FabSwingers.com forum: How did your Ex become your Ex?

By *inaryGuy OP Man
over a year ago

Near the River

I was seeing a lovely girl for 3 mths when she invited me to meet her parents at their home for lunch.I couldn't believe her transformation into a rude, sarcastic spoilt, brat teenager to her parents. I had to sack her after that. She probably married a banker with the same temperament.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got cheated on while I was in the Falklands, 4 years gone down the drain but better off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was about to record some audio books and needed another male voice so reached out to a guy I knew years back. The three of us met up and went to the pub, then back to ours before I nodded off on the sofa

Soon after I got the old "it's not working out" after 4 years and a child together.

Then when I had my daughter one weekend she told me that Ex and Friend like to take their clothes off and cuddle in bed.

She'd been fucking him behind my back this entire time, even after I asked her to look me in the eye and say there was no one else.

I've never trusted her again.

*ps to that story, turns out he was a c*nt who then beat her up one night, and who was the first person she turned to for help?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not the last one - but the one before that( who I was married too) I came home from my friends after she had taken me for a birthday meal (and I'd stayed over) . Clearly came home earlier than my dear hubby expected as he was in bed with another woman

Mrs

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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By being a cunt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She wanted 2.4 kids, marriage, house etc. I dont. So It ended.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was seeing someone for 6 months and one day he was due to come to mine for the weekend. Spoke to him at 4.30 about our day and confirming what time he would be at mine. By 9.30 he had blocked me! Never did find out why!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She treated me like crap wouldn't let me go out even made it hard for me to work and NO SEX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine became extremely obsessive and hated me having friends. The day she locked me in my own home and tried pulling a knife on me because I wanted to see my friends that evening was the day it ended.

I say tried pulling a knife on me because as she reached for a knife in the drawer she pulled out a rubber spatula instead. Still makes me laugh hysterically now 7 years later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was seeing a lovely girl for 3 mths when she invited me to meet her parents at their home for lunch.I couldn't believe her transformation into a rude, sarcastic spoilt, brat teenager to her parents. I had to sack her after that. She probably married a banker with the same temperament."

She fucked my brother.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He was a self obsessed unemotional up his own arse selfish bastard who thought the world should revolve around him and his ridiculous opinions.

Anyone want his number? (Or his fab username )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"By being a cunt

The no1 reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She sent a text and ended it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ex husband cheated on me constantly for 10 years out of 13 year marriage.

Bf nr 1 dumped me because he was falling for me. Guess he got scared.

Bf nr 2 mutual agreeing to go separate ways. Friends say his mum had her hand in it.

Happier alone.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"By being a cunt

The no1 reason."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"By being a cunt

The no1 reason.

Usually ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Friends say his mum had her hand in it."

Had her hands in what? Sounds painful!

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By *inaryGuy OP Man
over a year ago

Near the River

As a teenager - mutual agreement because I supported West Ham and she Spurs and neither of us could bear it every Saturday. Shallow I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ex ran off at Christmas with someone he met at office Xmas party XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How did my ex become my ex?

Bath

Hairdryer.

New patio.

*taps nose

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

He was a cockwomble

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By *erdita Von TeaseWoman
over a year ago

nottingham

By me finding out the lying twat had been having an affair for 3 years....how did I find out? He took our 5 year old daughter to meet this other woman (who incidentally was clueless about me as he had lied to her telling her we were separated)

He actually then expected me to forgive him and still marry him (we were engaged at the time) I calmly explained I could no longer marry him as I'd sold my £4000 engagement ring for £1.00 on eBay and there was his half)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coz she was after more materialistically/financially than I could offer at the time.

So she jumped off for a bloke who had a boat moored in Portsmouth....who subsequently went bankrupt!

Where as I inherited quite well from a relative and manage to live mortgage free now.

Karma is my best friend ??

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By *inaryGuy OP Man
over a year ago

Near the River

"He was a cockwomble"

Sorry what's a cockwomble?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you wouldn't believe me if I told you but it involves high speed cars being chased by the cops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spent the last year of our relationship in denial; in spite of all the evidence that she was seeing other blokes while she and I worked away from home (in separate directions).

Horrid at the time and a bitter memory - but made me realise that monogamy wasn't for me and made me more accepting that "these things happen."

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Got dumped on a night out an hour after he told me he loved me and he was going to treat me that week...2 weeks later got blocked off face of earth and he had got together with a woman he went to school with...

What she doesn't know is that he still went to swinging clubs behind her back I just smile and wave

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"He was a cockwomble

Sorry what's a cockwomble?"

A polite word for cunt

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"He was a cockwomble

Sorry what's a cockwomble?

A polite word for cunt "

Pretty much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to think that in most cases it is because we have grown apart, reality is I'm pretty shit at relationships and not always the easiest person to be with.

But thankfully almost every break up has been devoid of the drama and subsequent animosity that seems to be the common theme on this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He had joined a dating site and was busy messaging 15 other women. He forgot to log out of chat so when i went online to do some banking all these messages pinged up.

His profile claimed to live with his parents but the thing i found unforgiveable was that he had put down he had no kids, whilst his 2 year old slept upstairs!. So he came home from work to find his clothes packed and on the doorstep waiting. I also messaged all the women notifying them what a lying tossbag of shite he was.

Two weeks later i discovered i was pregnant with second child. I decided not to have an abortion and he referred to our unborn child as a cunt. Any remaining feelings i had for him were killed stone dead right there.

I've been single since.

We do get on now though, but purely for the benefit of the children.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"I like to think that in most cases it is because we have grown apart, reality is I'm pretty shit at relationships and not always the easiest person to be with.

But thankfully almost every break up has been devoid of the drama and subsequent animosity that seems to be the common theme on this thread "

I'm still friends with both my long term partners who are now ex's because we grew apart...I was even trying to be nice to most recent ex but his response was don't be nice to me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because she's an absolute fucking nutter...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She found someone else. Also broke up with me over Facebook which I thought was harsh.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"She found someone else. Also broke up with me over Facebook which I thought was harsh. "

Harsh!!! That's horrendous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got tired of the passive-aggressive behaviour and promises never kept.

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By *ackStrakerMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"you wouldn't believe me if I told you but it involves high speed cars being chased by the cops

Are we talking Fast and Furious style

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine was at uni, started seeing each other less and less then she texted me out the blue saying it's not working which it wasn't then about a month later i see on her fb shes abroad with a new fella... I thought that was quick!

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

First one I got up and walked out

Second one, knock on door......

"Hi S"

"oh hi xxxx"

"my boyfriend is with your wife & they are currently round his house fucking, I caught them".

So drives down there together tells her not to come home & her clothes would be packed & in the garage by the end of the next day.

Mistake was the revenge sex, took me eighteen months to get shot of her..but live & learn...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mental abuse, one day I was strong enough to walk away and never went back.

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By *randmrsminxyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Loved to put me down in front of friends and hated it if i talked to woman.( even when shopping in asda a lady might ask me to reach down something of the higher shelf's ,she would go off the deep end and tell me its not my job) Final crunch came when i suggested we look at our sex life and maybe spice it up a bit ,she went of the deep end and called me a sick fuck. 8 YEARS on now a happy man with a woman that treats me right .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had different needs which weren't compatible. He's an extrovert who needs lots of interaction, I'm the opposite. There was sexual incompatibility also, which eventually killed my desire stone dead. There was little drama, it was mutual, and we still get on pretty well now. It took years for us both to admit that it just wouldn't work.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Way to many exs to list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines bit embarrassing tbh, I was seeing a women for 3 months and things was going great, but she kept on asking and asking me to move in, I kept saying no its to soon, and eventually she worn me down and I moved in after for months, we went away for a long weekend had a lovely time, anyway a week later we decided to book a holiday 2 weeks Costa brava all inclusive paid my part which was £750 plus £400 for keep/rent then on the Monday after she txt me while I was at work saying maybe it was such a great idea after all you moving in so soon can I ask my landlord if I can have my flat back

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

Bury them under the patio?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mental abuse, one day I was strong enough to walk away and never went back."
fair play mantle abuse is horrible, I had it of my step dad for 10yrs what an evil man he was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

K - my ex became my ex because he was a fat lazy asshole, who fucked up the business I had set up for us, because his 18 year old son didn't like being home alone while we worked. was with him almost 5 years and he wouldn't sign the divorce papers from his ex wife, because that would upset his son.

M's ex cheated on him with someone he thought was a best mate and she got pregnant.

Best things that happened to us as we ended up meeting each other and finding what we wanted all along in each other

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Well at least I got told it was the best sex and blow job he has ever had

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He was a self obsessed unemotional up his own arse selfish bastard who thought the world should revolve around him and his ridiculous opinions.

Anyone want his number? (Or his fab username )

Was it me? It sure sounds like me but i don't remember you....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She found someone else. Also broke up with me over Facebook which I thought was harsh.

Harsh!!! That's horrendous

Lucky escape for me I guess.

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By *ilary and DonaldCouple
over a year ago

chingford

"I was about to record some audio books and needed another male voice so reached out to a guy I knew years back. The three of us met up and went to the pub, then back to ours before I nodded off on the sofa

Soon after I got the old "it's not working out" after 4 years and a child together.

Then when I had my daughter one weekend she told me that Ex and Friend like to take their clothes off and cuddle in bed.

She'd been fucking him behind my back this entire time, even after I asked her to look me in the eye and say there was no one else.

I've never trusted her again.

*ps to that story, turns out he was a c*nt who then beat her up one night, and who was the first person she turned to for help?

Her mum ?

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

She used to invite guys over and have sex with them. Right in front of me. Didn't care that I saw it all

You asked what do you love about you're current partner right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

one because he made a load of dating profiles online while we were together, then lied and said they were old profiles. i just joined the same site and fucked loads off guys off it, then ended up on fab.

the one before that, LDR and we would never meet so i ended that.

before them, he online cheated on me, but emotionally, and i couldn't get over it. i'm over it now and we're friends still, he's at mine now actually -doing some jobs.

before him...docuhe ex. just everything about him was douche, good riddance to him. it was my first, and last, openly abusive relationship. i didn't really understand it, or him, but i knew i'd never 'fix' him and he wouldn't change so wrote him off as a waste of years and i wasn't planning on wasting any more.

before him, just got bored. he had mild mental health issues that made him unable to make any effort with anything much except going out for a drink on payday.

before him, he kissed someone else, proper snogging them, while he was out with me. i fucked everyone at work nearly after this, and we worked together.

anything before them was casual, nothing to end really as nothing properly started.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How? By me packing my bags and walking out the door.

Why? Nobody's business but ours.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"Way to many exs to list"

Me too, These were the other two I married

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Way to many exs to list

Me too, These were the other two I married

Married 1s and called the 2nd off a week before the day. Best 10 grand I ever wasted and luckiest escape of my life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shagging some useless tool while i was in iraq in 2006

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon

mostly just proving to not be compatible. sprogs dad took to knocking me around.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Depends which ex you're talking about really. Never been married though if that's any help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My last one, on the M4 driving home after work.

Text message received; "I've left you"

Arrive home to an empty house. Everything gone except the settee, telly and cats.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I finally got the courage to leave my abusive marriage.

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By *anderer8707Man
over a year ago

Telford

"I was seeing someone for 6 months and one day he was due to come to mine for the weekend. Spoke to him at 4.30 about our day and confirming what time he would be at mine. By 9.30 he had blocked me! Never did find out why! "

That's terrible! What a bastard. At least he should have given you the courtesy of an explanation.

The guys on here never cease to amaze me, and all for the wrong reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He was a self obsessed unemotional up his own arse selfish bastard who thought the world should revolve around him and his ridiculous opinions.

Anyone want his number? (Or his fab username )

Was it me? It sure sounds like me but i don't remember you...."

ROFL

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By *anderer8707Man
over a year ago

Telford

"Mental abuse, one day I was strong enough to walk away and never went back."

So glad you found the courage

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"My last one, on the M4 driving home after work.

Text message received; "I've left you"

Arrive home to an empty house. Everything gone except the settee, telly and cats."

I bet she didn't even bother to plump up the cushions either

Cow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"By being a cunt

WORD

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

That's terrible! What a bastard. At least he should have given you the courtesy of an explanation.

The guys on here never cease to amaze me, and all for the wrong reasons"

She never said she met him on here though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He bored me to fucking tears

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Decided I wasn't worth the effort I suppose.

He's still knocking about on fab though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blimey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He could not handle the fact my mum was dying and he had to be a grown up for a change and actually support me. So he left me for someone 15 years younger than himself.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"He bored me to fucking tears "

Can't be arsed to do 96 of them

96 Tears - The Stranglers

www.youtube.com/watch?v=hrU0YuJ47uA

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

For scribbling on my pencil case

That was gf no1 in '87

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How come no one is saying something nice about their ex

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

Which ex ? ... at my age you acquire a few.

Most of them we grew apart, weren't compatible (such is life) but the last serious one was an utter shit. I should have taken heed that even his long term friends called him 'Billy' as in liar. He lied either directly or by omission all the time ... you end up thinking you're going mad and the bastard let me believe that. His mother was a spiteful harpy - she mistakenly thought having wealth made her better than anyone else - and he was tied to her apron strings, probably because of the money.

He was crap at sex but wanted me to indulge *his* fetishes *all* the time, no thought to what I liked. And he conned me (and therefore my oldest child) out of enough money to have a significantly adverse effect on our future when I finally saw sense and left the bastard .....

.... and breathe. Thankfully my judgement is much better these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How come no one is saying something nice about their ex

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cus there ex's lol

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

I divorced 30 years ago, can't remember why but there must have been a reason.

The two short 'relationships' I've had since were ended by me as they were stagnant and pointless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't have any

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"For scribbling on my pencil case

That was gf no1 in '87

Did she take it up the shitter behind the bike sheds though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't have any

We seem to be the odd 2 out, and I'm quite happy about that...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How come no one is saying something nice about their ex

cus there ex's lol "

To be fair I'm the one to blame. I just don't like the commitment of a serious relationship. Still do miss some of the ex tho

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

- 1st One took to emotional blackmail and mental abuse.

However, I wasn't as weak as he thought I was and I got shot of him as soon as he raised his hand to me. Threw his arse out!

- 2nd One turned into a fat, selfish, lazy man-child - quit his job and took up permanent residence in front of either World Of Warrant or Call Of Duty, did absolutely nothing around the house, expected his Mum to cook all of his meals and just laid there like a fat sack of shit during sex.

He wasn't like that when we first got together and apparently he just thought I wouldn't leave him.

As we lived with his Mum I obviously packed my bags and left.

- Amy. x

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

"- 1st One took to emotional blackmail and mental abuse.

However, I wasn't as weak as he thought I was and I got shot of him as soon as he raised his hand to me. Threw his arse out!

He wasn't like that when we first got together and apparently he just thought I wouldn't leave him.

As we lived with his Mum I obviously packed my bags and left.

- Amy. x"

*World of Warcraft, fucking AutoCarrot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was too kind apparently nice and shit

She wanted a bad lad I tried being a bastard but it didn't work lol

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"How come no one is saying something nice about their ex

I've just come off the phone to my long term ex.....still a workaholic lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How come no one is saying something nice about their ex

I've just come off the phone to my long term ex.....still a workaholic lol

You're an angel

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"How come no one is saying something nice about their ex

Ok, Well the one that fucked someone else had undiagnosed bipolar and it was part of the illness to feel so shit about herself the only way she felt better was to try and take a guy from another woman.

Seventeen years later she's still married to the same guy. Because I booted her out she changed areas & changed doctors, First visit, diagnosed & treatment started soon after.

They now live 20 miles away & we are friends on FB & I have been on m/c rideouts with him.

As we both have said if it hadn't of happened she possibly wouldn't be around & I wouldn't have met H & have two great kids.

He did say I was a fucking idiot for going with his ex though, which I agreed with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He had a baby with his ex girlfriend then walked out on me to go play happy families with her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's terrible! What a bastard. At least he should have given you the courtesy of an explanation.

The guys on here never cease to amaze me, and all for the wrong reasons

She never said she met him on here though? "

No I didn't meet him in here although found after we had split that he had had a single profile running alongside our couples one!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arranged yesterday to see my fwb tonight. At 1pm today, he blocked me. After 11 months, it seems he didn't have the courage to just say, "it's not working; let's break up". Men can be such cowards.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Wow.

I don;t have these problems

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I married my childhood sweetheart. His family were millionaires. I had The Most Amazing Life until....

I couldn't give him kids, he became an alcoholic womaniser and one night decided to take his frustrations out on me. He broke my right arm in two places, two ribs, two black eyes and bruising to organs. I was just about to go for England trials too so obviously never made that

I divorced him and he died two years ago of an alcohol related disease. His second wife divorced him too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I married my childhood sweetheart. His family were millionaires. I had The Most Amazing Life until....

I divorced him and he died two years ago of an alcohol related disease. His second wife divorced him too!

Bloody hell thats awful! What an arsehole

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

"For scribbling on my pencil case

That was gf no1 in '87

Did she take it up the shitter behind the bike sheds though

No. That was the second reason

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

1 of my exs my daughters mum I get on really well with. We even have a business together. I can honestly say she's 1 of my best friends. Together we are just to similar so knock heads constantly but now we are apart we couldn't have a better relationship. Mind you if it wasn't for our daughter I dawt we would have put the effort in to get where we are.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...

"I married my childhood sweetheart. His family were millionaires. I had The Most Amazing Life until....

I divorced him and he died two years ago of an alcohol related disease. His second wife divorced him too!

Being a cunt

bloody cunty men

That's really shit

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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I have never been dumped? Stubborn bitch that I am likes to get in there first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have never been dumped? Stubborn bitch that I am likes to get in there first

Have you ever shouted "you can't dump me, because I'm dumping you!"

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By *ong legs n LingeireWoman
over a year ago

it up to me neck. :-)

Lack of trust!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was traded in for Barbie.

Turns out that he couldn't keep up with Barbies demands so Barbie traded him in for a fitter wealthier model.

I think it's called Karma.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two of them died on me

I pity the poor fella who asks me to marry him - it's like the kiss of death

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

Decieit, sham marriage and gold digger. I do know how to pick em

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Decieit, sham marriage and gold digger. I do know how to pick em

Your not alone. I've got to the point I don't trust my own judgment any more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Friends say his mum had her hand in it.

Had her hands in what? Sounds painful! "

It was lol

She grabbed him by the balls and he went running to her lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One beat the shit out of me.

The other decided instead of booking our holiday like planned he would book a lads holiday and subsequently cheat on me. Lie about it and also treat me like shite. Thats 4 years I aint getting back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Marriage ended because we grew apart, work took me away week in and week out.... were still good friends

Ex gf........ she was lovely and great fun, sadly she was as mad as a box of frogs and switched moods in seconds.... we ended it.

Happy to be single currently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Married for 20 years. He started working nights!! With a charming wren while on ship...He left to be with her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My most serious girlfriend was just ending her second year at York St John - an hour away, give or take - when we got together. We had a great summer together and when uni started again things carried on being good. When she moved back here after finishing her third year, we ended up living in each other's pockets, got bored and both started talking to new people though neither cheated & we decided to call it a day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently I was "too nice"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Decieit, sham marriage and gold digger. I do know how to pick em

This and when he'd taken everything found the grass wasn't greener at all.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With a meat cleaver

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My last one, on the M4 driving home after work.

Text message received; "I've left you"

Arrive home to an empty house. Everything gone except the settee, telly and cats.

I bet she didn't even bother to plump up the cushions either

Cow

I got the best of the deal TBH.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was married to an emotionally abusive control freak for 22 years. He cheated on me lots of times (only found out after) but he ended up having a thing with a girl young enough to be his daughter. I finally found the courage to ask him to leave. Best move I ever made x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I suggested swinging

perhaps too soon. I'm trying to find a more liberated lady now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She was a fucking lunatic. Very materialistic, extremely paranoid and jealous of everyone.

I'm not actually sure I can put on here what the final straw was for me but it was over the top to say the least!

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth

Ex hubby and I grew apart after having multiple miscarriages, the sex stopped, the cuddles stopped etc. We agreed that I could seek fulfilment elsewhere. What neither of us anticipated was me meeting someone and falling in love.

Six months after meeting him I packed my case, put my cats in carrying boxes and told him I was leaving him and moving in with shaggy.

Despite me doing the dirty on him we had an amicable divorce and we still speak very occasionally.

A year after I left him I married shaggy. Ex hubby got married in September and it's great to see him happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sad to read so many people's story about being unhappy in marriage/ relationship. Abuse. Cheating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My last one, on the M4 driving home after work.

Text message received; "I've left you"

Arrive home to an empty house. Everything gone except the settee, telly and cats."

Feeling sorry for you

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Me and my daughters father split up when he met someone else. We still get on fine. he feeds my cats for me when I am away.

The one after him however...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I said can't do this no more, it won't work, I don't love you. Goodbye. (Something along those lines anyway).

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By *ongtalljonMan
over a year ago

North Wales

We had a great sex life and she wanted to try dogging, threesomes and more.

She did indeed try all these, but forgot to invite me to the party.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I decided I wasn't gonna be scared anymore. Boom.

This strong independent woman emerged, sexier, more confident and more hilarious than ever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"By me finding out the lying twat had been having an affair for 3 years....how did I find out? He took our 5 year old daughter to meet this other woman (who incidentally was clueless about me as he had lied to her telling her we were separated)

What a total cock. Love what you did with the ring

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Am I the only 1 that gets along with at least 1 of my many exs

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Am I the only 1 that gets along with at least 1 of my many exs "

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hug and roll. Didn't come back when she fell out of bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He had joined a dating site and was busy messaging 15 other women. He forgot to log out of chat so when i went online to do some banking all these messages pinged up.

I've been single since.

We do get on now though, but purely for the benefit of the children.

What a shitbag. Good for you for kicking him out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am I the only 1 that gets along with at least 1 of my many exs "

I get on fine with my ex-husband now we're not married

We've done a pretty damn good job of co-parenting our 3 kids, with joint custody and we even still run a joint bank account into which we both pay the same amount every month for educational and medical expenses for the kids.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Am I the only 1 that gets along with at least 1 of my many exs

No."

Thank God for that. I'm not that strange then....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I finally got the courage to leave my abusive marriage.

Well done xx

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"I said can't do this no more, it won't work, I don't love you. Goodbye. (Something along those lines anyway)."

Pretty Much my first wife, married a biker, sold bikes, dinner round in laws every week (think Mrs bucket) learning golf with father on law once a fortnight. All while I:m thinking "wtf I could be at Bol for the 24hr or at a rally or on a rideout".

I'd made a deal when we got married, four years and then I get another bike, four years comes, she wants to move for the third time from a three bed semi to a four bed detached despite there only being me & her. Deal broken, no move, no bike, Six months later I gave up trying to be someone i'm not & walked out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I decided I wasn't gonna be scared anymore. Boom.

This strong independent woman emerged, sexier, more confident and more hilarious than ever.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Am I the only 1 that gets along with at least 1 of my many exs

I get on fine with my ex-husband now we're not married

Good God my ex wife worships the ground I'm going to. Would mind but we have been divorced 16 years and it was her did the dirty on me. It's a funny old world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am I the only 1 that gets along with at least 1 of my many exs

I get on fine with my ex-husband now we're not married

Good God my ex wife worships the ground I'm going to. Would mind but we have been divorced 16 years and it was her did the dirty on me. It's a funny old world

Oh we don't like each other, we're just adult enough to be civilised about it

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"How come no one is saying something nice about their ex

Because he wasn't a nice person. He mentally,serially,physicallyand financially abused me.

The only good thing to come out of my marriage was and is my children.

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By *obwithkiltMan
over a year ago

Belton

Ex wife.7yrs ago.. . "I love you but don't know how"..temporary split.... 3 months later current partner moved in..Hmmmm... We still get on, he's OK...have doubts on time lines.. So does my eldest.. But he makes her happy which in turn makes my girls happy and that's what matters to me.

Ex girlfriend.. Last one been together 4yrs..Actually saw each other in that time about 18mnths worth... Her kids were nightmare too.. Was beginning to make me ill with all the drama... Mutual decision to split.

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By *ike00465Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

Having sex and ex calls out her friends name' male friend who visits when am at work so that was it done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am I the only 1 that gets along with at least 1 of my many exs "

I get on fine with my ex, when he picks the kids up or brings them back I always stick the kettle on; he's even stayed one night as he was working local the following day so made it easier for him. We do have fallouts and he pisses me off sometimes, but were adult enough to work through them and still remain at a civilised level. It's been four years since we split.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

My three exes are my exes because I dumped them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because after a year together and planning to move in and start a family I found out he was engaged and had been for the last 3 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" ... Her kids were nightmare too.. Was beginning to make me ill with all the drama... Mutual decision to split.

This is what puts me off getting in a relationship now, because my kids are my kids, all raised the same and all completely different children.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No matter how much we wanted to be together, it couldn't work. We both agreed it had to end, and both had our hearts broken. An extremely difficult time but life moves on. I'll always have the happy memories.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yikes, some terrible tales on here. I want to hug some of you!

My ex is my ex because I wouldn't sleep with him and my best friend would. I was only 16 though and only agreed to be with him because he was driving me crazy. I was pretty happy when he chucked me.

Then I met Adam and the rest is history.

Eve. X

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Having sex and ex calls out her friends name' male friend who visits when am at work so that was it done "

Awch

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon

"Am I the only 1 that gets along with at least 1 of my many exs "

I tolerate my sprogs dad. though even struggling to do that at the moment. sleazy letchy gropey arsehole needs a good kicking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am I the only 1 that gets along with at least 1 of my many exs "

While we split cos I found him in bed with another woman we still get on and talk every now and then . Life's too short to hold a grudge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My last one, on the M4 driving home after work.

Text message received; "I've left you"

Arrive home to an empty house. Everything gone except the settee, telly and cats.

Feeling sorry for you "

Don't. I got got the best of the deal by a long way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am I the only 1 that gets along with at least 1 of my many exs "

Nope. I get on really well with most of mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By lying and cheating, plus a few more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont get me started but worst day of our lives was the turning point - things got better once he was an ex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am I the only 1 that gets along with at least 1 of my many exs

I get on fine with my ex-husband now we're not married

Fair play to you. My dear ex husband has stopped paying maintenance for his son. I am able to support and give my son everything he needs.

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By *ysnomiaMan
over a year ago

Preston

"How come no one is saying something nice about their ex

Are you reading the same thread title as the rest of us?

OK, here goes, Some of them from fucking other people, occasionally on both sides (so I'm not totally blame free myself or anything). There's been passive/agressive relationships too.

One of the latest ones was from alcoholism, she would just get d*unk and you could litterally see the moment she turned and would just become stupidly argumentative and arsey, leading to screming rows. It's a shame that I wasn't the kind of guy to tell her to wind her fuckin' neck in (but being to nice has always been my problem) a bit sooner, we could have had months less of having to put up with each other all round.

Reading so many posts makes me wonder if we should all be a support group for the fact that monogamy doesnt actually work all that well.

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By *obwithkiltMan
over a year ago

Belton

" ... Her kids were nightmare too.. Was beginning to make me ill with all the drama... Mutual decision to split.

This is what puts me off getting in a relationship now, because my kids are my kids, all raised the same and all completely different children."

It didn't put me off initially and she had 5...it suddenly dawned on me one day about 6 months ago that only one actually respected their mum in any way shape or form so I was never going to get anywhere, even though I got on with her kids and no matter how much I tried to help, negotiate, be vented at between them and her I was constantly fighting an uphill battle and at a loss of what to do or say..I still wished I could have done more

. we are still friends and I am still in contact with them all.. Some more than others..A couple contact me for help and advice with stuff and I do my best to help and say right thing, I always let mum know they have and she is happy that I will still talk to them when they need to talk to someone besides her.

All of this hasn't put me off a relationship with someone with children though, other circumstances also helped towards our split.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

still friendly with all of mine(apart from one,who also died fairly young a few years ago)...and I dont mean 'friendly'(though sometimes it is)

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By *erdita Von TeaseWoman
over a year ago

nottingham

"Yikes, some terrible tales on here. I want to hug some of you!

My ex is my ex because I wouldn't sleep with him and my best friend would. I was only 16 though and only agreed to be with him because he was driving me crazy. I was pretty happy when he chucked me.

Then I met Adam and the rest is history.

Eve. X"

Fabs Romeo and Juliet

minus death scenes please

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By *irkby coupleCouple
over a year ago

Kirkby

I packed my stuff an moved out.

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

she killed my dog

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By *ysnomiaMan
over a year ago

Preston

"she killed my dog "
WTF!!!

Was it like an 'I back ed out of the drive and accidentally hit Skipper' or did you come home and she had a bloody claw-hammer in her hand...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had an affair after i found a note book,marking my performance out of ten and foot notes on how i could improve,i wouldnt mind but he was a shit fuck,i didnt know how shit until i had the affair ,i am still with the guy i had the affair with after 20 years

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"she killed my dog "

Tell me that's a joke please

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon

"she killed my dog

Tell me that's a joke please "

yeah thats some level of twisted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mutual agreement. I asked her to lose weight near the beginning or our relationship and she told me to fuck off. I stayed, but after a year or so I didn't want to have sex with her all the time. Then I stopped completely for a week. She had a right go at me over something silly and we split up. There's a couple of lessons to be learned here... firstly, it's naive to think you can change a woman; secondly, give them regular sex if you wish to keep them.

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

wanted different things in life... although admittedly I was the bitch at the end and ended a 9 year relationship (including being engaged and trying for children) via text message... while I was on holiday on my own... asking him to move out...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She turned out to be a cunt. Enough said

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

Marriage - just weren't working out

1st relationship after that - Lied about having a wife and 2 kids

2nd and last - Lied and left me for another woman who he also left for another woman

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

It really is no surprise we are all on here reading these posts. Some of us really can pick em

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Money!! She had a taste of the high life and decided she wanted a high end man with money to burn. She's still looking. Ha!!

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

"It really is no surprise we are all on here reading these posts. Some of us really can pick em"

Can't we just

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yikes, some terrible tales on here. I want to hug some of you!

My ex is my ex because I wouldn't sleep with him and my best friend would. I was only 16 though and only agreed to be with him because he was driving me crazy. I was pretty happy when he chucked me.

Then I met Adam and the rest is history.

Eve. X

Fabs Romeo and Juliet

minus death scenes please

Ha ha I don't know about that! I don't think Romeo and Juliet were swingers he he. Not sure they'd approve!

Eve. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He left me when I became ill prior to which he cheated on me. He recently got married shame for the wife. Every time he sees a friend of mine he asks to cop off with her. I was heart broken at the time but a now know he was a waste of time and loser and I am well rid

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

"Decieit, sham marriage and gold digger. I do know how to pick em

This and when he'd taken everything found the grass wasn't greener at all.x

Mines finding that out the hard way but luckily my little ones old enough to see through all the lies now x

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Our son died, we didn't grieve together. I was always the strong one, but for once, I needed my husband to be there for me.

I resented him, he took to drink to block out my resentment, which only fuelled it.

Sad really, he's a good man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pmsl going a put my two pence in just for giggles really .......mother of my eldest boys left the UK n back to Spain the Menorca after we got woke up by six pikey types trying to rob my vegetable plantation 2 Polly tunnels cant blame them .....i jumpep out a bed then proceeded to rip up some floor boards n grab a pump actiong browning I had tucked away for just such a day .....kicked door in to there faces let two off one over heads over pepper sprayed them n they all fucked off for some reason only draw back so did she two days later oh well shit happens lol .........anouther memorable one was a lovely black lady we been together on n off over nearly two years she was a bit high maintenance to say the least loads a drama decided enough was enough next thing she saying that she caught train from torquay to glos and can I come talk ..ok fare enough when she realized I wasn't backing down she smashed a massive thourntons chocolate car on platform then stamped ot with her high heels n strutted off ....def a case of I love it when you go but hate to see you leave with that ass Mmm.hhhhh .....oh stressy jessy that was a good one been on n off for a few months played out together n all seemed ok at one a the dirty dozen does in Tewksbury anouther lady I was seeing on and off was there one thing leads to another we all ended up at my place good night was had woke up in the morning no jess other lady was there bit confused but thought oh well must poped home ....later in day I fall asleep on sofa to be woken by my mate going cant you hear that ....wake up every thing I mean every thing that c oils be broke was tv plates you name it ...she was out side saying she wanted her lap top from up stairs ....i whent and got fired up my chain saw cut it in half n gave it her not spoken since lol ......theres a good one involving a hot tub a blonde a angry lady and a samurai sword but I a save that for anouther day pmsl yes i was a cunt in my 17\26peroid have learnt n changed up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Our son died, we didn't grieve together. I was always the strong one, but for once, I needed my husband to be there for me.

I resented him, he took to drink to block out my resentment, which only fuelled it.......one them times that I should a read above first .....sorry for bothe you lose x

Sad really, he's a good man."

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Pmsl going a put my two pence in just for giggles really .......mother of my eldest boys left the UK n back to Spain the Menorca after we got woke up by six pikey types trying to rob my vegetable plantation 2 Polly tunnels cant blame them .....i jumpep out a bed then proceeded to rip up some floor boards n grab a pump actiong browning I had tucked away for just such a day .....kicked door in to there faces let two off one over heads over pepper sprayed them n they all fucked off for some reason only draw back so did she two days later oh well shit happens lol .........anouther memorable one was a lovely black lady we been together on n off over nearly two years she was a bit high maintenance to say the least loads a drama decided enough was enough next thing she saying that she caught train from torquay to glos and can I come talk ..ok fare enough when she realized I wasn't backing down she smashed a massive thourntons chocolate car on platform then stamped ot with her high heels n strutted off ....def a case of I love it when you go but hate to see you leave with that ass Mmm.hhhhh .....oh stressy jessy that was a good one been on n off for a few months played out together n all seemed ok at one a the dirty dozen does in Tewksbury anouther lady I was seeing on and off was there one thing leads to another we all ended up at my place good night was had woke up in the morning no jess other lady was there bit confused but thought oh well must poped home ....later in day I fall asleep on sofa to be woken by my mate going cant you hear that ....wake up every thing I mean every thing that c oils be broke was tv plates you name it ...she was out side saying she wanted her lap top from up stairs ....i whent and got fired up my chain saw cut it in half n gave it her not spoken since lol ......theres a good one involving a hot tub a blonde a angry lady and a samurai sword but I a save that for anouther day pmsl yes i was a cunt in my 17\26peroid have learnt n changed up "

didn't understand any of that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

didn't understand any of that!"
................probably for the best lol .I get excited n forget to breath .put my full stop's n punctuation in sorry lol

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