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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyone else find some of the single males on this forum/site quite embarrassing for our gender as a whole???

Some of the replies to females posts or messages are just oh my god!!! E.g.- a woman says "I've never tried anal or not had it for a while then que the instant reply from several blokes of "I shall give you a hand help you out"

What does it really accomplish??? Or am I just being very pessimistic today lol

Just saying xxxx

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

Nope I find it a bit annoying. You post saying something along the lines of "god wish I was off work today so horny". Then you're inundated with phone in sick or I'll come to your work and other ridiculous ones.

I don't get it. Glad blokes feel a bit off about it.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

50/50

Yes some of it is embarrassing but then again, some of needy simpering shite from some of the woman is as bad.

Leave everyone to post as they like.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It's a bit of a game, people want to meet people for sex so they use the time honoured method of flattery. It's fine as long as you understand its meaningless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people post stuff in order to get such a response.,

And there is always someone about who will oblige ..

I'm sure I'm guilty of it occasionally, as are most people, intentionally or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes find it makes me cringe but no more than any type of harmless flirting between all types of gender combinations ...

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

I dont find this annoying. I find holier than thou types who look down n others more annoying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else find some of the single males on this forum/site quite embarrassing for our gender as a whole???

Some of the replies to females posts or messages are just oh my god!!! E.g.- a woman says "I've never tried anal or not had it for a while then que the instant reply from several blokes of "I shall give you a hand help you out"

What does it really accomplish??? Or am I just being very pessimistic today lol

Just saying xxxx

"

Is this a problem that affects you?

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By *aptivatingWoman
over a year ago

Chester


"50/50

Yes some of it is embarrassing but then again, some of needy simpering shite from some of the woman is as bad.

Leave everyone to post as they like.

"

This

Although I tend to have a more optimistic _iew on it than the OP, namely that it filters out people I wouldn't want to play with. I have before now gone straight from the forum to a profile and made a private note along the lines of "self aggrandising bullshitter, avoid!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm so horny, and need a hand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm so horny, and need a hand. "

Applause..... applause .....

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

The women who post "What to do today?" deserve all they get lol.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm so horny, and need a hand. "

Ahem.

Sorry Op, but....you know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The women who post "What to do today?" deserve all they get lol..... "
yee then they complain they're overwhelmed with messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope I find it a bit annoying. You post saying something along the lines of "god wish I was off work today so horny". Then you're inundated with phone in sick or I'll come to your work and other ridiculous ones.

I don't get it. Glad blokes feel a bit off about it. "

Out of curiosity what response where you hoping for to

"god wish I was off work today so horny"

?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"50/50

Yes some of it is embarrassing but then again, some of needy simpering shite from some of the woman is as bad.

Leave everyone to post as they like.

This

Although I tend to have a more optimistic _iew on it than the OP, namely that it filters out people I wouldn't want to play with. I have before now gone straight from the forum to a profile and made a private note along the lines of "self aggrandising bullshitter, avoid!""

Genuine irony... impressive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only desperation I have was written by Steven king good book

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Humble Pies 1969 cover of Steppenwolf's Desperation is something everyone should listen too ......

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Does not bother me, I just instantly move onto the next item.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"50/50

Yes some of it is embarrassing but then again, some of needy simpering shite from some of the woman is as bad.

Leave everyone to post as they like.

This

Although I tend to have a more optimistic _iew on it than the OP, namely that it filters out people I wouldn't want to play with. I have before now gone straight from the forum to a profile and made a private note along the lines of "self aggrandising bullshitter, avoid!""

Haha - now I know why I get so many "someone has looked at your profile - but no messages and not even a wink lol

Does not bother me tho - thick skinned ( he says sobbing into a cookie dough Ben and jerrys

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Yep but its both sexes ,not just men.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Manners cost nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a bit cringey, but then a lot on here is cringey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of the women are just as bad. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Roll your eyes and move on, it works.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Anyone else find some of the single males on this forum/site quite embarrassing for our gender as a whole???

Some of the replies to females posts or messages are just oh my god!!! E.g.- a woman says "I've never tried anal or not had it for a while then que the instant reply from several blokes of "I shall give you a hand help you out"

What does it really accomplish??? Or am I just being very pessimistic today lol

Just saying xxxx

"

The other men on here hardly affect me at all. I'm in a Steve Bubble. Unaffected by the flotsam and jetsam of men wanting sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else find some of the single males on this forum/site quite embarrassing for our gender as a whole???

Some of the replies to females posts or messages are just oh my god!!! E.g.- a woman says "I've never tried anal or not had it for a while then que the instant reply from several blokes of "I shall give you a hand help you out"

What does it really accomplish??? Or am I just being very pessimistic today lol

Just saying xxxx

"

I guess if some one posts to a sex site about wanting a sexual experience, then I guess they will get replies saying I'll give you experience.

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By *ysnomiaMan
over a year ago

Preston


"The women who post "What to do today?" deserve all they get lol..... "
Wouldn't say deserve.

Maybe 'should expect', because inevitably the replies will be all sorts of offers.

But to be fair as long as they are more on the humorous side of flirty, and less "I wil shag U, lulz!" then whats the harm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always wondered if this woman got a free breakfast daily...

When I was in London a lady used to post this daily " I wish I had a coffee and crossiant while I'm laying in bed "

I would have love to see her messages

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant


"Anyone else find some of the single males on this forum/site quite embarrassing for our gender as a whole???

Some of the replies to females posts or messages are just oh my god!!! E.g.- a woman says "I've never tried anal or not had it for a while then que the instant reply from several blokes of "I shall give you a hand help you out"

What does it really accomplish??? Or am I just being very pessimistic today lol

Just saying xxxx

"

What sort of reply are you expecting on here?

"Oh thats very interesting, thank you for letting us know that"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are there any anal virgin women around ?

I'd like to give you a hand or two and a penis with two bollocks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are there any anal virgin women around ?

I'd like to give you a hand or two and a penis with two bollocks. "

You're not putting your hands up my arse.

*too cringey OP?*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are there any anal virgin women around ?

I'd like to give you a hand or two and a penis with two bollocks.

You're not putting your hands up my arse.

*too cringey OP?*"

What abt me feet then ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are there any anal virgin women around ?

I'd like to give you a hand or two and a penis with two bollocks.

You're not putting your hands up my arse.

*too cringey OP?*

What abt me feet then ? "

Get a grip man!

*is this too cringey yet?*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are there any anal virgin women around ?

I'd like to give you a hand or two and a penis with two bollocks.

You're not putting your hands up my arse.

*too cringey OP?*

What abt me feet then ?

Get a grip man!

*is this too cringey yet?*"

With olive oil and willingness woman, YES WE CAN (do it)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are there any anal virgin women around ?

I'd like to give you a hand or two and a penis with two bollocks.

You're not putting your hands up my arse.

*too cringey OP?*

What abt me feet then ?

Get a grip man!

*is this too cringey yet?*

With olive oil and willingness woman, YES WE CAN (do it) "

You first, I'll get the oil ready. My feet are a 7 by the way, should go in quite easily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are there any anal virgin women around ?

I'd like to give you a hand or two and a penis with two bollocks.

You're not putting your hands up my arse.

*too cringey OP?*

What abt me feet then ?

Get a grip man!

*is this too cringey yet?*

With olive oil and willingness woman, YES WE CAN (do it)

You first, I'll get the oil ready. My feet are a 7 by the way, should go in quite easily "

I can't, I have a medical condition that doesn't allow that to happen.

Feetanalophopie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, if women don't want these predictable responses, they needn't put up such posts.

Both sides make me cringe.

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