FabSwingers.com forum: Help!!

By *elsh.30 OP Man
over a year ago

newport

Not really used my account profile since joining! But over the last month I've tried my hardest to get a meet females or couples, but it's just not happening at all!!

I'm starting to given on this site!

I know obviously I won't be everybody's cup of tea, but I'm getting no interest at all.

What am I doing wrong?

Any tips would be appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see anything wrong with your profile tbh, but some might though

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Try being more proactive, get yourself known on here or in the chat Cam) rooms, pop off to a few socials, go to a club,write a decent profile, take some good pics, have patience.

Is there anything else I've forgotten

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attach a face picture to any messages you send.

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By *elsh.30 OP Man
over a year ago

newport

I always add face pics to messages. Sometimes get a reply saying I'm really hot!

Then nothing.

I fancy trying a social event, but it often says need so many verifications. I only got one.

And a lot of members profiles ask for 5 plus verifications..

I'm trying my hardest to get them lol.

I guess I have to be a bit more patient

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"I always add face pics to messages. Sometimes get a reply saying I'm really hot!

Then nothing.

I fancy trying a social event, but it often says need so many verifications. I only got one.

And a lot of members profiles ask for 5 plus verifications..

I'm trying my hardest to get them lol.

I guess I have to be a bit more patient "

Never heard of anyone wanting 5+ veris (I've had plenty of meets with none exchanged), as long as the one that you have shows that you are a genuine guy, then that should stand you in good stead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

two things stand out...

lose the bit about hygiene, that should be a given on here...

and also hide the verification as its from so long ago, as it might put people off meeting you...

if you are going to keep it on there, maybe just explain why you haven't been active for a while....but usually the green tick is enough for some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always add face pics to messages. Sometimes get a reply saying I'm really hot!

Then nothing.

I fancy trying a social event, but it often says need so many verifications. I only got one.

And a lot of members profiles ask for 5 plus verifications..

I'm trying my hardest to get them lol.

I guess I have to be a bit more patient

Never heard of anyone wanting 5+ veris (I've had plenty of meets with none exchanged), as long as the one that you have shows that you are a genuine guy, then that should stand you in good stead

unfortunately some social organisers insist on a certain number of verifications in order to out the timewasters

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By *elsh.30 OP Man
over a year ago

newport

The verification I had was off a couple who are close friends of mine! But they are have a break and not using there account now.

Does that verification still show on my profile?

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By *elsh.30 OP Man
over a year ago

newport

Yes it does.. just checked.

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By *elsh.30 OP Man
over a year ago

newport

Ok thanks for your help all...

Will keep trying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would suggest injecting a little more personality into your text. There's nothing wrong with your profile. It just doesn't stand out in comparison to others. A lot of women will click on a profile before opening a message, so that need to be your main selling point. Perhaps add a few more pictures to your public gallery too OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes it does.. just checked."

if it didn't I wouldn't have cause to comment on it

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By *elsh.30 OP Man
over a year ago

newport

Thanks kinkybird.

I will re-write my info x

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By *elsh.30 OP Man
over a year ago

newport

"I would suggest injecting a little more personality into your text. There's nothing wrong with your profile. It just doesn't stand out in comparison to others. A lot of women will click on a profile before opening a message, so that need to be your main selling point. Perhaps add a few more pictures to your public gallery too OP

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thanks Hun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could try reading some of the countless threads by single guys asking pretty much the same thing and see if any of the advice given to them proves to be helpful.

Ask yourself if your profile really is the best that it can possibly be and if you think it's working for you.

This is getting asked so frequently now I wonder if there needs to be a FAQ on it

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'm not helping cos you've got a better body than me

#sourgrapes

Ps. What they said ^^

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