FabSwingers.com forum: Question for the guys..

By *yldstyle OP Woman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I've noticed a lot more of the Neanderthal man style messages of late.

They usually only contain a few words that make no sense..

Does this tactic work?.

Also if I messaged you with a "suck u now" would you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've noticed a lot more of the Neanderthal man style messages of late.

They usually only contain a few words that make no sense..

Does this tactic work?.

Also if I messaged you with a "suck u now" would you? "

they would deny it on here but I bet they would seriously think about it

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I sent a 'fuck now?' text and was subsequently fucking within the hour so I guess that approach does work on some men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i don't know if it works, it's not a tactic i use. i can be straight to the point if needs be but not blunt or rude.

i've asked for meets in first messages and gotten them before now but they were all written with respect and a little thought.

and no...yer bloody miles away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never sent one. I'll give it a try and get back to you.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I think we should do an experiment... pick a man, send the 'suck you now' message and see what the response is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've noticed a lot more of the Neanderthal man style messages of late.

They usually only contain a few words that make no sense..

Does this tactic work?.

Also if I messaged you with a "suck u now" would you?

they would deny it on here but I bet they would seriously think about it

I'm not denying it - I would seriously think about it

Is it not the norm to get messages typed with fists? I get the impression most blokes on here are very lazy.

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By *yldstyle OP Woman
over a year ago

A world of my own

"I think we should do an experiment... pick a man, send the 'suck you now' message and see what the response is.

Oh lets all message the same one for fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think we should do an experiment... pick a man, send the 'suck you now' message and see what the response is.

I got one earlier. Now blocked.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"I've noticed a lot more of the Neanderthal man style messages of late.

They usually only contain a few words that make no sense..

Does this tactic work?.

Also if I messaged you with a "suck u now" would you? "

Yep

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By *ydrewMan
over a year ago

matlock

"I've noticed a lot more of the Neanderthal man style messages of late.

They usually only contain a few words that make no sense..

Does this tactic work?.

Also if I messaged you with a "suck u now" would you?

they would deny it on here but I bet they would seriously think about it

Would work for both of you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think we should do an experiment... pick a man, send the 'suck you now' message and see what the response is.

I'm down for that...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think we should do an experiment... pick a man, send the 'suck you now' message and see what the response is.

But do we actually have to go through with it? I'd have to put make up and proper clothes. And wash. Fuck it, I can't be arsed.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Never sent 1 don't think I'd know how but if anyone wants to try sending me 1 go for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The other one I get is 'suckable cock'.

To which I reply. 'Don't know, never managed to contort myself enough to do that.'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No and maybe. As with everything, it depends.

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By *yldstyle OP Woman
over a year ago

A world of my own

"I think we should do an experiment... pick a man, send the 'suck you now' message and see what the response is.

But do we actually have to go through with it? I'd have to put make up and proper clothes. And wash. Fuck it, I can't be arsed."

God no.. in line with the many insults I'm fussy and a time waster anyway!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think we should do an experiment... pick a man, send the 'suck you now' message and see what the response is.

But do we actually have to go through with it? I'd have to put make up and proper clothes. And wash. Fuck it, I can't be arsed.

God no.. in line with the many insults I'm fussy and a time waster anyway!

Phew. Ok I'm in

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I've had three positive responses, one 'you're having a laugh' type of comment and one that I can't decipher 'cause they are too much of an enigma.

So judging by that response, it works on some men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've noticed a lot more of the Neanderthal man style messages of late.

They usually only contain a few words that make no sense..

Does this tactic work?.

Also if I messaged you with a "suck u now" would you? "

I've been very polite in my profile..

Making lots of friends which is OK as I'm fairly new but plenty of deletes too without even a no!..

I Suppose a lot of men may think the knuckle dragging that is the way to go.. And maybe some women like that.

Eeeer... Yes? 99% would.. The other 1% are kidding themselves.

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By *yldstyle OP Woman
over a year ago

A world of my own

"I've noticed a lot more of the Neanderthal man style messages of late.

They usually only contain a few words that make no sense..

Does this tactic work?.

Also if I messaged you with a "suck u now" would you?

they would deny it on here but I bet they would seriously think about it

I'm not denying it - I would seriously think about it

Is it not the norm to get messages typed with fists? I get the impression most blokes on here are very lazy."

I think many are not just the blokes...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thing ain't going to suck itself ladies.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I think we should do an experiment... pick a man, send the 'suck you now' message and see what the response is.

Good idea, I'll do Lib.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on my mood and the person... I've fwb that I would but I don't think I would with someone I didn't know

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By *yldstyle OP Woman
over a year ago

A world of my own

"I've had three positive responses, one 'you're having a laugh' type of comment and one that I can't decipher 'cause they are too much of an enigma.

So judging by that response, it works on some men."

Oooh good work!

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Just because it would work on most men, doesn't mean it's acceptable to say to women.

A bit like "do you want to come to a car show".

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

Maybe with a little more detail

When and where

If I had a fwb and the timing was right then yeah why not

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"I think we should do an experiment... pick a man, send the 'suck you now' message and see what the response is.

But do we actually have to go through with it? I'd have to put make up and proper clothes. And wash. Fuck it, I can't be arsed.

God no.. in line with the many insults I'm fussy and a time waster anyway!

I'm on it!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

It worked, Lib. said yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think we should do an experiment... pick a man, send the 'suck you now' message and see what the response is.

But do we actually have to go through with it? I'd have to put make up and proper clothes. And wash. Fuck it, I can't be arsed."

Yeah and I ate too much at dinner so now I have a food baby. I'm not looking so hot!

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"It worked, Lib. said yes

Like he was ever gonna say no!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It'd depend who it was from. If it was someone I'd spoken to or someone who had a veri from someone I know, then I'd consider it.

From some random, probably not.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"It worked, Lib. said yes

Like he was ever gonna say no!!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"It'd depend who it was from. If it was someone I'd spoken to or someone who had a veri from someone I know, then I'd consider it.

From some random, probably not."

Suck you now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've noticed a lot more of the Neanderthal man style messages of late.

They usually only contain a few words that make no sense..

Does this tactic work?.

Also if I messaged you with a "suck u now" would you? "

If you lived close enough and could accommodate...yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a Welsh man I find the English language so very beautiful.

People should embrace and enjoy words

Messages should be thought out and well written

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Neanderthal Man - 10CC

www.youtube.com/watch?v=wiWu7Csn2HY

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By *yldstyle OP Woman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I'm thinking that really this needs to be more rewarding for us women.

May I suggest fu**ing, licking fingering or just kissing me now?

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

"As a Welsh man I find the English language so very beautiful.

People should embrace and enjoy words

Messages should be thought out and well written

Taff, Taff! wherefore art thou Taff

suck you now,

Is that any better ?

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"As a Welsh man I find the English language so very beautiful.

People should embrace and enjoy words

Messages should be thought out and well written

Taff, Taff! wherefore art thou Taff

suck you now,

Is that any better ?

Chuck a pretty please with a cherry on top and you're onto a winner!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm thinking that really this needs to be more rewarding for us women.

May I suggest fu**ing, licking fingering or just kissing me now? "

Suggest away. I think you already know my answer to that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It'd depend who it was from. If it was someone I'd spoken to or someone who had a veri from someone I know, then I'd consider it.

From some random, probably not.

Suck you now?"

I'm washing my hair....

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"It'd depend who it was from. If it was someone I'd spoken to or someone who had a veri from someone I know, then I'd consider it.

From some random, probably not.

Suck you now?

I'm washing my hair....

I'll not offer again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It'd depend who it was from. If it was someone I'd spoken to or someone who had a veri from someone I know, then I'd consider it.

From some random, probably not.

Suck you now?

I'm washing my hair....

I'll not offer again

You say that now.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"It'd depend who it was from. If it was someone I'd spoken to or someone who had a veri from someone I know, then I'd consider it.

From some random, probably not.

Suck you now?

I'm washing my hair....

I'll not offer again

You say that now."

It's here, in writing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It'd depend who it was from. If it was someone I'd spoken to or someone who had a veri from someone I know, then I'd consider it.

From some random, probably not.

Suck you now?

I'm washing my hair....

I'll offer again and again

You say that now.

It's here, in writing

So I see.

Now who changed that....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Receiving a message like that would make me think, but, I would probably turn it down as my preference is to meet people with at least a little intelligence.

I have sent crap one-line messages in the past. Being autistic, my brain shuts down whenever I try to write a message to someone I want to meet. I have sat in front of a blank screen for an hour trying to think of something other than "Hi, How are you?" with no success and walked away from the computer.

It may be that the guys sending these kinds of messages are mentally challenged (best way I can phrase it) and don't know how (or can't) to compose a more acceptable message.

For fun, google "How is babby formed" and look at the Yahoo answers link.

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

It depends who I might receive a Fancy a Fuck message from

In the right circumstances, one, two or three words are all that are necessary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm going to have to start a timewaster thread in a minute.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get the really long winded fancy a fuck now messages, makes me laugh if nothing else.

They go along the lines of:

"Hey Ms V, i'm currently sat here with my cock out beating away at myself and i noticed you were online. I appreciate you live 250 miles away but hey if you ever fancy climbing on top of my rock hard cock, give me a shout"

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"It'd depend who it was from. If it was someone I'd spoken to or someone who had a veri from someone I know, then I'd consider it.

From some random, probably not.

Suck you now?

I'm washing my hair....

I'll offer again and again

You say that now.

It's here, in writing

So I see.

Now who changed that....

You bugger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm going to have to start a timewaster thread in a minute."

You haven't got one yet? I've had three bjs already tonight from this thread

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I'm going to have to start a timewaster thread in a minute."

I didn't mean I'd do it tonight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm going to have to start a timewaster thread in a minute.

You haven't got one yet? I've had three bjs already tonight from this thread

Shhhh! You said you wouldn't tell or they'd all want one

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By *yldstyle OP Woman
over a year ago

A world of my own

"I get the really long winded fancy a fuck now messages, makes me laugh if nothing else.

They go along the lines of:

How are you not practically running to him??

I assume he also told you in detail what he would do and how you would absolutely love every moment ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm going to have to start a timewaster thread in a minute.

You haven't got one yet? I've had three bjs already tonight from this thread

Shhhh! You said you wouldn't tell or they'd all want one "

It was you. I didn't want you to fucking tell me. Why do you think I was blindfolded

. Just can't get the level of service these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It'd depend who it was from. If it was someone I'd spoken to or someone who had a veri from someone I know, then I'd consider it.

From some random, probably not.

Suck you now?

I'm washing my hair....

I'll offer again and again

You say that now.

It's here, in writing

So I see.

Now who changed that....

You bugger

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Hang about are we discussing private mail here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hang about are we discussing private mail here?

Snitches get stitches.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get the really long winded fancy a fuck now messages, makes me laugh if nothing else.

They go along the lines of:

How are you not practically running to him??

I assume he also told you in detail what he would do and how you would absolutely love every moment ...

yep he did!!

I had to hold myself back, i was that tempted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm going to have to start a timewaster thread in a minute.

You haven't got one yet? I've had three bjs already tonight from this thread

Shhhh! You said you wouldn't tell or they'd all want one

It was you. I didn't want you to fucking tell me. Why do you think I was blindfolded

. Just can't get the level of service these days

Shit, and I did such a good job of putting on a manly voice too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm going to have to start a timewaster thread in a minute.

You haven't got one yet? I've had three bjs already tonight from this thread

Shhhh! You said you wouldn't tell or they'd all want one

It was you. I didn't want you to fucking tell me. Why do you think I was blindfolded

. Just can't get the level of service these days

Shit, and I did such a good job of putting on a manly voice too!"

Blew it

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

I have sent this type of message, but only as a continuation of other playful messages, thankfully she said yes.

Would I if received such a message as a first point of contact, no.

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By *yldstyle OP Woman
over a year ago

A world of my own

"I have sent this type of message, but only as a continuation of other playful messages, thankfully she said yes.

Would I if received such a message as a first point of contact, no.

Shame.. fancy a....

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By *yldstyle OP Woman
over a year ago

A world of my own

"Hang about are we discussing private mail here?

Paraphrasing and it might actually get me some action

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By *ddit...Man
over a year ago

Land of the giants... ;-)

"I've noticed a lot more of the Neanderthal man style messages of late.

They usually only contain a few words that make no sense..

Does this tactic work?.

Also if I messaged you with a "suck u now" would you? "
haha... very fare point... x

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By *ddit...Man
over a year ago

Land of the giants... ;-)

"I think we should do an experiment... pick a man, send the 'suck you now' message and see what the response is.

Oh lets all message the same one for fun "
haha... very funny ladies... that's where all my messages came from...

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

I once left someone a veri that simply said 'Ug'!

Does that count as neanderthal and manly?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to get a message that said "suck you now" I'm a very simple creature! X

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

You could try the can I suck you now ... Don't forget to send a vag picture..you know you ladies need to make more of an effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had three positive responses, one 'you're having a laugh' type of comment and one that I can't decipher 'cause they are too much of an enigma.

So judging by that response, it works on some men."

Try me. I wonder what I'd say.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I've had three positive responses, one 'you're having a laugh' type of comment and one that I can't decipher 'cause they are too much of an enigma.

So judging by that response, it works on some men.

Try me. I wonder what I'd say.

When I next have ten minutes spare I will. That should be enough time for it all, shouldn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had three positive responses, one 'you're having a laugh' type of comment and one that I can't decipher 'cause they are too much of an enigma.

So judging by that response, it works on some men.

Try me. I wonder what I'd say.

When I next have ten minutes spare I will. That should be enough time for it all, shouldn't it? "

Ten minutes? All I needed was a few words. Bit too late in the night for me to read a small narrative. But, the thought itself has me weak at the knees.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

If it were a first message from someone I didn't know, and who didn't have a reasonable profile, I'd be reaching for the delete button regardless of gender, and have done so on the few messages of that type (all from men) that I have received.

If it were from someone I was already chatting to, it would get a response, but as I'm unable to meet spontaneously (as it says in my profile) it wouldn't maybe get the spontaneity the sender was looking for.

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By *yldstyle OP Woman
over a year ago

A world of my own

"You could try the can I suck you now ... Don't forget to send a vag picture..you know you ladies need to make more of an effort.

Mine resembles a ripped out fireplace but perhaps thats what men want??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've noticed a lot more of the Neanderthal man style messages of late.

They usually only contain a few words that make no sense..

Does this tactic work?.

Also if I messaged you with a "suck u now" would you? "

I don't send explicit or crude messages. However, I think I tend to go too far with the vanilla politeness and people get a bit bored. The person I'm messaging would have to start the naughtiness because I'm rubbish at picking up signals.

If I got a 'suck you now' I would think it was too good to be true and if from a 'stranger' would think it was a 'fake'

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"I've noticed a lot more of the Neanderthal man style messages of late.

They usually only contain a few words that make no sense..

Does this tactic work?.

Also if I messaged you with a "suck u now" would you? "

I've never sent a 'fuck now?' type of message, but the amount of times a well-crafted (in my opinion) personal message is read, and either ignored or straight delete, you do begin to wonder why you bother trying too hard

Would I respond to a 'suck you now'? Don't know

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

"As a Welsh man I find the English language so very beautiful.

People should embrace and enjoy words

Messages should be thought out and well written

Can be well-read and still enjoy using expletives

I know I do

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"I've noticed a lot more of the Neanderthal man style messages of late.

They usually only contain a few words that make no sense..

Does this tactic work?.

Also if I messaged you with a "suck u now" would you? "

To be fair to the Neanderthals, they were a very eloquent and demonstrative lot.

I think the sect of males you are referring to are those whose experience on here has led them to think that quantity has more value than quality.

Like those who rant endlessly about having messages ignored and how this is just awful, short curt messages are just part of being on this site.

Ignore them, react to them, do what you will, but if you don't value or like them, it is best to just ignore them and move on.

Better for you and saves clogging the forums up with the same shite day-in day-out.

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By *yldstyle OP Woman
over a year ago

A world of my own

Oh I don't know I think this thread has provided a few giggles

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Oh I don't know I think this thread has provided a few giggles "

It has. And I'll be sucking off someone soon hopefully as a result of this thread so I really don't think it's a typical moaning one. Thanks OP for helping me practise my oral skills.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely they don't get any lol. But yet again some females like it :/ I prefer talking first then seeing if there is chemistry

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By *yldstyle OP Woman
over a year ago

A world of my own

"Oh I don't know I think this thread has provided a few giggles

It has. And I'll be sucking off someone soon hopefully as a result of this thread so I really don't think it's a typical moaning one. Thanks OP for helping me practise my oral skills."

Yay!! Enjoy x

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over a year ago

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Oh I don't know I think this thread has provided a few giggles "

Lol, a fair point.

I do enjoy how very few people are ever guilty of what is offered up as anathema.

In fact they are usually violently against it and willing to offer themselves up as the shining (knight) example of just how amazing [insert chosen group here] actually are.

Obviously with no ulterior motive.

Obviously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a Welsh man I find the English language so very beautiful.

People should embrace and enjoy words

Messages should be thought out and well written

Can be well-read and still enjoy using expletives

I know I do

I do love a well timed expletive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"[Expletive removed by poster due to poor timing at 08/01/17 00:34:18]"

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"[Expletive removed by poster due to poor timing at 08/01/17 00:34:18]"

Fuckpig

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"[Expletive removed by poster due to poor timing at 08/01/17 00:34:18]"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"[Expletive removed by poster due to poor timing at 08/01/17 00:34:18]

Fuckpig"

*snorting and squealing heard from miles away *

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've noticed a lot more of the Neanderthal man style messages of late.

They usually only contain a few words that make no sense..

Does this tactic work?.

Also if I messaged you with a "suck u now" would you?

I don't need to think. Yes!

they would deny it on here but I bet they would seriously think about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had messages like that off "women" before that I've ignored. Within a day they have become UNLOS so I assume it was a bloke after material for the wank bank.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does work, but never tried it

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By *entguyukMan
over a year ago

Herne Bay

"I've noticed a lot more of the Neanderthal man style messages of late.

They usually only contain a few words that make no sense..

Does this tactic work?.

Also if I messaged you with a "suck u now" would you? "

Can't say I've tried the neanderthal messages, but can't imagine they would work

If YOU sent me that, I'd certainly struggle to say no

ha ha

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

the vale

If I received a fancy a fuck message from a single female I would probably think it was too good to be true

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

"I've noticed a lot more of the Neanderthal man style messages of late.

They usually only contain a few words that make no sense..

Does this tactic work?.

Also if I messaged you with a "suck u now" would you? "

Yeah I'm getting more and more like this. Apparently because most messages are deleted they don't feel the need to send a detailed message.

I've sent one of "I need my pussy licked " and he's appeared but tbf we had met previously and chat quite a bit on here.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...

"Hang about are we discussing private mail here?

Paraphrasing and it might actually get me some action

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I once left someone a veri that simply said 'Ug'!

Does that count as neanderthal and manly?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

TBH, this is nothing new and is a symptom of the dichotomy that is the effort / reward dynamic.

The majority don't want one liner messages, but also reserve the right to 'Instadelete' someones (and lets assume here) message that they have put some considered thought into. Now imagine you've done this 50 times, each time you get deleted (sometimes blocked as well) and you start to slide down the slope toward shorter, quicker messages (because there is no reward to writing a longer one) and so on and so forth. Eventually, it just gets to the one liner stage.

Now, before the 'Delete and Block' brigade get out the torches and pitchforks to defend their right to do so, I'm not saying its wrong - I'm saying that perhaps (some) of the lazy messaging is, at least in part, due to this.

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By *loria JamesTV/TS
over a year ago

Durham

"I think we should do an experiment... pick a man, send the 'suck you now' message and see what the response is.

He would think it was Christmas all over again.....and I think you all know what the response would be x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never done that

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By *ral DMan
over a year ago

Leicestershire

I always post a nice long purposefully wrote out message to who ever i am contacting, hasn't worked yet so i might adopt the "fuck me now" or "lets meet and fuck" style message to see if that works.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've noticed a lot more of the Neanderthal man style messages of late.

They usually only contain a few words that make no sense..

Does this tactic work?.

Also if I messaged you with a "suck u now" would you? "

I get messages like this from ladies (occasionally - probably fake) and couples (where there seems to be an expectation that I'd love to do something with/to the female half simply because I'm a man) and men.

I just delete them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've noticed a lot more of the Neanderthal man style messages of late.

They usually only contain a few words that make no sense..

Does this tactic work?.

Also if I messaged you with a "suck u now" would you? "

Does it work? Depends if there is a full moon!

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"TBH, this is nothing new and is a symptom of the dichotomy that is the effort / reward dynamic.

Totally agree

And this is the perfect reason behind making this a full 'pay only' site; overnight all the fakers and time wasters would disappear, leaving only genuine people as members, which in turn would make everyone's inbox far less busy, giving all those single females and couples much more time to read well-crafted messages

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"I think we should do an experiment... pick a man, send the 'suck you now' message and see what the response is.

He would think it was Christmas all over again.....and I think you all know what the response would be x"

And in your case; we need the option of a filter to include CD/TV , as you aren't classed as 'single men' when it comes to mail preferences. For those who don't know what you meant by 'we all know what the response would be' , it means you would be blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"TBH, this is nothing new and is a symptom of the dichotomy that is the effort / reward dynamic.

Totally agree

Have you ever used a site where people have to pay? I've used one in the past where men had to pay and it was absolutely riven with fakers and time wasters, as well as fake female profiles designed to extract more money from the men. There were far more fakes than on this site. If fakes and time wasters would disappear if they had to pay, then stop messages from everyone who isn't a site supporter and you'll not be troubled by them.

If I received fewer messages it still wouldn't make me fancy people I don't currently fancy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had three positive responses, one 'you're having a laugh' type of comment and one that I can't decipher 'cause they are too much of an enigma.

So judging by that response, it works on some men."

Was that random men or people on your friends list..

I think it makes a difference who you send it to

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I've had three positive responses, one 'you're having a laugh' type of comment and one that I can't decipher 'cause they are too much of an enigma.

So judging by that response, it works on some men.

Was that random men or people on your friends list..

I think it makes a difference who you send it to

Random men and one hotlisteej... but thanks for the acknowledgement of my desirability.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"TBH, this is nothing new and is a symptom of the dichotomy that is the effort / reward dynamic.

Totally agree

If I received fewer messages it still wouldn't make me fancy people I don't currently fancy."

I used a full pay site last year, and had 4 successful meets in 3 months, and still see a woman from there now. Private message me if you like, and we can see whether it was the same site?

The point I was trying to make about receiving fewer messages is, that you were more likely to give more time to genuine people, as I know how some women get to the 'sod it, bulk delete and start again' stage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"TBH, this is nothing new and is a symptom of the dichotomy that is the effort / reward dynamic.

Totally agree

If I received fewer messages it still wouldn't make me fancy people I don't currently fancy.

I used a full pay site last year, and had 4 successful meets in 3 months, and still see a woman from there now. Private message me if you like, and we can see whether it was the same site?

No it probably wasn't. I don't know about other women but I don't get many messages (filters) so if I don't want to reply to someone it's because I don't want to reply, regardless of what's in my inbox. It doesn't matter if they're "genuine" or not, if I can't be arsed then I can't be arsed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"TBH, this is nothing new and is a symptom of the dichotomy that is the effort / reward dynamic.

Totally agree

Sadly, making this a pay-only site wouldn't stop the 'fakes' - it just meas they feel they will look 'legit' because they have paid.

I bet if you did a straw poll, may users on here who have suffered at the hands of fake and timewasting profiles found that the culprits were also site members.

Ive yet to find the 'holy grail' solution - but a paywall isn't it.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

"I once left someone a veri that simply said 'Ug'!

Does that count as neanderthal and manly?

You know who it is!

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I once left someone a veri that simply said 'Ug'!

Does that count as neanderthal and manly?

You know who it is!

No idea

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Also if I messaged you with a suck u now" would you?

lol I'd think it was from a guy pretending to be a woman.

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