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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ladies get rid of the word FAT, ladies should use PHAT, which means

Pretty

Hot

And

Thick in all the right places

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no.. lets not

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Nope I'm fat and that's that

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

What is pretty hot and thick about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

call a spade a spade. i'm a fat guy

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

Get rid of one word another rises to take its place.

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

Let's not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But I'm not from da-hood...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let's not. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Back to the drawing board OP.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Phat and fat are different, can't just swap them.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"Well she's pretty hot"

Nothing like being damned by faint praise to make a person feel good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don't you get rid of the fat itself? Instead of shirking the issue?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope I'm fat and that's that "

Me too Miss T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have often wondered where the descriptions on here meet. Where does curvy change to ample then fabulous. Sometimes people describe themself one way but you _iew them in another. I was in chat with a woman whom said on her profile fabulous which seemed to be the description used for the larger ladies but i would have said curvy.

Some people can be heavier but still look amazing others don't carry the weight so well. That goes for men and women I suppose. As long as your comfortable in your own body then does it matter.

What has to accepted though is people of a preference for what sort of body type they like.

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop


"Why don't you get rid of the fat itself? Instead of shirking the issue?"

Why should we to appease others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies get rid of the word FAT, ladies should use PHAT, which means

Pretty

Hot

And

Thick in all the right places"

Is being medically obease "thick in all the right places"?

Cause for most it just seems like extra work for the pallbearers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why don't you get rid of the fat itself? Instead of shirking the issue?

Why should we to appease others. "

For the benefit of your health? To live a longer and more active life?

That would be plenty motivation for me!

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"Why don't you get rid of the fat itself? Instead of shirking the issue?

Why should we to appease others.

For the benefit of your health? To live a longer and more active life?

That would be plenty motivation for me!"

Crack on then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've a fat arse but I'm Kinda used to it now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why don't you get rid of the fat itself? Instead of shirking the issue?

Why should we to appease others. "

Why should others have to change to appease the op?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies get rid of the word FAT, ladies should use PHAT, which means

Pretty

Hot

And

Thick in all the right places

Is being medically obease "thick in all the right places"?

Cause for most it just seems like extra work for the pallbearers"

Does "fat" only kick in at BMI 30+ then? Because I had people calling me fat waaayy before I got that big.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why don't you get rid of the fat itself? Instead of shirking the issue?

Why should we to appease others.

For the benefit of your health? To live a longer and more active life?

That would be plenty motivation for me!

Crack on then "

Yeah, I don't really need to I'm 5'9" and 11/12 stone, I'm good thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

first off i never once thought the term'phat' had any relation to the word 'fat'

Phat meaning - awesome, cool, good

fat meaning - over weight, body source of energy etc

Second point.. i wish earlier on in my current struggles with life that being FAT is actually not OK.. and no it shouldnt be 'normalised'.. ITS HORRENDOUS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies get rid of the word FAT, ladies should use PHAT, which means

Pretty

Hot

And

Thick in all the right places

Is being medically obease "thick in all the right places"?

Cause for most it just seems like extra work for the pallbearers

Does "fat" only kick in at BMI 30+ then? Because I had people calling me fat waaayy before I got that big. "

No because obease works on % not bmi.

Thats just a rough judgement because calipering somone takes a lot more time than writing 2 numbers on a form.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies get rid of the word FAT, ladies should use PHAT, which means

Pretty

Hot

And

Thick in all the right places

Is being medically obease "thick in all the right places"?

Cause for most it just seems like extra work for the pallbearers

Does "fat" only kick in at BMI 30+ then? Because I had people calling me fat waaayy before I got that big.

No because obease works on % not bmi.

Thats just a rough judgement because calipering somone takes a lot more time than writing 2 numbers on a form."

But obese is a BMI definition and that's much more commonly used. If you're going to chuck medical terms around as a way of belittling people, best get them right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why don't you get rid of the fat itself? Instead of shirking the issue?"

Personally, I am getting rid of the fat. But I suppose not everyone wants to. Miss T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"first off i never once thought the term'phat' had any relation to the word 'fat'

Phat meaning - awesome, cool, good

fat meaning - over weight, body source of energy etc

Second point.. i wish earlier on in my current struggles with life that being FAT is actually not OK.. and no it shouldnt be 'normalised'.. ITS HORRENDOUS "

When were you ever told fat was ok? I've had fat = bad hammered into me by just about everyone since I started puberty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let's not. It is just a description, it does not determine who I am (just what I look like at the moment), my attitude, my likes or experiences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies get rid of the word FAT, ladies should use PHAT, which means

Pretty

Hot

And

Thick in all the right places

Is being medically obease "thick in all the right places"?

Cause for most it just seems like extra work for the pallbearers

Does "fat" only kick in at BMI 30+ then? Because I had people calling me fat waaayy before I got that big.

No because obease works on % not bmi.

Thats just a rough judgement because calipering somone takes a lot more time than writing 2 numbers on a form.

But obese is a BMI definition and that's much more commonly used. If you're going to chuck medical terms around as a way of belittling people, best get them right. "

No it is not.

Obease is a medicsl definition based on a % of body fat above the normal level of body fat.

Otherwise body builders with 3% body fat would be obease.

BmI is used as a rough indicstor but it doesnt relate to the actual % fat.

For the dictionary deifnition "excessively fat"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"first off i never once thought the term'phat' had any relation to the word 'fat'

Phat meaning - awesome, cool, good

fat meaning - over weight, body source of energy etc

Second point.. i wish earlier on in my current struggles with life that being FAT is actually not OK.. and no it shouldnt be 'normalised'.. ITS HORRENDOUS

When were you ever told fat was ok? I've had fat = bad hammered into me by just about everyone since I started puberty. "

Just by friends/family that 'its ok to be big, you are who you are... everyone has a fat friend'

the men on here who adore larger ladies..

yes i get its nice to hear kinda thing but then it made me feel accepting. Id rather be 18 stone and told 'actually you need to loose weight' and have the shame factor of it,,, then be where i am at 30 stone at living with the consequences of 'things will be ok'.. because right now its a fucking nightmare and im seriously struggling.

Yes im having a bit of a moan and its not to you personally Ruby.. lol But if i could go back in time id say to all those people who were trying to be flattering and nice to me to spare feelings then perhaps id not be where i am now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies get rid of the word FAT, ladies should use PHAT, which means

Pretty

Hot

And

Thick in all the right places

Is being medically obease "thick in all the right places"?

Cause for most it just seems like extra work for the pallbearers

Does "fat" only kick in at BMI 30+ then? Because I had people calling me fat waaayy before I got that big.

No because obease works on % not bmi.

Thats just a rough judgement because calipering somone takes a lot more time than writing 2 numbers on a form.

But obese is a BMI definition and that's much more commonly used. If you're going to chuck medical terms around as a way of belittling people, best get them right.

No it is not.

Obease is a medicsl definition based on a % of body fat above the normal level of body fat.

Otherwise body builders with 3% body fat would be obease.

BmI is used as a rough indicstor but it doesnt relate to the actual % fat.

For the dictionary deifnition "excessively fat""

BMI categories: underweight, healthy, overweight, obese class I, obese class 2 etc. Pick up a newspaper and read one of those news stories about the percentage of people who are overweight and obese and it's talking about their weight.

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop


"Why don't you get rid of the fat itself? Instead of shirking the issue?

Why should we to appease others.

For the benefit of your health? To live a longer and more active life?

That would be plenty motivation for me!"

Lots of assumption there fella.

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop


"Ladies get rid of the word FAT, ladies should use PHAT, which means

Pretty

Hot

And

Thick in all the right places

Is being medically obease "thick in all the right places"?

Cause for most it just seems like extra work for the pallbearers

Does "fat" only kick in at BMI 30+ then? Because I had people calling me fat waaayy before I got that big.

No because obease works on % not bmi.

Thats just a rough judgement because calipering somone takes a lot more time than writing 2 numbers on a form.

But obese is a BMI definition and that's much more commonly used. If you're going to chuck medical terms around as a way of belittling people, best get them right.

No it is not.

Obease is a medicsl definition based on a % of body fat above the normal level of body fat.

Otherwise body builders with 3% body fat would be obease.

BmI is used as a rough indicstor but it doesnt relate to the actual % fat.

For the dictionary deifnition "excessively fat""

*obese

*medical

*indicator

Use spell check when you post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"first off i never once thought the term'phat' had any relation to the word 'fat'

Phat meaning - awesome, cool, good

fat meaning - over weight, body source of energy etc

Second point.. i wish earlier on in my current struggles with life that being FAT is actually not OK.. and no it shouldnt be 'normalised'.. ITS HORRENDOUS

When were you ever told fat was ok? I've had fat = bad hammered into me by just about everyone since I started puberty.

Just by friends/family that 'its ok to be big, you are who you are... everyone has a fat friend'

the men on here who adore larger ladies..

yes i get its nice to hear kinda thing but then it made me feel accepting. Id rather be 18 stone and told 'actually you need to loose weight' and have the shame factor of it,,, then be where i am at 30 stone at living with the consequences of 'things will be ok'.. because right now its a fucking nightmare and im seriously struggling.

Yes im having a bit of a moan and its not to you personally Ruby.. lol But if i could go back in time id say to all those people who were trying to be flattering and nice to me to spare feelings then perhaps id not be where i am now "

I understand that. But things might not have been different - I had friends and family and peers calling me fat back when I was barely overweight and it still didn't stop me eating myself up to 18 and a half stone. I know that's not the same as 30 stone but I could easily have been if there weren't things in my life that made me want to turn it around for myself. So don't resent them for it because it was probably coming from a good place. I hope things improve for you soon x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I understand that. But things might not have been different - I had friends and family and peers calling me fat back when I was barely overweight and it still didn't stop me eating myself up to 18 and a half stone. I know that's not the same as 30 stone but I could easily have been if there weren't things in my life that made me want to turn it around for myself. So don't resent them for it because it was probably coming from a good place. I hope things improve for you soon x "

Yeah im sure they did have good intentions, im just having a shitty day and felt the need to vent a bit of frustration out there. Getting rid of the term 'Fat' in my eyes is just ludacris.. perhaps people need to just accept it for the term it is and be logical with the use of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I understand that. But things might not have been different - I had friends and family and peers calling me fat back when I was barely overweight and it still didn't stop me eating myself up to 18 and a half stone. I know that's not the same as 30 stone but I could easily have been if there weren't things in my life that made me want to turn it around for myself. So don't resent them for it because it was probably coming from a good place. I hope things improve for you soon x

Yeah im sure they did have good intentions, im just having a shitty day and felt the need to vent a bit of frustration out there. Getting rid of the term 'Fat' in my eyes is just ludacris.. perhaps people need to just accept it for the term it is and be logical with the use of it.

"

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There seems to be a bit of a theme going on at the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No because at the end of the day fat isn't healthy. I am fat not phat x

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"There seems to be a bit of a theme going on at the moment."

There does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why don't you get rid of the fat itself? Instead of shirking the issue?

Why should we to appease others.

For the benefit of your health? To live a longer and more active life?

How is it assumption?

It's a fact that being overweight leads to health problems and a lower than average life expectancy...

This post and your following post indicates a lack of acceptance of the fact that can't offer a reasonable argument in return lol

That would be plenty motivation for me!

Lots of assumption there fella. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why don't you get rid of the fat itself? Instead of shirking the issue?

Why should we to appease others.

For the benefit of your health? To live a longer and more active life?

How is it assumption?

It's a fact that being overweight leads to health problems and a lower than average life expectancy...

This post and your following post indicates a lack of acceptance of the fact that can't offer a reasonable argument in return lol

That would be plenty motivation for me!

Lots of assumption there fella. "

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"Why don't you get rid of the fat itself? Instead of shirking the issue?

Why should we to appease others.

For the benefit of your health? To live a longer and more active life?

How is it assumption?

It's a fact that being overweight leads to health problems and a lower than average life expectancy...

This post and your following post indicates a lack of acceptance of the fact that can't offer a reasonable argument in return lol

That would be plenty motivation for me!

Lots of assumption there fella. "

Press reply and quote otherwise you just keep fucking it up

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

We don't need to get rid of it we just have to stop using it to hurt people.

My nephew is built like a streak of piss, not an ounce of fat on him yet the school bullies call him fat because they know it's hurtful. I am seriously worried it will cause him to have an eating disorder ashe is already saying that he needs to lose weight at just 11 years old.

And where do these school children learn such Vile hateful ways? Well going by some of the posts on here by so called 'adults' I think it's clear to see. Fat is the last safe haven for the hateful. Can't take the piss out of race, gender, sexuality, disability etc but fat people are fair game. Forget the fact they are real people with feelings and all that shit.

Before someone jumps up and down all patronisingile they tend to do on here.... I am not saying being fat is a protected characteristic like the others over listed. I was using them to illustrate why being fat is fair game for some.

Fat as an honest descriptor? Go for it. I'm fat, will never say any different. But most times it is said to me it is accompanied by words such as mess, slag, bitch etc which is not OK.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why don't you get rid of the fat itself? Instead of shirking the issue?

Why should we to appease others.

For the benefit of your health? To live a longer and more active life?

How is it assumption?

It's a fact that being overweight leads to health problems and a lower than average life expectancy...

This post and your following post indicates a lack of acceptance of the fact that can't offer a reasonable argument in return lol

That would be plenty motivation for me!

Lots of assumption there fella.

Press reply and quote otherwise you just keep fucking it up "

I did press reply and quote...

You could stop putting the food in your mouth but you keep fucking that up

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Why don't you get rid of the fat itself? Instead of shirking the issue?

Why should we to appease others.

For the benefit of your health? To live a longer and more active life?

How is it assumption?

It's a fact that being overweight leads to health problems and a lower than average life expectancy...

This post and your following post indicates a lack of acceptance of the fact that can't offer a reasonable argument in return lol

That would be plenty motivation for me!

Lots of assumption there fella.

Press reply and quote otherwise you just keep fucking it up

I did press reply and quote...

You could stop putting the food in your mouth but you keep fucking that up "

Oh come on now. What is going on today?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Why don't you get rid of the fat itself? Instead of shirking the issue?

Why should we to appease others.

For the benefit of your health? To live a longer and more active life?

How is it assumption?

It's a fact that being overweight leads to health problems and a lower than average life expectancy...

This post and your following post indicates a lack of acceptance of the fact that can't offer a reasonable argument in return lol

That would be plenty motivation for me!

Lots of assumption there fella.

Press reply and quote otherwise you just keep fucking it up

I did press reply and quote...

You could stop putting the food in your mouth but you keep fucking that up "

And that is where any argument you make loses any credibility. Childish behaviour. I'm all for reasoned debate and discussion but make it personal and that's when its over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies get rid of the word FAT, ladies should use PHAT, which means

Pretty

Hot

And

Thick in all the right places

Is being medically obease "thick in all the right places"?

Cause for most it just seems like extra work for the pallbearers"

Before you try to be a smart arse you might want to learn to spell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no.. lets not "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another delude thread about fat (obese) people,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why don't you get rid of the fat itself? Instead of shirking the issue?

Why should we to appease others.

For the benefit of your health? To live a longer and more active life?

How is it assumption?

It's a fact that being overweight leads to health problems and a lower than average life expectancy...

This post and your following post indicates a lack of acceptance of the fact that can't offer a reasonable argument in return lol

That would be plenty motivation for me!

Lots of assumption there fella.

Press reply and quote otherwise you just keep fucking it up

I did press reply and quote...

You could stop putting the food in your mouth but you keep fucking that up

And that is where any argument you make loses any credibility. Childish behaviour. I'm all for reasoned debate and discussion but make it personal and that's when its over."

So the fact that being overweight leads to a shorter life expectancy and other health problems has lost credibility?

Dream on...

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


" Another delude thread about fat (obese) people, "

Who see you accusing of being delusional?

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"Why don't you get rid of the fat itself? Instead of shirking the issue?

Why should we to appease others.

For the benefit of your health? To live a longer and more active life?

How is it assumption?

It's a fact that being overweight leads to health problems and a lower than average life expectancy...

This post and your following post indicates a lack of acceptance of the fact that can't offer a reasonable argument in return lol

That would be plenty motivation for me!

Lots of assumption there fella.

Press reply and quote otherwise you just keep fucking it up

I did press reply and quote...

You could stop putting the food in your mouth but you keep fucking that up "

Ohh dear ohh dear ohh dear, now you really have fucked it up

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Why don't you get rid of the fat itself? Instead of shirking the issue?

Why should we to appease others.

For the benefit of your health? To live a longer and more active life?

How is it assumption?

It's a fact that being overweight leads to health problems and a lower than average life expectancy...

This post and your following post indicates a lack of acceptance of the fact that can't offer a reasonable argument in return lol

That would be plenty motivation for me!

Lots of assumption there fella.

Press reply and quote otherwise you just keep fucking it up

I did press reply and quote...

You could stop putting the food in your mouth but you keep fucking that up

And that is where any argument you make loses any credibility. Childish behaviour. I'm all for reasoned debate and discussion but make it personal and that's when its over.

So the fact that being overweight leads to a shorter life expectancy and other health problems has lost credibility?

Dream on... "

No.... That remains a fact. Your input loses credibility because you chose to get childish. If you cannot debate something without getting childish perhaps you should stick to fuck snug avoid threads.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


" Another delude thread about fat (obese) people, "

No ones deluded, we are saying we for need anymore acronyms thanks very much

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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" Another delude thread about fat (obese) people, "

You can be fat without being obese. But I guess that doesn't quite fit into your gripe with fat people, so carry on.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I'm not sure fat is a virtue but each to their own. I smoke

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"I'm not sure fat is a virtue but each to their own. I smoke "

Shhhhhh or they will be after you next

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I'm not sure fat is a virtue but each to their own. I smoke

Shhhhhh or they will be after you next "

Nah, he's too pretty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I be Batman? - Big Ass Tubby Man.

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Dinner, Dinner, Dinner, Dinner

Batman!

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"Can I be Batman? - Big Ass Tubby Man.

-

Dinner, Dinner, Dinner, Dinner

Batman!

"

Only if that diner is a salad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about a " Fat girls with beards fucking a fab st8 guy with a strap on bareback while avoiding kissing or fucking the person above eating cake" thread to lighten the mood instead ...

xx

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"How about a " Fat girls with beards fucking a fab st8 guy with a strap on bareback while avoiding kissing or fucking the person above eating cake" thread to lighten the mood instead ...

xx"

Sounds like my Friday night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I be Batman? - Big Ass Tubby Man.

-

Dinner, Dinner, Dinner, Dinner

Batman!

Only if that diner is a salad "

Batman always dodges the Salad Bar!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Another delude thread about fat (obese) people,

You can be fat without being obese. But I guess that doesn't quite fit into your gripe with fat people, so carry on."

What a load of bollox, If your fat your fat, Its not about body mass fat, obese is people who have no control over their eating, unless they have a medical problem,few have, Its just bad life style, Usually full of excuses to try and justify being fat, This is and will It will cost the public billions in future to fat related problems, Why should sensible people pay for people who are in denile. There life style let them pay for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Another delude thread about fat (obese) people,

You can be fat without being obese. But I guess that doesn't quite fit into your gripe with fat people, so carry on.

What a load of bollox, If your fat your fat, Its not about body mass fat, obese is people who have no control over their eating, unless they have a medical problem,few have, Its just bad life style, Usually full of excuses to try and justify being fat, This is and will It will cost the public billions in future to fat related problems, Why should sensible people pay for people who are in denile. There life style let them pay for it."

Hi, I'm obese. It's the same thing as fat.

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop


"We don't need to get rid of it we just have to stop using it to hurt people.

My nephew is built like a streak of piss, not an ounce of fat on him yet the school bullies call him fat because they know it's hurtful. I am seriously worried it will cause him to have an eating disorder ashe is already saying that he needs to lose weight at just 11 years old.

And where do these school children learn such Vile hateful ways? Well going by some of the posts on here by so called 'adults' I think it's clear to see. Fat is the last safe haven for the hateful. Can't take the piss out of race, gender, sexuality, disability etc but fat people are fair game. Forget the fact they are real people with feelings and all that shit.

Before someone jumps up and down all patronisingile they tend to do on here.... I am not saying being fat is a protected characteristic like the others over listed. I was using them to illustrate why being fat is fair game for some.

Fat as an honest descriptor? Go for it. I'm fat, will never say any different. But most times it is said to me it is accompanied by words such as mess, slag, bitch etc which is not OK. "

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Ladies get rid of the word FAT, ladies should use PHAT, which means

Pretty

Hot

And

Thick in all the right places"

Great idea. Men could use LARDARSE.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"Can I be Batman? - Big Ass Tubby Man.

-

Dinner, Dinner, Dinner, Dinner

Batman!

How about some fruit? Banana nana nana Batman

Only if that diner is a salad

Batman always dodges the Salad Bar!

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why don't you get rid of the fat itself? Instead of shirking the issue?

Why should we to appease others.

For the benefit of your health? To live a longer and more active life?

How is it assumption?

It's a fact that being overweight leads to health problems and a lower than average life expectancy...

This post and your following post indicates a lack of acceptance of the fact that can't offer a reasonable argument in return lol

That would be plenty motivation for me!

Lots of assumption there fella.

Press reply and quote otherwise you just keep fucking it up

I did press reply and quote...

You could stop putting the food in your mouth but you keep fucking that up

And that is where any argument you make loses any credibility. Childish behaviour. I'm all for reasoned debate and discussion but make it personal and that's when its over.

So the fact that being overweight leads to a shorter life expectancy and other health problems has lost credibility?

Dream on...

No.... That remains a fact. Your input loses credibility because you chose to get childish. If you cannot debate something without getting childish perhaps you should stick to fuck snug avoid threads. "

Considering the fact that was my input, I'd say It remains very credible...

Proud to say I've never commented on a fuck, shag, marry, mong thread and have no plans to!

Much love

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.


" Another delude thread about fat (obese) people,

You can be fat without being obese. But I guess that doesn't quite fit into your gripe with fat people, so carry on.

What a load of bollox, If your fat your fat, Its not about body mass fat, obese is people who have no control over their eating, unless they have a medical problem,few have, Its just bad life style, Usually full of excuses to try and justify being fat, This is and will It will cost the public billions in future to fat related problems, Why should sensible people pay for people who are in denile. There life style let them pay for it.

Hi, I'm obese. It's the same thing as fat. "

Hi, I'm medically overweight. Not obese. But I still call myself fat. I can't really decipher the previous rant but am attempting to.

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop


" Another delude thread about fat (obese) people,

You can be fat without being obese. But I guess that doesn't quite fit into your gripe with fat people, so carry on.

What a load of bollox, If your fat your fat, Its not about body mass fat, obese is people who have no control over their eating, unless they have a medical problem,few have, Its just bad life style, Usually full of excuses to try and justify being fat, This is and will It will cost the public billions in future to fat related problems, Why should sensible people pay for people who are in denile. There life style let them pay for it."

And where does psychological issues fit in with your theory.

Also is there a clear correlation between people who are rude about fat folk and those that can't spell....

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop


"Why don't you get rid of the fat itself? Instead of shirking the issue?

Why should we to appease others.

For the benefit of your health? To live a longer and more active life?

How is it assumption?

It's a fact that being overweight leads to health problems and a lower than average life expectancy...

This post and your following post indicates a lack of acceptance of the fact that can't offer a reasonable argument in return lol

That would be plenty motivation for me!

Lots of assumption there fella.

Press reply and quote otherwise you just keep fucking it up

I did press reply and quote...

You could stop putting the food in your mouth but you keep fucking that up

And that is where any argument you make loses any credibility. Childish behaviour. I'm all for reasoned debate and discussion but make it personal and that's when its over.

So the fact that being overweight leads to a shorter life expectancy and other health problems has lost credibility?

Dream on...

No.... That remains a fact. Your input loses credibility because you chose to get childish. If you cannot debate something without getting childish perhaps you should stick to fuck snug avoid threads.

Considering the fact that was my input, I'd say It remains very credible...

Proud to say I've never commented on a fuck, shag, marry, mong thread and have no plans to!

Much love"

Mong.... pretty much sums up your mentality.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


" Another delude thread about fat (obese) people,

You can be fat without being obese. But I guess that doesn't quite fit into your gripe with fat people, so carry on.

What a load of bollox, If your fat your fat, Its not about body mass fat, obese is people who have no control over their eating, unless they have a medical problem,few have, Its just bad life style, Usually full of excuses to try and justify being fat, This is and will It will cost the public billions in future to fat related problems, Why should sensible people pay for people who are in denile. There life style let them pay for it.

And where does psychological issues fit in with your theory.

Also is there a clear correlation between people who are rude about fat folk and those that can't spell...."

Denile made me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Another delude thread about fat (obese) people,

You can be fat without being obese. But I guess that doesn't quite fit into your gripe with fat people, so carry on.

What a load of bollox, If your fat your fat, Its not about body mass fat, obese is people who have no control over their eating, unless they have a medical problem,few have, Its just bad life style, Usually full of excuses to try and justify being fat, This is and will It will cost the public billions in future to fat related problems, Why should sensible people pay for people who are in denile. There life style let them pay for it.

Hi, I'm obese. It's the same thing as fat.

Hi, I'm medically overweight. Not obese. But I still call myself fat. I can't really decipher the previous rant but am attempting to."

They seemed to be suggesting obese was only the super fat and those who have no control over their eating, and that it wasn't about body mass, which came as news to me. But now I'm not sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Another delude thread about fat (obese) people,

You can be fat without being obese. But I guess that doesn't quite fit into your gripe with fat people, so carry on.

What a load of bollox, If your fat your fat, Its not about body mass fat, obese is people who have no control over their eating, unless they have a medical problem,few have, Its just bad life style, Usually full of excuses to try and justify being fat, This is and will It will cost the public billions in future to fat related problems, Why should sensible people pay for people who are in denile. There life style let them pay for it.

And where does psychological issues fit in with your theory.

Also is there a clear correlation between people who are rude about fat folk and those that can't spell...."

you lose, bye

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop


" Another delude thread about fat (obese) people,

You can be fat without being obese. But I guess that doesn't quite fit into your gripe with fat people, so carry on.

What a load of bollox, If your fat your fat, Its not about body mass fat, obese is people who have no control over their eating, unless they have a medical problem,few have, Its just bad life style, Usually full of excuses to try and justify being fat, This is and will It will cost the public billions in future to fat related problems, Why should sensible people pay for people who are in denile. There life style let them pay for it.

And where does psychological issues fit in with your theory.

Also is there a clear correlation between people who are rude about fat folk and those that can't spell.... you lose, bye"

Wtf!!! Are you 12?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why don't you get rid of the fat itself? Instead of shirking the issue?

Why should we to appease others.

For the benefit of your health? To live a longer and more active life?

How is it assumption?

It's a fact that being overweight leads to health problems and a lower than average life expectancy...

This post and your following post indicates a lack of acceptance of the fact that can't offer a reasonable argument in return lol

That would be plenty motivation for me!

Lots of assumption there fella.

Press reply and quote otherwise you just keep fucking it up

I did press reply and quote...

You could stop putting the food in your mouth but you keep fucking that up

And that is where any argument you make loses any credibility. Childish behaviour. I'm all for reasoned debate and discussion but make it personal and that's when its over.

So the fact that being overweight leads to a shorter life expectancy and other health problems has lost credibility?

Dream on...

No.... That remains a fact. Your input loses credibility because you chose to get childish. If you cannot debate something without getting childish perhaps you should stick to fuck snug avoid threads.

Considering the fact that was my input, I'd say It remains very credible...

Proud to say I've never commented on a fuck, shag, marry, mong thread and have no plans to!

Much love"

Mong? Nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why don't you get rid of the fat itself? Instead of shirking the issue?

Why should we to appease others.

For the benefit of your health? To live a longer and more active life?

How is it assumption?

It's a fact that being overweight leads to health problems and a lower than average life expectancy...

This post and your following post indicates a lack of acceptance of the fact that can't offer a reasonable argument in return lol

That would be plenty motivation for me!

Lots of assumption there fella.

Press reply and quote otherwise you just keep fucking it up

I did press reply and quote...

You could stop putting the food in your mouth but you keep fucking that up

And that is where any argument you make loses any credibility. Childish behaviour. I'm all for reasoned debate and discussion but make it personal and that's when its over.

So the fact that being overweight leads to a shorter life expectancy and other health problems has lost credibility?

Dream on...

No.... That remains a fact. Your input loses credibility because you chose to get childish. If you cannot debate something without getting childish perhaps you should stick to fuck snug avoid threads.

Considering the fact that was my input, I'd say It remains very credible...

Proud to say I've never commented on a fuck, shag, marry, mong thread and have no plans to!

Much love

Mong.... pretty much sums up your mentality. "

You said something that I possibly felt very very mildly offended by so it loses all credibility!

Why don't you stick to those snog, kick, want threads if you can't be mature...

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.


" Another delude thread about fat (obese) people,

You can be fat without being obese. But I guess that doesn't quite fit into your gripe with fat people, so carry on.

What a load of bollox, If your fat your fat, Its not about body mass fat, obese is people who have no control over their eating, unless they have a medical problem,few have, Its just bad life style, Usually full of excuses to try and justify being fat, This is and will It will cost the public billions in future to fat related problems, Why should sensible people pay for people who are in denile. There life style let them pay for it.

Hi, I'm obese. It's the same thing as fat.

Hi, I'm medically overweight. Not obese. But I still call myself fat. I can't really decipher the previous rant but am attempting to.

They seemed to be suggesting obese was only the super fat and those who have no control over their eating, and that it wasn't about body mass, which came as news to me. But now I'm not sure. "

I'm not sure either. The anger is clouding any logic or train of thought in the argument so I will go with I really like your avatar. Regardless of labels.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Why don't you get rid of the fat itself? Instead of shirking the issue?

Why should we to appease others.

For the benefit of your health? To live a longer and more active life?

How is it assumption?

It's a fact that being overweight leads to health problems and a lower than average life expectancy...

This post and your following post indicates a lack of acceptance of the fact that can't offer a reasonable argument in return lol

That would be plenty motivation for me!

Lots of assumption there fella.

Press reply and quote otherwise you just keep fucking it up

I did press reply and quote...

You could stop putting the food in your mouth but you keep fucking that up

And that is where any argument you make loses any credibility. Childish behaviour. I'm all for reasoned debate and discussion but make it personal and that's when its over.

So the fact that being overweight leads to a shorter life expectancy and other health problems has lost credibility?

Dream on...

No.... That remains a fact. Your input loses credibility because you chose to get childish. If you cannot debate something without getting childish perhaps you should stick to fuck snug avoid threads.

Considering the fact that was my input, I'd say It remains very credible...

Proud to say I've never commented on a fuck, shag, marry, mong thread and have no plans to!

Much love

Mong.... pretty much sums up your mentality.

You said something that I possibly felt very very mildly offended by so it loses all credibility!

Why don't you stick to those snog, kick, want threads if you can't be mature... "

I wasn't offended by it.... Get your facts right. I said you were childish.

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop


"Why don't you get rid of the fat itself? Instead of shirking the issue?

Why should we to appease others.

For the benefit of your health? To live a longer and more active life?

How is it assumption?

It's a fact that being overweight leads to health problems and a lower than average life expectancy...

This post and your following post indicates a lack of acceptance of the fact that can't offer a reasonable argument in return lol

That would be plenty motivation for me!

Lots of assumption there fella.

Press reply and quote otherwise you just keep fucking it up

I did press reply and quote...

You could stop putting the food in your mouth but you keep fucking that up

And that is where any argument you make loses any credibility. Childish behaviour. I'm all for reasoned debate and discussion but make it personal and that's when its over.

So the fact that being overweight leads to a shorter life expectancy and other health problems has lost credibility?

Dream on...

No.... That remains a fact. Your input loses credibility because you chose to get childish. If you cannot debate something without getting childish perhaps you should stick to fuck snug avoid threads.

Considering the fact that was my input, I'd say It remains very credible...

Proud to say I've never commented on a fuck, shag, marry, mong thread and have no plans to!

Much love

Mong.... pretty much sums up your mentality.

You said something that I possibly felt very very mildly offended by so it loses all credibility!

Why don't you stick to those snog, kick, want threads if you can't be mature... "

You are making no sense whatsoever but you crack on flower.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's in a name that which we call a rose by any other name would smell as sweet.

Fat is fat, it is what it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why don't you get rid of the fat itself? Instead of shirking the issue?

Why should we to appease others.

For the benefit of your health? To live a longer and more active life?

How is it assumption?

It's a fact that being overweight leads to health problems and a lower than average life expectancy...

This post and your following post indicates a lack of acceptance of the fact that can't offer a reasonable argument in return lol

That would be plenty motivation for me!

Lots of assumption there fella.

Press reply and quote otherwise you just keep fucking it up

I did press reply and quote...

You could stop putting the food in your mouth but you keep fucking that up

And that is where any argument you make loses any credibility. Childish behaviour. I'm all for reasoned debate and discussion but make it personal and that's when its over.

So the fact that being overweight leads to a shorter life expectancy and other health problems has lost credibility?

Dream on...

No.... That remains a fact. Your input loses credibility because you chose to get childish. If you cannot debate something without getting childish perhaps you should stick to fuck snug avoid threads.

Considering the fact that was my input, I'd say It remains very credible...

Proud to say I've never commented on a fuck, shag, marry, mong thread and have no plans to!

Much love

Mong.... pretty much sums up your mentality.

You said something that I possibly felt very very mildly offended by so it loses all credibility!

Why don't you stick to those snog, kick, want threads if you can't be mature... "

To be fair when you start chucking things like "mong" around even if you previously had credibility or maturity (you didn't) you lose it.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"What's in a name that which we call a rose by any other name would smell as sweet.

Fat is fat, it is what it is. "

Absolutely. It's just a shame that some feel the need to use the word fat to hurt people.

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By *ouble CCouple
over a year ago

Gran Canaria

I used to have a body fat content of 4% and doctors told me it was unhealthy and i needed to put on more weight.

Lets not ban the word 'fat'. Lets stop stigmatising people who look a certain way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's in a name that which we call a rose by any other name would smell as sweet.

Fat is fat, it is what it is.

"

Totally agree, Their life and lifestyle, but dont expect other people to carry you when medical evidence says its a bad thing. and its been proved,

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop


"What's in a name that which we call a rose by any other name would smell as sweet.

Fat is fat, it is what it is.

Absolutely. It's just a shame that some feel the need to use the word fat to hurt people. "

Precicely this. It always has to be followed up with slob, Slag, bitch etc. It's the connotations people apply to words that is the issue. Not the words themselves.

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop


"What's in a name that which we call a rose by any other name would smell as sweet.

Fat is fat, it is what it is.

Totally agree, Their life and lifestyle, but dont expect other people to carry you when medical evidence says its a bad thing. and its been proved, "

Which is absolutely not your business. So quit hiding behind the 'it's unhealthy' argument. You are offended by the aesthetics. Tough..You'll have to suck it up buttercup..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's in a name that which we call a rose by any other name would smell as sweet.

Fat is fat, it is what it is.

Absolutely. It's just a shame that some feel the need to use the word fat to hurt people. "

If it was any other word it would also get used to hurt people, because people are arseholes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's in a name that which we call a rose by any other name would smell as sweet.

Fat is fat, it is what it is.

Absolutely. It's just a shame that some feel the need to use the word fat to hurt people.

Precicely this. It always has to be followed up with slob, Slag, bitch etc. It's the connotations people apply to words that is the issue. Not the words themselves. "

This can be cured in one sentence, Healthy life style and exercise,

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"What's in a name that which we call a rose by any other name would smell as sweet.

Fat is fat, it is what it is.

Absolutely. It's just a shame that some feel the need to use the word fat to hurt people.

If it was any other word it would also get used to hurt people, because people are arseholes. "

True lol

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"What's in a name that which we call a rose by any other name would smell as sweet.

Fat is fat, it is what it is.

Totally agree, Their life and lifestyle, but dont expect other people to carry you when medical evidence says its a bad thing. and its been proved, "

Everything in life is bad for you, it's best just to live your own lives the way you want to and stop worrying about how other people live theirs, you will still have to pay your taxes an NI even if everyone in the country was healthy

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.


"What's in a name that which we call a rose by any other name would smell as sweet.

Fat is fat, it is what it is. "

Noooo! Utter sacrilege of that quote. Although I agree with the latter point.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"What's in a name that which we call a rose by any other name would smell as sweet.

Fat is fat, it is what it is.

Absolutely. It's just a shame that some feel the need to use the word fat to hurt people.

Precicely this. It always has to be followed up with slob, Slag, bitch etc. It's the connotations people apply to words that is the issue. Not the words themselves.

This can be cured in one sentence, Healthy life style and exercise,"

The cure for the above is people not calling other people names. You are implying that it is OK to be horrible to fat people just because they are fat? Why can't people just be nice to people?

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Some people are fat.

Some people like the way fat people look, some don't, some do but are socially conditioned into denying they do and go by the media's portrayal of sexy.

Why can't we just let people like what they like?!

I like big bums, boobs, thighs...curves.

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop


"What's in a name that which we call a rose by any other name would smell as sweet.

Fat is fat, it is what it is.

Absolutely. It's just a shame that some feel the need to use the word fat to hurt people.

Precicely this. It always has to be followed up with slob, Slag, bitch etc. It's the connotations people apply to words that is the issue. Not the words themselves.

This can be cured in one sentence, Healthy life style and exercise,"

Or another. Mind your own fucking business.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's in a name that which we call a rose by any other name would smell as sweet.

Fat is fat, it is what it is.

Totally agree, Their life and lifestyle, but dont expect other people to carry you when medical evidence says its a bad thing. and its been proved, "

Yes being overweight is bad for you, so are lots of other things. Alcohol, Cigarettes - also lifestyle choices. Many overweight people are trying to change it, as are smokers and drinkers.

Denying them medical treatment wont help though will it?

Where do you draw the line. As it is many ops are postponed until the patient loses weight so it's not just ignored and that mean waiting in pain for an issue to be sorted.

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over a year ago

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

We do pay. Fat people pay just as much tax and NO as other people.... More if you consider how much more food they must buy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's in a name that which we call a rose by any other name would smell as sweet.

Fat is fat, it is what it is.

Totally agree, Their life and lifestyle, but dont expect other people to carry you when medical evidence says its a bad thing. and its been proved,

Yes being overweight is bad for you, so are lots of other things. Alcohol, Cigarettes - also lifestyle choices. Many overweight people are trying to change it, as are smokers and drinkers.

Denying them medical treatment wont help though will it?

Where do you draw the line. As it is many ops are postponed until the patient loses weight so it's not just ignored and that mean waiting in pain for an issue to be sorted."

Why should other people pay for self inflicted harm , when there is Proven medical evidence out there Being fat, Smoking is bad for you, And dont give me that shit about i pay my taxes becasue one Operation can cost More than a life time of paying tax on cigarettes and Ni contributions.

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop


"What's in a name that which we call a rose by any other name would smell as sweet.

Fat is fat, it is what it is.

Totally agree, Their life and lifestyle, but dont expect other people to carry you when medical evidence says its a bad thing. and its been proved,

Yes being overweight is bad for you, so are lots of other things. Alcohol, Cigarettes - also lifestyle choices. Many overweight people are trying to change it, as are smokers and drinkers.

Denying them medical treatment wont help though will it?

Where do you draw the line. As it is many ops are postponed until the patient loses weight so it's not just ignored and that mean waiting in pain for an issue to be sorted.

Why should other people pay for self inflicted harm , when there is Proven medical evidence out there Being fat, Smoking is bad for you, And dont give me that shit about i pay my taxes becasue one Operation can cost More than a life time of paying tax on cigarettes and Ni contributions."

And playing rugby, skiing, extreme sports, do we deny these medical care too because they have taken risks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's in a name that which we call a rose by any other name would smell as sweet.

Fat is fat, it is what it is.

Totally agree, Their life and lifestyle, but dont expect other people to carry you when medical evidence says its a bad thing. and its been proved,

Yes being overweight is bad for you, so are lots of other things. Alcohol, Cigarettes - also lifestyle choices. Many overweight people are trying to change it, as are smokers and drinkers.

Denying them medical treatment wont help though will it?

Where do you draw the line. As it is many ops are postponed until the patient loses weight so it's not just ignored and that mean waiting in pain for an issue to be sorted.

Why should other people pay for self inflicted harm , when there is Proven medical evidence out there Being fat, Smoking is bad for you, And dont give me that shit about i pay my taxes becasue one Operation can cost More than a life time of paying tax on cigarettes and Ni contributions."

Not every medical issue will be weight related will it? Whether you are overweight or not?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"What's in a name that which we call a rose by any other name would smell as sweet.

Fat is fat, it is what it is.

Totally agree, Their life and lifestyle, but dont expect other people to carry you when medical evidence says its a bad thing. and its been proved, "

Driving a car carries well known risks. Maybe if someone has a near fatal accident they shouldn't rely on the NHS as they knew they could crash or be crashed into.

Window cleaners are fucking reckless going up those ladders. If they fall ..... they shouldn't expect an ambulance to take them to hospital and they should pay for their treatment.

Those people who go swimming. They shouldn't expect anyone to help them if they are drowning. They knew they could drown. If God wanted humans to swim we'd have fins.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's in a name that which we call a rose by any other name would smell as sweet.

Fat is fat, it is what it is.

Totally agree, Their life and lifestyle, but dont expect other people to carry you when medical evidence says its a bad thing. and its been proved,

Yes being overweight is bad for you, so are lots of other things. Alcohol, Cigarettes - also lifestyle choices. Many overweight people are trying to change it, as are smokers and drinkers.

Denying them medical treatment wont help though will it?

Where do you draw the line. As it is many ops are postponed until the patient loses weight so it's not just ignored and that mean waiting in pain for an issue to be sorted.

Why should other people pay for self inflicted harm , when there is Proven medical evidence out there Being fat, Smoking is bad for you, And dont give me that shit about i pay my taxes becasue one Operation can cost More than a life time of paying tax on cigarettes and Ni contributions.

And playing rugby, skiing, extreme sports, do we deny these medical care too because they have taken risks. "

In short yes, you should be insured, the same goes for car accidents,

The NHS was not set up for these things,

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"What's in a name that which we call a rose by any other name would smell as sweet.

Fat is fat, it is what it is.

Totally agree, Their life and lifestyle, but dont expect other people to carry you when medical evidence says its a bad thing. and its been proved,

Yes being overweight is bad for you, so are lots of other things. Alcohol, Cigarettes - also lifestyle choices. Many overweight people are trying to change it, as are smokers and drinkers.

Denying them medical treatment wont help though will it?

Where do you draw the line. As it is many ops are postponed until the patient loses weight so it's not just ignored and that mean waiting in pain for an issue to be sorted.

Why should other people pay for self inflicted harm , when there is Proven medical evidence out there Being fat, Smoking is bad for you, And dont give me that shit about i pay my taxes becasue one Operation can cost More than a life time of paying tax on cigarettes and Ni contributions."

The only operation I have ever had was due to playing 5 a side football.... And I went private through my dad's company insurance.

Fit energetic people I know have been under the knife several times costing the NHS way more than me.

Next argument.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's in a name that which we call a rose by any other name would smell as sweet.

Fat is fat, it is what it is.

Totally agree, Their life and lifestyle, but dont expect other people to carry you when medical evidence says its a bad thing. and its been proved,

Yes being overweight is bad for you, so are lots of other things. Alcohol, Cigarettes - also lifestyle choices. Many overweight people are trying to change it, as are smokers and drinkers.

Denying them medical treatment wont help though will it?

Where do you draw the line. As it is many ops are postponed until the patient loses weight so it's not just ignored and that mean waiting in pain for an issue to be sorted.

Why should other people pay for self inflicted harm , when there is Proven medical evidence out there Being fat, Smoking is bad for you, And dont give me that shit about i pay my taxes becasue one Operation can cost More than a life time of paying tax on cigarettes and Ni contributions.

The only operation I have ever had was due to playing 5 a side football.... And I went private through my dad's company insurance.

Fit energetic people I know have been under the knife several times costing the NHS way more than me.

Next argument. "

And when you are proven wrong again you will change the subject,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies get rid of the word FAT, ladies should use PHAT, which means

Pretty

Hot

And

Thick in all the right places"

Each to there own. Just don't sugar coat that, you'll probably eat that too.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"What's in a name that which we call a rose by any other name would smell as sweet.

Fat is fat, it is what it is.

Totally agree, Their life and lifestyle, but dont expect other people to carry you when medical evidence says its a bad thing. and its been proved,

Yes being overweight is bad for you, so are lots of other things. Alcohol, Cigarettes - also lifestyle choices. Many overweight people are trying to change it, as are smokers and drinkers.

Denying them medical treatment wont help though will it?

Where do you draw the line. As it is many ops are postponed until the patient loses weight so it's not just ignored and that mean waiting in pain for an issue to be sorted.

Why should other people pay for self inflicted harm , when there is Proven medical evidence out there Being fat, Smoking is bad for you, And dont give me that shit about i pay my taxes becasue one Operation can cost More than a life time of paying tax on cigarettes and Ni contributions.

The only operation I have ever had was due to playing 5 a side football.... And I went private through my dad's company insurance.

Fit energetic people I know have been under the knife several times costing the NHS way more than me.

Next argument.

And when you are proven wrong again you will change the subject,"

Can you let me know when I'm proven wrong please. I'd hate to miss it happening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There seems to be a bit of a theme going on at the moment."

TOPIC POST.....Fat 12,670

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Another delude thread about fat (obese) people,

You can be fat without being obese. But I guess that doesn't quite fit into your gripe with fat people, so carry on.

What a load of bollox, If your fat your fat, Its not about body mass fat, obese is people who have no control over their eating, unless they have a medical problem,few have, Its just bad life style, Usually full of excuses to try and justify being fat, This is and will It will cost the public billions in future to fat related problems, Why should sensible people pay for people who are in denile. There life style let them pay for it."

The same could be said for all those sports injuries....or are they all on private medical insurance!? Sprains, strains and popping out bones, aren't a cost to the NHS system are they not? And then you've got Mavis with her yoga injury and Stan with some lego lodged in his rectum.

......Come on, that's a lame retort, to the people enjoying lard with their lardons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's in a name that which we call a rose by any other name would smell as sweet.

Fat is fat, it is what it is.

Totally agree, Their life and lifestyle, but dont expect other people to carry you when medical evidence says its a bad thing. and its been proved,

Yes being overweight is bad for you, so are lots of other things. Alcohol, Cigarettes - also lifestyle choices. Many overweight people are trying to change it, as are smokers and drinkers.

Denying them medical treatment wont help though will it?

Where do you draw the line. As it is many ops are postponed until the patient loses weight so it's not just ignored and that mean waiting in pain for an issue to be sorted.

Why should other people pay for self inflicted harm , when there is Proven medical evidence out there Being fat, Smoking is bad for you, And dont give me that shit about i pay my taxes becasue one Operation can cost More than a life time of paying tax on cigarettes and Ni contributions.

And playing rugby, skiing, extreme sports, do we deny these medical care too because they have taken risks.

In short yes, you should be insured, the same goes for car accidents,

The NHS was not set up for these things, "

I'm fat and I smoke ive worked since I was 15 and part that time for the NHS.

Since time began there have been fat people also smokers. Times have changed there are far more imagrants living in the uk than ever before. People are living longer than ever before. I think might be worth you reading statistic to be honest. Illegal NHS tourists cost more than an obease person in the NHS.

The NHS was set up to provide free health care to British citizens regardless of ailments it didn't say oh let's not treat them in 50 years because they will be fat.

seriously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's in a name that which we call a rose by any other name would smell as sweet.

Fat is fat, it is what it is.

Absolutely. It's just a shame that some feel the need to use the word fat to hurt people.

Precicely this. It always has to be followed up with slob, Slag, bitch etc. It's the connotations people apply to words that is the issue. Not the words themselves.

This can be cured in one sentence, Healthy life style and exercise,

Or another. Mind your own fucking business. "

Ooooohhh whos losing the maturity now?

I often think fat folk are fat partially because of all the excuses they hide about their person!

It's never their fault, it's not unhealthy, it's their choice, it's none of your business, blah blah

All the time forgetting that as we are all taxpaying members of society, and as we pay for the NHS through these taxes, yes it is our business!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's in a name that which we call a rose by any other name would smell as sweet.

Fat is fat, it is what it is.

Absolutely. It's just a shame that some feel the need to use the word fat to hurt people.

Precicely this. It always has to be followed up with slob, Slag, bitch etc. It's the connotations people apply to words that is the issue. Not the words themselves.

This can be cured in one sentence, Healthy life style and exercise,

Or another. Mind your own fucking business.

Ooooohhh whos losing the maturity now?

I often think fat folk are fat partially because of all the excuses they hide about their person!

It's never their fault, it's not unhealthy, it's their choice, it's none of your business, blah blah

All the time forgetting that as we are all taxpaying members of society, and as we pay for the NHS through these taxes, yes it is our business!"

I'm fat because I eat too much. I have never ever blamed anyone or anything for my love of chocolate and all things yummy.

Have I received extra medical care because of being overweight, nope. Will I do in the future, who knows? But what about all the drinkers? Smokers? Associated risks to them are as draining on the NHS as people being obese.

Oh and by the way, I'm working on losing weight, for me, not for some jumped up idiots who feel that their tax payers money is being used so foolishly to look after all the fatties in the country.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" All the time forgetting that as we are all taxpaying members of society, and as we pay for the NHS through these taxes, yes it is our business!"

So if you get an STI, we should all know about it? Or everytime you get the shits and go to the doctor? Or when you get something 'stuck' and you had to go to A&E?

You are just being inflammatory due to likely boredom on a Sunday afternoon.

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop


"What's in a name that which we call a rose by any other name would smell as sweet.

Fat is fat, it is what it is.

Absolutely. It's just a shame that some feel the need to use the word fat to hurt people.

Precicely this. It always has to be followed up with slob, Slag, bitch etc. It's the connotations people apply to words that is the issue. Not the words themselves.

This can be cured in one sentence, Healthy life style and exercise,

Or another. Mind your own fucking business.

Ooooohhh whos losing the maturity now?

I often think fat folk are fat partially because of all the excuses they hide about their person!

It's never their fault, it's not unhealthy, it's their choice, it's none of your business, blah blah

All the time forgetting that as we are all taxpaying members of society, and as we pay for the NHS through these taxes, yes it is our business!"

No it isn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Another delude thread about fat (obese) people,

You can be fat without being obese. But I guess that doesn't quite fit into your gripe with fat people, so carry on.

What a load of bollox, If your fat your fat, Its not about body mass fat, obese is people who have no control over their eating, unless they have a medical problem,few have, Its just bad life style, Usually full of excuses to try and justify being fat, This is and will It will cost the public billions in future to fat related problems, Why should sensible people pay for people who are in denile. There life style let them pay for it."

Wonder how i cost more by being fat.... only medical issue I have I was born with... so be it overweight or not it needs treating...

Did a fat person sit on your sandwich or something.... as cant see why anyone would be so openly hostile about something that doesn't affect them.

Btw last medical I was pretty damned fit and healthy too. But hey.. im fat too.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"What's in a name that which we call a rose by any other name would smell as sweet.

Fat is fat, it is what it is.

Absolutely. It's just a shame that some feel the need to use the word fat to hurt people.

Precicely this. It always has to be followed up with slob, Slag, bitch etc. It's the connotations people apply to words that is the issue. Not the words themselves.

This can be cured in one sentence, Healthy life style and exercise,

Or another. Mind your own fucking business.

Ooooohhh whos losing the maturity now?

I often think fat folk are fat partially because of all the excuses they hide about their person!

It's never their fault, it's not unhealthy, it's their choice, it's none of your business, blah blah

All the time forgetting that as we are all taxpaying members of society, and as we pay for the NHS through these taxes, yes it is our business!"

its not about the reason they are fat it is about the fact that no one has the right to abuse someone about the fact that they are.

People make life choices every day that put them at risk. The only person who gets to lecture me about losing weight is my GP and currently he is happy with what i am doing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever people opinions there's one thing this thread has really exposed - the absolutely disgusting rudeness of some posters. You can have any thought you want but the delivery doesn't have to include venom and spite. Cos there's one thing that's certainly not attractive and that's a disgusting attitude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whatever people opinions there's one thing this thread has really exposed - the absolutely disgusting rudeness of some posters. You can have any thought you want but the delivery doesn't have to include venom and spite. Cos there's one thing that's certainly not attractive and that's a disgusting attitude "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whatever people opinions there's one thing this thread has really exposed - the absolutely disgusting rudeness of some posters. You can have any thought you want but the delivery doesn't have to include venom and spite. Cos there's one thing that's certainly not attractive and that's a disgusting attitude

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