously be quite an inconvenience for someone who has put in the effort in getting to know someone on here and then get let down in the end."

How is getting to know someone an inconvenience? I never start a conversation on here from the viewpoint that I'm only in it because I want to fuck them at the first available opportunity. It takes time to gauge compatibility. I've met people over a year after we first started chatting; because they read my profile, paid attention to what I said about how and when I might meet and checked in occasionally. If people want a fuck and go they can find that on here but that's not for me. I've chatted to people where it hasn't ended up going anywhere because they weren't interested in me. I don't view that as an inconvenience; how else would either of us find that out otherwise? If talking to someone feels like too much effort if you don't get a fuck out of it then maybe it's time to reconsider why you might feel entitled to something physical because you had what boils down to a few conversations with someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They are perfectly entitled to do so but it would obviously be quite an inconvenience for someone who has put in the effort in getting to know someone on here and then get let down in the end.

How is getting to know someone an inconvenience? I never start a conversation on here from the viewpoint that I'm only in it because I want to fuck them at the first available opportunity. It takes time to gauge compatibility. I've met people over a year after we first started chatting; because they read my profile, paid attention to what I said about how and when I might meet and checked in occasionally. If people want a fuck and go they can find that on here but that's not for me. I've chatted to people where it hasn't ended up going anywhere because they weren't interested in me. I don't view that as an inconvenience; how else would either of us find that out otherwise? If talking to someone feels like too much effort if you don't get a fuck out of it then maybe it's time to reconsider why you might feel entitled to something physical because you had what boils down to a few conversations with someone."
I'm not saying all cus there are genuine guys like myself that do want to get to know a women and have socials but there are a lot of guys that think it's a free for all lol and dose spoil it for genuine guys, and tbh I've been on this site for a while now and I ant come across 1 women that's into cum and go lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They are perfectly entitled to do so but it would obviously be quite an inconvenience for someone who has put in the effort in getting to know someone on here and then get let down in the end.

How is getting to know someone an inconvenience? I never start a conversation on here from the viewpoint that I'm only in it because I want to fuck them at the first available opportunity. It takes time to gauge compatibility. I've met people over a year after we first started chatting; because they read my profile, paid attention to what I said about how and when I might meet and checked in occasionally. If people want a fuck and go they can find that on here but that's not for me. I've chatted to people where it hasn't ended up going anywhere because they weren't interested in me. I don't view that as an inconvenience; how else would either of us find that out otherwise? If talking to someone feels like too much effort if you don't get a fuck out of it then maybe it's time to reconsider why you might feel entitled to something physical because you had what boils down to a few conversations with someone.I'm not saying all cus there are genuine guys like myself that do want to get to know a women and have socials but there are a lot of guys that think it's a free for all lol and dose spoil it for genuine guys, and tbh I've been on this site for a while now and I ant come across 1 women that's into cum and go lol "

How do they spoil it for you? As this thread shows many if not most women don't want to meet men like that and can easily spot them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another post by a man who got knocked back and now every woman is here to stroke their ego. If anything sounds like you had a pretty big ego yourself if you just expect every woman on the site to meet you.

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"They are perfectly entitled to do so but it would obviously be quite an inconvenience for someone who has put in the effort in getting to know someone on here and then get let down in the end.

How is getting to know someone an inconvenience? I never start a conversation on here from the viewpoint that I'm only in it because I want to fuck them at the first available opportunity. It takes time to gauge compatibility. I've met people over a year after we first started chatting; because they read my profile, paid attention to what I said about how and when I might meet and checked in occasionally. If people want a fuck and go they can find that on here but that's not for me. I've chatted to people where it hasn't ended up going anywhere because they weren't interested in me. I don't view that as an inconvenience; how else would either of us find that out otherwise? If talking to someone feels like too much effort if you don't get a fuck out of it then maybe it's time to reconsider why you might feel entitled to something physical because you had what boils down to a few conversations with someone."

The inconvenience I speak of is a lot of time after the effort is put in getting to know someone and organise meeting up they can just stop chatting etc. Therefore it is an inconvenience indeed I have had that happen twice myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They are perfectly entitled to do so but it would obviously be quite an inconvenience for someone who has put in the effort in getting to know someone on here and then get let down in the end.

How is getting to know someone an inconvenience? I never start a conversation on here from the viewpoint that I'm only in it because I want to fuck them at the first available opportunity. It takes time to gauge compatibility. I've met people over a year after we first started chatting; because they read my profile, paid attention to what I said about how and when I might meet and checked in occasionally. If people want a fuck and go they can find that on here but that's not for me. I've chatted to people where it hasn't ended up going anywhere because they weren't interested in me. I don't view that as an inconvenience; how else would either of us find that out otherwise? If talking to someone feels like too much effort if you don't get a fuck out of it then maybe it's time to reconsider why you might feel entitled to something physical because you had what boils down to a few conversations with someone.

The inconvenience I speak of is a lot of time after the effort is put in getting to know someone and organise meeting up they can just stop chatting etc. Therefore it is an inconvenience indeed I have had that happen twice myself."

Two typical reasons for this. One they were fantasists (possibly not even women) in which case they did indeed waste your time. Or the other reason is that after chatting for a while they felt it wasn't going anywhere, or that you weren't for them. That's happened to us before too from men, so it's not just women who do this. But is it really an inconvenience to chat to someone and they decide after a bit of chat that it's not going anywhere? Surely that's just life? The same happens in the vanilla world. From the day we leave school and enter the adult world, human beings are faced with the 'inconvenience' of trying for something and not getting it.

Mrs

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"They are perfectly entitled to do so but it would obviously be quite an inconvenience for someone who has put in the effort in getting to know someone on here and then get let down in the end.

How is getting to know someone an inconvenience? I never start a conversation on here from the viewpoint that I'm only in it because I want to fuck them at the first available opportunity. It takes time to gauge compatibility. I've met people over a year after we first started chatting; because they read my profile, paid attention to what I said about how and when I might meet and checked in occasionally. If people want a fuck and go they can find that on here but that's not for me. I've chatted to people where it hasn't ended up going anywhere because they weren't interested in me. I don't view that as an inconvenience; how else would either of us find that out otherwise? If talking to someone feels like too much effort if you don't get a fuck out of it then maybe it's time to reconsider why you might feel entitled to something physical because you had what boils down to a few conversations with someone.

The inconvenience I speak of is a lot of time after the effort is put in getting to know someone and organise meeting up they can just stop chatting etc. Therefore it is an inconvenience indeed I have had that happen twice myself.

Two typical reasons for this. One they were fantasists (possibly not even women) in which case they did indeed waste your time. Or the other reason is that after chatting for a while they felt it wasn't going anywhere, or that you weren't for them. That's happened to us before too from men, so it's not just women who do this. But is it really an inconvenience to chat to someone and they decide after a bit of chat that it's not going anywhere? Surely that's just life? The same happens in the vanilla world. From the day we leave school and enter the adult world, human beings are faced with the 'inconvenience' of trying for something and not getting it.

Mrs"

yes it is an inconvenience,I did not say it was the end of the world and inconveniences are a pain in the arse but one gets over them,nobody can deny that inconveniences are anything else can they?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

How many women have admitted that they're messaging blokes just as an ego boost? I imagine zero.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No im basically going off some of the profiles I've read. It's fine to be picky n have a preference but some of the profiles are abit weird. Maybe it's because I'm fairly new to it all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey guys, I didn't expect such a response but thanks it's been a good if not funny catch up. I think my initial comment has been taken out of context and I also failed to explain myself properly.

Firstly I respect, love and adore women so my intention was not to be a chauvinistic prick, so apologies if that's how it came off. I've met some really cool women from Fab and have not slept with them all but consider them all new friends. My intention is not to sleep with everyone from Fab either.

My post was more directed at the few women who act as though you cant wink, message or even look at their profiles, have to admit this is few n far between but that's who my "rant" was aimed at.

I genuinely get it tho as some of us men can be right weirdos, perverts and just bloody rude. I for one have no trouble with the opposite sex however joined fab as I want quality over quantity. Has been a brilliant read tho so thanks. Gained a slight peak into the female mind. Cheers guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey guys, I didn't expect such a response but thanks it's been a good if not funny catch up. I think my initial comment has been taken out of context and I also failed to explain myself properly.

Firstly I respect, love and adore women so my intention was not to be a chauvinistic prick, so apologies if that's how it came off. I've met some really cool women from Fab and have not slept with them all but consider them all new friends. My intention is not to sleep with everyone from Fab either.

My post was more directed at the few women who act as though you cant wink, message or even look at their profiles, have to admit this is few n far between but that's who my "rant" was aimed at.

I genuinely get it tho as some of us men can be right weirdos, perverts and just bloody rude. I for one have no trouble with the opposite sex however joined fab as I want quality over quantity. Has been a brilliant read tho so thanks. Gained a slight peak into the female mind. Cheers guys"

If you don't want to come across as a chauvinistic prick, perhaps refrain from saying things like "Gained a slight peak into the female mind".

You know that women are all individuals. And that women and men don't think in particularly different ways, other than where society has cultured us to think differently?

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"They are perfectly entitled to do so but it would obviously be quite an inconvenience for someone who has put in the effort in getting to know someone on here and then get let down in the end.

How is getting to know someone an inconvenience? I never start a conversation on here from the viewpoint that I'm only in it because I want to fuck them at the first available opportunity. It takes time to gauge compatibility. I've met people over a year after we first started chatting; because they read my profile, paid attention to what I said about how and when I might meet and checked in occasionally. If people want a fuck and go they can find that on here but that's not for me. I've chatted to people where it hasn't ended up going anywhere because they weren't interested in me. I don't view that as an inconvenience; how else would either of us find that out otherwise? If talking to someone feels like too much effort if you don't get a fuck out of it then maybe it's time to reconsider why you might feel entitled to something physical because you had what boils down to a few conversations with someone."

Well said. Sadly many men shoot themselves in the foot when I had every hope they might be someone I wanted to meet at the outset of the conversation.

I remember chatting to one guy getting on well until he woke me with a randy text at 3am. I complained the next morning that he had woken me, at which point I was told 'I was pissed - get over it!'.

Bye bye Sooty!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

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"

You know that women are all individuals. And that women and men don't think in particularly different ways, other than where society has cultured us to think differently?"

I have say I disagree with that - I find men and women often naturally think in a very different manner, and that is despite my having a very logical 'male type' brain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

You know that women are all individuals. And that women and men don't think in particularly different ways, other than where society has cultured us to think differently?

I have say I disagree with that - I find men and women often naturally think in a very different manner, and that is despite my having a very logical 'male type' brain."

How can you say you have a 'male brain type' in the same paragraph that women and men think very differently? Are you the exception?

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

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"

You know that women are all individuals. And that women and men don't think in particularly different ways, other than where society has cultured us to think differently?

I have say I disagree with that - I find men and women often naturally think in a very different manner, and that is despite my having a very logical 'male type' brain.

How can you say you have a 'male brain type' in the same paragraph that women and men think very differently? Are you the exception?"

I am atypical apparently (if the psyche tests I have done have any value anyway) as I believe you are.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Another post by a man who got knocked back and now every woman is here to stroke their ego. If anything sounds like you had a pretty big ego yourself if you just expect every woman on the site to meet you. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

On the contrary I didn't get knocked back, it was a general sweeping statement about some of the profiles I've read. It's a case of who the cap fits.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

On the contrary I didn't get knocked back, it was a general sweeping statement about some of the profiles I've read. It's a case of who the cap fits.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

On the contrary I didn't get knocked back, it was a general sweeping statement about some of the profiles I've read. It's a case of who the cap fits.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Thrice I tell thee, no rejection!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not saying you have to jump into bed with everyone, but alot women are here to stroke their ego... Bit of a shame really"

I think your just bitter Cus know ones stroking yours

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"On the contrary I didn't get knocked back, it was a general sweeping statement about some of the profiles I've read. It's a case of who the cap fits."

On the contrary, I believe from your OP that you aren't getting any

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi

I make it my goal to sleep with every one that sends me a message asking do nsa discrete fun right now providing they have attached a cock photo "

Me too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I just stroke my own now... lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I do alright for myself if I'm honest. This thread seems to have got under some people's skin, very good read though. Lol

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"I do alright for myself if I'm honest. This thread seems to have got under some people's skin, very good read though. Lol"

Really?

And what got under your skin to pen the OP in the first place?

PS. I know the answer to that one

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Not saying you have to jump into bed with everyone, but alot women are here to stroke their ego... Bit of a shame really"

Did you forget to switch your brain on before you wrote that?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It was a profile when she listed all things things not to do or say, it said send me a pic althoigh she had none. It said not interested in Single men or couples, but wanted to meet men n women??? Also said something along the lines of can't accomodate n won't come to yours... Couldn't work it out... Then had my rant.

Like I said I do alright for myself, I didn't get rejected from anyone n I don't take myself that serious...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No forgot to switch it off for some of the mindless people Fab is saturated with...

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By *evilishCouple69Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"It was a profile when she listed all things things not to do or say, it said send me a pic althoigh she had none. It said not interested in Single men or couples, but wanted to meet men n women??? Also said something along the lines of can't accomodate n won't come to yours... Couldn't work it out... Then had my rant.

Like I said I do alright for myself, I didn't get rejected from anyone n I don't take myself that serious..."

Lol I've seen some profiles like that too and was equally confused!

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By *rs mischiefWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"Because the chase is better than the catch lol "

In my case for all the men who messaged I said I'd meet not heard since

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Very confusing and I ignorantly put it down to ego. Funny thing is the people who bit probably have similar profiles... Lol.

It's all good tho, was just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because the chase is better than the catch lol

And you have to throw some back once caught.

Imagine buying a fishing boat and all the equipment, chatted to some other fishermen and cast your rod. You hang around...get a few bites.....some nibbles...a few tugs on ya rod that come to nothing. After a few months, you catch one. All sparkly and lively and pretty.....it's worth the wait after all. Which is why men go fishing. "

Lol @ "a few tugs on your rod"!

I know...I am 12.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

Reverse psychology rarely works but frequently backfires; give iit a rest, pal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With you mate

And the negative stuff on here is so predictable

They will have their fannies plastered all over the profile

But what ever you do don't mention it

You'll be called disgusting and show a lack of respect

I've learned this and don't

But it's funny when they moan about it on a status

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

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"It was a profile when she listed all things things not to do or say, it said send me a pic althoigh she had none. It said not interested in Single men or couples, but wanted to meet men n women??? Also said something along the lines of can't accomodate n won't come to yours... Couldn't work it out... Then had my rant.

Like I said I do alright for myself, I didn't get rejected from anyone n I don't take myself that serious..."

So who pretended to want nsa then 'declined when offered' then? I can't imagine you offered sex to any of these ranty, nasty profiled women you complain of, surely?

I'm innocent anyway, I state up front I don't want nsa!

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