FabSwingers.com forum: Overcoming insecurities

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Since joining fab I have started to overcome some of my insecurities. One of them being not liking my ass. So I squat as much as I can.

What are your insecurities??

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By * Kiwis and a BananaMan
over a year ago

Part of your 5 a day

My hairline and my height only because a lot of women tend to ask guys to be a minimum 5"10 usually 6ft is the entry requirement so I'm constantly overlooked which annoys me

But I have begun to own the height thing as of late.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would't reveal them on here. You only have to look at some of the other threads to find folk keen to use things they perceive as being someone's insecurity against them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is my bum, and a couple of others that I don't reveal unless I'm meeting someone.

However, no one I've met have ever had an issue with them, so I try not to let them bother me too much.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I would't reveal them on here. You only have to look at some of the other threads to find folk keen to use things they perceive as being someone's insecurity against them."

They can say what they want. Don't care.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My insecurities, how long have you got? My bottom is a flabby, southern leaning disaster. My nose is squishier than Shrek's. My eyes are a pretty colour, yet sadly can't see more than about 20 centimetres. I've chopped my fringe so much that even the very kind hairdresser I called on for mercy laughed in my face. I have icky stretch marks on my thighs. It doesn't matter how many sit ups I do, my tum is determined to hang like an ugly sack.

However, I'm finally learning to maybe not love my imperfections, but to at least accept that they're the badges of my life and I'm stuck with the buggers.

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By *not69Man
over a year ago

Lancashire

My eye turns so really struggle having the confidence to get eye contact, and when I do they think I'm looking at someone else.

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By *not69Man
over a year ago

Lancashire

"My insecurities, how long have you got? My bottom is a flabby, southern leaning disaster. My nose is squishier than Shrek's. My eyes are a pretty colour, yet sadly can't see more than about 20 centimetres. I've chopped my fringe so much that even the very kind hairdresser I called on for mercy laughed in my face. I have icky stretch marks on my thighs. It doesn't matter how many sit ups I do, my tum is determined to hang like an ugly sack.

However, I'm finally learning to maybe not love my imperfections, but to at least accept that they're the badges of my life and I'm stuck with the buggers. "

Omg heels!!! I've seen you wearing next to nothing and you have a gorgeous body.

Can't see more than 20cm?? Well hellloooo!! haha xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The usual looks based things, but that's just normal. My actual insecurities are far too personal to be discussed here with a load of strangers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP you have no reason to have issues with your ass

it's amazing

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP you have no reason to have issues with your ass

it's amazing

Thanks ... everyone has something...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My right big toe

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My right big toe "

Ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My right big toe

Ha ha "

I am insecured abt it and u laugh !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate my tummy.after 4 kids it's not what it used to be.I'm not confident person with folk when I first meet them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My right big toe

Ha ha

I am insecured abt it and u laugh ! "

Didn't think you were serious ... sorry ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I hate my tummy.after 4 kids it's not what it used to be.I'm not confident person with folk when I first meet them"

I was the same ... crunches while watching TV... Russian twists with weights ( wine bottle ) ..

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By *he Ant Hill MobMan
over a year ago

Norwich

My penis!!

As the put down goes...

It looks like a penis but it's smaller

5 inches ish downhill backwind

Although not had any complaints as plenty of other skills apparently.

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By *ddit...Man
over a year ago

Land of the giants... ;-)

"Since joining fab I have started to overcome some of my insecurities. One of them being not liking my ass. So I squat as much as I can.

What are your insecurities?? "
lost 6 stone over the last 2 years... my life is full of insecurities and at the same time massive confidence. .. it's a strange world... lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Since joining fab I have started to overcome some of my insecurities. One of them being not liking my ass. So I squat as much as I can.

What are your insecurities?? lost 6 stone over the last 2 years... my life is full of insecurities and at the same time massive confidence. .. it's a strange world... lol"

Yes it is. Have to be happy with yourself first then the sexiness will come out

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I've found the things I am most insecure about regarding my body are not even noticed by the men I meet. Or if they are, the guys are far too polite to mention them.

I am still insecure about my body, but I would never draw attention to it.

I just work as hard as possible to make sure I look as good as possible for me. If I tried to fulfil all blokes fantasies I would fail.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well id just like to you are beautiful

However, I'm finally learning to maybe not love my imperfections, but to at least accept that they're the badges of my life and I'm stuck with the buggers. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is that I've spent most of my life in my home country of Australia and moved over here about 2 years ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Insecurities yes ....my tum need to get my arse in gear and start exercising ...sex helps but can't have sex 24/7 ...

Other than that very happy with my body

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By *ddit...Man
over a year ago

Land of the giants... ;-)

"Since joining fab I have started to overcome some of my insecurities. One of them being not liking my ass. So I squat as much as I can.

What are your insecurities?? lost 6 stone over the last 2 years... my life is full of insecurities and at the same time massive confidence. .. it's a strange world... lol

Yes it is. Have to be happy with yourself first then the sexiness will come out

"
I'm happy... guess not used to being happy with the way I look... difficult to explain...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Since joining fab I have started to overcome some of my insecurities. One of them being not liking my ass. So I squat as much as I can.

What are your insecurities?? lost 6 stone over the last 2 years... my life is full of insecurities and at the same time massive confidence. .. it's a strange world... lol

Yes it is. Have to be happy with yourself first then the sexiness will come out

I'm happy... guess not used to being happy with the way I look... difficult to explain... "

I know what you mean

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Too many to mention and not just about my physicality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had insecurities before fab, and I'll have them after fab. Fab has made me less shy, but it hasn't changed how I feel about my body, for better or worse.

To answer your question, I'm most insecure about my legs, my thighs in particular. They are out of proportion with the rest of my body and I don't like them. They were great when I played sports but they are shit in lingerie. But they are what they are, I suppose.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just like past issues. Physical issues have to be tried to overcome them.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I have loads. The physical ones are surmountable since I can apply logic and common sense to how I feel about those, which are myriad. Currently my size is a big one but it's dealable with so I'm dealing with it. The emotional ones are harder but I can rationalise and share those with people I am close to when necessary.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have loads. The physical ones are surmountable since I can apply logic and common sense to how I feel about those, which are myriad. Currently my size is a big one but it's dealable with so I'm dealing with it. The emotional ones are harder but I can rationalise and share those with people I am close to when necessary."

We all have issues. We have to learn to deal with them.

I am. Feel much happier.

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By *ddit...Man
over a year ago

Land of the giants... ;-)

"Since joining fab I have started to overcome some of my insecurities. One of them being not liking my ass. So I squat as much as I can.

What are your insecurities?? lost 6 stone over the last 2 years... my life is full of insecurities and at the same time massive confidence. .. it's a strange world... lol

Yes it is. Have to be happy with yourself first then the sexiness will come out

I'm happy... guess not used to being happy with the way I look... difficult to explain...

I know what you mean

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never envisaged a redunicorn understanding me..wondering of I took the right pills earlier...

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

No insecurities about my looks/body/situation but there are certain traits I have that I could improve or change for the better.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

None that I need or look to being on Fab to help resolve.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Since joining fab I have started to overcome some of my insecurities. One of them being not liking my ass. So I squat as much as I can.

What are your insecurities?? lost 6 stone over the last 2 years... my life is full of insecurities and at the same time massive confidence. .. it's a strange world... lol

Yes it is. Have to be happy with yourself first then the sexiness will come out

I'm happy... guess not used to being happy with the way I look... difficult to explain...

I know what you mean

never envisaged a redunicorn understanding me..wondering of I took the right pills earlier...

Blue pills or white small round ones ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've found the things I am most insecure about regarding my body are not even noticed by the men I meet. Or if they are, the guys are far too polite to mention them.

I am still insecure about my body, but I would never draw attention to it.

I just work as hard as possible to make sure I look as good as possible for me. If I tried to fulfil all blokes fantasies I would fail."

Excellent attitude to have

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I think I have a fat belly - which I do. I have scars on my legs which I don't like but hey ho.

My bum and eyes are my best asset and I have been told my cock is nice.

I have a big nose that kind bends to one side which I don't like.

I suppose that's why I am not that direct in asking people to play

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By *ysnomiaMan
over a year ago

Preston

Mine is dealing with other people.

Go figure!

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

I have no idea where to start on this one, there are too many.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Mine is dealing with other people.

Go figure!"

That's a given..

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

More than I care to admit and none of them solved by fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have scarring on my face from a car accident. So I wear factor 50 and don't tan...

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