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I don't believe everyone is honest

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

About their age ... some profile pictures just don't add up to the age ...

Or am I wrong ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure plenty of people are lying about their age. I am, but I just made myself a bit older because I don't like filling in my real date of birth on websites.

I don't really care if people lie, so long as their photos are recent and accurate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm actually 45 year old, with the head of a 22 year old... and the body of a 22 year old!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure plenty do, to get around filters or purely for vanity reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"About their age ... some profile pictures just don't add up to the age ...

Or am I wrong ??

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Not just you at all!! Seen a couple of pics recently and they look at least 10 years older than their profile says.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I don't see the point in lying about my age. I really don't see how it achieves anything.

I actually came across a profile somewhere (can't remember if it was on fab or another site) where a woman had set up a profile with an age of 32 - and then admitted in profile text that she was, in fact, 63.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Of course they do. For various reasons. I'm actually still in my thirties but I like being told I don't look my age (I'm not but I don't reckon anyone would bat an eyelid or even care if I shaved a few months off).

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By *heRealMccoyMan
over a year ago

london

I've already had someone lie lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If they lie about one thing ... then maybe they lie about other things too ?? Guess it's a risk you have to take ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My age is right, the month and day aren't.

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By *heRealMccoyMan
over a year ago

london


"About their age ... some profile pictures just don't add up to the age ...

Or am I wrong ??

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You can tell a lot from someone's hands !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there are quite a few men on here who turn the clock back once they reach 50 but as long as the pics match the age ..who cares lol ..they are only kidding themselves

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By *andeCouple
over a year ago

Bognor area


"About their age ... some profile pictures just don't add up to the age ...

Or am I wrong ??

Not just you at all!! Seen a couple of pics recently and they look at least 10 years older than their profile says. "

Same - shame really as we were getting on great chatting to them

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I'm not sure lying about one's age is quite as heinous as lying about being single, but either is a no no. But as we know, everyone does lie sometimes.

Of course, I am honest about my age. Who would lie about being nearly 50?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm considering shaving 5/6 years off IRL tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm considering shaving 5/6 years off IRL tbh."

I wish

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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My age is real,

The most resent pic is a face pic from boxing day taken at around 4am after a long day drinking My oldest pic is from 2 years ago but its set to private,

I was going to say I have seen loads of pictures where their age doesn't match their picture, But if you seen me you would say the same

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

You mean I don't look 21

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there was no age filter, there'd be little reason for lying about age. My age is wrong, and tbh that's purely so I could contact a certain member who's age range I was otherwise outside of lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am completely honest about my age and even include that I'm an olde fucker in my username. Ancient and proud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If there was no age filter, there'd be little reason for lying about age. My age is wrong, and tbh that's purely so I could contact a certain member who's age range I was otherwise outside of lol"

Age filters are bollocks. A number of women have got in touch with me despite me being outside their age range and stated preferences

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By * Kiwis and a BananaMan
over a year ago

Part of your 5 a day

Well I'm actually my age been told I look older.

Was considering changing my age as a few years won't hurt but judging by this thread it looks like a bad move

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People lie on here about lots of things, not just their age. I don't trust anyone to be honest in real life, let alone strangers on an internet site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, you're right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You mean I don't look 21 "

21!!! You told me you were 19.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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I've not lied about my age

Maybe some other things

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

I lie about my age

I admit it

If people don't like the pics then we don't meet

Simples

Xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People lie on here about lots of things, not just their age. I don't trust anyone to be honest in real life, let alone strangers on an internet site."

Good idea - my age and marital status are the only things I'm truthful about on here the rest of what I say on the forum is bollocks

I'm truthful in PMs though

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"You mean I don't look 21

21!!! You told me you were 19."

Shhhhh I'm trying to get the older women on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I must be the only ejit who hasn't lied about anything

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"You mean I don't look 21

21!!! You told me you were 19.

Shhhhh I'm trying to get the older women on here "

Far too young for me. I'm nearly twice your age!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some ladies I chat to here don't look as old as they say they are, I guess that's a good thing though

My age is accurate, although I'm often told I look younger than I am

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Of course people will lie about their age. I don't really believe many put their real age but it doesn't affect me.

I wanted to pretend I was 21 but I thought I couldn't be arsed and it wouldn't be that believable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must be the only ejit who hasn't lied about anything "

You can always start over

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"You mean I don't look 21

21!!! You told me you were 19.

Shhhhh I'm trying to get the older women on here

Far too young for me. I'm nearly twice your age!"

God damn it. You just can't win on here

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?


"I must be the only ejit who hasn't lied about anything "

Correct age on here for me. No point hiding how good I look for my age

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I must be the only ejit who hasn't lied about anything "

Nope... another one here.

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By * Kiwis and a BananaMan
over a year ago

Part of your 5 a day


"Of course people will lie about their age. I don't really believe many put their real age but it doesn't affect me.

I wanted to pretend I was 21 but I thought I couldn't be arsed and it wouldn't be that believable. "

I would believe it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never felt the need to lie about how old I am but lots of men message saying they are in their 40,s yet profile say 30,s and when I ask why they say because people won't meet them other wise....sad they lie

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo


"I must be the only ejit who hasn't lied about anything "

Well, I must be an ejit too then ...

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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The only lie on mine is the post code I use, But I do say on my profile that am not from that area, I don't want to show up in the area I live

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must be the only ejit who hasn't lied about anything

Nope... another one here. "

And another!

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"The only lie on mine is the post code I use, But I do say on my profile that am not from that area, I don't want to show up in the area I live "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To quote the great Han Solo......"it's true, all of it"

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

I'm honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's the point?

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"What's the point?"

I take it you've never owned a compass then

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By *corpio67Man
over a year ago

hillingdon

My best friend is the grim reaper

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when i meet women i usually cut them in half and count the rings to see if their real age matches what they put on their profiles. if it doesn't i shrug my shoulders as it's not that surprising really and then just sleep with them anyhow, well, with the two halves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The older I get the more I wish I had lied about my age!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"About their age ... some profile pictures just don't add up to the age ...

Or am I wrong ??

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Yep, most guys we've met have shaved a few years off their age. In fact I've now made it a bit of a joke where I make a point of asking their real age when we meet.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never seen the reason to lie about anything on my profile but can see why some do my age status and being a smoker not what people are looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the point?

I take it you've never owned a compass then "

No wonder I got lost...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really mind what people say.. I take most things with a pinch of salt. Let's be honest. We all look at the pictures. A lot of people aren't here for anything more than sex. So really attraction is all that's needed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And another one , everything is the truth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope I'm exactly as my age states

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, we've found guys, take about 10 years off their actual age

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

I have to put my real age too (1971).

Tried to put 17 because I think that's how young I think I look like (ahem), but it's a bit too young for this site

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Lol - I've met people who've lied about their age by as much as 10 years.

The *last* one was a guy who billed himself as 27 and sent me a (not unpleasant) mug-shot of him wearing a retro Atari t-shirt.

Which is my generation.

BUSTED!!!

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(the joke was that I told him to eff off but the morning after the Trump victory I was in such a foul mood I rang him up and took it out on his arse)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"About their age ... some profile pictures just don't add up to the age ...

Or am I wrong ??

"

Often happens after someone changes their age to get round another persons filters. They don't realize they can only change it once, so they're stuck with it.

I helpfully report them to admin...

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

@ _iamondjoe.

Atari ??...that was like early 80s right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"About their age ... some profile pictures just don't add up to the age ...

Or am I wrong ??

Often happens after someone changes their age to get round another persons filters. They don't realize they can only change it once, so they're stuck with it.

I helpfully report them to admin..."

I was unaware of that... interesting what you find out

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"@ _iamondjoe.

Atari ??...that was like early 80s right? "

Atari's like, I dunno, on the edges of my memory - I had an Amiga but it's around that time.

It's not a 90s ref.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes. Was unfortunate enough to meet one who lied terribly about his age.... And his physique... And his height...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people lie

Mind blown

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't see the point In lying of my age on here lol body and head of an 18 year old lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guess my age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" people lie

Mind blown "

I know! Who knew?!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Some people age faster than others, that's often a reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guess my age "

Can't see a face pic. A body can be deceptive

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Some people age faster than others, that's often a reason."

What?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"@ _iamondjoe.

Atari ??...that was like early 80s right? "

Early 90s. I had an Atari ST, was my first gaming computer (soon joined by a Sega Mega Drive).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people age faster than others, that's often a reason."

They also lie about their age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guess my age "

Legal?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people age faster than others, that's often a reason.

What? "

For some people a year only has 10 months so they age faster. It's really quite sad, actually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 48.no point lying.folk will suss ya on a meet

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By * Kiwis and a BananaMan
over a year ago

Part of your 5 a day


"Oh yes. Was unfortunate enough to meet one who lied terribly about his age.... And his physique... And his height... "

LOL did you get far enough to see if he lied about his dick size too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"@ _iamondjoe.

Atari ??...that was like early 80s right?

Early 90s. I had an Atari ST, was my first gaming computer (soon joined by a Sega Mega Drive)."

I've still got my Sega Mega Drive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is just a number, is shaved a little off mine and I still get told I don't look my age

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Nobody lies about being 60...except someone who's 70 I suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've shaved not is shaved, damn auto correct

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Some people age faster than others, that's often a reason.

What?

For some people a year only has 10 months so they age faster. It's really quite sad, actually. "

I'm a tired aspie and I can't work out if this is humour or not.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"Some people age faster than others, that's often a reason.

What?

For some people a year only has 10 months so they age faster. It's really quite sad, actually. "

Jeez, I just did the maths on that. It would make me nearly 50.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people age faster than others, that's often a reason.

What?

For some people a year only has 10 months so they age faster. It's really quite sad, actually.

I'm a tired aspie and I can't work out if this is humour or not. "

Yes..very poor humor. Just ignore it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh yes. Was unfortunate enough to meet one who lied terribly about his age.... And his physique... And his height...

LOL did you get far enough to see if he lied about his dick size too? "

Did I buggery! I left straight away .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people age faster than others, that's often a reason.

What?

For some people a year only has 10 months so they age faster. It's really quite sad, actually.

Jeez, I just did the maths on that. It would make me nearly 50. "

So are you lying on your profile or are you one of the lucky 12-monthers?

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"Some people age faster than others, that's often a reason.

What?

For some people a year only has 10 months so they age faster. It's really quite sad, actually.

Jeez, I just did the maths on that. It would make me nearly 50.

So are you lying on your profile or are you one of the lucky 12-monthers? "

You tell me. You've seen a few non-public pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. No fibs here. Totally 57 but with good genes and proper skin care I can shave at least 10 years off. Don't want to though...

Face pics available by PM as proof but only if you're prepared to agree with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope. No fibs here. Totally 57 but with good genes and proper skin care I can shave at least 10 years off. Don't want to though...

Face pics available by PM as proof but only if you're prepared to agree with me. "

Hello stranger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people age faster than others, that's often a reason.

What?

For some people a year only has 10 months so they age faster. It's really quite sad, actually.

Jeez, I just did the maths on that. It would make me nearly 50.

So are you lying on your profile or are you one of the lucky 12-monthers?

You tell me. You've seen a few non-public pics. "

If I answered that honestly I'd be accused of blowing smoke up your ass, so I'll just say I hope you had a good 40th

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope. No fibs here. Totally 57 but with good genes and proper skin care I can shave at least 10 years off. Don't want to though...

Face pics available by PM as proof but only if you're prepared to agree with me.

Hello stranger "

Hello yourself!!! Where you been hiding you sexy beast? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope. No fibs here. Totally 57 but with good genes and proper skin care I can shave at least 10 years off. Don't want to though...

Face pics available by PM as proof but only if you're prepared to agree with me.

Hello stranger

Hello yourself!!! Where you been hiding you sexy beast? X "

I had a fabbatical but I'm back with avenegeance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't admit my chronological age to anyone or in any public forum except to people who know me very well-- family, close friends. The reason for this is that I actually do look, feel, and have the energy and playfulness of a younger person-- thanks to genetics, diet, and exercise (but of course more wisdom ). Instead, I list my "true spirit age". Moreover, I socialize with people far younger than me. Otherwise, completely honest and open.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope. No fibs here. Totally 57 but with good genes and proper skin care I can shave at least 10 years off. Don't want to though...

Face pics available by PM as proof but only if you're prepared to agree with me.

Hello stranger

Hello yourself!!! Where you been hiding you sexy beast? X

I had a fabbatical but I'm back with avenegeance "

Scary...yet breathtakingly exhilarating!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who would lie about being nearly 50?"

I would be lying if I said I was nearly 50 but not quite ready to admit to nearly 60... Maybe next year I will have to grasp that nettle.

Don't really get why people would move age by more than a few months to avoid DOB on file, if you ever do meet then you are what you are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't admit my chronological age to anyone or in any public forum except to people who know me very well-- family, close friends. The reason for this is that I actually do look, feel, and have the energy and playfulness of a younger person-- thanks to genetics, diet, and exercise (but of course more wisdom ). Instead, I list my "true spirit age". Moreover, I socialize with people far younger than me. Otherwise, completely honest and open. "

I genuinely do not understand this mentality if I'm honest. If I arrange to meet someone, I like to meet someone who is the age they say they are. I do find it deceptive. I have age filters for a reason. If someone can lirle about something as basic as age, I wonder what else they could lie about. I know I don't exactly look my age, but I own it, regardless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't admit my chronological age to anyone or in any public forum except to people who know me very well-- family, close friends. The reason for this is that I actually do look, feel, and have the energy and playfulness of a younger person-- thanks to genetics, diet, and exercise (but of course more wisdom ). Instead, I list my "true spirit age". Moreover, I socialize with people far younger than me. Otherwise, completely honest and open.

I genuinely do not understand this mentality if I'm honest. If I arrange to meet someone, I like to meet someone who is the age they say they are. I do find it deceptive. I have age filters for a reason. If someone can lirle about something as basic as age, I wonder what else they could lie about. I know I don't exactly look my age, but I own it, regardless. "

Lie*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't admit my chronological age to anyone or in any public forum except to people who know me very well-- family, close friends. The reason for this is that I actually do look, feel, and have the energy and playfulness of a younger person-- thanks to genetics, diet, and exercise (but of course more wisdom ). Instead, I list my "true spirit age". Moreover, I socialize with people far younger than me. Otherwise, completely honest and open. "

Oddly enough my "true spirit age" is the same as my chronological age. Whooda thought?

I'm 57. How old I look, feel or act is inconsequential. Pretending I'm a young thing won't work and rather than deceive others I'd really only be kidding myself. I choose to celebrate it.

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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago

A world all of his own

I saw a woman in the chat rooms a while back openly admit that she was 10 years older than her profile age. 10 years is quite a lot!

As for me, nope, my age is my actual age and my DOB on my profile is exactly as it is in real life. Really don't see the point in lying about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I saw a woman in the chat rooms a while back openly admit that she was 10 years older than her profile age. 10 years is quite a lot!

As for me, nope, my age is my actual age and my DOB on my profile is exactly as it is in real life. Really don't see the point in lying about it. "

I'll be getting my telegram from the Queen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't admit my chronological age to anyone or in any public forum except to people who know me very well-- family, close friends. The reason for this is that I actually do look, feel, and have the energy and playfulness of a younger person-- thanks to genetics, diet, and exercise (but of course more wisdom ). Instead, I list my "true spirit age". Moreover, I socialize with people far younger than me. Otherwise, completely honest and open.

Oddly enough my "true spirit age" is the same as my chronological age. Whooda thought?

I'm 57. How old I look, feel or act is inconsequential. Pretending I'm a young thing won't work and rather than deceive others I'd really only be kidding myself. I choose to celebrate it. "

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Nope, we've found guys, take about 10 years off their actual age "

If I shave ma goatee off I have to provide ID before I go into a pub nowadays

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

My age is the correct one on my profile

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

Most amusing ive seen are two ladies supposedly in their early fifties who are clearly pensioners!

Needless to say - they still get meets because they have vaginas!

Also been sent messages by a 35 year old guy who was clearly in his fifties!

I can understand a few years up or down - but taking decades off is just ludicrous!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most amusing ive seen are two ladies supposedly in their early fifties who are clearly pensioners!

Needless to say - they still get meets because they have vaginas!

Also been sent messages by a 35 year old guy who was clearly in his fifties!

I can understand a few years up or down - but taking decades off is just ludicrous! "

I fucking want to be getting sex in my 60s. I bet you will too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most amusing ive seen are two ladies supposedly in their early fifties who are clearly pensioners!

Needless to say - they still get meets because they have vaginas!

Also been sent messages by a 35 year old guy who was clearly in his fifties!

I can understand a few years up or down - but taking decades off is just ludicrous! "

The only things I shave off are a few pubes on my cock and balls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people age faster than others, that's often a reason.

What?

For some people a year only has 10 months so they age faster. It's really quite sad, actually.

I'm a tired aspie and I can't work out if this is humour or not. "

The alternative is to wonder as the alternative so just go with it

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"The only things I shave off are a few pubes on my cock and balls "

Don't worry about that bro, we use different tootbrushes anyway don't we

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only things I shave off are a few pubes on my cock and balls

Don't worry about that bro, we use different tootbrushes anyway don't we "

Aye but I use yours to clean my butthole

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

My age is real my name not so much.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"The only things I shave off are a few pubes on my cock and balls

Don't worry about that bro, we use different tootbrushes anyway don't we

Aye but I use yours to clean my butthole "

Well I'm not telling you what the dog uses to indicate that he has worms then

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By *ong legs n LingeireWoman
over a year ago

it up to me neck. :-)

100% honest here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only things I shave off are a few pubes on my cock and balls

Don't worry about that bro, we use different tootbrushes anyway don't we

Aye but I use yours to clean my butthole

Well I'm not telling you what the dog uses to indicate that he has worms then "

Who do you think gave them to him?

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I know someone who's rejoined like 3 times and is now nearly 10 years younger than when they started, which is proof-positive of the beneficial effects of sexual frustration.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"The only things I shave off are a few pubes on my cock and balls

Don't worry about that bro, we use different tootbrushes anyway don't we

Aye but I use yours to clean my butthole

Well I'm not telling you what the dog uses to indicate that he has worms then

Who do you think gave them to him? "

Yer obviously applying the cream in the wrong orifice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know someone who's rejoined like 3 times and is now nearly 10 years younger than when they started, which is proof-positive of the beneficial effects of sexual frustration."

I know a woman who used to brag on the forums about how good her blow jobs were, who took 10 years off her age.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Hilarious when someone has clearly lies about their digits.

Had considering knocking a year or two off just before I turned 40 but I've chosen to embrace it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know someone who's rejoined like 3 times and is now nearly 10 years younger than when they started, which is proof-positive of the beneficial effects of sexual frustration."

I know one of those too

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Hilarious when someone has clearly lies about their digits.

Had considering knocking a year or two off just before I turned 40 but I've chosen to embrace it "

I shall forever remain 54!

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London


"Most amusing ive seen are two ladies supposedly in their early fifties who are clearly pensioners!

Needless to say - they still get meets because they have vaginas!

Also been sent messages by a 35 year old guy who was clearly in his fifties!

I can understand a few years up or down - but taking decades off is just ludicrous! "

I thought you going to end that with:

"unfortunately he doesn't have a vagina"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh yes. Was unfortunate enough to meet one who lied terribly about his age.... And his physique... And his height... "

That's the worst!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh yes. Was unfortunate enough to meet one who lied terribly about his age.... And his physique... And his height...

That's the worst! "

Ugh ... how long do they think they can pull it off??

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Oh no !! weve told the truth are we in trouble ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh no !! weve told the truth are we in trouble ?? "

Yeah ... the right kind

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home

We are. No point to lie about age. Also we look good for early forties. Most people think we are early to mid thirties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My age is the only thing I didn't lie about on my profile, the rest is all lies

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home


"My age is the only thing I didn't lie about on my profile, the rest is all lies"

So you are

Gay

5ft

Fat

Smoker

With tattoos and piercings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have my true age on my profile can't see the point in lying.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My age is the only thing I didn't lie about on my profile, the rest is all lies

So you are

Gay

5ft

Fat

Smoker

With tattoos and piercings "

Lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My age is the only thing I didn't lie about on my profile, the rest is all lies

So you are

Gay

5ft

Fat

Smoker

With tattoos and piercings

Lmao "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see the point in telling lies. Truth usually comes out at some point.

I am my real age and not afraid of telling anyone.

Too many weird people on here to put my face pic or send it to a stranger straight away.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

We are honest about our age, dont see the point in lying about it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The people who say everyone tells them they look younger never actually look younger either, I remember one woman on the forums ages ago who'd shaved about ten years off because "everyone tells me I could pass for 40". She couldn't.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't see the point in telling lies. Truth usually comes out at some point.

I am my real age and not afraid of telling anyone.

Too many weird people on here to put my face pic or send it to a stranger straight away."

Now matter the age people still think they can lie and get away with it...

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"The people who say everyone tells them they look younger never actually look younger either, I remember one woman on the forums ages ago who'd shaved about ten years off because "everyone tells me I could pass for 40". She couldn't."

Everyone tells me I look younger. I think people are just generally shit at guessing ages; I know I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funny thing is I met up with a woman who says she is 27 and saw her pictures too. I met up with her and she looked about 57.

Was very upset. She was a smoker but still not worth telling lies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The people who say everyone tells them they look younger never actually look younger either, I remember one woman on the forums ages ago who'd shaved about ten years off because "everyone tells me I could pass for 40". She couldn't.

Everyone tells me I look younger. I think people are just generally shit at guessing ages; I know I am."

You are 15. What are you doing on this site?

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By *ambslass48Woman
over a year ago

Peterborough

I don't lie about anything don't see the point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My age is the only thing I didn't lie about on my profile, the rest is all lies

So you are

Gay

5ft

Fat

Smoker

With tattoos and piercings "

Pretty much yeah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's the point in lying as someone will always find out

Just be honest about yourself

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Honesty is rare nowadays

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home


"My age is the only thing I didn't lie about on my profile, the rest is all lies

So you are

Gay

5ft

Fat

Smoker

With tattoos and piercings

Pretty much yeah "

No beard and not fabulous

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By *obwithkiltMan
over a year ago

Belton

I'm my age... Regularly have to prove I am too as people don't believe me... They always think younger.... And long may this continue!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My age is the only thing I didn't lie about on my profile, the rest is all lies

So you are

Gay

5ft

Fat

Smoker

With tattoos and piercings

Pretty much yeah

No beard and not fabulous "

Nope, it is just a lure

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I think some men in particular have adjusted their age to comply with filters they've found and even discussed it in the forum. It probably doesn't achieve what they want it to do though. Perhaps we should have a profile flag where age has just been adjusted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A year or two out either way backed up by recent photos isn't a problem, I don't expect anyone to tell 100% truth all the time on the web.

My age & postcode are slightly out (because I don't want my actual details on here) I was tempted to knock a few more years off but would rather look good for my age...;-)

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

most men i have met dont but a few do, if they have pics that arent of them on their profile, look older than what they are when you meet them then its more likely they are dishonest people who will lie about anything. Funny thing is nobody they have met ever mentions these things in their verifications they leave. Myself included.

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By *urious couple22Couple
over a year ago

Derby

Erm am I the only one guilty of not looking at ages just the pictures the mr checked an age recently because the pic she sent she looked about 14 and her profile said 18....We decided the best thing to do was play it safe and use the block button

Our info is also correct... Didn't bother lying cause didn't think people actually read your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"About their age ... some profile pictures just don't add up to the age ...

Or am I wrong ??

You can tell a lot from someone's hands !"

My hands alone would probably age me by around 10 years so not always a conclusive indicator not sure if my hands are the way they are due to genetics or excema and excessive steroid cream use in the past

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know if the forum is a super honest bunch of people, or if it's those who tell a few porky pies on their profile are currently in hiding. But according to the thread everybody seems very against lying about their age, whereas our experience of the swing scene is that most of our meets lower their age by a few years. 10 years is a bit much, and it's a bit misleading to have significantly out of date photos. But a youthful 45 year old bringing his age down to 40 is not something we spend too much time worrying about - I mean it's only sex! And I understand why they do it - a younger age is more likely to get our attention. Some people have commented that these people will only get 'caught out'. How do people get caught out, short of showing ID prior to sex? Most people we know just say what their real age when asked. They are all people who play actively on the scene, and I don't get the impression that their slightly less than honest profile has ever come back to bite them. My advise is to take certain details of a profile with a pinch of salt, and but get to know the individual in person. I find most people are reasonably honest when you get to know them.

Mrs

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"Most amusing ive seen are two ladies supposedly in their early fifties who are clearly pensioners!

Needless to say - they still get meets because they have vaginas!

Also been sent messages by a 35 year old guy who was clearly in his fifties!

I can understand a few years up or down - but taking decades off is just ludicrous!

I fucking want to be getting sex in my 60s. I bet you will too. "

I certainly do! It was the fact that they were clearly lying by at least 20 years that I found amusing - not that they're still on here!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

The truth often comes out when you meet, it's surprising how often one references the past. People don't half look daft when it becomes obvious they've lied . Often it's obvious as soon as you see their face picture though.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

When you get to my age, you add a few years. The shock on people's faces is priceless.

How I love false compliments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't admit my chronological age to anyone or in any public forum except to people who know me very well-- family, close friends. The reason for this is that I actually do look, feel, and have the energy and playfulness of a younger person-- thanks to genetics, diet, and exercise (but of course more wisdom ). Instead, I list my "true spirit age". Moreover, I socialize with people far younger than me. Otherwise, completely honest and open.

I genuinely do not understand this mentality if I'm honest. If I arrange to meet someone, I like to meet someone who is the age they say they are. I do find it deceptive. I have age filters for a reason. If someone can lirle about something as basic as age, I wonder what else they could lie about. I know I don't exactly look my age, but I own it, regardless. "

Exactly. I'd hate to get to the point where I am ashamed of my age.

After all, what is that older blokes say regularly? Age is just a number?

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant


"About their age ... some profile pictures just don't add up to the age ...

Or am I wrong ??

"

Im totaly honest. Why lie? Im old

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Age is just a number until it stops you fucking the people you want so you alter it in the hope you'll be able to and your physical appearance on meetimg won't give away your real age too much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is just a number. So I'm honest. If people guess they normally go younger on my age so it surprises them. Filters do restrict and I've found at clubs I'll chat to everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It never occurred to me to have a 'fab age' and I genuinely can't get my head around those that do. If people don't want to meet a 42 year old woman then they won't want to meet me, that is absolutely their prerogative, I wouldn't want to dupe anyone or be duped.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm honest about my age, you'll see me level up in June.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

This is the internet. People wouldn't lie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im honest about my age on here.....however I have lied about my name....

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Im honest about my age on here.....however I have lied about my name.... "

What!? You mean that isn't your real name!? I'm shocked

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"About their age ... some profile pictures just don't add up to the age ...

Or am I wrong ??

"

Probably best to assume that everything you see online may be lies.

It is clear that when left to publish information without anone checking, humans will publish whatever they think suits them best at that time.

It would be lovely to think we are all honest.

We aren't.

Simple really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr is 50 and Mrs is 51 this year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know someone who's rejoined like 3 times and is now nearly 10 years younger than when they started, which is proof-positive of the beneficial effects of sexual frustration.

I know a woman who used to brag on the forums about how good her blow jobs were, who took 10 years off her age. "

Because she had no teeth?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im honest about my age on here.....however I have lied about my name....

What!? You mean that isn't your real name!? I'm shocked "

I know....it's unacceptable behaviour on here isn't it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope I'm exactly as my age states "

Likewise Birthday Buddy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why lie just be honest and open not everyone likes everyone and if lies are found out people might think was else has been lied about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just go with the flow

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Im honest about my age on here.....however I have lied about my name....

What!? You mean that isn't your real name!? I'm shocked

I know....it's unacceptable behaviour on here isn't it "

It is. I thought you were very posh what with being double barrelled and all. I feel let down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im honest about my age on here.....however I have lied about my name....

What!? You mean that isn't your real name!? I'm shocked

I know....it's unacceptable behaviour on here isn't it

It is. I thought you were very posh what with being double barrelled and all. I feel let down. "

Haha I'm still a posh girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't admit my chronological age to anyone or in any public forum except to people who know me very well-- family, close friends. The reason for this is that I actually do look, feel, and have the energy and playfulness of a younger person-- thanks to genetics, diet, and exercise (but of course more wisdom ). Instead, I list my "true spirit age". Moreover, I socialize with people far younger than me. Otherwise, completely honest and open. "

But you don't look your 'true spirit age'!

I display my true age, don't see the point in shaving even a few years off - and it will go up in a few days. Guys rarely believe I'm as old as I say, and that's fine with me

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea


"About their age ... some profile pictures just don't add up to the age ...

Or am I wrong ??

"

Yes you got me, i'm 40 really but put 55 as I get more meets lol.

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By *antsguy007Man
over a year ago

Whiteley


"I must be the only ejit who hasn't lied about anything "

Not an eejit at all - why lie about anything, truth will out in the end

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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'True spirit age'

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By *antsguy007Man
over a year ago

Whiteley


"I'm honest about my age, you'll see me level up in June. "

Same for me (next week )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't really mind what people say.. I take most things with a pinch of salt. Let's be honest. We all look at the pictures. A lot of people aren't here for anything more than sex. So really attraction is all that's needed. "

I fail to see why NSA sex has to come attached with dishonesty

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