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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Or other means when chatting to potential meets. I rarely give my number out and kik uses loads of phone charge so I mostly only use here.

The only drawback is it's less instant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We mostly chat through pm on the site. But often we use kik for meets, too. With kik we don't chat, it's just for ease of communicating when meeting so phone battery doesn't become an issue.

I chat to a handful of people on whatsapp, but it's very rare I give out my number.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Just use fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm old n easily confused so it's easier to keep everything in one place.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

only here. We're slightly cynical of requests to chat elsewhere.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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I talk to a select few on whatsapp but I'm tight with my number.

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

Mostly here.

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

We mainly use here. Though we do have some, or rather did have some on WhatsApp, until I changed my phone the other week.

My phone is for family, close friends and works contacts mainly. For that reason I like to keep the 2 separate xxx Suzi

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"only here. We're slightly cynical of requests to chat elsewhere."

Same. Although I have spoken with people in person with my mouth.

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By *40 maleMan
over a year ago

chesterfield

Kik or snapchat

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

Fab, Kik or WhatsApp if share number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab only unless we have met the couple/ person (Kat) xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just here but if its gona be a definite meet then kik or snap.don't give my number out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only one has my number and three have my kik. Otherwise it's PM.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only make contact with people on here on here

When i log off i don't want a string of texts and calls off men on here while in working or out with the kids

When i log off fab its because ive had enough

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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With potential meets it's on here generally unless the conversation is flowing really well and this is a bit slow and then we'll go on WhatsApp.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I start here and move to Kik to make sure we've got a means of contact if we are meeting for a first social.

A few guys are now in my phone properly

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By *workoutMan
over a year ago

Cradley Heath

I give my personal contact details to a select few, people who I'm arranging to meet or have a certain rapport with and hope to meet. Always start on here for a while first though.

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By *ilary and DonaldCouple
over a year ago

chingford

Mostly here.

We do give out a phone number a few days prior to meeting though but insist it's only for last minute changes.

We have stopped meeting people because of constant texting though.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I stick to messaging on here. I don't use Kik and am very wary of giving out my number.

I have given my number to 2 people from here but only after a few meets and if we plan on more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mostly here.

We do give out a phone number a few days prior to meeting though but insist it's only for last minute changes.

We have stopped meeting people because of constant texting though. "

Me too, it used to do my head in getting 20+ text a day then the inevitable "are you ignoring me?" text when i couldn't reply straight away

like all i have to do all day is stand about waiting to reply to them

So now i just stick to talking on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have stopped meeting people because of constant texting though. "

Same here. Marc gets particularly annoyed with this.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

We use site and also kik,usually jacks .

Miss

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By *onygirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Huntingdon

I only message here until a meet is arranged, then can go to texting by phone.

Don't use other messengers, and got fed up of people asking me to go on them, to the point it'll earn them a block now

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By *urvyKattWoman
over a year ago

Dumfriesshire

Only message on here, I find anything else can be quite intrusive x

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Mostly here. Those I have known for a very long time have my Fab phone number.

I used to use that more but the 'why are you ignoring me?' texts, or the trying to send me photos (it's not capable) on that phone mean that I share that with just a few people now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I talk to a select few on whatsapp but I'm tight with my number. "

Why lie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Initial messaging on here, moves to KIK if interested in knowing more / meeting & a few have my Whatssap.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"only here. We're slightly cynical of requests to chat elsewhere.

Same. Although I have spoken with people in person with my mouth. "

oh yes, I forgot about speaking via the mouth..an old fashioned method but quite effective I find

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"only here. We're slightly cynical of requests to chat elsewhere.

Same. Although I have spoken with people in person with my mouth.

oh yes, I forgot about speaking via the mouth..an old fashioned method but quite effective I find "

I used it with one of the children today. When I replied to his text with "I'm coming over to speak to you" his response was "?"

He was really shocked we got it all sorted in under 5 minutes, rather than 30 text messages.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London


"only here. We're slightly cynical of requests to chat elsewhere."

Interesting as I'm the opposite. Chat on here for a bit then move to kik/WhatsApp if we intend to meet. Won't go any further otherwise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start with Fab and then move onto KIK. If they are well verified or have met friends then we don't mind using whatsapp.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

use here as much as poss - dont get the people that say straight off let use kik or whatever else - but theyre logged in here - i have a fair few people that have my number ad i text them regularly but they have become friends not just a maybe meeet

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"only here. We're slightly cynical of requests to chat elsewhere.

Same. Although I have spoken with people in person with my mouth.

oh yes, I forgot about speaking via the mouth..an old fashioned method but quite effective I find

I used it with one of the children today. When I replied to his text with "I'm coming over to speak to you" his response was "?"

He was really shocked we got it all sorted in under 5 minutes, rather than 30 text messages.

"

I have to say though that we wouldn't hear half as much from our adult children if it wasn't for whatsapp.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"only here. We're slightly cynical of requests to chat elsewhere.

Interesting as I'm the opposite. Chat on here for a bit then move to kik/WhatsApp if we intend to meet. Won't go any further otherwise "

Difference is what makes life interesting

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

here only dont have 'apps, don't even have fab on my phone. i refuse to connect it to the internet (im a dinosaur) a few people have my number.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I talk to a select few on whatsapp but I'm tight with my number. "

I heard you were tight in general

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never go off here unless it's someone i've been chatting to a lot and i know they actually enjoy chatting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here at the beginning. I don't answer any quicker than on kik.

I give my number to people I'm interested in meeting, when the time feels right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here and Kik mainly as I don't have face pics on here...

A select few have my number and apparently now Facebook lol but those don't get given out too easily.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found, with one exception, that people who want to message via Kik, don't really want to meet. I don't bother now and let them know I don't engage in sex talk or pic swap. I haven't logged into Kik for ages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are very selective of who gets our number too as it's so easily linked to Facebook.

So I think only 4 couples have group chats on WhatsApp. Two of those couples we have met.

We did have Kik on a spare Phone but don't use it.

Eve. X

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By *VBethTV/TS
over a year ago

Chester

On here until we're both happy to give numbers out. I use whatsapp but nothing else as most of them are just loads of one handed typists.....

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