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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We had our first proper time waster in 9 years on this this site last night

Messaging for ages, exchanged numbers time and place arranged we turn up they don't, go to message them no response look on here and he had blocked us, very disappointing

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

First in 9 years? I'd be pretty chuffed with those statistics.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"First in 9 years? I'd be pretty chuffed with those statistics. "

We have had the usually pic collectors and fantasists but that is the first time we have had a no show

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had 3 in a 3 week period last year. That was a confidence boosting month lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Il never understand why people join this site to end up time wasting, but you've been very lucky to not have one in 9 years

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah not too bad I guess, our radar must of been off last night

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By *edzyWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I find if people don't supply phone numbers they are not interested in actually meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That sucks!! They don't know what they are missing..sod them!

Plenty more willing folk as you well know.

Eve. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That sucks!! They don't know what they are missing..sod them!

Plenty more willing folk as you well know.

Eve. X"

Hopefully lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find if people don't supply phone numbers they are not interested in actually meeting "

It's not an indicator in my experience. Although a phone call can normally sort the time wasters out

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No its not a guarantee but does a lot out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No its not a guarantee but does a lot out"

True. And likely a lot of the fabsingle ones too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find if people don't supply phone numbers they are not interested in actually meeting

It's not an indicator in my experience. Although a phone call can normally sort the time wasters out "

Not always the case the only no show for me phoned me a couple of hours before our meet to make sure I was still ok to meet and then decided not to show up blocked me on here then a few months down the line asked me to give him another chance!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens. That's fab for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you the couple with the very aggressive profile?

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By *exy penWoman
over a year ago

liverpool


"I find if people don't supply phone numbers they are not interested in actually meeting "

I don't give my phone numder out an iv never let anyone down iv had a few let me down but if I say I'm going to meet I alway do

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We arranged a social last week with a guy who didn't turn up.When we returned home we discovered that he had left the site!

He had confirmed the meet on the day and was well verified but that doesn't have to mean a lot does it?It's not exactly a tragedy as the vast majority of single guys and couples do turn up as arranged.

We always have a social in a pub close to home so if people don't turn we have a quick drink and go home.We have another social arranged for today so hopefully...

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By *heRealMccoyMan
over a year ago

london


"We had our first proper time waster in 9 years on this this site last night

Messaging for ages, exchanged numbers time and place arranged we turn up they don't, go to message them no response look on here and he had blocked us, very disappointing "

Don't get why they would do that! Honesty is the best policy !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm lucky I've never been stood up, the lady has always given me a little notice as to why she can't make it. The only really one was the one who messaged me a couple of hours before our meet to say she had gotten cold feet, sorry, and blocked me. Ah well, on to the next one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find if people don't supply phone numbers they are not interested in actually meeting

It's not an indicator in my experience. Although a phone call can normally sort the time wasters out

Not always the case the only no show for me phoned me a couple of hours before our meet to make sure I was still ok to meet and then decided not to show up blocked me on here then a few months down the line asked me to give him another chance!"

Exactly the same thing happened last time I was stood up. Did yours also have a new verification the same night? That was a kick in the teeth lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find if people don't supply phone numbers they are not interested in actually meeting

It's not an indicator in my experience. Although a phone call can normally sort the time wasters out

Not always the case the only no show for me phoned me a couple of hours before our meet to make sure I was still ok to meet and then decided not to show up blocked me on here then a few months down the line asked me to give him another chance!"

The only time I've ever been stood up we'd exchanged numbers and been chatting off the site for ages. And he was messaging me up to a couple of hours before he stood me up, so no, it's not always an indicator. And then conversely I've met people who turned up exactly as planned, who had no verifications and we'd had no contact outside of messaging on the site. Sometimes someone just wants to mess people about.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are you the couple with the very aggressive profile? "

Wouldn't say very aggressive guess other people would need to comment on that not us

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are you the couple with the very aggressive profile? "

And don't really see what that has to do with anything anyway

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Timewasters are all the rage these days so I've heard. I go out of my way to miss them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Timewasters are all the rage these days so I've heard. I go out of my way to miss them "

So do we, unfortunately crashed head on last night

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By *itmanAndHerrCouple
over a year ago

st helens

There's a couple of profiles we are suspicious of mainly because of the language they use and their manner. And when investigating further their verifications come to a dead end. Like there's 3 or 4 profiles all verifying eachother in a short space of time. Just little things that don't sit right like being very quick to send explicit pornographic images and video but apparently don't have any normal photos on their phone. All making you suspicious and if ignored i suspect will turn out to be time wasters of the worst kind. ie no shows.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"I find if people don't supply phone numbers they are not interested in actually meeting "

Not always,on my old single profile I very rarely gave my number out.Mainly because I hate talking on phone and after I got pestered when i gave it out to someone.

Miss

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By *itmanAndHerrCouple
over a year ago

st helens


"Are you the couple with the very aggressive profile?

Wouldn't say very aggressive guess other people would need to comment on that not us "

I'm afraid it does make me think of the last thread I started headed "negative profiles."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are you the couple with the very aggressive profile?

Wouldn't say very aggressive guess other people would need to comment on that not us

I'm afraid it does make me think of the last thread I started headed "negative profiles."

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Wouldn't say it's negative at all, except the last bit we have added today, it is clear and concise for what we want and looking for we think anyway, guess other people have other views

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you the couple with the very aggressive profile?

And don't really see what that has to do with anything anyway"

Having read your profile, it's not at all aggressive. It's clear what you want and how you want to play.

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"We arranged a social last week with a guy who didn't turn up.When we returned home we discovered that he had left the site!

He had confirmed the meet on the day and was well verified but that doesn't have to mean a lot does it?It's not exactly a tragedy as the vast majority of single guys and couples do turn up as arranged.

We always have a social in a pub close to home so if people don't turn we have a quick drink and go home.We have another social arranged for today so hopefully... "

Just got back from the social and the guy DID turn up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had 3 no shows so far. I too have had to cancel re unexpected events but always let the other party know.

No shows are such a waste of precious time. It doesn't matter how good your radar is it still happens.

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