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By *iscreet Unicorn OP   Woman
over a year ago

Windsor-ish

Is it just me or is it happening more often just lately...people sending repeat friend invites or even invites without asking or even a "hello, how are you"

It really grinds my gears!

How about you lot?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeees. Give it a rest already. Said no the first time. Or guys who've messaged weeks ago now back asking if interested when already said no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of people, not just guys do not or cannot use the private notes function.

If a message gets deleted with no reply I tend to note that in there, stops me being a pest.

As for friend invites, I always ask first, but then I an strange like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i get this a lot people trying to add as a friend but never spoken. I don't delete the request ever, because if you do they will send another so just leave it sitting there in the request box

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By *ong legs n LingeireWoman
over a year ago

it up to me neck. :-)


"i get this a lot people trying to add as a friend but never spoken. I don't delete the request ever, because if you do they will send another so just leave it sitting there in the request box "

I do exactly the same. Stops repeat requests.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have loads but I just ignore them unless I've chatted loads.have been known to add if not online to have wee nosey before though

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

We get these too,sometimes i wait till the sender is offline ,accept the invite and look at their pics.If you leave the requests where they are ,they can't send them again.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just ignore them. Don't delete or they send another. They can just sit there for eternity.

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By *iscreet Unicorn OP   Woman
over a year ago

Windsor-ish


"i get this a lot people trying to add as a friend but never spoken. I don't delete the request ever, because if you do they will send another so just leave it sitting there in the request box "
ill have to remember that trick thanks. There is one person in particular we've had about 5/6 invites off him next time he's getting blocked.

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By *ong legs n LingeireWoman
over a year ago

it up to me neck. :-)


"We get these too,sometimes i wait till the sender is offline ,accept the invite and look at their pics.If you leave the requests where they are ,they can't send them again.

Miss"

He he, sneaky. Might try that.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

As said already it's not just blokes do it. I've loads they just sit in the grave yard rotting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't receive friend requests.

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

All the time. 3 messages but 35 friend invites. Find it very rude....

It's not difficult to strike up a conversation but just for a free perv is rude.

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By *ilary and DonaldCouple
over a year ago

chingford


"Is it just me or is it happening more often just lately...people sending repeat friend invites or even invites without asking or even a "hello, how are you"

It really grinds my gears!

How about you lot?"

We only look at friends invites when we are expecting a request, otherwise it's easily ignored.

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By *ilary and DonaldCouple
over a year ago

chingford


"I don't receive friend requests. "

Your mum sent us one.

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By *igga_manMan
over a year ago

near Reading

Totally agree. I'll get winks, I'll send a wink and/or message back. Without a reply to the message I'll get a friend request.

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By *ilary and DonaldCouple
over a year ago

chingford


"i get this a lot people trying to add as a friend but never spoken. I don't delete the request ever, because if you do they will send another so just leave it sitting there in the request box ill have to remember that trick thanks. There is one person in particular we've had about 5/6 invites off him next time he's getting blocked."

Yes just block, it's an easy way of stopping it if it bothers you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't receive friend requests.

Your mum sent us one. "

She's very free and easy like that.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"All the time. 3 messages but 35 friend invites. Find it very rude....

It's not difficult to strike up a conversation but just for a free perv is rude. "

Owerrr I really can't blame them for trying you look good enough to eat. Check your invites again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or is it happening more often just lately...people sending repeat friend invites or even invites without asking or even a "hello, how are you"

It really grinds my gears!

How about you lot?"

I've had 2! Both great! Accepted both .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would like the option to turn off the friend requests

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I don't receive friend requests.

Your mum sent us one.

She's very free and easy like that."

Like mother like sin then

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By *ilary and DonaldCouple
over a year ago

chingford


"I don't receive friend requests.

Your mum sent us one.

She's very free and easy like that.

Like mother like sin then "

Oh his mum definitely likes sin.

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"All the time. 3 messages but 35 friend invites. Find it very rude....

It's not difficult to strike up a conversation but just for a free perv is rude.

Owerrr I really can't blame them for trying you look good enough to eat. Check your invites again "

Haha why thank you! I shall take that as a lovely Saturday morning compliment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't receive friend requests.

Your mum sent us one.

She's very free and easy like that.

Like mother like sin then

Oh his mum definitely likes sin. "

My mum loves it.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I don't receive friend requests.

Your mum sent us one.

She's very free and easy like that.

Like mother like sin then

Oh his mum definitely likes sin. "

Haha I didn't even notice you gotta love my pervy phone

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"All the time. 3 messages but 35 friend invites. Find it very rude....

It's not difficult to strike up a conversation but just for a free perv is rude.

Owerrr I really can't blame them for trying you look good enough to eat. Check your invites again

Haha why thank you! I shall take that as a lovely Saturday morning compliment "

Good that's how it was ment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

But I ignore them ...don't clear them either ...nor clear my winks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Either block the sender, or leave the invite unanswered.

Simples, job done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope doesn't grind my gears, I rarely look at friend requests / winks. If I want to be friends I send the request to them.

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By *alphy187Man
over a year ago

cambridge

Also on the subject of Friends why do people you've chatted to accept requests then stop chatting and don't remove you and never reply.

I can understand accepting to view photos but why then stay as friends if you have no intention of replying!!

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By *illymint45Man
over a year ago

Cheshire

We only accept requests off people we have actually spoken to in person, we state this on our profile.

We assume random friends requests are from people who want access to the hidden pictures , it may be our loss as we may be missing out on genuinely nice and compatible couples but no one is accepted onto our friends list who we havent met face to face

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