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"Breeding Bench...where a woman kneels down on a bench, so she can be fucked from behind by several guys. Google Images. " Don't Google image search that. It's a lot more disturbing than I was anticipating | |||
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"Breeding Bench...where a woman kneels down on a bench, so she can be fucked from behind by several guys. Google Images. Don't Google image search that. It's a lot more disturbing than I was anticipating" Thanks for the warning - it's just before bedtime here and I'd like to drift to sleep with a settled serenity | |||
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"Lol i heard of a woman on here earlier in the year, she was pushing on 38 so clearly time wasnt on her side and no one wanted her, she joined the site got pregnant and left. I only found this out after one of the guys she tried to trap spam emailed every guy in the local area to watch out for her. There are some really sad people out there. " Some random dude mailed.... Must be true huh | |||
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"Lol i heard of a woman on here earlier in the year, she was pushing on 38 so clearly time wasnt on her side and no one wanted her, she joined the site got pregnant and left. I only found this out after one of the guys she tried to trap spam emailed every guy in the local area to watch out for her. There are some really sad people out there. " Not to mention the very gullible ones. | |||
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" I have been scrolling through some profiles and noticed a lot of the men on here I talking about breeding. What is this actually about are people coming on fab to have children? Has anyone come across any of these guys and become pregnant by them please I would like to know more ??" Always think whether something sounds right. There are a lot of fantasisers out there. A lot of people turned on by acts they see in porn which they then can take one step further by acting it out in conversation. even if they don't meet. In my experience, there are many men need to dehumanise women ( farm animal terms ) so that they can use them in various ways without thinking about it and there are women willing to be treated this way / join in. Sane, logical individuals male or female do NOT try to get pregnant via swingers sites. | |||
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"Breeding Bench...where a woman kneels down on a bench, so she can be fucked from behind by several guys. Google Images. " They have this at the attic in one of the dungeon room | |||
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"Lol i heard of a woman on here earlier in the year, she was pushing on 38 so clearly time wasnt on her side and no one wanted her, she joined the site got pregnant and left. I only found this out after one of the guys she tried to trap spam emailed every guy in the local area to watch out for her. There are some really sad people out there. " I saw a similar occurrence in a swinging club years ago where one lady similar age was there all the time and really enjoying herself. A few months passed and I asked the owner where she was. The owner said "she is pregnant now, really happy" She was never seen again. I am quite thankful I never did the full wild thing with her so I know I am not the dad. The only part I would disagree with is if she then started chasing people to help for financial assistance. I do not think she could ever work out who as most clubs back then it was pay on the door. No ID or membership details taken. Add to this she was having 10 plus men a night a good few times a week. It could have been literally anybody's. The bottom line for me is as long as she is happy, child is healthy and loved. Does it really matter?? | |||
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"Is it really any worse than the careless fuck after a nightclub that results in pregnancy?" I totally agree, out in the vanilla world there are few people who can say they have never had a one night stand!! | |||
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" Sane, logical individuals male or female do NOT try to get pregnant via swingers sites. " Well said. Summarises my feelings here. Sadly people in reality rarely meet despite the claims to the contrary espoused in the forums. Porn sites tend to cater for those too lazy to risk physical interaction which is all well and good. The problems begin when the porn fantasy and the physical reality gets blurred. As it has here. | |||
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"Lol i heard of a woman on here earlier in the year, she was pushing on 38 so clearly time wasnt on her side and no one wanted her, she joined the site got pregnant and left. I only found this out after one of the guys she tried to trap spam emailed every guy in the local area to watch out for her. There are some really sad people out there. I saw a similar occurrence in a swinging club years ago where one lady similar age was there all the time and really enjoying herself. A few months passed and I asked the owner where she was. The owner said "she is pregnant now, really happy" She was never seen again. I am quite thankful I never did the full wild thing with her so I know I am not the dad. The only part I would disagree with is if she then started chasing people to help for financial assistance. I do not think she could ever work out who as most clubs back then it was pay on the door. No ID or membership details taken. Add to this she was having 10 plus men a night a good few times a week. It could have been literally anybody's. The bottom line for me is as long as she is happy, child is healthy and loved. Does it really matter??" Does it really matter if a child grows up without knowing his/her father? Does it really matter that the child has no extended family on her dad's side? Does it really matter that the child has no idea what has potentially been passed on to them in terms of physical/ mental/ emotional health? I wonder... whether it really matters... | |||
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" Sane, logical individuals male or female do NOT try to get pregnant via swingers sites. Well said. Summarises my feelings here. Sadly people in reality rarely meet despite the claims to the contrary espoused in the forums. Porn sites tend to cater for those too lazy to risk physical interaction which is all well and good. The problems begin when the porn fantasy and the physical reality gets blurred. As it has here. " | |||
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"Is it really any worse than the careless fuck after a nightclub that results in pregnancy? I totally agree, out in the vanilla world there are few people who can say they have never had a one night stand!!" a one night stand isn't premeditated & you can still use protection. | |||
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"Lol i heard of a woman on here earlier in the year, she was pushing on 38 so clearly time wasnt on her side and no one wanted her, she joined the site got pregnant and left. I only found this out after one of the guys she tried to trap spam emailed every guy in the local area to watch out for her. There are some really sad people out there. " No one wants people at 38? Jesus, let's all give up now. | |||
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" Does it really matter if a child grows up without knowing his/her father? Does it really matter that the child has no extended family on her dad's side? Does it really matter that the child has no idea what has potentially been passed on to them in terms of physical/ mental/ emotional health? I wonder... whether it really matters..." It certainly doesn't if you're from Walford! Another negative fantasy TV programme! | |||
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"Is it really any worse than the careless fuck after a nightclub that results in pregnancy? I totally agree, out in the vanilla world there are few people who can say they have never had a one night stand!! a one night stand isn't premeditated & you can still use protection." But so many people clearly don't | |||
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"There's a big difference between a d*unken one night stand resulting in a pregnancy, and someone looking for the thrill of getting pregnant by a stranger What about the child? Is it fair on them? I'm not against a single woman getting pregnant because she wants a baby, and intends to bring it up alone, but to get pregnant for some kind of thrill, " I think you have a point; also it is one thing to consider the "right" of a woman to have a child in whatever way she chooses - but where does that leave the right of the unborn to be conceived into a world of potential chaos? I am quite conventional in this matter (and some may well disagree with me here) but I do not think swinging (which is for adult pleasure and pleasure only) and pregnancy (which requires at least one responsible adult to bring up a child) really go together. | |||
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"Lol i heard of a woman on here earlier in the year, she was pushing on 38 so clearly time wasnt on her side and no one wanted her, she joined the site got pregnant and left. I only found this out after one of the guys she tried to trap spam emailed every guy in the local area to watch out for her. There are some really sad people out there. No one wants people at 38? Jesus, let's all give up now. " | |||
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"Lol i heard of a woman on here earlier in the year, she was pushing on 38 so clearly time wasnt on her side and no one wanted her, she joined the site got pregnant and left. I only found this out after one of the guys she tried to trap spam emailed every guy in the local area to watch out for her. There are some really sad people out there. No one wants people at 38? Jesus, let's all give up now. " She was 38 AND no one wanted her. 38 means you are getting towards the back end of most women's fertility window, no one wanted her for unspecified reasons. Were you desperately searching for reasons to be negative towards the post or do you have a chip on your shoulder about your age? Nothing in what the post said suggested that the woman's age was connected to the fact no one wanted her. Therefore it is safe to assume you connected these two things for your own reasons. | |||
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"Lol i heard of a woman on here earlier in the year, she was pushing on 38 so clearly time wasnt on her side and no one wanted her, she joined the site got pregnant and left. I only found this out after one of the guys she tried to trap spam emailed every guy in the local area to watch out for her. There are some really sad people out there. No one wants people at 38? Jesus, let's all give up now. She was 38 AND no one wanted her. 38 means you are getting towards the back end of most women's fertility window, no one wanted her for unspecified reasons. Were you desperately searching for reasons to be negative towards the post or do you have a chip on your shoulder about your age? Nothing in what the post said suggested that the woman's age was connected to the fact no one wanted her. Therefore it is safe to assume you connected these two things for your own reasons. " Negative or challenging what you are saying? It's a very sweeping statement you made there, about time not being on someone's side at 38 - a few of my friends have given birth well into their late 40s. I don't want children so it doesn't affect me, but your statement came across as quite rude towards a woman you don't even know, to be honest. They're the only reasons I went off. | |||
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"Lol i heard of a woman on here earlier in the year, she was pushing on 38 so clearly time wasnt on her side and no one wanted her, she joined the site got pregnant and left. I only found this out after one of the guys she tried to trap spam emailed every guy in the local area to watch out for her. There are some really sad people out there. " Or perhaps she had tried and failed at IVF and couldn't afford to try again at around £7,000 each cycle? Who knows? | |||
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"I think a lot of people may have also completely missed the idea of the breeding fantasy. I think in a lot of these cases, neither man nor woman actually wants to become pregnant (and won't become pregnant) but still like the sexual pleasure derived from talking about such acts or even pretending to carry them out, for example no condom but on the pill." I would agree with this. I fantasise about big cream pies but the thought of pregnancy would put me off | |||
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"Lol i heard of a woman on here earlier in the year, she was pushing on 38 so clearly time wasnt on her side and no one wanted her, she joined the site got pregnant and left. I only found this out after one of the guys she tried to trap spam emailed every guy in the local area to watch out for her. There are some really sad people out there. No one wants people at 38? Jesus, let's all give up now. She was 38 AND no one wanted her. 38 means you are getting towards the back end of most women's fertility window, no one wanted her for unspecified reasons. Were you desperately searching for reasons to be negative towards the post or do you have a chip on your shoulder about your age? Nothing in what the post said suggested that the woman's age was connected to the fact no one wanted her. Therefore it is safe to assume you connected these two things for your own reasons. Negative or challenging what you are saying? It's a very sweeping statement you made there, about time not being on someone's side at 38 - a few of my friends have given birth well into their late 40s. I don't want children so it doesn't affect me, but your statement came across as quite rude towards a woman you don't even know, to be honest. They're the only reasons I went off." No. It is a medical fact that fertility drops off a cliff as a female goes through her thirties. Yes people do have babies later, we know a few too, but that does not stop many women desperately trying to get pregnant before her mid to late thirties. The risk of complications also rises as women get older. These are simple, non offensive facts. My issue was with the wanton conflation of two separate things and then seeming to take offence at the result of said conflation. There is enough division and argument here without inventing reasons for more. It probably was rude. It probably was intended to be. Feel free to have further ad-hominem attacks on me for being rude, but it doesn't stop what I said from being correct. | |||
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"I think a lot of people may have also completely missed the idea of the breeding fantasy. I think in a lot of these cases, neither man nor woman actually wants to become pregnant (and won't become pregnant) but still like the sexual pleasure derived from talking about such acts or even pretending to carry them out, for example no condom but on the pill." | |||
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"I know of one woman who claimed to be on the pill, wanted bb cos she was 'safe' Basically boiled down to the fact her husband had been vasectomisedand she wanted a baby...She got pregnant in a swingers club. Fb" I think I saw her on Jeremy Kyle | |||
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