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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not sure what can be done about this and I don't know if I can report him, but had a meet with a guy I have been chatting to on and off for months. Chatted on the phone once and agreed to meet. We were both horny and described what we wanted to do to each other. Upon meeting this guy I can only describe him as looking completely different. The only thing that was the same as the pics was the size of his cock which i got to see bulging through his shorts. Now he said he had lost weight in last few months but it looked nothing like him ( he had no dimples which he does in his pics) which don't suddenly disappear and why not post recent pics if your body has changed dramatically. I dont think it was him but can't prove it. Anything I can do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit late now you've already met him! What happened when you met him, what did you do?

Don't meet him again if you didn't like him and don't verify him if you don't believe he is the person in his profile pictures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why I have a 3 step rule..

1 - chat on fab and see if the connection is there.

2 - Phone, Cam and FaceTime, Skype or something were we can interact - I find you usually know if you will get on at this point and if the chemistry is there and no nasty surprises

3 - Social meet / interaction...if all that goes well and we leave wanting to take things further - then the rest is history...

Simples! x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well yes you assume people are genuine so you meet them of course. As soon as we met we kissed so I didn't get a good look at him then we sat down and began to chat that's when I realised he looked very different. Still had dark hair and tall but it took me by surprise. He didn't stay long as I think he realised I was uncomfortable. No response from my texts since so I blocked him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds rather bizarre!

Well you could just file it under waste of time of a meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We talked on the phone. I state on my profile I won't meet now unless Skype face time or cam. Shame that people are fake or at least have up to date pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree...

Something which I have learnt over several years of being on the scene.

Just trust your instincts and be careful.

Nice pics by the way x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I agree...

Something which I have learnt over several years of being on the scene.

Just trust your instincts and be careful.

Nice pics by the way x"

Yes I've been on here for over four years you think i would trust my gut instinct but I am a little too trusting obviously.

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree...

Something which I have learnt over several years of being on the scene.

Just trust your instincts and be careful.

Nice pics by the way x

Yes I've been on here for over four years you think i would trust my gut instinct but I am a little too trusting obviously.

Thank you "

Your welcome,

I'm sure there will be plenty more offers lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If his pics were fake or really out dated that sucks and I am sorry . If its lighting and angles well its important to remember we all like to put our best foot forward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing like a good camera!

Even make me look presentable lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If his pics were fake or really out dated that sucks and I am sorry . If its lighting and angles well its important to remember we all like to put our best foot forward "

Haha Thanks. Dimples can't disappear and the cheeky glint wasn't there which was evident in his pics but his voice was similar hmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing like a good camera!

Even make me look presentable lol "

Lol yes angles are my friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If his pics were fake or really out dated that sucks and I am sorry . If its lighting and angles well its important to remember we all like to put our best foot forward

Haha Thanks. Dimples can't disappear and the cheeky glint wasn't there which was evident in his pics but his voice was similar hmmm"

Did you like the person you actually met?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing like a good camera!

Even make me look presentable lol

Lol yes angles are my friend "

But you look good from every angle lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If his pics were fake or really out dated that sucks and I am sorry . If its lighting and angles well its important to remember we all like to put our best foot forward

Haha Thanks. Dimples can't disappear and the cheeky glint wasn't there which was evident in his pics but his voice was similar hmmm

Did you like the person you actually met?

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No he had lost alot of weight and looked gaunt. He said he'd been working out alot. Weird thing is that he said I might not fancy him when we meet which should have set the alarm bells but it didn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't give it too much thought.

It has happened to the best of us.

It happening, it was shit, you more on.

Live and learn x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I always move on but was looking for advice as to see if it's reportable or if anyone else has had similar meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The first person I met from here (years ago) was an easy 10 years older than her pictures, but we still had lunch and a laugh.

I'm sorry you were deceived, but I'm not sure facetime is the solution - I generally just send a candid face pic by via WhatsApp and ask them if they still want a piece.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always move on but was looking for advice as to see if it's reportable or if anyone else has had similar meets "

Lol don't know about reporting but has happened to me about 4 times...then I got wise lol!

No more chances haha.

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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago

A world all of his own


"If his pics were fake or really out dated that sucks and I am sorry . If its lighting and angles well its important to remember we all like to put our best foot forward

Haha Thanks. Dimples can't disappear and the cheeky glint wasn't there which was evident in his pics but his voice was similar hmmm

Did you like the person you actually met?

No he had lost alot of weight and looked gaunt. He said he'd been working out alot. Weird thing is that he said I might not fancy him when we meet which should have set the alarm bells but it didn't. "

And that's why I absolutely insist on a face to face (cam) chat of some description before I meet someone. My photos are only really of my face etc, they're not stupid jazzed up photos etc, but I still prefer to know that the other person knows that I'm, well, me as well as they are.

Sounds like you've had a bad experience, which is always a poo thing, but hopefully things will be better going forward

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The first person I met from here (years ago) was an easy 10 years older than her pictures, but we still had lunch and a laugh.

I'm sorry you were deceived, but I'm not sure facetime is the solution - I generally just send a candid face pic by via WhatsApp and ask them if they still want a piece."

Yes and if he had been honest he would have sent a recent pic. For me facetime or Skype is the only option.

Well you were a real gent to continue chatting with the lady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always move on but was looking for advice as to see if it's reportable or if anyone else has had similar meets "

I can't see how it is reportable, you met him, he said he had lost a lot of weight which would change his appearance. Also from what you have said when you met him you didn't fancy him, it just seems as if the spark wasn't there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If his pics were fake or really out dated that sucks and I am sorry . If its lighting and angles well its important to remember we all like to put our best foot forward

Haha Thanks. Dimples can't disappear and the cheeky glint wasn't there which was evident in his pics but his voice was similar hmmm

Did you like the person you actually met?

No he had lost alot of weight and looked gaunt. He said he'd been working out alot. Weird thing is that he said I might not fancy him when we meet which should have set the alarm bells but it didn't.

And that's why I absolutely insist on a face to face (cam) chat of some description before I meet someone. My photos are only really of my face etc, they're not stupid jazzed up photos etc, but I still prefer to know that the other person knows that I'm, well, me as well as they are.

Sounds like you've had a bad experience, which is always a poo thing, but hopefully things will be better going forward "

Thank you and thanks everyone x

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London


"I always move on but was looking for advice as to see if it's reportable or if anyone else has had similar meets

I can't see how it is reportable, you met him, he said he had lost a lot of weight which would change his appearance. Also from what you have said when you met him you didn't fancy him, it just seems as if the spark wasn't there."

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