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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Recently I've been told I'm too picky

Would you say you are a picky person when it comes to the opposite sex? Or anything in life for that matter?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really really really picky about who I meet off here, and who I'll be intimate with away from the site too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do believe that i have become too picky yes..

give me three options and im far better at making a choice... but give me a platform where i can choose from thousands and im shit :D

I know beggers cant be choosers as the saying goes,, but its certainly not easy with loads available.

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Really really really picky about who I meet off here, and who I'll be intimate with away from the site too."

Do you think you can be 'too' picky? Not you as such but in general

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, it is just a shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got told that the other day too, did point out that it's entirely up to me who I want to meet and that there are things I want, think I got blocked after that!

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"No, it is just a shag "

So you saying you just give sympathy shags?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Impossibly picky.

Free time is rare, so I want to make sure I make the most of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've become much more picky recently.

Its paying off. Ive met some great people lately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, it is just a shag

So you saying you just give sympathy shags? "
That is right too and variety is the spice of life lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep very picky. I put it on my profile so I'm pretty open about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not so much picky (although i have standards!), i'm more indecisive about what it is i want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm more picky then the picky people

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

The older I am getting the harder I am finding men attractive enough that I want to meet, if this carries on, I may as well just become celibate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really really really picky about who I meet off here, and who I'll be intimate with away from the site too.

Do you think you can be 'too' picky? Not you as such but in general "

Hmmm... sexually? No.

In general, I think if a person perhaps fixates on the small details in life then they may lose out on the bigger, beautiful picture.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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I'm unfairly fussy

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Oh yes im picky .. I social meet initially ....if I dont like or alarm bells start ringing .... I wont meet again .

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I'm pretty picky, but mostly I'm very specific in what I want at times and its impossible to find.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes very picky! There is people I don't want to indirectly shag so to speak.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I'm really picky with playmates,poor jack lol I rarely fancy the male half of a couple.

Miss

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I'm happy to meet just about anyone for a drink and chat, but I'm incredibly picky with who I take things further with. I know what I like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im picky too...ive learnt that life in general is way too short to be spent with the wrong people.x

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By *4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

N 42.709787, W -84.556222

We're not too picky, but we know what we do and don't want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Hmmm... sexually? No.

In general, I think if a person perhaps fixates on the small details in life then they may lose out on the bigger, beautiful picture."

Thats how i kinda see it too..

By no means would i settle for 2nd best for example.. but im rubbish with choices and sometimes because there is simply too much on offer i forget whats key.. and then disregard someone because of something that might be of no major relevance...

give me 5 guys and id have an easier time picking a decent one from that bunch rather than having 50

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Hmmm... sexually? No.

In general, I think if a person perhaps fixates on the small details in life then they may lose out on the bigger, beautiful picture.

Thats how i kinda see it too..

By no means would i settle for 2nd best for example.. but im rubbish with choices and sometimes because there is simply too much on offer i forget whats key.. and then disregard someone because of something that might be of no major relevance...

give me 5 guys and id have an easier time picking a decent one from that bunch rather than having 50"

Then just have all five

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I don't think I'm picky. I just know what I like and don't like. There's not a long list of requirements or of turn offs. Just certain things that are absolute no goes for me and definitely go theres.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as the chemistry, lust and physical attraction is there, I'm in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm unfairly fussy"

It's because your are an avengers fan

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

How many picky's is in the lead.

Yes, I am very very very very very picky, very picky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every can be broken, maybe not on social media but defo face to face or people you meet day to day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The older I am getting the harder I am finding men attractive enough that I want to meet, if this carries on, I may as well just become celibate "

I experience this on dating sites, which is why i linger on here i think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Recently I've been told I'm too picky

Would you say you are a picky person when it comes to the opposite sex? Or anything in life for that matter? "

No such thing as being "Too Picky/Choosey" in my personal opinion.

Someone or something is either what you desire or it isnt?

Simple really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think picky is the word. I don't have a checklist of requirements, I just know when I like someone or like them enough to have sex with them, and I can't really define what makes that.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"How many picky's is in the lead.

Yes, I am very very very very very picky, very picky. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There just has to be that mix of what makes me want to meet. I find there's very few on here, maybe 1 out of 100 that meet my inner list of requirements...

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

I think I'm too picky though. I could be like some off here with hundreds of verifications of how many met and shagged. I'm actually glad I am picky or if I met everyone that messaged me I would be rotten by now. I do think that being picky has it's pro's and cons but if I was to choose being the site bike or staying picky I would definitely choose picky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im very choosy and selective on who I meet from here, and the same rule applies in my real life too.

I've seen lots of profiles on this site where people aren't though, it makes me cringe.

My standards are high and I won't compromise on them, and luckily there are plenty of people on here who meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There just has to be that mix of what makes me want to meet. I find there's very few on here, maybe 1 out of 100 that meet my inner list of requirements..."

Yes but do you not feel that sometimes you are not attracted to someone but yet you still meet them and their personality changes your perception

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By *-angel-XWoman
over a year ago

hell

Gotta be picky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not picky. I say I'm particular.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not picky. I say I'm particular. "

Peculiar?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with being selective and picky. I certainly am.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I'm unfairly fussy

It's because your are an avengers fan"

Well yes and because I have to fancy someone to let them touch my vagina.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many picky's is in the lead.

Yes, I am very very very very very picky, very picky. "

stop it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I am too picky because I'll rule people out over the smallest thing so I'm not doing myself any favours. I could be missing out on somebody really special.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Picky and lazy - not sure how i ever meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's nothing wrong with that at all each to there own and everyone hads a different fancy

Which is good as it means I may have a chance :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some men I look at and think, no way, even without talking to them.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Breathing is a MUST ...is that being picky in honesty yeah i would say i am as there has to be that spark for me to get intimate with someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There just has to be that mix of what makes me want to meet. I find there's very few on here, maybe 1 out of 100 that meet my inner list of requirements...

Yes but do you not feel that sometimes you are not attracted to someone but yet you still meet them and their personality changes your perception "

Not really. I'd feel it was wasting everyone's time if I met up with someone I didn't find attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think picky is the word. I don't have a checklist of requirements, I just know when I like someone or like them enough to have sex with them, and I can't really define what makes that. "

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Picky and lazy - not sure how i ever meet "

You just forget to tuck your willy away and the girls come looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My brain is positively buzzing with all sorts of filthy fuckery, but it's not a free for all is it?

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

I think in the context said to the OP 'too picky' means 'didn't pick me'

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I think there's no such thing as 'too' picky... you like what you like and you shouldn't settle for less. Why would you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone told me I was picky, I'd question their reasoning.

I like what I like

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By *ary for funMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

99% of people on here seem to be "picky" from my own point of _iew (single male). Perfectly understandable,as in,in one way or another (myself included) there's often something that rings alarm bells...........mind you, that other 1% probably having the time (if not fun) of their lives . Aforementioned,I do wish the good people of Preston would be a bit more obliging,been trying for the past few days to set up some fun this Sat night up there,as staying over............perhaps need to contact those "swinging 1%"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Recently I've been told I'm too picky

Would you say you are a picky person when it comes to the opposite sex? Or anything in life for that matter? "

Of course I am picky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup, I will go through messages with friends around me and they sit laughing at me just going no nope no, some with additional comments

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By *ysnomiaMan
over a year ago

Preston

In the immortal words of Homer J Simpson "if all else fails...

...lower your standads."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Extremely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In the immortal words of Homer J Simpson "if all else fails...

...lower your standads.""

I'd rather just go without

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Recently I've been told I'm too picky

Would you say you are a picky person when it comes to the opposite sex? Or anything in life for that matter? "

Extremely picky. I have one shot at life and I want to live it as best as I can.

I know what I like and what I want, I will rarely settle for anything less.

Eve. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the site bike.

I'll let anyone fuck me

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

It's sensible to be picky and why does picky have a negative connotation anyway?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With guys, very much so.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I'm the site bike.

I'll let anyone fuck me "

Hi. I'm anyone...fancy a fuck?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not so much "picky"...I either fancy the pants off them or I don't. It's all down to "attraction".

Certain willy pics can be a bit of a turn off though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. And it doesn't take much to put me off someone.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Picky and proud here

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Exceedingly picky...

Social first and see if we click if not that's it.

It's probably why we have become friends with people we have met so more like fuck buddies in a way

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By *uperGuy68Man
over a year ago

Southampton

A pulse is always a bonus

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

Very picky. This is all about our fantasies so why compromise?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some people may be telling fibs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you say you are a picky person when it comes to the opposite sex?"

Oh, absolutely.

But it's about finding someone who makes me smile, sparks my imagination, turns me on and invades my thoughts.

I know some lovely, attractive, sexy people who don't do that. So yes, I'm very picky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely being picky really isn't a problem if you have plenty of choice, I think I'm overly picky bearing in mind I don't have a lot of choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i am very picky who i meet, then when i do meet them, they have to smell right, sound right and kiss right. any of those last aren't right then i will not play with them. I do say i may be on a sex site but i am not a prostitute which means i can be picky and choosy with whom i am incredibly intimate with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we are very picky we know what we want . Although it had been known tovarrange to meet someone and they are not like the pics I think as a couple rather than a single male we have more choice so can be picky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes we are very picky we know what we want . Although it had been known tovarrange to meet someone and they are not like the pics I think as a couple rather than a single male we have more choice so can be picky "

I'm still picky, just doesn't do me any favors.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Nothing wrong with being picky IMHO, especially on a site like this, know for a fact I'd rather take my time and be sure about wanting to meet someone than just jump at the first available opportunity that came along.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Terribly picky. They're either not my type or too good looking for me

Can never get a meet...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

very picky - but thats fine

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Picky, Yep, I don't apologise for that... Its a good thing (in my opinion anyway) to be,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Preference rather than picky. I just have a type. If they fit it and I fit theirs, it's all good .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've very particular about who I let into my panties. If men can't handle that, tough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm also very picky... It's my body an I ain't sharing it with any Joe blogs!! There's nothin wrong with being picky, just because we are on a swing site doesn't mean, we will shag anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm the site bike.

I'll let anyone fuck me

Hi. I'm anyone...fancy a fuck? "

Hey. Even I have limits

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By *ohnlauraCouple
over a year ago

wirral

How can anyone be too picky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really really really picky about who I meet off here, and who I'll be intimate with away from the site too.

Do you think you can be 'too' picky? Not you as such but in general "

Yeah. Bring single almost 8 years is a result of being too picky!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being* left handed typing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm unfairly fussy

It's because your are an avengers fan

Well yes and because I have to fancy someone to let them touch my vagina.

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Like putty these things are lol, I assume you fancy Thor

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

More picky about attitude and personality than looks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Recently I've been told I'm too picky

Would you say you are a picky person when it comes to the opposite sex? Or anything in life for that matter? "

Simple rule of thumb, if you are home alone on a friday night, too picky!

If you are bored with your company... not picky enough.

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