FabSwingers.com forum: conversation openers

By *ire_thorn OP Man
over a year ago

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Does anybody else get put off a little when someone sends a message like

Nice (body parts) I want to ________ it or I want to fuck you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anybody else get put off a little when someone sends a message like

Nice (body parts) I want to ________ it or I want to fuck you

Ect.

Massively.

Fail to stimulate my brain first and you'll get nowhere near said body parts.

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By *ire_thorn OP Man
over a year ago

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"Does anybody else get put off a little when someone sends a message like

Nice (body parts) I want to ________ it or I want to fuck you

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Massively.

Fail to stimulate my brain first and you'll get nowhere near said body parts.

Kinda what I thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Face to face I could strike a conversation with anyone, bloody try to do threw a message it's like being back at school trying to write an essay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anybody else get put off a little when someone sends a message like

Nice (body parts) I want to ________ it or I want to fuck you

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I must admit that I do. I feel some men forget they are talking to a woman or even a human being.

Such is life though so hey ho and delete!

Eve. X

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By *ire_thorn OP Man
over a year ago

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"Face to face I could strike a conversation with anyone, bloody try to do threw a message it's like being back at school trying to write an essay

Hard to disagree with you on that

I could strike up a conversation with anyone.

I'd even go so far as saying I could get a conversation going with one of those palace gaurds that are stone cold

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes. i don't like being treated as a fuck puppet. although others might.

hate it even more when it's off guys who have messed you about previously but forgotten they did that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone else think that hi is probably the best conversation starter and if you don't get a reply they're obviously just not interested lol?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone else think that hi is probably the best conversation starter and if you don't get a reply they're obviously just not interested lol?"

'Hi' is lazy and boring. Says alot about the person sending it.

'Hi nice tits' - well they are just a bellend who doesn't know how to talk to ladies. Anyone who doesn't have a clue about social interaction just gets deleted because we wouldn't get on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone else think that hi is probably the best conversation starter and if you don't get a reply they're obviously just not interested lol?

'Hi' is lazy and boring. Says alot about the person sending it.

'Hi nice tits' - well they are just a bellend who doesn't know how to talk to ladies. Anyone who doesn't have a clue about social interaction just gets deleted because we wouldn't get on."

I kind of get your point but you can't really go wrong with hi lol but if you think that's lazy whats your opener?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone else think that hi is probably the best conversation starter and if you don't get a reply they're obviously just not interested lol?

'Hi' is lazy and boring. Says alot about the person sending it.

'Hi nice tits' - well they are just a bellend who doesn't know how to talk to ladies. Anyone who doesn't have a clue about social interaction just gets deleted because we wouldn't get on."

They hardly know about you in a first message though, what do you expect them to ask?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone else think that hi is probably the best conversation starter and if you don't get a reply they're obviously just not interested lol?

'Hi' is lazy and boring. Says alot about the person sending it.

'Hi nice tits' - well they are just a bellend who doesn't know how to talk to ladies. Anyone who doesn't have a clue about social interaction just gets deleted because we wouldn't get on.

They hardly know about you in a first message though, what do you expect them to ask?"

My point exactly lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone else think that hi is probably the best conversation starter and if you don't get a reply they're obviously just not interested lol?

'Hi' is lazy and boring. Says alot about the person sending it.

'Hi nice tits' - well they are just a bellend who doesn't know how to talk to ladies. Anyone who doesn't have a clue about social interaction just gets deleted because we wouldn't get on.

They hardly know about you in a first message though, what do you expect them to ask?

My point exactly lol "

Hows the sale of the house going? Was the dog ok on new years with the fireworks going off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone else think that hi is probably the best conversation starter and if you don't get a reply they're obviously just not interested lol?

'Hi' is lazy and boring. Says alot about the person sending it.

'Hi nice tits' - well they are just a bellend who doesn't know how to talk to ladies. Anyone who doesn't have a clue about social interaction just gets deleted because we wouldn't get on.

They hardly know about you in a first message though, what do you expect them to ask?

My point exactly lol

Hows the sale of the house going? Was the dog ok on new years with the fireworks going off?"

Hahaha plus it's hard to convey a tone of voice through a text so you can't try and say something witty incase it gets taken the wrong way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone else think that hi is probably the best conversation starter and if you don't get a reply they're obviously just not interested lol?

'Hi' is lazy and boring. Says alot about the person sending it.

'Hi nice tits' - well they are just a bellend who doesn't know how to talk to ladies. Anyone who doesn't have a clue about social interaction just gets deleted because we wouldn't get on.

They hardly know about you in a first message though, what do you expect them to ask?

My point exactly lol "

if your profile is good and that gives us something to start a conversation then hi is ok with people who can start conversations.

basically you're just letting us know you're interested and that's all you need to do initially.

and i know youre laughing about talking about mundane things but i'd rather talk about stuff like this than have half the conversations i end up ignoring where the guy just sexualises me and i'm nothing more than a wank sock to him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone else think that hi is probably the best conversation starter and if you don't get a reply they're obviously just not interested lol?

'Hi' is lazy and boring. Says alot about the person sending it.

'Hi nice tits' - well they are just a bellend who doesn't know how to talk to ladies. Anyone who doesn't have a clue about social interaction just gets deleted because we wouldn't get on.

I kind of get your point but you can't really go wrong with hi lol but if you think that's lazy whats your opener? "

When I message someone it's usually for a reason, something I've seen on their profile I can comment on or something they have put on the forum that I am interested in. I'm not that desparate that I'm inclined to say hi to everyone in my area.

Messages that start as hi usually go like this:

Hello how are you?

Good. Fancy a meet?

Boring boring boring!! And currently how alot of the single guys on here think will get them a meet. It doesn't. They just get deleted. But hey if hi works for you then you stick with it.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I sometimes struggle with that as women don't want to know about your genalogy, you football escapades and where you have got pissed in Eastern Europe and Star Wars isn't a game changer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone else think that hi is probably the best conversation starter and if you don't get a reply they're obviously just not interested lol?

'Hi' is lazy and boring. Says alot about the person sending it.

'Hi nice tits' - well they are just a bellend who doesn't know how to talk to ladies. Anyone who doesn't have a clue about social interaction just gets deleted because we wouldn't get on.

I kind of get your point but you can't really go wrong with hi lol but if you think that's lazy whats your opener?

Messages that start as hi usually go like this:

Hello how are you?

Good. Fancy a meet?

Boring boring boring!! And currently how alot of the single guys on here think will get them a meet. It doesn't. They just get deleted. But hey if hi works for you then you stick with it."

Oh wow hi certainly seems to piss you off remind me never to approach you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone else think that hi is probably the best conversation starter and if you don't get a reply they're obviously just not interested lol?

'Hi' is lazy and boring. Says alot about the person sending it.

'Hi nice tits' - well they are just a bellend who doesn't know how to talk to ladies. Anyone who doesn't have a clue about social interaction just gets deleted because we wouldn't get on.

I kind of get your point but you can't really go wrong with hi lol but if you think that's lazy whats your opener?

Messages that start as hi usually go like this:

Hello how are you?

Good. Fancy a meet?

Boring boring boring!! And currently how alot of the single guys on here think will get them a meet. It doesn't. They just get deleted. But hey if hi works for you then you stick with it.

Oh wow hi certainly seems to piss you off remind me never to approach you lol"

I wouldn't she isn't that 'desperate'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is a bit worrying pmsl hahaha awww I like your body parts too haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea it's an icebreaker I guess but these women want blood sometimes mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anybody else get put off a little when someone sends a message like

Nice (body parts) I want to ________ it or I want to fuck you

Ect.

Massively.

Fail to stimulate my brain first and you'll get nowhere near said body parts.

Fuck my mind before you fuck me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone else think that hi is probably the best conversation starter and if you don't get a reply they're obviously just not interested lol?

'Hi' is lazy and boring. Says alot about the person sending it.

'Hi nice tits' - well they are just a bellend who doesn't know how to talk to ladies. Anyone who doesn't have a clue about social interaction just gets deleted because we wouldn't get on.

They hardly know about you in a first message though, what do you expect them to ask?"

Well they could point out something that might appeal

Most people who just say hi are spamming aren't in your area or have nothing on the profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone else think that hi is probably the best conversation starter and if you don't get a reply they're obviously just not interested lol?

'Hi' is lazy and boring. Says alot about the person sending it.

'Hi nice tits' - well they are just a bellend who doesn't know how to talk to ladies. Anyone who doesn't have a clue about social interaction just gets deleted because we wouldn't get on.

They hardly know about you in a first message though, what do you expect them to ask?

Well they could point out something that might appeal

Most people who just say hi are spamming aren't in your area or have nothing on the profile."

Have you read some of the profiles on here lol you either get the full life story or bitching about Sydney university lol I don't see the point in a heavy profile it leaves nothing to talk about and no matter where you are I guarantee that the first thing you usually say to someone is hi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone else think that hi is probably the best conversation starter and if you don't get a reply they're obviously just not interested lol?

'Hi' is lazy and boring. Says alot about the person sending it.

'Hi nice tits' - well they are just a bellend who doesn't know how to talk to ladies. Anyone who doesn't have a clue about social interaction just gets deleted because we wouldn't get on.

They hardly know about you in a first message though, what do you expect them to ask?

Well they could point out something that might appeal

Most people who just say hi are spamming aren't in your area or have nothing on the profile.

Most people go wrong by not reading our profile. I don't think it's too long but definitely gives an idea of how to start a convo with us and how best to approach the conversation.

Eve. X

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

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It's a meeting of two minds - the sender engaging theirs with what they perceive of the recipient's. It's why someone else telling you what to communicate misses the point, as it's their mind and not your own.

Sure, compliment someone, if it seems right. But don't gush or bring it down to just body part talk. Probably

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a meeting of two minds - the sender engaging theirs with what they perceive of the recipient's. It's why someone else telling you what to communicate misses the point, as it's their mind and not your own.

Sure, compliment someone, if it seems right. But don't gush or bring it down to just body part talk. Probably "

Jesus fuck lol its an opening message not a meeting of two minds we're only talking about an opening starter not a marriage proposal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone else think that hi is probably the best conversation starter and if you don't get a reply they're obviously just not interested lol?

'Hi' is lazy and boring. Says alot about the person sending it.

'Hi nice tits' - well they are just a bellend who doesn't know how to talk to ladies. Anyone who doesn't have a clue about social interaction just gets deleted because we wouldn't get on.

They hardly know about you in a first message though, what do you expect them to ask?

Well they could point out something that might appeal

Most people who just say hi are spamming aren't in your area or have nothing on the profile.

If I don't like a profile for being like that then no I'd pass it by simples not stop by and just say "Hi". I choose to message profiles with something in them and pick something out of the profile or status that makes me laugh. Often resulting in conversations or meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone else think that hi is probably the best conversation starter and if you don't get a reply they're obviously just not interested lol?

'Hi' is lazy and boring. Says alot about the person sending it.

'Hi nice tits' - well they are just a bellend who doesn't know how to talk to ladies. Anyone who doesn't have a clue about social interaction just gets deleted because we wouldn't get on.

They hardly know about you in a first message though, what do you expect them to ask?

Well they could point out something that might appeal

Most people who just say hi are spamming aren't in your area or have nothing on the profile.

I don't say hi to every single profile lol just ones I'd like to talk to I'm no gonna string out this big long in depth sentence for a first message it comes across desperate

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over a year ago

At the end of the day if Hi works for fine carry on, but don't moan if others want more and don't respond.

If you were in a room of 100's of people do you go round saying hi to everyone and chat to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ironically this forum seems like a good conversation starter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At the end of the day if Hi works for fine carry on, but don't moan if others want more and don't respond.

If you were in a room of 100's of people do you go round saying hi to everyone and chat to them."

If you're in a room with 100's of people do you go around studying every single one of them to try and find something interesting to say?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At the end of the day if Hi works for fine carry on, but don't moan if others want more and don't respond.

If you were in a room of 100's of people do you go round saying hi to everyone and chat to them."

I think you are missing the point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't say hi to every single profile lol just ones I'd like to talk to I'm no gonna string out this big long in depth sentence for a first message it comes across desperate"

Who say it has to be long ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ironically this forum seems like a good conversation starter

if you think any of your replies are conversations you are sadly wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't say hi to every single profile lol just ones I'd like to talk to I'm no gonna string out this big long in depth sentence for a first message it comes across desperate

Who say it has to be long ?? "

Give me an example of what you would say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ironically this forum seems like a good conversation starter

if you think any of your replies are conversations you are sadly wrong."

Look up what conversation means and I'll let you retract that silly statement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys if hi works then you crack on. I'm sure some will reply. Usually fat Trucker Brian who is pretending to be a woman desparate for a wank. What are we to know what women want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys if hi works then you crack on. I'm sure some will reply. Usually fat Trucker Brian who is pretending to be a woman desparate for a wank. What are we to know what women want

Well if hi isn't good enough for you what would you recommend you're quick at saying hi doesn't cut it but offer no examples?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys if hi works then you crack on. I'm sure some will reply. Usually fat Trucker Brian who is pretending to be a woman desparate for a wank. What are we to know what women want

And you don't know what women want you know what you want the last time I checked you never spoke on behalf of all women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At the end of the day if Hi works for fine carry on, but don't moan if others want more and don't respond.

If you were in a room of 100's of people do you go round saying hi to everyone and chat to them.

I think you are missing the point"

Not really if you look at it as getting 100's of hi messages its the same thing tedious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys if hi works then you crack on. I'm sure some will reply. Usually fat Trucker Brian who is pretending to be a woman desparate for a wank. What are we to know what women want

And you don't know what women want you know what you want the last time I checked you never spoke on behalf of all women

No I don't speak for all women but I've been on the scene for along time and have alot of female friends from all over the country who all say the same. So I'll go with my experience and my friends over some random thanks.

Enjoy your replies.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

On forum it might be an interesting post that catches my eye

I do look at adverts and profiles had a bit of fun but tend to do clubs and forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys if hi works then you crack on. I'm sure some will reply. Usually fat Trucker Brian who is pretending to be a woman desparate for a wank. What are we to know what women want

Well if hi isn't good enough for you what would you recommend you're quick at saying hi doesn't cut it but offer no examples?"

I have said what my first messages are up there. Really you don't need any examples tho because you are saying hi works for you. So stick with it. I will stick with deleting thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At the end of the day if Hi works for fine carry on, but don't moan if others want more and don't respond.

If you were in a room of 100's of people do you go round saying hi to everyone and chat to them.

I think you are missing the point

Not really if you look at it as getting 100's of hi messages its the same thing tedious "

I don't send messages out. I have not messaged one single women on this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys if hi works then you crack on. I'm sure some will reply. Usually fat Trucker Brian who is pretending to be a woman desparate for a wank. What are we to know what women want

Something wrong with a fat person?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At the end of the day if Hi works for fine carry on, but don't moan if others want more and don't respond.

If you were in a room of 100's of people do you go round saying hi to everyone and chat to them.

I think you are missing the point

Not really if you look at it as getting 100's of hi messages its the same thing tedious

I don't send messages out. I have not messaged one single women on this thread"

You may not but others do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On forum it might be an interesting post that catches my eye

I do look at adverts and profiles had a bit of fun but tend to do clubs and forums "

Heya Mike haven't seen you for a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys if hi works then you crack on. I'm sure some will reply. Usually fat Trucker Brian who is pretending to be a woman desparate for a wank. What are we to know what women want

Something wrong with a fat person?"

Ah sorry you find my humour offensive. For those of a sensitive or touchy disposition or generally NO sense of humour :please note versions of Brian in other sizes are available.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

And you don't know what women want you know what you want the last time I checked you never spoke on behalf of all women

Ironic then that you seem to be trying to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys if hi works then you crack on. I'm sure some will reply. Usually fat Trucker Brian who is pretending to be a woman desparate for a wank. What are we to know what women want

Something wrong with a fat person?

Ah sorry you find my humour offensive. For those of a sensitive or touchy disposition or generally NO sense of humour :please note versions of Brian in other sizes are available."

Cracking joke love.

It's brain by the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And you don't know what women want you know what you want the last time I checked you never spoke on behalf of all women

Ironic then that you seem to be trying to."

Yeah thats not me speaking on behalf of anyone..... I'm simply saying that her opinion only means the same as mine I'm speaking for myself and she's speaking for herself

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over a year ago

"Guys if hi works then you crack on. I'm sure some will reply. Usually fat Trucker Brian who is pretending to be a woman desparate for a wank. What are we to know what women want

Something wrong with a fat person?

Ah sorry you find my humour offensive. For those of a sensitive or touchy disposition or generally NO sense of humour :please note versions of Brian in other sizes are available.

Cracking joke love.

It's brain by the way"

Really?

No Trucker Brian is his name not Brain. The clue is in his name love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys if hi works then you crack on. I'm sure some will reply. Usually fat Trucker Brian who is pretending to be a woman desparate for a wank. What are we to know what women want

Something wrong with a fat person?

Ah sorry you find my humour offensive. For those of a sensitive or touchy disposition or generally NO sense of humour :please note versions of Brian in other sizes are available.

Cracking joke love.

It's brain by the way

Really?

No Trucker Brian is his name not Brain. The clue is in his name love."

I must of mixed up brian with that small thing between your ears

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys if hi works then you crack on. I'm sure some will reply. Usually fat Trucker Brian who is pretending to be a woman desparate for a wank. What are we to know what women want

Something wrong with a fat person?

Ah sorry you find my humour offensive. For those of a sensitive or touchy disposition or generally NO sense of humour :please note versions of Brian in other sizes are available.

Cracking joke love.

It's brain by the way

Really?

No Trucker Brian is his name not Brain. The clue is in his name love.

I must of mixed up brian with that small thing between your ears"

Are you abusive to women in your first messages too? That was personal and uncalled for. I think you will find my brain is far from small so wind your neck in with the personal insults.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys if hi works then you crack on. I'm sure some will reply. Usually fat Trucker Brian who is pretending to be a woman desparate for a wank. What are we to know what women want

Something wrong with a fat person?

Ah sorry you find my humour offensive. For those of a sensitive or touchy disposition or generally NO sense of humour :please note versions of Brian in other sizes are available.

Cracking joke love.

It's brain by the way

Really?

No Trucker Brian is his name not Brain. The clue is in his name love.

I must of mixed up brian with that small thing between your ears

Are you abusive to women in your first messages too? That was personal and uncalled for. I think you will find my brain is far from small so wind your neck in with the personal insults."

I don't message them.

Anyway the real world calls but this has been a pleasure.

Stay safe and beware of "fat" truck drivers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys if hi works then you crack on. I'm sure some will reply. Usually fat Trucker Brian who is pretending to be a woman desparate for a wank. What are we to know what women want

Something wrong with a fat person?

Ah sorry you find my humour offensive. For those of a sensitive or touchy disposition or generally NO sense of humour :please note versions of Brian in other sizes are available.

Cracking joke love.

It's brain by the way

Really?

No Trucker Brian is his name not Brain. The clue is in his name love."

The fact he doesn't get makes me feel old

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By *ikeAvalirMan
over a year ago

somewhere different

Surely the idea of a profile IF READ will give you something to talk about more than just hi etc, but that only works if the person you are wishing to chat to writes 1! Some women on here don't have any info about them, I stay away from them as they can't be bothered to put anything I can't be bothered to message them. I don't just go off looks, explore the lady to get to know her better the sex is far better!

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

And you don't know what women want you know what you want the last time I checked you never spoke on behalf of all women

Ironic then that you seem to be trying to.

Yeah thats not me speaking on behalf of anyone..... I'm simply saying that her opinion only means the same as mine I'm speaking for myself and she's speaking for herself "

You've misunderstood, but that's not a surprise.

All the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's threads like this that make me feel bad for the men on here. Even saying hello is too boring now

Gentlemen.. Just say what you want there's just no pleasing some people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely the idea of a profile IF READ will give you something to talk about more than just hi etc, but that only works if the person you are wishing to chat to writes 1! Some women on here don't have any info about them, I stay away from them as they can't be bothered to put anything I can't be bothered to message them. I don't just go off looks, explore the lady to get to know her better the sex is far better! "

looking at my profile there actually isn't anything to chat about apart from sex. maybe that is where some of us are going wrong?

not sure what else to put on it though.

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over a year ago

"Does anybody else get put off a little when someone sends a message like

Nice (body parts) I want to ________ it or I want to fuck you

Ect.

For me the username & avatar would be determining the fate of the message.

Shadow man photo / crap usernames make me reach for the delete button before I've even read if someone wants to cum over my tits.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

If just sending 'Hi' works for you guys then carry on, if someone wants to just send me a 'Hi' message they had better have an interesting profile if they expect a reply.

If they are not expecting a reply, then no harm done, as they are easy to ignore, but that is just me

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over a year ago

looking at my profile there actually isn't anything to chat about apart from sex. maybe that is where some of us are going wrong?

not sure what else to put on it though."

Do you like talking about sex?

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over a year ago

"Does anybody else get put off a little when someone sends a message like

Nice (body parts) I want to ________ it or I want to fuck you

Ect.

It doesn't put me off just doesn't interest me. I'm more than a thing you can stick your dick in

Sometimes people forget that you are human and not a fuck hole.

Gets tedious seeing these kinds of messages. Shows lack of imagination and lack of communication.

~Mia

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over a year ago

looking at my profile there actually isn't anything to chat about apart from sex. maybe that is where some of us are going wrong?

not sure what else to put on it though.

Do you like talking about sex? "

not with guys i've never met, no. it won't turn me on in the lsightest. in the forums i enjoy discussion (and sometimes sex chat but it's rare).

i don't mind chatting about interests to clarify that we are into the same things but i'd really prefer to talk about mundane things only.

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By *ony HardcockMan
over a year ago

Shepperton

Just a message would be nice

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over a year ago

"Anyone else think that hi is probably the best conversation starter and if you don't get a reply they're obviously just not interested lol?

'Hi' is lazy and boring. Says alot about the person sending it.

'Hi nice tits' - well they are just a bellend who doesn't know how to talk to ladies. Anyone who doesn't have a clue about social interaction just gets deleted because we wouldn't get on.

They hardly know about you in a first message though, what do you expect them to ask?

My point exactly lol

if your profile is good and that gives us something to start a conversation then hi is ok with people who can start conversations.

basically you're just letting us know you're interested and that's all you need to do initially.

I agree with you if they say anything that would be construed as inappropriate face to face I just ignore.

As to what the men were asking why not refer to the profile, not an essay but, for example in my case, hi I love blondes and I'm also looking for more than just a one off. I'd then like that to be backed up with a nice profile and pics to see if there's an attraction

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By *ire_thorn OP Man
over a year ago

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"Anyone else think that hi is probably the best conversation starter and if you don't get a reply they're obviously just not interested lol?

'Hi' is lazy and boring. Says alot about the person sending it.

'Hi nice tits' - well they are just a bellend who doesn't know how to talk to ladies. Anyone who doesn't have a clue about social interaction just gets deleted because we wouldn't get on.

I kind of get your point but you can't really go wrong with hi lol but if you think that's lazy whats your opener?

Messages that start as hi usually go like this:

Hello how are you?

Good. Fancy a meet?

Boring boring boring!! And currently how alot of the single guys on here think will get them a meet. It doesn't. They just get deleted. But hey if hi works for you then you stick with it."

You have a strong personality... but I agree with you

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