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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have mild interest in this area, but am wary of a generic profile claiming to be the real thing, and when I ask that they get verified, they promptly delete my message. I have had this issue on before, and i wonder if an automated bot is at hand..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have mild interest in this area, but am wary of a generic profile claiming to be the real thing, and when I ask that they get verified, they promptly delete my message. I have had this issue on before, and i wonder if an automated bot is at hand.."

Better to try n start a convo rather than ask them to get verified right off the bat I reckon.

If you then make a connection/click then you could ask to speak on the phone or go on cam which would go some way to proving them to be genuine.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Only contact verified profiles would seem to be the answer.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I have mild interest in this area, but am wary of a generic profile claiming to be the real thing, and when I ask that they get verified, they promptly delete my message. I have had this issue on before, and i wonder if an automated bot is at hand.."

LOL you are telling someone who likes to dominate what to do.... Of course you're going to get deleted hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No-one has the right to demand others to do anything. If you don't meet unverified people, keep away from their profile.


"I have mild interest in this area, but am wary of a generic profile claiming to be the real thing, and when I ask that they get verified, they promptly delete my message. I have had this issue on before, and i wonder if an automated bot is at hand.."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have mild interest in this area, but am wary of a generic profile claiming to be the real thing, and when I ask that they get verified, they promptly delete my message. I have had this issue on before, and i wonder if an automated bot is at hand..

LOL you are telling someone who likes to dominate what to do.... Of course you're going to get deleted hahahaha "

That was exactly my thought as well!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No-one has the right to demand others to do anything....

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You've not read many profiles on here then!

Some of them read like you're the negotiator trying to secure the release of a vagina that's being held hostage!

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By *est Wales WifeCouple
over a year ago

Near Carmarthen


" and when I ask that they get verified,"

Says man who is unverified!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No-one has the right to demand others to do anything....

You've not read many profiles on here then!

Some of them read like you're the negotiator trying to secure the release of a vagina that's being held hostage!"

Hahaha

Held hostage for a ransom of hoop jumping n smoke blown up the arse!

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By *heRealMccoyMan
over a year ago

london


"I have mild interest in this area, but am wary of a generic profile claiming to be the real thing, and when I ask that they get verified, they promptly delete my message. I have had this issue on before, and i wonder if an automated bot is at hand..

LOL you are telling someone who likes to dominate what to do.... Of course you're going to get deleted hahahaha "

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And it's your business and place to ask them about being verified why?

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"I have mild interest in this area, but am wary of a generic profile claiming to be the real thing, and when I ask that they get verified, they promptly delete my message. I have had this issue on before, and i wonder if an automated bot is at hand.."

But yu are not verified yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And it's your business and place to ask them about being verified why? "

Because he can. That's presumably part of his meet criteria, rightly or wrongly. In the same way that others want face pics or a recent verification less than two months old.

The response received through that demand is the prerogative of the recipient, deemed appropriate by them.

It's called a meeting of minds. Evidently there is not one in this case. But he's allowed to ask just as much as the other person is allowed to ignore him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And it's your business and place to ask them about being verified why?

Because he can. That's presumably part of his meet criteria, rightly or wrongly. In the same way that others want face pics or a recent verification less than two months old.

The response received through that demand is the prerogative of the recipient, deemed appropriate by them.

It's called a meeting of minds. Evidently there is not one in this case. But he's allowed to ask just as much as the other person is allowed to ignore him.

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There is a difference I think between asking people to verify themselves to you, I.e. a cam chat or phone chat, asking for face pics or to see previous verifications and demanding someone goes and gets verified, either photo or meet, which it seems the op is doing here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just block unverifieds so they won't turn up in your searches.

you can't really demand anyone get verified.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't think he demanded that they get verified,according to his op he said he asked.

Also folks are free to demand what they want here,if these demands are entertained however,is a different story!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah i probably should've used a different word there.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Individuals should run their profile in their own way. And it pays for single men generally to know that others won't jump through the hoops that they'd like them to.

Treat others as people, whatever their sexual tastes.

Go back to Fab lessons a, b and c.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yeah i probably should've used a different word there."

Makes no odds really,he's gonna get nowhere fast asking folks to get verified when he isn't himself....pure brass necked!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I mean at least photo verified. And i pay a membership. Never mind though, it was witty enough at the time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you. I have had troll messages off the net before, and robotic messages that seem identical off different users has made me wary.

Also, some doms like a bit of resistance, before achieving subservience.

I'm not going to please everyone, but then that is a truism in dating.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Treat others as people is just alternate speak for being able to please the majority, and to keep conceding..

I'm known as very polite, almost too passive in general in person. Still, if people let off steam on me and act like they know how to behave so much better, I just have to let it ride.

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