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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does anyone else notice the background of people's pictures, and does this influence your view on someone? I've just seen a photo with a filthy ( as in mess) dirty kitchen in the background. Seriously I'm not the clean freak police but really it was enough to put me right off the person I didn't even waste time reading their profile as all I could think was how the kitchen do do with cleaning and tidying up.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...

Like the wallpaper in my newest one?

Filthy

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

It can do. The toilet ones really put me off.

I'm messy and I wouldn't meet me if I saw my pictures.

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull

We agree totally, treat it as an extra filter

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Like the wallpaper in my newest one?

Filthy"

Nice pic and the carpets clean and clear just as a background should be

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

The background objects often draw my eye before the actual subject

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I'm always very conscious of the background when I take pictures of myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I pride myself on the lack of background in my pics. I don't understand why others don't so much

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By *andAukCouple
over a year ago

leeds


"Like the wallpaper in my newest one?

Filthy"

We've just put this up in our soon to be new house

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Yes, I always look at backgrounds and zoom in. Some people are fucking grim!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The background objects often draw my eye before the actual subject "

Same.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes, I always look at backgrounds and zoom in. Some people are fucking grim! "

Totally agree.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Like the wallpaper in my newest one?

Filthy

We've just put this up in our soon to be new house "

Haha could make for interesting conversations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello kitty in the background ....

And I moved on swiftly ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for sure - dont want any filth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kids belongings in the background are a big no no for me. I don't think they should be approved personally, I've seen a profile where the majority of the pictures had children's toys all over the place, instant turn off.

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By *-angel-XWoman
over a year ago

hell

Seen some sights on here ...vom

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville


"Yes, I always look at backgrounds and zoom in. Some people are fucking grim! "

Me too hun

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

I find the background sometimes more interesting than the person in the picture.

Yes, it does influence my decision.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So glad it's a normal thing that most people look at. I do wonder if some of those people that moan about having no luck on these sites are some of those guilty of having backgrounds of rooms in houses that you'd wipe your feet on the way out the door!

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"I pride myself on the lack of background in my pics. I don't understand why others don't so much "

Ditto!

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By *r mrs pCouple
over a year ago

taunton


"Does anyone else notice the background of people's pictures, and does this influence your view on someone? I've just seen a photo with a filthy ( as in mess) dirty kitchen in the background. Seriously I'm not the clean freak police but really it was enough to put me right off the person I didn't even waste time reading their profile as all I could think was how the kitchen do do with cleaning and tidying up. "

Absobloodylutely !!!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I pride myself on the lack of background in my pics. I don't understand why others don't so much

Ditto! "

Blue tiles?!?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe he was a 'dom' and was going to make you tidy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i remember one pic ages ago where there was a huge pic of the kids over the fireplace - if you knew the family you would recognise the kids - surprised it got passed - i messaged the person and they kept it up - i was like wtf - its your kids up for all to see -

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe he was a 'dom' and was going to make you tidy! "

I'm already tidy . If that's the best offer I'm going to get I'll stick to self service.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kids belongings in the background are a big no no for me. I don't think they should be approved personally, I've seen a profile where the majority of the pictures had children's toys all over the place, instant turn off."

Was looking at one yesterday. Naked pics of a guy in what must have been his young Daughters bedroom. An absolute no.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Kids belongings in the background are a big no no for me. I don't think they should be approved personally, I've seen a profile where the majority of the pictures had children's toys all over the place, instant turn off.

Was looking at one yesterday. Naked pics of a guy in what must have been his young Daughters bedroom. An absolute no. "

Euwwwww

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rushes to check background of pictures

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Rushes to check background of pictures "

Lol

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"i remember one pic ages ago where there was a huge pic of the kids over the fireplace - if you knew the family you would recognise the kids - surprised it got passed - i messaged the person and they kept it up - i was like wtf - its your kids up for all to see - "

had something similar a couple of years ago and they responded less than politely along the lines of mind your own.., reported them..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i remember one pic ages ago where there was a huge pic of the kids over the fireplace - if you knew the family you would recognise the kids - surprised it got passed - i messaged the person and they kept it up - i was like wtf - its your kids up for all to see -

had something similar a couple of years ago and they responded less than politely along the lines of mind your own.., reported them..

"

unreal

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"i remember one pic ages ago where there was a huge pic of the kids over the fireplace - if you knew the family you would recognise the kids - surprised it got passed - i messaged the person and they kept it up - i was like wtf - its your kids up for all to see -

had something similar a couple of years ago and they responded less than politely along the lines of mind your own.., reported them..

"

There was a thread in my first year on the forum where someone had taken the picture in a small child's very pink and fluffy room... with a picture of the child there. They didn't see the problem and got really narked that people were saying it shouldn't be allowed.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"i remember one pic ages ago where there was a huge pic of the kids over the fireplace - if you knew the family you would recognise the kids - surprised it got passed - i messaged the person and they kept it up - i was like wtf - its your kids up for all to see - "

that's terrible!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i remember one pic ages ago where there was a huge pic of the kids over the fireplace - if you knew the family you would recognise the kids - surprised it got passed - i messaged the person and they kept it up - i was like wtf - its your kids up for all to see -

had something similar a couple of years ago and they responded less than politely along the lines of mind your own.., reported them..

There was a thread in my first year on the forum where someone had taken the picture in a small child's very pink and fluffy room... with a picture of the child there. They didn't see the problem and got really narked that people were saying it shouldn't be allowed.

"

id be concerned for all sorts of reasons -

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i remember one pic ages ago where there was a huge pic of the kids over the fireplace - if you knew the family you would recognise the kids - surprised it got passed - i messaged the person and they kept it up - i was like wtf - its your kids up for all to see -

had something similar a couple of years ago and they responded less than politely along the lines of mind your own.., reported them..

There was a thread in my first year on the forum where someone had taken the picture in a small child's very pink and fluffy room... with a picture of the child there. They didn't see the problem and got really narked that people were saying it shouldn't be allowed.

"

Very worrying indeed. Have to wonder how the hell that picture got approved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've accidentally uploaded a photo with my work logo in the background. Never thought to check. Close call i'd say

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"i remember one pic ages ago where there was a huge pic of the kids over the fireplace - if you knew the family you would recognise the kids - surprised it got passed - i messaged the person and they kept it up - i was like wtf - its your kids up for all to see -

had something similar a couple of years ago and they responded less than politely along the lines of mind your own.., reported them..

There was a thread in my first year on the forum where someone had taken the picture in a small child's very pink and fluffy room... with a picture of the child there. They didn't see the problem and got really narked that people were saying it shouldn't be allowed.

Very worrying indeed. Have to wonder how the hell that picture got approved. "

Some odd ones get through every once in a while.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I've accidentally uploaded a photo with my work logo in the background. Never thought to check. Close call i'd say "

I was able to read someones name on their conference badge in a picture.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I've accidentally uploaded a photo with my work logo in the background. Never thought to check. Close call i'd say "

The Burger King one?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I've accidentally uploaded a photo with my work logo in the background. Never thought to check. Close call i'd say

I was able to read someones name on their conference badge in a picture.

"

Haha! That made me laugh. Was it an exciting and interesting conference, do you think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've accidentally uploaded a photo with my work logo in the background. Never thought to check. Close call i'd say

The Burger King one? "

Nope, McDonalds. you know this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've accidentally uploaded a photo with my work logo in the background. Never thought to check. Close call i'd say

I was able to read someones name on their conference badge in a picture.

"

Yeah that would be something I'd do on accident too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone else notice the background of people's pictures, and does this influence your view on someone? I've just seen a photo with a filthy ( as in mess) dirty kitchen in the background. Seriously I'm not the clean freak police but really it was enough to put me right off the person I didn't even waste time reading their profile as all I could think was how the kitchen do do with cleaning and tidying up. "

I'm obsessed with looking at the background of other people's' pics. All those fireplaces with family pics on show!

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"I pride myself on the lack of background in my pics. I don't understand why others don't so much

Ditto!

Blue tiles?!?! "

Obscured by the truly awful shower curtain, luckily...

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

*kicks away dead cat, used nappies and a syringe out of shot*

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"*kicks away dead cat, used nappies and a syringe out of shot*"

Sounds an improvement on the awful kitchen picture I saw!

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By *lue NarwhalMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

Bloody hell,

I didn't know Kim and aggy were on here... How clean is your fab pad

Some pics truly are awful,

Some are even taken in wretched hives of scum and villainy..

Fortunately none of my pics fall into that category..

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

i particularly like zooming in.. trying to see what books or dvds/cds people have.. i really do have far too much time on my hands i think

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop


"*kicks away dead cat, used nappies and a syringe out of shot*"

Embrace your fetish!

Do not be ashamed

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