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".. Lol I know it's hilarious isn't it.. You'd have to be a mind reader.. :-/.. Id just send em the usual polite introduction.. It's all you can do other than fake it to get your foot in the door "And that's maybe why you have no verifications yet after being here for 4 months. | |||
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honestly there is going to have to be a way to get threw the "hi" scenario or eventually all us genuine single males will give up and the site will collapse  | |||
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"I think I'm going to write my next message in Gaelic honestly there is going to have to be a way to get threw the "hi" scenario or eventually all us genuine single males will give up and the site will collapse "Why would it collapse ? There are still plenty of couples and females to more than keep it going | |||
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"I think I'm going to write my next message in Gaelic honestly there is going to have to be a way to get threw the "hi" scenario or eventually all us genuine single males will give up and the site will collapse
Why would it collapse ? There are still plenty of couples and females to more than keep it going "Oooooohhhhhh you mean the secret clique | |||
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"First time for me,so i was wondering why do couples and females in there profiles insist on telling you not to start a conversation with"hi,hiya or how are you,or some other short way of letting them know you are there,i mean if they where in a club/pub and someone came over to them would they expect a full page conversation straight away or a polite"hi how are you or the famous Joey line even"how you doin lol,just sayin like "given the crude and ridiculous messages lots of men send , i see nothing wrong at all with a pleasant 'hi, how are you?' at all..i always check out a profile before even opening a message, and if that appeals, and their criteria are similar to mine, then i'll happily respond...don't need an initial essay,nothing wrong with a polite ice breaker at all... | |||
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"I think I'm going to write my next message in Gaelic honestly there is going to have to be a way to get threw the "hi" scenario or eventually all us genuine single males will give up and the site will collapse
Why would it collapse ? There are still plenty of couples and females to more than keep it going
Oooooohhhhhh you mean the secret clique "Clique ????? | |||
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"I think I'm going to write my next message in Gaelic honestly there is going to have to be a way to get threw the "hi" scenario or eventually all us genuine single males will give up and the site will collapse
Why would it collapse ? There are still plenty of couples and females to more than keep it going
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"First time for me,so i was wondering why do couples and females in there profiles insist on telling you not to start a conversation with"hi,hiya or how are you,or some other short way of letting them know you are there,i mean if they where in a club/pub and someone came over to them would they expect a full page conversation straight away or a polite"hi how are you or the famous Joey line even"how you doin lol,just sayin like "If you walk up to someone in person and say hi the introduction is more than just what you say, they can see your face, your build, the way you carry yourself, your confidence. Women receive literally hundreds of messages a day and when all they see is "hi there" and a blurry picture of a cock or a tattoo as a profile pic then it's inevitable that it may get lost in the deluge of identical messages. | |||
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"I agree with playful minx Are you only sending "hi" or are you actually speaking to us like human beings rather than a piece of meat? I will generally reply to all that send me a polite/funny/original message. You need to be different" The irony of this post is that rhe man will inevitably be judged as a peice of meat by whoever he messages. Op 99% of the time on here unless you get the perfect line for the person your entire approach is judged purely on the first impression of your looks. All the "dont just say hi" or any other rule or bollocks goes right out the window if they fancy you. And if they dont it doesnt matter if you wrote a message worthy of Oscar wilde you're still not getting laid. So send a simple polite message, use anything on thier profile thats relevant to start a conversation (although women/couples rarely have anything as an ice breaker on thier profile) and attach your pics. If they fancy you they'll reply if they don't they wont. | |||
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"Totally agree and understand about competition being high on here,but surely a polite"how do you do"is a ice breaker rather than reams of bullshit from a guy you have never met,and most defo has never approached a female without a simple"hi my names Dave how do you do".Being single is hard enough on here just on its own and you want to challenge us from the off haha x "The problem is that most of the messages that come in are "hi how are you" and we've no idea if our profile has been read, if they suit our needs etc. When someone messages to say "hi I'm x and I see that you like x, so do I, I also do x y and z which may be of interest to you too." Then we are way more likely to pay their message more attention than the endless 'hi' ones Ruby | |||
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"They can ask whatever they want to. You can ignore them, by not messaging at all or sending them whatever you wish to. Imagine who gets the most success. " ..the fit ones? | |||
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"First time for me,so i was wondering why do couples and females in there profiles insist on telling you not to start a conversation with"hi,hiya or how are you,or some other short way of letting them know you are there,i mean if they where in a club/pub and someone came over to them would they expect a full page conversation straight away or a polite"hi how are you or the famous Joey line even"how you doin lol,just sayin like
If you walk up to someone in person and say hi the introduction is more than just what you say, they can see your face, your build, the way you carry yourself, your confidence.
Women receive literally hundreds of messages a day and when all they see is "hi there" and a blurry picture of a cock or a tattoo as a profile pic then it's inevitable that it may get lost in the deluge of identical messages.
"I've sent both types of messages and got no where and I do think a lot of it comes down to luck. Every time I read one of these type of threads it can have a different answer as in not the best photos, not correct verifications or been on along time with no verification | |||
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"First time for me,so i was wondering why do couples and females in there profiles insist on telling you not to start a conversation with"hi,hiya or how are you,or some other short way of letting them know you are there,i mean if they where in a club/pub and someone came over to them would they expect a full page conversation straight away or a polite"hi how are you or the famous Joey line even"how you doin lol,just sayin like
If you walk up to someone in person and say hi the introduction is more than just what you say, they can see your face, your build, the way you carry yourself, your confidence.
Women receive literally hundreds of messages a day and when all they see is "hi there" and a blurry picture of a cock or a tattoo as a profile pic then it's inevitable that it may get lost in the deluge of identical messages.
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"I agree with playful minx Are you only sending "hi" or are you actually speaking to us like human beings rather than a piece of meat? I will generally reply to all that send me a polite/funny/original message. You need to be different The irony of this post is that rhe man will inevitably be judged as a peice of meat by whoever he messages. Op 99% of the time on here unless you get the perfect line for the person your entire approach is judged purely on the first impression of your looks. All the "dont just say hi" or any other rule or bollocks goes right out the window if they fancy you. And if they dont it doesnt matter if you wrote a message worthy of Oscar wilde you're still not getting laid. So send a simple polite message, use anything on thier profile thats relevant to start a conversation (although women/couples rarely have anything as an ice breaker on thier profile) and attach your pics. If they fancy you they'll reply if they don't they wont. " I never go purely on looks at all, a man has to prove he has an attractive personality too for me to feel attracted to him. So you're theory is wrong where I'm concerned. I can't speak for other women of course. | |||
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"First time for me,so i was wondering why do couples and females in there profiles insist on telling you not to start a conversation with"hi,hiya or how are you,or some other short way of letting them know you are there,i mean if they where in a club/pub and someone came over to them would they expect a full page conversation straight away or a polite"hi how are you or the famous Joey line even"how you doin lol,just sayin like
If you walk up to someone in person and say hi the introduction is more than just what you say, they can see your face, your build, the way you carry yourself, your confidence.
Women receive literally hundreds of messages a day and when all they see is "hi there" and a blurry picture of a cock or a tattoo as a profile pic then it's inevitable that it may get lost in the deluge of identical messages.
I've sent both types of messages and got no where and I do think a lot of it comes down to luck. Every time I read one of these type of threads it can have a different answer as in not the best photos, not correct verifications or been on along time with no verification"A lot of it is luck, if your message gets spotted and you match what they're looking for. Women pretty much have their pick of guys on here so it is difficult. Personally I've found the forums a great place to get myself some exposure, join in the banter and show your personality. It's working for me so far! | |||
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"Please don't send a joke as a initial message.... I tried this once and got blocked I wrote .... hello what does a serial killer say to woman? She replied " What " , I replied " Does this napkin smell like clorophorm " She deleted and blocked me "I'd of done the same to be honest. | |||
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"First time for me,so i was wondering why do couples and females in there profiles insist on telling you not to start a conversation with"hi,hiya or how are you,or some other short way of letting them know you are there,i mean if they where in a club/pub and someone came over to them would they expect a full page conversation straight away or a polite"hi how are you or the famous Joey line even"how you doin lol,just sayin like
If you walk up to someone in person and say hi the introduction is more than just what you say, they can see your face, your build, the way you carry yourself, your confidence.
Women receive literally hundreds of messages a day and when all they see is "hi there" and a blurry picture of a cock or a tattoo as a profile pic then it's inevitable that it may get lost in the deluge of identical messages.
I've sent both types of messages and got no where and I do think a lot of it comes down to luck. Every time I read one of these type of threads it can have a different answer as in not the best photos, not correct verifications or been on along time with no verification
A lot of it is luck, if your message gets spotted and you match what they're looking for. Women pretty much have their pick of guys on here so it is difficult.
Personally I've found the forums a great place to get myself some exposure, join in the banter and show your personality. It's working for me so far!"I'm posting daily on the forums and getting involved not had much interaction but getting gradually noticed!! At the end of the day it's a tough gig! I'm gonna go to a club in the near future and try that side of things before I decide to give it up. | |||
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"First time for me,so i was wondering why do couples and females in there profiles insist on telling you not to start a conversation with"hi,hiya or how are you,or some other short way of letting them know you are there,i mean if they where in a club/pub and someone came over to them would they expect a full page conversation straight away or a polite"hi how are you or the famous Joey line even"how you doin lol,just sayin like
If you walk up to someone in person and say hi the introduction is more than just what you say, they can see your face, your build, the way you carry yourself, your confidence.
Women receive literally hundreds of messages a day and when all they see is "hi there" and a blurry picture of a cock or a tattoo as a profile pic then it's inevitable that it may get lost in the deluge of identical messages.
I've sent both types of messages and got no where and I do think a lot of it comes down to luck. Every time I read one of these type of threads it can have a different answer as in not the best photos, not correct verifications or been on along time with no verification
A lot of it is luck, if your message gets spotted and you match what they're looking for. Women pretty much have their pick of guys on here so it is difficult.
Personally I've found the forums a great place to get myself some exposure, join in the banter and show your personality. It's working for me so far!
I'm posting daily on the forums and getting involved not had much interaction but getting gradually noticed!! At the end of the day it's a tough gig! I'm gonna go to a club in the near future and try that side of things before I decide to give it up. "These forums are a great way to interact and get noticed, but don't use the word clique lol | |||
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"Please don't send a joke as a initial message.... I tried this once and got blocked I wrote .... hello what does a serial killer say to woman? She replied " What " , I replied " Does this napkin smell like clorophorm " She deleted and blocked me
I'd of done the same to be honest." | |||
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"Competition amongst single men on here is so high, that you have to make yourself stand out. If you can't be bothered to put in a little more effort than just a few words, then I'm afraid you won't get noticed. It's all about first impressions. A man needs to prove to me he has taken the time to read my profile and make his opening message to me personal, otherwise I don't even bother checking out his profile, I'll just delete." Maybe, but your naive to think that men have to do 'all the work' on here. Women and couples need to make more of an effort on their profiles otherwise they will just get one line messages that get deleted. Believe it or not , only the desperate and those that live in a fantasy world would actually meet and fuck 'some' of the women on here | |||
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"First time for me,so i was wondering why do couples and females in there profiles insist on telling you not to start a conversation with"hi,hiya or how are you,or some other short way of letting them know you are there,i mean if they where in a club/pub and someone came over to them would they expect a full page conversation straight away or a polite"hi how are you or the famous Joey line even"how you doin lol,just sayin like
If you walk up to someone in person and say hi the introduction is more than just what you say, they can see your face, your build, the way you carry yourself, your confidence.
Women receive literally hundreds of messages a day and when all they see is "hi there" and a blurry picture of a cock or a tattoo as a profile pic then it's inevitable that it may get lost in the deluge of identical messages.
I've sent both types of messages and got no where and I do think a lot of it comes down to luck. Every time I read one of these type of threads it can have a different answer as in not the best photos, not correct verifications or been on along time with no verification
A lot of it is luck, if your message gets spotted and you match what they're looking for. Women pretty much have their pick of guys on here so it is difficult.
Personally I've found the forums a great place to get myself some exposure, join in the banter and show your personality. It's working for me so far!
I'm posting daily on the forums and getting involved not had much interaction but getting gradually noticed!! At the end of the day it's a tough gig! I'm gonna go to a club in the near future and try that side of things before I decide to give it up.
These forums are a great way to interact and get noticed, but don't use the word clique lol"If that word gets mention again I think they'll turn up like beetlejuice | |||
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"First time for me,so i was wondering why do couples and females in there profiles insist on telling you not to start a conversation with"hi,hiya or how are you,or some other short way of letting them know you are there,i mean if they where in a club/pub and someone came over to them would they expect a full page conversation straight away or a polite"hi how are you or the famous Joey line even"how you doin lol,just sayin like "Ignore those type of profiles , they reak of entitlement and will probably delete your message regardless of its content.  | |||
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"First time for me,so i was wondering why do couples and females in there profiles insist on telling you not to start a conversation with"hi,hiya or how are you,or some other short way of letting them know you are there,i mean if they where in a club/pub and someone came over to them would they expect a full page conversation straight away or a polite"hi how are you or the famous Joey line even"how you doin lol,just sayin like
If you walk up to someone in person and say hi the introduction is more than just what you say, they can see your face, your build, the way you carry yourself, your confidence.
Women receive literally hundreds of messages a day and when all they see is "hi there" and a blurry picture of a cock or a tattoo as a profile pic then it's inevitable that it may get lost in the deluge of identical messages.
I've sent both types of messages and got no where and I do think a lot of it comes down to luck. Every time I read one of these type of threads it can have a different answer as in not the best photos, not correct verifications or been on along time with no verification
A lot of it is luck, if your message gets spotted and you match what they're looking for. Women pretty much have their pick of guys on here so it is difficult.
Personally I've found the forums a great place to get myself some exposure, join in the banter and show your personality. It's working for me so far!
I'm posting daily on the forums and getting involved not had much interaction but getting gradually noticed!! At the end of the day it's a tough gig! I'm gonna go to a club in the near future and try that side of things before I decide to give it up. "Your profile is a little brief, maybe add a bit more about yourself? I tend to find that if I flirt on the forums unless they're in stealth mode I'll see a few women look at my profile and possibly send me the first message. I by no means have an amazing profile myself but I have had lovely comments about it being well written and interesting. Just a thought  | |||
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"Competition amongst single men on here is so high, that you have to make yourself stand out. If you can't be bothered to put in a little more effort than just a few words, then I'm afraid you won't get noticed. It's all about first impressions. A man needs to prove to me he has taken the time to read my profile and make his opening message to me personal, otherwise I don't even bother checking out his profile, I'll just delete. Maybe, but your naive to think that men have to do 'all the work' on here. Women and couples need to make more of an effort on their profiles otherwise they will just get one line messages that get deleted. Believe it or not , only the desperate and those that live in a fantasy world would actually meet and fuck 'some' of the women on here "
A warrant has been issued for your arrest... Your offense?? Speaking the truth on the forums
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"Competition amongst single men on here is so high, that you have to make yourself stand out. If you can't be bothered to put in a little more effort than just a few words, then I'm afraid you won't get noticed. It's all about first impressions. A man needs to prove to me he has taken the time to read my profile and make his opening message to me personal, otherwise I don't even bother checking out his profile, I'll just delete. Maybe, but your naive to think that men have to do 'all the work' on here. Women and couples need to make more of an effort on their profiles otherwise they will just get one line messages that get deleted. Believe it or not , only the desperate and those that live in a fantasy world would actually meet and fuck 'some' of the women on here " I totally agree, some women and couples profiles can be absoloutely horrendous. How some of them get meets is beyond me. | |||
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"Totally agree and understand about competition being high on here,but surely a polite"how do you do"is a ice breaker rather than reams of bullshit from a guy you have never met,and most defo has never approached a female without a simple"hi my names Dave how do you do".Being single is hard enough on here just on its own and you want to challenge us from the off haha x "Exactly correct. Some profiles are basically asking for the moon on a stick.. Hi how are you doing is perfectly acceptable to any reasonable human being. | |||
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"Competition amongst single men on here is so high, that you have to make yourself stand out. If you can't be bothered to put in a little more effort than just a few words, then I'm afraid you won't get noticed. It's all about first impressions. A man needs to prove to me he has taken the time to read my profile and make his opening message to me personal, otherwise I don't even bother checking out his profile, I'll just delete. Maybe, but your naive to think that men have to do 'all the work' on here. Women and couples need to make more of an effort on their profiles otherwise they will just get one line messages that get deleted. Believe it or not , only the desperate and those that live in a fantasy world would actually meet and fuck 'some' of the women on here
A warrant has been issued for your arrest... Your offense?? Speaking the truth on the forums
The forum police will be along shortly "It's ok, they just give you a telling off, then they move away into the sidelines again. I'm talking from personal experience, it would be more fun if they actually got the handcuffs out | |||
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"Competition amongst single men on here is so high, that you have to make yourself stand out. If you can't be bothered to put in a little more effort than just a few words, then I'm afraid you won't get noticed. It's all about first impressions. A man needs to prove to me he has taken the time to read my profile and make his opening message to me personal, otherwise I don't even bother checking out his profile, I'll just delete. Maybe, but your naive to think that men have to do 'all the work' on here. Women and couples need to make more of an effort on their profiles otherwise they will just get one line messages that get deleted. Believe it or not , only the desperate and those that live in a fantasy world would actually meet and fuck 'some' of the women on here I totally agree, some women and couples profiles can be absoloutely horrendous. How some of them get meets is beyond me." Agreed, I've seen womens profiles with no pics, the infamous "I'll fill this in later" as the only info yet shit loads of veris  | |||
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"Competition amongst single men on here is so high, that you have to make yourself stand out. If you can't be bothered to put in a little more effort than just a few words, then I'm afraid you won't get noticed. It's all about first impressions. A man needs to prove to me he has taken the time to read my profile and make his opening message to me personal, otherwise I don't even bother checking out his profile, I'll just delete. Maybe, but your naive to think that men have to do 'all the work' on here. Women and couples need to make more of an effort on their profiles otherwise they will just get one line messages that get deleted. Believe it or not , only the desperate and those that live in a fantasy world would actually meet and fuck 'some' of the women on here I totally agree, some women and couples profiles can be absoloutely horrendous. How some of them get meets is beyond me." Desperate men?? seriously though, if a persons profile starts to dictate to you what you can or can not say or do avoid it like the plague | |||
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"I agree with playful minx Are you only sending "hi" or are you actually speaking to us like human beings rather than a piece of meat? I will generally reply to all that send me a polite/funny/original message. You need to be different The irony of this post is that rhe man will inevitably be judged as a peice of meat by whoever he messages. Op 99% of the time on here unless you get the perfect line for the person your entire approach is judged purely on the first impression of your looks. All the "dont just say hi" or any other rule or bollocks goes right out the window if they fancy you. And if they dont it doesnt matter if you wrote a message worthy of Oscar wilde you're still not getting laid. So send a simple polite message, use anything on thier profile thats relevant to start a conversation (although women/couples rarely have anything as an ice breaker on thier profile) and attach your pics. If they fancy you they'll reply if they don't they wont. I never go purely on looks at all, a man has to prove he has an attractive personality too for me to feel attracted to him. So you're theory is wrong where I'm concerned. I can't speak for other women of course." Actually no you just proved it correct. Right there where you said "too" An attractive personality "too". So you your initial judgment is still the look witty message isnt changing thier face. But looks will get a conversation startes. | |||
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"Totally agree and understand about competition being high on here,but surely a polite"how do you do"is a ice breaker rather than reams of bullshit from a guy you have never met,and most defo has never approached a female without a simple"hi my names Dave how do you do".Being single is hard enough on here just on its own and you want to challenge us from the off haha x
Exactly correct. Some profiles are basically asking for the moon on a stick.. Hi how are you doing is perfectly acceptable to any reasonable human being. "But " hi how are you" doesn't stand out, it won't get you noticed in amongst loads of other "hi' . My inbox is currently sat at 156 unread, just to give you an idea of the number of messages you're in competition with. | |||
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"First time for me,so i was wondering why do couples and females in there profiles insist on telling you not to start a conversation with"hi,hiya or how are you,or some other short way of letting them know you are there,i mean if they where in a club/pub and someone came over to them would they expect a full page conversation straight away or a polite"hi how are you or the famous Joey line even"how you doin lol,just sayin like
If you walk up to someone in person and say hi the introduction is more than just what you say, they can see your face, your build, the way you carry yourself, your confidence.
Women receive literally hundreds of messages a day and when all they see is "hi there" and a blurry picture of a cock or a tattoo as a profile pic then it's inevitable that it may get lost in the deluge of identical messages.
I've sent both types of messages and got no where and I do think a lot of it comes down to luck. Every time I read one of these type of threads it can have a different answer as in not the best photos, not correct verifications or been on along time with no verification
A lot of it is luck, if your message gets spotted and you match what they're looking for. Women pretty much have their pick of guys on here so it is difficult.
Personally I've found the forums a great place to get myself some exposure, join in the banter and show your personality. It's working for me so far!
I'm posting daily on the forums and getting involved not had much interaction but getting gradually noticed!! At the end of the day it's a tough gig! I'm gonna go to a club in the near future and try that side of things before I decide to give it up.
Your profile is a little brief, maybe add a bit more about yourself? I tend to find that if I flirt on the forums unless they're in stealth mode I'll see a few women look at my profile and possibly send me the first message. I by no means have an amazing profile myself but I have had lovely comments about it being well written and interesting. Just a thought "Your profile is very good with good photos too, I'll definitely do need to do a bit more with my profile. | |||
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"I agree with playful minx Are you only sending "hi" or are you actually speaking to us like human beings rather than a piece of meat? I will generally reply to all that send me a polite/funny/original message. You need to be different The irony of this post is that rhe man will inevitably be judged as a peice of meat by whoever he messages. Op 99% of the time on here unless you get the perfect line for the person your entire approach is judged purely on the first impression of your looks. All the "dont just say hi" or any other rule or bollocks goes right out the window if they fancy you. And if they dont it doesnt matter if you wrote a message worthy of Oscar wilde you're still not getting laid. So send a simple polite message, use anything on thier profile thats relevant to start a conversation (although women/couples rarely have anything as an ice breaker on thier profile) and attach your pics. If they fancy you they'll reply if they don't they wont. I never go purely on looks at all, a man has to prove he has an attractive personality too for me to feel attracted to him. So you're theory is wrong where I'm concerned. I can't speak for other women of course. Actually no you just proved it correct. Right there where you said "too" An attractive personality "too". So you your initial judgment is still the look witty message isnt changing thier face. But looks will get a conversation startes." So how comes my current FB's profile doesn't even have a profile picture? It was his message that attracted me. | |||
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"I agree with playful minx Are you only sending "hi" or are you actually speaking to us like human beings rather than a piece of meat? I will generally reply to all that send me a polite/funny/original message. You need to be different The irony of this post is that rhe man will inevitably be judged as a peice of meat by whoever he messages. Op 99% of the time on here unless you get the perfect line for the person your entire approach is judged purely on the first impression of your looks. All the "dont just say hi" or any other rule or bollocks goes right out the window if they fancy you. And if they dont it doesnt matter if you wrote a message worthy of Oscar wilde you're still not getting laid. So send a simple polite message, use anything on thier profile thats relevant to start a conversation (although women/couples rarely have anything as an ice breaker on thier profile) and attach your pics. If they fancy you they'll reply if they don't they wont. I never go purely on looks at all, a man has to prove he has an attractive personality too for me to feel attracted to him. So you're theory is wrong where I'm concerned. I can't speak for other women of course. Actually no you just proved it correct. Right there where you said "too" An attractive personality "too". So you your initial judgment is still the look witty message isnt changing thier face. But looks will get a conversation startes.So how comes my current FB's profile doesn't even have a profile picture? It was his message that attracted me. " So he didnt bother to even read your profile but still got a reply? | |||
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"I agree with playful minx Are you only sending "hi" or are you actually speaking to us like human beings rather than a piece of meat? I will generally reply to all that send me a polite/funny/original message. You need to be different The irony of this post is that rhe man will inevitably be judged as a peice of meat by whoever he messages. Op 99% of the time on here unless you get the perfect line for the person your entire approach is judged purely on the first impression of your looks. All the "dont just say hi" or any other rule or bollocks goes right out the window if they fancy you. And if they dont it doesnt matter if you wrote a message worthy of Oscar wilde you're still not getting laid. So send a simple polite message, use anything on thier profile thats relevant to start a conversation (although women/couples rarely have anything as an ice breaker on thier profile) and attach your pics. If they fancy you they'll reply if they don't they wont. I never go purely on looks at all, a man has to prove he has an attractive personality too for me to feel attracted to him. So you're theory is wrong where I'm concerned. I can't speak for other women of course. Actually no you just proved it correct. Right there where you said "too" An attractive personality "too". So you your initial judgment is still the look witty message isnt changing thier face. But looks will get a conversation startes.So how comes my current FB's profile doesn't even have a profile picture? It was his message that attracted me. " Did he attach photos with his initial message? No having a go just curious | |||
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"I agree with playful minx Are you only sending "hi" or are you actually speaking to us like human beings rather than a piece of meat? I will generally reply to all that send me a polite/funny/original message. You need to be different The irony of this post is that rhe man will inevitably be judged as a peice of meat by whoever he messages. Op 99% of the time on here unless you get the perfect line for the person your entire approach is judged purely on the first impression of your looks. All the "dont just say hi" or any other rule or bollocks goes right out the window if they fancy you. And if they dont it doesnt matter if you wrote a message worthy of Oscar wilde you're still not getting laid. So send a simple polite message, use anything on thier profile thats relevant to start a conversation (although women/couples rarely have anything as an ice breaker on thier profile) and attach your pics. If they fancy you they'll reply if they don't they wont. I never go purely on looks at all, a man has to prove he has an attractive personality too for me to feel attracted to him. So you're theory is wrong where I'm concerned. I can't speak for other women of course. Actually no you just proved it correct. Right there where you said "too" An attractive personality "too". So you your initial judgment is still the look witty message isnt changing thier face. But looks will get a conversation startes.So how comes my current FB's profile doesn't even have a profile picture? It was his message that attracted me. " So if he turned out to be minging he would still be your FB?? These unrealistic expectation for men on here to jump through hoops and 'make more of an effort ' to meet people are beyond a joke . Any self respecting man wouldn't allow himself to be dictated to in order to get a shag. The only messages these needy and unrealistic profiles receive are the ones they deserve | |||
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"I agree with playful minx Are you only sending "hi" or are you actually speaking to us like human beings rather than a piece of meat? I will generally reply to all that send me a polite/funny/original message. You need to be different The irony of this post is that rhe man will inevitably be judged as a peice of meat by whoever he messages. Op 99% of the time on here unless you get the perfect line for the person your entire approach is judged purely on the first impression of your looks. All the "dont just say hi" or any other rule or bollocks goes right out the window if they fancy you. And if they dont it doesnt matter if you wrote a message worthy of Oscar wilde you're still not getting laid. So send a simple polite message, use anything on thier profile thats relevant to start a conversation (although women/couples rarely have anything as an ice breaker on thier profile) and attach your pics. If they fancy you they'll reply if they don't they wont. I never go purely on looks at all, a man has to prove he has an attractive personality too for me to feel attracted to him. So you're theory is wrong where I'm concerned. I can't speak for other women of course. Actually no you just proved it correct. Right there where you said "too" An attractive personality "too". So you your initial judgment is still the look witty message isnt changing thier face. But looks will get a conversation startes.So how comes my current FB's profile doesn't even have a profile picture? It was his message that attracted me. Did he attach photos with his initial message? No having a go just curious " No he didn't. We chatted for a while, then once I knew I liked his personality, we swopped face pictures. I never send my face picture out either straight away, as I appreciate a man who wants me for my personality too. | |||
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"I agree with playful minx Are you only sending "hi" or are you actually speaking to us like human beings rather than a piece of meat? I will generally reply to all that send me a polite/funny/original message. You need to be different The irony of this post is that rhe man will inevitably be judged as a peice of meat by whoever he messages. Op 99% of the time on here unless you get the perfect line for the person your entire approach is judged purely on the first impression of your looks. All the "dont just say hi" or any other rule or bollocks goes right out the window if they fancy you. And if they dont it doesnt matter if you wrote a message worthy of Oscar wilde you're still not getting laid. So send a simple polite message, use anything on thier profile thats relevant to start a conversation (although women/couples rarely have anything as an ice breaker on thier profile) and attach your pics. If they fancy you they'll reply if they don't they wont. I never go purely on looks at all, a man has to prove he has an attractive personality too for me to feel attracted to him. So you're theory is wrong where I'm concerned. I can't speak for other women of course. Actually no you just proved it correct. Right there where you said "too" An attractive personality "too". So you your initial judgment is still the look witty message isnt changing thier face. But looks will get a conversation startes.So how comes my current FB's profile doesn't even have a profile picture? It was his message that attracted me. So if he turned out to be minging he would still be your FB?? These unrealistic expectation for men on here to jump through hoops and 'make more of an effort ' to meet people are beyond a joke . Any self respecting man wouldn't allow himself to be dictated to in order to get a shag. The only messages these needy and unrealistic profiles receive are the ones they deserve "There's every chance he could of been, yes. Personality is a winner with me every time | |||
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"I agree with playful minx Are you only sending "hi" or are you actually speaking to us like human beings rather than a piece of meat? I will generally reply to all that send me a polite/funny/original message. You need to be different The irony of this post is that rhe man will inevitably be judged as a peice of meat by whoever he messages. Op 99% of the time on here unless you get the perfect line for the person your entire approach is judged purely on the first impression of your looks. All the "dont just say hi" or any other rule or bollocks goes right out the window if they fancy you. And if they dont it doesnt matter if you wrote a message worthy of Oscar wilde you're still not getting laid. So send a simple polite message, use anything on thier profile thats relevant to start a conversation (although women/couples rarely have anything as an ice breaker on thier profile) and attach your pics. If they fancy you they'll reply if they don't they wont. I never go purely on looks at all, a man has to prove he has an attractive personality too for me to feel attracted to him. So you're theory is wrong where I'm concerned. I can't speak for other women of course. Actually no you just proved it correct. Right there where you said "too" An attractive personality "too". So you your initial judgment is still the look witty message isnt changing thier face. But looks will get a conversation startes.So how comes my current FB's profile doesn't even have a profile picture? It was his message that attracted me. So if he turned out to be minging he would still be your FB?? These unrealistic expectation for men on here to jump through hoops and 'make more of an effort ' to meet people are beyond a joke . Any self respecting man wouldn't allow himself to be dictated to in order to get a shag. The only messages these needy and unrealistic profiles receive are the ones they deserve
There's every chance he could of been, yes. Personality is a winner with me every time "What does the third to last paragraph of your profile say?? | |||
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"I agree with playful minx Are you only sending "hi" or are you actually speaking to us like human beings rather than a piece of meat? I will generally reply to all that send me a polite/funny/original message. You need to be different The irony of this post is that rhe man will inevitably be judged as a peice of meat by whoever he messages. Op 99% of the time on here unless you get the perfect line for the person your entire approach is judged purely on the first impression of your looks. All the "dont just say hi" or any other rule or bollocks goes right out the window if they fancy you. And if they dont it doesnt matter if you wrote a message worthy of Oscar wilde you're still not getting laid. So send a simple polite message, use anything on thier profile thats relevant to start a conversation (although women/couples rarely have anything as an ice breaker on thier profile) and attach your pics. If they fancy you they'll reply if they don't they wont. I never go purely on looks at all, a man has to prove he has an attractive personality too for me to feel attracted to him. So you're theory is wrong where I'm concerned. I can't speak for other women of course. Actually no you just proved it correct. Right there where you said "too" An attractive personality "too". So you your initial judgment is still the look witty message isnt changing thier face. But looks will get a conversation startes.So how comes my current FB's profile doesn't even have a profile picture? It was his message that attracted me. Did he attach photos with his initial message? No having a go just curious No he didn't. We chatted for a while, then once I knew I liked his personality, we swopped face pictures. I never send my face picture out either straight away, as I appreciate a man who wants me for my personality too." Ah that pretty refreshing to hear something like that, gives a bit of hope. I wrote a message the other day that was polite detailed and personal to her profile and I giggles at a couple of jokes I added too. It was deleted and not even sure it was read. | |||
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"I agree with playful minx Are you only sending "hi" or are you actually speaking to us like human beings rather than a piece of meat? I will generally reply to all that send me a polite/funny/original message. You need to be different The irony of this post is that rhe man will inevitably be judged as a peice of meat by whoever he messages. Op 99% of the time on here unless you get the perfect line for the person your entire approach is judged purely on the first impression of your looks. All the "dont just say hi" or any other rule or bollocks goes right out the window if they fancy you. And if they dont it doesnt matter if you wrote a message worthy of Oscar wilde you're still not getting laid. So send a simple polite message, use anything on thier profile thats relevant to start a conversation (although women/couples rarely have anything as an ice breaker on thier profile) and attach your pics. If they fancy you they'll reply if they don't they wont. I never go purely on looks at all, a man has to prove he has an attractive personality too for me to feel attracted to him. So you're theory is wrong where I'm concerned. I can't speak for other women of course. Actually no you just proved it correct. Right there where you said "too" An attractive personality "too". So you your initial judgment is still the look witty message isnt changing thier face. But looks will get a conversation startes.So how comes my current FB's profile doesn't even have a profile picture? It was his message that attracted me. So if he turned out to be minging he would still be your FB?? These unrealistic expectation for men on here to jump through hoops and 'make more of an effort ' to meet people are beyond a joke . Any self respecting man wouldn't allow himself to be dictated to in order to get a shag. The only messages these needy and unrealistic profiles receive are the ones they deserve "I've never expected a man to jump through hoops for me, that would be very unappealing to me if a man was willing to do that just for sex. | |||
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"I agree with playful minx Are you only sending "hi" or are you actually speaking to us like human beings rather than a piece of meat? I will generally reply to all that send me a polite/funny/original message. You need to be different The irony of this post is that rhe man will inevitably be judged as a peice of meat by whoever he messages. Op 99% of the time on here unless you get the perfect line for the person your entire approach is judged purely on the first impression of your looks. All the "dont just say hi" or any other rule or bollocks goes right out the window if they fancy you. And if they dont it doesnt matter if you wrote a message worthy of Oscar wilde you're still not getting laid. So send a simple polite message, use anything on thier profile thats relevant to start a conversation (although women/couples rarely have anything as an ice breaker on thier profile) and attach your pics. If they fancy you they'll reply if they don't they wont. I never go purely on looks at all, a man has to prove he has an attractive personality too for me to feel attracted to him. So you're theory is wrong where I'm concerned. I can't speak for other women of course. Actually no you just proved it correct. Right there where you said "too" An attractive personality "too". So you your initial judgment is still the look witty message isnt changing thier face. But looks will get a conversation startes.So how comes my current FB's profile doesn't even have a profile picture? It was his message that attracted me. Did he attach photos with his initial message? No having a go just curious No he didn't. We chatted for a while, then once I knew I liked his personality, we swopped face pictures. I never send my face picture out either straight away, as I appreciate a man who wants me for my personality too." And didn't read your profile | |||
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"I agree with playful minx Are you only sending "hi" or are you actually speaking to us like human beings rather than a piece of meat? I will generally reply to all that send me a polite/funny/original message. You need to be different The irony of this post is that rhe man will inevitably be judged as a peice of meat by whoever he messages. Op 99% of the time on here unless you get the perfect line for the person your entire approach is judged purely on the first impression of your looks. All the "dont just say hi" or any other rule or bollocks goes right out the window if they fancy you. And if they dont it doesnt matter if you wrote a message worthy of Oscar wilde you're still not getting laid. So send a simple polite message, use anything on thier profile thats relevant to start a conversation (although women/couples rarely have anything as an ice breaker on thier profile) and attach your pics. If they fancy you they'll reply if they don't they wont. I never go purely on looks at all, a man has to prove he has an attractive personality too for me to feel attracted to him. So you're theory is wrong where I'm concerned. I can't speak for other women of course. Actually no you just proved it correct. Right there where you said "too" An attractive personality "too". So you your initial judgment is still the look witty message isnt changing thier face. But looks will get a conversation startes.So how comes my current FB's profile doesn't even have a profile picture? It was his message that attracted me. Did he attach photos with his initial message? No having a go just curious No he didn't. We chatted for a while, then once I knew I liked his personality, we swopped face pictures. I never send my face picture out either straight away, as I appreciate a man who wants me for my personality too. Ah that pretty refreshing to hear something like that, gives a bit of hope. I wrote a message the other day that was polite detailed and personal to her profile and I giggles at a couple of jokes I added too. It was deleted and not even sure it was read. " There's always hope, but not every woman is like me, I'm aware a lot are here just for a quick "f**k n go" , so they would probably prioritise looks above all else. | |||
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"I agree with playful minx Are you only sending "hi" or are you actually speaking to us like human beings rather than a piece of meat? I will generally reply to all that send me a polite/funny/original message. You need to be different The irony of this post is that rhe man will inevitably be judged as a peice of meat by whoever he messages. Op 99% of the time on here unless you get the perfect line for the person your entire approach is judged purely on the first impression of your looks. All the "dont just say hi" or any other rule or bollocks goes right out the window if they fancy you. And if they dont it doesnt matter if you wrote a message worthy of Oscar wilde you're still not getting laid. So send a simple polite message, use anything on thier profile thats relevant to start a conversation (although women/couples rarely have anything as an ice breaker on thier profile) and attach your pics. If they fancy you they'll reply if they don't they wont. I never go purely on looks at all, a man has to prove he has an attractive personality too for me to feel attracted to him. So you're theory is wrong where I'm concerned. I can't speak for other women of course. Actually no you just proved it correct. Right there where you said "too" An attractive personality "too". So you your initial judgment is still the look witty message isnt changing thier face. But looks will get a conversation startes.So how comes my current FB's profile doesn't even have a profile picture? It was his message that attracted me. Did he attach photos with his initial message? No having a go just curious No he didn't. We chatted for a while, then once I knew I liked his personality, we swopped face pictures. I never send my face picture out either straight away, as I appreciate a man who wants me for my personality too. And didn't read your profile "He did read my profile and the fact he apologised for not attaching a face picture with his first message, proved to me he had read it to the end | |||
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"I agree with playful minx Are you only sending "hi" or are you actually speaking to us like human beings rather than a piece of meat? I will generally reply to all that send me a polite/funny/original message. You need to be different The irony of this post is that rhe man will inevitably be judged as a peice of meat by whoever he messages. Op 99% of the time on here unless you get the perfect line for the person your entire approach is judged purely on the first impression of your looks. All the "dont just say hi" or any other rule or bollocks goes right out the window if they fancy you. And if they dont it doesnt matter if you wrote a message worthy of Oscar wilde you're still not getting laid. So send a simple polite message, use anything on thier profile thats relevant to start a conversation (although women/couples rarely have anything as an ice breaker on thier profile) and attach your pics. If they fancy you they'll reply if they don't they wont. I never go purely on looks at all, a man has to prove he has an attractive personality too for me to feel attracted to him. So you're theory is wrong where I'm concerned. I can't speak for other women of course. Actually no you just proved it correct. Right there where you said "too" An attractive personality "too". So you your initial judgment is still the look witty message isnt changing thier face. But looks will get a conversation startes.So how comes my current FB's profile doesn't even have a profile picture? It was his message that attracted me. So if he turned out to be minging he would still be your FB?? These unrealistic expectation for men on here to jump through hoops and 'make more of an effort ' to meet people are beyond a joke . Any self respecting man wouldn't allow himself to be dictated to in order to get a shag. The only messages these needy and unrealistic profiles receive are the ones they deserve
I've never expected a man to jump through hoops for me, that would be very unappealing to me if a man was willing to do that just for sex."Fair enough , your profile doesn't suggest you would ask people unrealistic demands that's why your probably enjoying the site and getting to meet people you want | |||
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"I agree with playful minx Are you only sending "hi" or are you actually speaking to us like human beings rather than a piece of meat? I will generally reply to all that send me a polite/funny/original message. You need to be different The irony of this post is that rhe man will inevitably be judged as a peice of meat by whoever he messages. Op 99% of the time on here unless you get the perfect line for the person your entire approach is judged purely on the first impression of your looks. All the "dont just say hi" or any other rule or bollocks goes right out the window if they fancy you. And if they dont it doesnt matter if you wrote a message worthy of Oscar wilde you're still not getting laid. So send a simple polite message, use anything on thier profile thats relevant to start a conversation (although women/couples rarely have anything as an ice breaker on thier profile) and attach your pics. If they fancy you they'll reply if they don't they wont. I never go purely on looks at all, a man has to prove he has an attractive personality too for me to feel attracted to him. So you're theory is wrong where I'm concerned. I can't speak for other women of course. Actually no you just proved it correct. Right there where you said "too" An attractive personality "too". So you your initial judgment is still the look witty message isnt changing thier face. But looks will get a conversation startes.So how comes my current FB's profile doesn't even have a profile picture? It was his message that attracted me. Did he attach photos with his initial message? No having a go just curious No he didn't. We chatted for a while, then once I knew I liked his personality, we swopped face pictures. I never send my face picture out either straight away, as I appreciate a man who wants me for my personality too. And didn't read your profile
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"I agree with playful minx Are you only sending "hi" or are you actually speaking to us like human beings rather than a piece of meat? I will generally reply to all that send me a polite/funny/original message. You need to be different The irony of this post is that rhe man will inevitably be judged as a peice of meat by whoever he messages. Op 99% of the time on here unless you get the perfect line for the person your entire approach is judged purely on the first impression of your looks. All the "dont just say hi" or any other rule or bollocks goes right out the window if they fancy you. And if they dont it doesnt matter if you wrote a message worthy of Oscar wilde you're still not getting laid. So send a simple polite message, use anything on thier profile thats relevant to start a conversation (although women/couples rarely have anything as an ice breaker on thier profile) and attach your pics. If they fancy you they'll reply if they don't they wont. I never go purely on looks at all, a man has to prove he has an attractive personality too for me to feel attracted to him. So you're theory is wrong where I'm concerned. I can't speak for other women of course. Actually no you just proved it correct. Right there where you said "too" An attractive personality "too". So you your initial judgment is still the look witty message isnt changing thier face. But looks will get a conversation startes.So how comes my current FB's profile doesn't even have a profile picture? It was his message that attracted me. Did he attach photos with his initial message? No having a go just curious No he didn't. We chatted for a while, then once I knew I liked his personality, we swopped face pictures. I never send my face picture out either straight away, as I appreciate a man who wants me for my personality too. Ah that pretty refreshing to hear something like that, gives a bit of hope. I wrote a message the other day that was polite detailed and personal to her profile and I giggles at a couple of jokes I added too. It was deleted and not even sure it was read. There's always hope, but not every woman is like me, I'm aware a lot are here just for a quick "f**k n go" , so they would probably prioritise looks above all else." Why you trying to say I'm ugly or something | |||
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"I agree with playful minx Are you only sending "hi" or are you actually speaking to us like human beings rather than a piece of meat? I will generally reply to all that send me a polite/funny/original message. You need to be different The irony of this post is that rhe man will inevitably be judged as a peice of meat by whoever he messages. Op 99% of the time on here unless you get the perfect line for the person your entire approach is judged purely on the first impression of your looks. All the "dont just say hi" or any other rule or bollocks goes right out the window if they fancy you. And if they dont it doesnt matter if you wrote a message worthy of Oscar wilde you're still not getting laid. So send a simple polite message, use anything on thier profile thats relevant to start a conversation (although women/couples rarely have anything as an ice breaker on thier profile) and attach your pics. If they fancy you they'll reply if they don't they wont. I never go purely on looks at all, a man has to prove he has an attractive personality too for me to feel attracted to him. So you're theory is wrong where I'm concerned. I can't speak for other women of course. Actually no you just proved it correct. Right there where you said "too" An attractive personality "too". So you your initial judgment is still the look witty message isnt changing thier face. But looks will get a conversation startes.So how comes my current FB's profile doesn't even have a profile picture? It was his message that attracted me. Did he attach photos with his initial message? No having a go just curious No he didn't. We chatted for a while, then once I knew I liked his personality, we swopped face pictures. I never send my face picture out either straight away, as I appreciate a man who wants me for my personality too. And didn't read your profile
He did read my profile and the fact he apologised for not attaching a face picture with his first message, proved to me he had read it to the end
Ah, so in reality we can't win? "Win at what ? I didn't realise we were playing a game ? | |||
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"I agree with playful minx Are you only sending "hi" or are you actually speaking to us like human beings rather than a piece of meat? I will generally reply to all that send me a polite/funny/original message. You need to be different The irony of this post is that rhe man will inevitably be judged as a peice of meat by whoever he messages. Op 99% of the time on here unless you get the perfect line for the person your entire approach is judged purely on the first impression of your looks. All the "dont just say hi" or any other rule or bollocks goes right out the window if they fancy you. And if they dont it doesnt matter if you wrote a message worthy of Oscar wilde you're still not getting laid. So send a simple polite message, use anything on thier profile thats relevant to start a conversation (although women/couples rarely have anything as an ice breaker on thier profile) and attach your pics. If they fancy you they'll reply if they don't they wont. I never go purely on looks at all, a man has to prove he has an attractive personality too for me to feel attracted to him. So you're theory is wrong where I'm concerned. I can't speak for other women of course. Actually no you just proved it correct. Right there where you said "too" An attractive personality "too". So you your initial judgment is still the look witty message isnt changing thier face. But looks will get a conversation startes.So how comes my current FB's profile doesn't even have a profile picture? It was his message that attracted me. Did he attach photos with his initial message? No having a go just curious No he didn't. We chatted for a while, then once I knew I liked his personality, we swopped face pictures. I never send my face picture out either straight away, as I appreciate a man who wants me for my personality too. Ah that pretty refreshing to hear something like that, gives a bit of hope. I wrote a message the other day that was polite detailed and personal to her profile and I giggles at a couple of jokes I added too. It was deleted and not even sure it was read. There's always hope, but not every woman is like me, I'm aware a lot are here just for a quick "f**k n go" , so they would probably prioritise looks above all else." If your so happily married and only on here because of a break down in your sex life with hubby seems odd that youre looking for so much more than fuck and go? | |||
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"I agree with playful minx Are you only sending "hi" or are you actually speaking to us like human beings rather than a piece of meat? I will generally reply to all that send me a polite/funny/original message. You need to be different The irony of this post is that rhe man will inevitably be judged as a peice of meat by whoever he messages. Op 99% of the time on here unless you get the perfect line for the person your entire approach is judged purely on the first impression of your looks. All the "dont just say hi" or any other rule or bollocks goes right out the window if they fancy you. And if they dont it doesnt matter if you wrote a message worthy of Oscar wilde you're still not getting laid. So send a simple polite message, use anything on thier profile thats relevant to start a conversation (although women/couples rarely have anything as an ice breaker on thier profile) and attach your pics. If they fancy you they'll reply if they don't they wont. I never go purely on looks at all, a man has to prove he has an attractive personality too for me to feel attracted to him. So you're theory is wrong where I'm concerned. I can't speak for other women of course. Actually no you just proved it correct. Right there where you said "too" An attractive personality "too". So you your initial judgment is still the look witty message isnt changing thier face. But looks will get a conversation startes.So how comes my current FB's profile doesn't even have a profile picture? It was his message that attracted me. So if he turned out to be minging he would still be your FB?? These unrealistic expectation for men on here to jump through hoops and 'make more of an effort ' to meet people are beyond a joke . Any self respecting man wouldn't allow himself to be dictated to in order to get a shag. The only messages these needy and unrealistic profiles receive are the ones they deserve
I've never expected a man to jump through hoops for me, that would be very unappealing to me if a man was willing to do that just for sex.
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He did read my profile and the fact he apologised for not attaching a face picture with his first message, proved to me he had read it to the end
Ah, so in reality we can't win?
Win at what ? I didn't realise we were playing a game ? "Of course it is a game, you don't take all this seriously do you?? | |||
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"I agree with playful minx Are you only sending "hi" or are you actually speaking to us like human beings rather than a piece of meat? I will generally reply to all that send me a polite/funny/original message. You need to be different The irony of this post is that rhe man will inevitably be judged as a peice of meat by whoever he messages. Op 99% of the time on here unless you get the perfect line for the person your entire approach is judged purely on the first impression of your looks. All the "dont just say hi" or any other rule or bollocks goes right out the window if they fancy you. And if they dont it doesnt matter if you wrote a message worthy of Oscar wilde you're still not getting laid. So send a simple polite message, use anything on thier profile thats relevant to start a conversation (although women/couples rarely have anything as an ice breaker on thier profile) and attach your pics. If they fancy you they'll reply if they don't they wont. I never go purely on looks at all, a man has to prove he has an attractive personality too for me to feel attracted to him. So you're theory is wrong where I'm concerned. I can't speak for other women of course. Actually no you just proved it correct. Right there where you said "too" An attractive personality "too". So you your initial judgment is still the look witty message isnt changing thier face. But looks will get a conversation startes.So how comes my current FB's profile doesn't even have a profile picture? It was his message that attracted me. Did he attach photos with his initial message? No having a go just curious No he didn't. We chatted for a while, then once I knew I liked his personality, we swopped face pictures. I never send my face picture out either straight away, as I appreciate a man who wants me for my personality too. And didn't read your profile
He did read my profile and the fact he apologised for not attaching a face picture with his first message, proved to me he had read it to the end
Ah, so in reality we can't win?
Win at what ? I didn't realise we were playing a game ?
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He did read my profile and the fact he apologised for not attaching a face picture with his first message, proved to me he had read it to the end
Ah, so in reality we can't win?
Win at what ? I didn't realise we were playing a game ?
Of course it is a game, you don't take all this seriously do you??
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"I agree with playful minx Are you only sending "hi" or are you actually speaking to us like human beings rather than a piece of meat? I will generally reply to all that send me a polite/funny/original message. You need to be different The irony of this post is that rhe man will inevitably be judged as a peice of meat by whoever he messages. Op 99% of the time on here unless you get the perfect line for the person your entire approach is judged purely on the first impression of your looks. All the "dont just say hi" or any other rule or bollocks goes right out the window if they fancy you. And if they dont it doesnt matter if you wrote a message worthy of Oscar wilde you're still not getting laid. So send a simple polite message, use anything on thier profile thats relevant to start a conversation (although women/couples rarely have anything as an ice breaker on thier profile) and attach your pics. If they fancy you they'll reply if they don't they wont. I never go purely on looks at all, a man has to prove he has an attractive personality too for me to feel attracted to him. So you're theory is wrong where I'm concerned. I can't speak for other women of course. Actually no you just proved it correct. Right there where you said "too" An attractive personality "too". So you your initial judgment is still the look witty message isnt changing thier face. But looks will get a conversation startes.So how comes my current FB's profile doesn't even have a profile picture? It was his message that attracted me. Did he attach photos with his initial message? No having a go just curious No he didn't. We chatted for a while, then once I knew I liked his personality, we swopped face pictures. I never send my face picture out either straight away, as I appreciate a man who wants me for my personality too. And didn't read your profile
He did read my profile and the fact he apologised for not attaching a face picture with his first message, proved to me he had read it to the end
Ah, so in reality we can't win?
Win at what ? I didn't realise we were playing a game ?
Of course it is a game, you don't take all this seriously do you??
No because it isn't real life, but I didn't realise it was about winning or loosing.
Every game has winners and loosers, otherwise it wouldn't be a game . "Not strictly true...have you never hear of a draw ? | |||
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"I agree with playful minx Are you only sending "hi" or are you actually speaking to us like human beings rather than a piece of meat? I will generally reply to all that send me a polite/funny/original message. You need to be different The irony of this post is that rhe man will inevitably be judged as a peice of meat by whoever he messages. Op 99% of the time on here unless you get the perfect line for the person your entire approach is judged purely on the first impression of your looks. All the "dont just say hi" or any other rule or bollocks goes right out the window if they fancy you. And if they dont it doesnt matter if you wrote a message worthy of Oscar wilde you're still not getting laid. So send a simple polite message, use anything on thier profile thats relevant to start a conversation (although women/couples rarely have anything as an ice breaker on thier profile) and attach your pics. If they fancy you they'll reply if they don't they wont. I never go purely on looks at all, a man has to prove he has an attractive personality too for me to feel attracted to him. So you're theory is wrong where I'm concerned. I can't speak for other women of course. Actually no you just proved it correct. Right there where you said "too" An attractive personality "too". So you your initial judgment is still the look witty message isnt changing thier face. But looks will get a conversation startes.So how comes my current FB's profile doesn't even have a profile picture? It was his message that attracted me. Did he attach photos with his initial message? No having a go just curious No he didn't. We chatted for a while, then once I knew I liked his personality, we swopped face pictures. I never send my face picture out either straight away, as I appreciate a man who wants me for my personality too. And didn't read your profile
He did read my profile and the fact he apologised for not attaching a face picture with his first message, proved to me he had read it to the end
Ah, so in reality we can't win?
Win at what ? I didn't realise we were playing a game ?
Of course it is a game, you don't take all this seriously do you??
No because it isn't real life, but I didn't realise it was about winning or loosing.
Every game has winners and loosers, otherwise it wouldn't be a game .
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"Was wondering if PLAYFUL-MINX could shes some me light on why nobody wants to meet up with me once I message them and send FACE pics too. Thanks for reply (I'll say that before hand lol)" I'm assuming because you don't appeal to them for whatever reason. We all can't find everyone attractive, that would just be a weird old world | |||
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"I agree with playful minx Are you only sending "hi" or are you actually speaking to us like human beings rather than a piece of meat? I will generally reply to all that send me a polite/funny/original message. You need to be different The irony of this post is that rhe man will inevitably be judged as a peice of meat by whoever he messages. Op 99% of the time on here unless you get the perfect line for the person your entire approach is judged purely on the first impression of your looks. All the "dont just say hi" or any other rule or bollocks goes right out the window if they fancy you. And if they dont it doesnt matter if you wrote a message worthy of Oscar wilde you're still not getting laid. So send a simple polite message, use anything on thier profile thats relevant to start a conversation (although women/couples rarely have anything as an ice breaker on thier profile) and attach your pics. If they fancy you they'll reply if they don't they wont. I never go purely on looks at all, a man has to prove he has an attractive personality too for me to feel attracted to him. So you're theory is wrong where I'm concerned. I can't speak for other women of course. Actually no you just proved it correct. Right there where you said "too" An attractive personality "too". So you your initial judgment is still the look witty message isnt changing thier face. But looks will get a conversation startes.So how comes my current FB's profile doesn't even have a profile picture? It was his message that attracted me. Did he attach photos with his initial message? No having a go just curious No he didn't. We chatted for a while, then once I knew I liked his personality, we swopped face pictures. I never send my face picture out either straight away, as I appreciate a man who wants me for my personality too. Ah that pretty refreshing to hear something like that, gives a bit of hope. I wrote a message the other day that was polite detailed and personal to her profile and I giggles at a couple of jokes I added too. It was deleted and not even sure it was read. " This the normal way it goes on here unfortunately.. I don't buy this I get thousands of messages.. It's only courteous to reply with a thanks but no thanks.. Ignorance.. | |||
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"I agree with playful minx Are you only sending "hi" or are you actually speaking to us like human beings rather than a piece of meat? I will generally reply to all that send me a polite/funny/original message. You need to be different The irony of this post is that rhe man will inevitably be judged as a peice of meat by whoever he messages. Op 99% of the time on here unless you get the perfect line for the person your entire approach is judged purely on the first impression of your looks. All the "dont just say hi" or any other rule or bollocks goes right out the window if they fancy you. And if they dont it doesnt matter if you wrote a message worthy of Oscar wilde you're still not getting laid. So send a simple polite message, use anything on thier profile thats relevant to start a conversation (although women/couples rarely have anything as an ice breaker on thier profile) and attach your pics. If they fancy you they'll reply if they don't they wont. I never go purely on looks at all, a man has to prove he has an attractive personality too for me to feel attracted to him. So you're theory is wrong where I'm concerned. I can't speak for other women of course. Actually no you just proved it correct. Right there where you said "too" An attractive personality "too". So you your initial judgment is still the look witty message isnt changing thier face. But looks will get a conversation startes.So how comes my current FB's profile doesn't even have a profile picture? It was his message that attracted me. Did he attach photos with his initial message? No having a go just curious No he didn't. We chatted for a while, then once I knew I liked his personality, we swopped face pictures. I never send my face picture out either straight away, as I appreciate a man who wants me for my personality too. Ah that pretty refreshing to hear something like that, gives a bit of hope. I wrote a message the other day that was polite detailed and personal to her profile and I giggles at a couple of jokes I added too. It was deleted and not even sure it was read. This the normal way it goes on here unfortunately.. I don't buy this I get thousands of messages.. It's only courteous to reply with a thanks but no thanks.. Ignorance.. " One of my friends showed my her fab inbox, 950 unread messages, another one regularly has around 500. They really do get that many, if they were to reply to every single one they'd be there all day as the messages keep coming. | |||
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"First time for me,so i was wondering why do couples and females in there profiles insist on telling you not to start a conversation with"hi,hiya or how are you,or some other short way of letting them know you are there,i mean if they where in a club/pub and someone came over to them would they expect a full page conversation straight away or a polite"hi how are you or the famous Joey line even"how you doin lol,just sayin like
given the crude and ridiculous messages lots of men send , i see nothing wrong at all with a pleasant 'hi, how are you?' at all..i always check out a profile before even opening a message, and if that appeals, and their criteria are similar to mine, then i'll happily respond...don't need an initial essay,nothing wrong with a polite ice breaker at all..."Totally agree! A good profile will always work wonders. And also I don't get the mythical 100's of messages a day!! So if your profile is good then I will most likely respond. | |||
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"I agree with playful minx Are you only sending "hi" or are you actually speaking to us like human beings rather than a piece of meat? I will generally reply to all that send me a polite/funny/original message. You need to be different The irony of this post is that rhe man will inevitably be judged as a peice of meat by whoever he messages. Op 99% of the time on here unless you get the perfect line for the person your entire approach is judged purely on the first impression of your looks. All the "dont just say hi" or any other rule or bollocks goes right out the window if they fancy you. And if they dont it doesnt matter if you wrote a message worthy of Oscar wilde you're still not getting laid. So send a simple polite message, use anything on thier profile thats relevant to start a conversation (although women/couples rarely have anything as an ice breaker on thier profile) and attach your pics. If they fancy you they'll reply if they don't they wont. " I was gonna write something similar. It's all about the pictures on here. | |||
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"I agree with playful minx Are you only sending "hi" or are you actually speaking to us like human beings rather than a piece of meat? I will generally reply to all that send me a polite/funny/original message. You need to be different The irony of this post is that rhe man will inevitably be judged as a peice of meat by whoever he messages. Op 99% of the time on here unless you get the perfect line for the person your entire approach is judged purely on the first impression of your looks. All the "dont just say hi" or any other rule or bollocks goes right out the window if they fancy you. And if they dont it doesnt matter if you wrote a message worthy of Oscar wilde you're still not getting laid. So send a simple polite message, use anything on thier profile thats relevant to start a conversation (although women/couples rarely have anything as an ice breaker on thier profile) and attach your pics. If they fancy you they'll reply if they don't they wont. I never go purely on looks at all, a man has to prove he has an attractive personality too for me to feel attracted to him. So you're theory is wrong where I'm concerned. I can't speak for other women of course. Actually no you just proved it correct. Right there where you said "too" An attractive personality "too". So you your initial judgment is still the look witty message isnt changing thier face. But looks will get a conversation startes.So how comes my current FB's profile doesn't even have a profile picture? It was his message that attracted me. Did he attach photos with his initial message? No having a go just curious No he didn't. We chatted for a while, then once I knew I liked his personality, we swopped face pictures. I never send my face picture out either straight away, as I appreciate a man who wants me for my personality too. Ah that pretty refreshing to hear something like that, gives a bit of hope. I wrote a message the other day that was polite detailed and personal to her profile and I giggles at a couple of jokes I added too. It was deleted and not even sure it was read. This the normal way it goes on here unfortunately.. I don't buy this I get thousands of messages.. It's only courteous to reply with a thanks but no thanks.. Ignorance.. " If women had to reply to every single message they receive, we would be in here 24/7. We do have lives away from Fab. Maybe you don't realise the quantity of messages women receive. Also read the site Q & A, it's not ignorance, it's a statement that a person isn't interested. | |||
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"I agree with playful minx Are you only sending "hi" or are you actually speaking to us like human beings rather than a piece of meat? I will generally reply to all that send me a polite/funny/original message. You need to be different The irony of this post is that rhe man will inevitably be judged as a peice of meat by whoever he messages. Op 99% of the time on here unless you get the perfect line for the person your entire approach is judged purely on the first impression of your looks. All the "dont just say hi" or any other rule or bollocks goes right out the window if they fancy you. And if they dont it doesnt matter if you wrote a message worthy of Oscar wilde you're still not getting laid. So send a simple polite message, use anything on thier profile thats relevant to start a conversation (although women/couples rarely have anything as an ice breaker on thier profile) and attach your pics. If they fancy you they'll reply if they don't they wont. I was gonna write something similar. It's all about the pictures on here. " Did your roast chicken get you a shag? It should've done it looked fucking delicious | |||
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"I agree with playful minx Are you only sending "hi" or are you actually speaking to us like human beings rather than a piece of meat? I will generally reply to all that send me a polite/funny/original message. You need to be different The irony of this post is that rhe man will inevitably be judged as a peice of meat by whoever he messages. Op 99% of the time on here unless you get the perfect line for the person your entire approach is judged purely on the first impression of your looks. All the "dont just say hi" or any other rule or bollocks goes right out the window if they fancy you. And if they dont it doesnt matter if you wrote a message worthy of Oscar wilde you're still not getting laid. So send a simple polite message, use anything on thier profile thats relevant to start a conversation (although women/couples rarely have anything as an ice breaker on thier profile) and attach your pics. If they fancy you they'll reply if they don't they wont. " True story I never complain about 'Hi there' messages because I understand it's a difficult place for most guys. Having said that, an intelligent or witty comment on my profile or status is far more likely to get a response out of me. There's lots of good bodies on here - there's a shortage of wit and charm!! | |||
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"Competition amongst single men on here is so high, that you have to make yourself stand out. If you can't be bothered to put in a little more effort than just a few words, then I'm afraid you won't get noticed. It's all about first impressions. A man needs to prove to me he has taken the time to read my profile and make his opening message to me personal, otherwise I don't even bother checking out his profile, I'll just delete." Couldn't agree more | |||
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"I agree with playful minx Are you only sending "hi" or are you actually speaking to us like human beings rather than a piece of meat? I will generally reply to all that send me a polite/funny/original message. You need to be different The irony of this post is that rhe man will inevitably be judged as a peice of meat by whoever he messages. Op 99% of the time on here unless you get the perfect line for the person your entire approach is judged purely on the first impression of your looks. All the "dont just say hi" or any other rule or bollocks goes right out the window if they fancy you. And if they dont it doesnt matter if you wrote a message worthy of Oscar wilde you're still not getting laid. So send a simple polite message, use anything on thier profile thats relevant to start a conversation (although women/couples rarely have anything as an ice breaker on thier profile) and attach your pics. If they fancy you they'll reply if they don't they wont. I was gonna write something similar. It's all about the pictures on here. Did your roast chicken get you a shag? It should've done it looked fucking delicious "It would've if I was looking for sex. Haven't been seeking it for a while! | |||
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"Competition amongst single men on here is so high, that you have to make yourself stand out. If you can't be bothered to put in a little more effort than just a few words, then I'm afraid you won't get noticed. It's all about first impressions. A man needs to prove to me he has taken the time to read my profile and make his opening message to me personal, otherwise I don't even bother checking out his profile, I'll just delete." That's how I ended up with my other half! Funny thing was we were not what the other was looking for, in fact we're polar opposites in everything, but his opening comment was something funny about my profile. I replied in kind...three years later we're still together! | |||
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"Competition amongst single men on here is so high, that you have to make yourself stand out. If you can't be bothered to put in a little more effort than just a few words, then I'm afraid you won't get noticed. It's all about first impressions. A man needs to prove to me he has taken the time to read my profile and make his opening message to me personal, otherwise I don't even bother checking out his profile, I'll just delete. That's how I ended up with my other half! Funny thing was we were not what the other was looking for, in fact we're polar opposites in everything, but his opening comment was something funny about my profile. I replied in kind...three years later we're still together! "Exactly - instant connect. Men need to understand that expressing full-on lust before a woman has given them 'buying signals' can be very off-putting, flattery is usually dismissed as insincere (because sadly it usually is) but wit and charm can instantly make a connection, and that's what many if not most women are looking for I believe. I am not interested in the fact that a man wants sex, I want the man that wants ME. | |||
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"Competition amongst single men on here is so high, that you have to make yourself stand out. If you can't be bothered to put in a little more effort than just a few words, then I'm afraid you won't get noticed. It's all about first impressions. A man needs to prove to me he has taken the time to read my profile and make his opening message to me personal, otherwise I don't even bother checking out his profile, I'll just delete. That's how I ended up with my other half! Funny thing was we were not what the other was looking for, in fact we're polar opposites in everything, but his opening comment was something funny about my profile. I replied in kind...three years later we're still together!
Exactly - instant connect. Men need to understand that expressing full-on lust before a woman has given them 'buying signals' can be very off-putting, flattery is usually dismissed as insincere (because sadly it usually is) but wit and charm can instantly make a connection, and that's what many if not most women are looking for I believe.
I am not interested in the fact that a man wants sex, I want the man that wants ME. " this exactly!! | |||
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"First time for me,so i was wondering why do couples and females in there profiles insist on telling you not to start a conversation with"hi,hiya or how are you,or some other short way of letting them know you are there,i mean if they where in a club/pub and someone came over to them would they expect a full page conversation straight away or a polite"hi how are you or the famous Joey line even"how you doin lol,just sayin like "When you approach someone out in the real world there is much more than just hi how are you? You have body language and other non verbal communication. You don't have this on fab so you need to say more in your opening message to spark an interest. | |||
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"First time for me,so i was wondering why do couples and females in there profiles insist on telling you not to start a conversation with"hi,hiya or how are you,or some other short way of letting them know you are there,i mean if they where in a club/pub and someone came over to them would they expect a full page conversation straight away or a polite"hi how are you or the famous Joey line even"how you doin lol,just sayin like "I think this is daft too | |||
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"I agree with playful minx Are you only sending "hi" or are you actually speaking to us like human beings rather than a piece of meat? I will generally reply to all that send me a polite/funny/original message. You need to be different The irony of this post is that rhe man will inevitably be judged as a peice of meat by whoever he messages. Op 99% of the time on here unless you get the perfect line for the person your entire approach is judged purely on the first impression of your looks. All the "dont just say hi" or any other rule or bollocks goes right out the window if they fancy you. And if they dont it doesnt matter if you wrote a message worthy of Oscar wilde you're still not getting laid. So send a simple polite message, use anything on thier profile thats relevant to start a conversation (although women/couples rarely have anything as an ice breaker on thier profile) and attach your pics. If they fancy you they'll reply if they don't they wont. "
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"Please don't send a joke as a initial message.... I tried this once and got blocked I wrote .... hello what does a serial killer say to woman? She replied " What " , I replied " Does this napkin smell like clorophorm She deleted and blocked me "Weirdo | |||
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"I agree with playful minx Are you only sending "hi" or are you actually speaking to us like human beings rather than a piece of meat? I will generally reply to all that send me a polite/funny/original message. You need to be different The irony of this post is that rhe man will inevitably be judged as a peice of meat by whoever he messages. Op 99% of the time on here unless you get the perfect line for the person your entire approach is judged purely on the first impression of your looks. All the "dont just say hi" or any other rule or bollocks goes right out the window if they fancy you. And if they dont it doesnt matter if you wrote a message worthy of Oscar wilde you're still not getting laid. So send a simple polite message, use anything on thier profile thats relevant to start a conversation (although women/couples rarely have anything as an ice breaker on thier profile) and attach your pics. If they fancy you they'll reply if they don't they wont. " Totally agree fella!! | |||
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"Well I'll tell you .... there are so many bolshy abrasive aggressive female profiles "dont do this, dont say that, will block you" etc. For christs sake. Unless you like a ratbag just move on to a nicer profile" Believe it not there are men with the same sort of profile it not women specific. | |||
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"First time for me,so i was wondering why do couples and females in there profiles insist on telling you not to start a conversation with"hi,hiya or how are you,or some other short way of letting them know you are there,i mean if they where in a club/pub and someone came over to them would they expect a full page conversation straight away or a polite"hi how are you or the famous Joey line even"how you doin lol,just sayin like "Don't think anyone would mind with you opening with it just make sure you follow it up with something, ie. Why you chose to message, how you think you fit the recipient's criteria, a good profile or a nice face pic | |||
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"First time for me,so i was wondering why do couples and females in there profiles insist on telling you not to start a conversation with"hi,hiya or how are you,or some other short way of letting them know you are there,i mean if they where in a club/pub and someone came over to them would they expect a full page conversation straight away or a polite"hi how are you or the famous Joey line even"how you doin lol,just sayin like
If you walk up to someone in person and say hi the introduction is more than just what you say, they can see your face, your build, the way you carry yourself, your confidence.
Women receive literally hundreds of messages a day and when all they see is "hi there" and a blurry picture of a cock or a tattoo as a profile pic then it's inevitable that it may get lost in the deluge of identical messages.
I've sent both types of messages and got no where and I do think a lot of it comes down to luck. Every time I read one of these type of threads it can have a different answer as in not the best photos, not correct verifications or been on along time with no verification
A lot of it is luck, if your message gets spotted and you match what they're looking for. Women pretty much have their pick of guys on here so it is difficult.
Personally I've found the forums a great place to get myself some exposure, join in the banter and show your personality. It's working for me so far!
I'm posting daily on the forums and getting involved not had much interaction but getting gradually noticed!! At the end of the day it's a tough gig! I'm gonna go to a club in the near future and try that side of things before I decide to give it up.
Your profile is a little brief, maybe add a bit more about yourself? I tend to find that if I flirt on the forums unless they're in stealth mode I'll see a few women look at my profile and possibly send me the first message. I by no means have an amazing profile myself but I have had lovely comments about it being well written and interesting. Just a thought "It's one of the best I've read and great pics | |||
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"I can appreciate some of the sentiments being expressed - but as much as some people want to feel engaged as individuals (and not just blanket emailed) a this is something which requires give and take. Maybe its just me (and possibly the reason I don't meet much off here) but if Im engaged in email conversation with someone, I want to feel that its a two way street. If I get to feel I'm doing all the work in what is rapidly becoming a one sided conversation (because the replies are lazy, monosyllabic etc) then I just lose interest and stop emailing. If there is an expectation that someone should engage you, you have to be engaging back. Because watching some poor sod do all the work - and keep doing it - marks, to my mind, a lack of respect and desperation just as much as sending out a hundred 'FAF' messages and hoping for a response. Having more than just generic crap on a profile helps (and thats true of whomever you are). How the hell anyone is supposed to craft a personal response or engaging opening message when a profile just says 'Im a 32 year old woman and Im here to meet men'? Yes its an extreme example, but looking to your own profile may help in getting better responses - single males are told this day in and day out. Well its true of everyone. Or just acknowledge that you just want to see the package and make a physically based judgement - there's not shame in it, just don't hid behind the pretence of wanting something more intellectual! Some would argue - well that's just how it is, but only if its allowed to perpetuate. Its a shame (than generally) people aren't treated as equals (until they are allowed to prove otherwise) and held to an equal standards. I think there's a huge amount of self respect in doing so - and if that gets me one meet every five years so be it - but Ill be damned if I'll compromise myself for a meet. "
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"We would much prefer a hi how are you both message,than ones that are rude or speak to only one of us .If the profile that messages looks ok we would still reply. Miss" Exactly a simple Hi from a profile that has something to say is fine, but so many have nothing or just fill in later hardly inspiring to reply to a Hi | |||
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"We used to reply to those messages but 99% of time it played out like this: "Hi, how are you? x" "We're good, how are you guys?" "Great. Up to much?" "Not really. Yourselves? "No. Nice pics" "Thank you, yours are hot too" And so on. Literally cannot be arsed with dozens of back and forth, small talk, messages that ultimately lead nowhere. " | |||
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"Competition amongst single men on here is so high, that you have to make yourself stand out. If you can't be bothered to put in a little more effort than just a few words, then I'm afraid you won't get noticed. It's all about first impressions. A man needs to prove to me he has taken the time to read my profile and make his opening message to me personal, otherwise I don't even bother checking out his profile, I'll just delete. That's how I ended up with my other half! Funny thing was we were not what the other was looking for, in fact we're polar opposites in everything, but his opening comment was something funny about my profile. I replied in kind...three years later we're still together!
Exactly - instant connect. Men need to understand that expressing full-on lust before a woman has given them 'buying signals' can be very off-putting, flattery is usually dismissed as insincere (because sadly it usually is) but wit and charm can instantly make a connection, and that's what many if not most women are looking for I believe.
I am not interested in the fact that a man wants sex, I want the man that wants ME. "Em.. Would you not be better on match or elite or even pof then?????? | |||
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"Please don't send a joke as a initial message.... I tried this once and got blocked I wrote .... hello what does a serial killer say to woman? She replied " What " , I replied " Does this napkin smell like clorophorm " She deleted and blocked me "See now that's the sort of thing that appeals to my humour and I'd respond, it's different | |||
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"They can ask whatever they want to. You can ignore them, by not messaging at all or sending them whatever you wish to. Imagine who gets the most success. ..the fit ones?" Respecting others' advice in their profiles is Imo a sensible starting point | |||
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