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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you find that you lose touch with your gay/lesbian side sometimes?

It's been a while since I've had one to one intimacy with a woman. I just have the urge to throw myself into the LGBT life style again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. But I shove a rose up my bum and I remember

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"Do you find that you lose touch with your gay/lesbian side sometimes?

It's been a while since I've had one to one intimacy with a woman. I just have the urge to throw myself into the LGBT life style again."

I cba

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Yeah, I just dip in and out

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you find that you lose touch with your gay/lesbian side sometimes?

It's been a while since I've had one to one intimacy with a woman. I just have the urge to throw myself into the LGBT life style again.

I cba"

Cba to lose touch?

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I'm just not gay enough

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"Do you find that you lose touch with your gay/lesbian side sometimes?

It's been a while since I've had one to one intimacy with a woman. I just have the urge to throw myself into the LGBT life style again."

I can't wait tbh & hopefully my itch may be scratched soon. Maybe not one on one for now though until I am more comfortable with the idea of S playing alone too.

This may happen it may not, it's me that's holding back on that one.

H

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"Do you find that you lose touch with your gay/lesbian side sometimes?"

If anything I've more lost my straight side. Just don't seem to find many guys who do it for me. Overrun with rampant sexy women though

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By *antsguy007Man
over a year ago

Whiteley


"Do you find that you lose touch with your gay/lesbian side sometimes?

If anything I've more lost my straight side. Just don't seem to find many guys who do it for me. Overrun with rampant sexy women though "

Can you spare a couple

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

bit.

I work predominantly in the gay scene yet never meet people for sex (my performer persona is as scary as my dominatrix one).

And when I've been to bi nights, they're frequently sausage fests. A better balance would be nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very definitely!

I joined Fab at a very unhappy point in my life - just looking for no-strings sex to get me through.

It had many more bi/lesbian women then, and I was able to indulge both sides.

But lately it seems to have become comparatively "straight" - and I'm starting to feel that I need to get back to the LGBT scene, but just haven't found a way yet...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been more involved with men than women recently, but I'm currently making conscious, pro-active efforts to meet women too, watch this space

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally for me, i find i can go months without any bi urges, then suddenly be totally focussed on them for no apparent reason. Unfortunately i can't act on them at the moment, so that could be why they are suppressed. It may just be that you haven't seen anything that attracted you ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, no interest in men atm.

Which is annoying as my sex drive is currently very high and guys are like putting your sex life on easy mode for a single guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi men ?? Quick question please..Do most of you get your cock sucked and/or do you do the fucking!?

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By *oris618Man
over a year ago

Worksop

I think it's different for bi men. Getting one on one with other guys is quite easy. Maybe there should be a site just for bi and gay women.. fabgirls perhaps

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home


"Do you find that you lose touch with your gay/lesbian side sometimes?

It's been a while since I've had one to one intimacy with a woman. I just have the urge to throw myself into the LGBT life style again."

I'm willing to help you with that

MrsSB Always available for the ladies

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home


"Do you find that you lose touch with your gay/lesbian side sometimes?

If anything I've more lost my straight side. Just don't seem to find many guys who do it for me. Overrun with rampant sexy women though "

This is me 100%

MrsSB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you find that you lose touch with your gay/lesbian side sometimes?

If anything I've more lost my straight side. Just don't seem to find many guys who do it for me. Overrun with rampant sexy women though "

Yep me too. Very rarely do I find men on here appealing.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Nope, I'm usually completely straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup, I find my straight side diminishing too from time to time. More to do with opportunity I think.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

What bi side - I don't have one but camp oh yes I can do camp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've not felt the appeal of by bi side in a while, I'm sure in the right circumstances it would come flooding back.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I don't have the urge for cock now as much as I did in ma 20's & 30's. I'm on a couple of gay sites as well, not fabguys, but have not logged in to either of them for several years now though. Ma mate across the hall is bi and pops over sometimes, but we don't always play, If I feel like some man on man action I just fuck off to CS2 sauna. Not been as much in the last couple of years though

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Would love some more bi f fun, but seems that most bi women are part of a mf couple. Which I do enjoy, but I woukd like some more 1:1 time

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Bi men ?? Quick question please..Do most of you get your cock sucked and/or do you do the fucking!?"

Guys usually want to suck my cock. It will obviously be different depending on who answers your question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would love some more bi f fun, but seems that most bi women are part of a mf couple. Which I do enjoy, but I woukd like some more 1:1 time "

So are you saying that you find it impossible to find another female on here to meet with 1:1 with no male involvement ?

I find that quite hard to believe that

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home


"Would love some more bi f fun, but seems that most bi women are part of a mf couple. Which I do enjoy, but I woukd like some more 1:1 time "

I do one on one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi, my name's Mr Alleycat and it's been one year and four months since I put a cock in my mouth

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

For me, the more I have played, the more I have felt in tune with my Bi side absolutely love playing with other ladies. Love the ladies nights at Cupids for the opportunity to meet other like minded lovely ladies

Bun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently I'm not Bi......You see I'm only physically and emotionally attracted to the feminine of the species my relationship was 100% heterosexual .....

I don't fancy men in the slightest , I'm not even remotely attracted to a masculine form , however I do enjoy the intensity of same sex activity,,

In reality if it wasn't for same sex activity I probably wouldn't have a sex life .....

Strangely enough according to some people on this site not being attracted to men makes me straight.... because they rationalise gender and sexuality by physical attraction rather than sexual behaviour

But you know what campers !.... that's just utter bollix..... I'm bisexual

Oh and dull people who make up fancy new names for their sexuality attempting to make their bisexuality sound more interesting are just talking utter bollix too....

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"Yup, I find my straight side diminishing too from time to time. More to do with opportunity I think. "

Its interesting that the ratio of single guys versus bisexual women is so different yet this is the case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd only ever fantasised about being with a woman up until last Summer when I had my first FFM. I definitely get the urge to meet women, just as I do with men, but am still yet to do it one-on-one.

It's all very new to me still and I'm not sure whether that would put women off...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some one to one lady lovin' would be lovely...it's been so very long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd only ever fantasised about being with a woman up until last Summer when I had my first FFM. I definitely get the urge to meet women, just as I do with men, but am still yet to do it one-on-one.

It's all very new to me still and I'm not sure whether that would put women off..."

It wouldn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would love some more bi f fun, but seems that most bi women are part of a mf couple. Which I do enjoy, but I woukd like some more 1:1 time

So are you saying that you find it impossible to find another female on here to meet with 1:1 with no male involvement ?

I find that quite hard to believe that "

This lines up with my experiene on here. On a single female profile contacting single female profiles, the vast majority would suggest their boyfriend/fb come along. They weren't interested in meeting me on their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd only ever fantasised about being with a woman up until last Summer when I had my first FFM. I definitely get the urge to meet women, just as I do with men, but am still yet to do it one-on-one.

It's all very new to me still and I'm not sure whether that would put women off...

It wouldn't "

Hello you!

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By *fcdTV/TS
over a year ago

Southend

I tend to find my tastes change. Sometimes I'm feeling more straight, other times, not so much. One thing I'm sure of, I don't have any emotional connection with men, I don't 'fancy' them as such and I can't imagine falling in love or having a proper relationship with one, I do however rather like cocks. I tend to go with hetexible as a label.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you find that you lose touch with your gay/lesbian side sometimes?

It's been a while since I've had one to one intimacy with a woman. I just have the urge to throw myself into the LGBT life style again."

OP, inspired by your unusually honest profile. I am curious, since you are single why don't you use all the other sites/apps on which women can meet women?

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

1on1 fem meets is something we are talking about and they may happen.

It will only be with those we are seeing as a couple already to start with though.

S

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you find that you lose touch with your gay/lesbian side sometimes?

It's been a while since I've had one to one intimacy with a woman. I just have the urge to throw myself into the LGBT life style again.

OP, inspired by your unusually honest profile. I am curious, since you are single why don't you use all the other sites/apps on which women can meet women?"

To be fair, I haven't yet as dating sites kind of grate on me regardless of whether I'm looking for men or women, I'm considering trying it again though.

I'll take that as a compliment on my profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I honestly think I'm a strange one.. Listed as bicurious because I am. I love certain aspects of same sex activities but never been attracted to any man I've met. Just the sex.

The longer I go without same sex fun then the less I want it as thinking about it doesn't turn me on but slap a cock on my tongue and I love it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I honestly think I'm a strange one.. Listed as bicurious because I am. I love certain aspects of same sex activities but never been attracted to any man I've met. Just the sex. "

I don't think it's strange, that's one of my exes in a nut shell

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By *LUKCouple
over a year ago

Loughborough

Mrs JLUK is properly bi, not "let's put on a show for the boys" bi. Some meets are a complete let down when it turns out her opposite number is not bi but "bi playful". Not a problem when people are upfront, just a downer to find this out when you're already naked and on a bed.

Then there's meets that go up for a "Girl only party" that usually have this sentence tagged on at the end "My partner will be present but he won't be joining in. He'll be there to just provide refreshments" Shyeah right

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By *itsAndTaffCouple
over a year ago

Grays, Essex

I'm incredibly frustrated & horny for some female intimacy

I made the mistake in my 20 & 30s of ignoring my bi side as i didn't have any other gay/lesbian friends so it all felt a bit taboo

In fact on the odd occasion I did try and talk to friends about it they looked at me like I had 2 heads so I continued to look for male partners

Thankfully I now have a lovely husband who is very open sexually and we have both felt free to admit we are attracted to people of the same sex & is happy for me to pursue that side of me

Unfortunately so far I have not been able to meet a like minded woman (Mr is not having the same trouble even the straight guys ask to play with him) so I have also set up a female only profile on here in the hope I can finally start reexploring my bi-side (only set it up a few days ago & can't post yet)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would love some more bi f fun, but seems that most bi women are part of a mf couple. Which I do enjoy, but I woukd like some more 1:1 time

So are you saying that you find it impossible to find another female on here to meet with 1:1 with no male involvement ?

I find that quite hard to believe that

This lines up with my experiene on here. On a single female profile contacting single female profiles, the vast majority would suggest their boyfriend/fb come along. They weren't interested in meeting me on their own."

Same here. Finding women to meet alone isn't easy, even when i had a single woman profile. The boyfriend is happy for me to meet women alone but so far, no luck. I don't want to use normal dating sites because i'm not looking for a relationship, I have one already. I'm just after a fuckbuddy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mostly just sucking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I honestly think I'm a strange one.. Listed as bicurious because I am. I love certain aspects of same sex activities but never been attracted to any man I've met. Just the sex.

The longer I go without same sex fun then the less I want it as thinking about it doesn't turn me on but slap a cock on my tongue and I love it?

"

I can relate to this

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

Ladies feel free to pop over to Eden-events profile for some lady loving adventures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you find that you lose touch with your gay/lesbian side sometimes?

It's been a while since I've had one to one intimacy with a woman. I just have the urge to throw myself into the LGBT life style again."

I prefer to meet women, but sometimes struggle to do so because I won't play with women in clubs. So I guess so.

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