FabSwingers.com forum: rude guys

By *orders-cpl OP Couple
over a year ago

middx cpl

Any one come across rude guys on here who insult you if you say no thanks it seems to be getting worse just had a guy call me a slag for saying no thanks ur not my type. any one else think its getting worse here. have a few friends leave the site becouse of rudeness...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just had one, cut and pasted message saying about my sexy pics, ermm I dont have any lol so he called me fatty for mentioning it.

Just the way of the play

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

This is why I simply say 'no thanks' - I don't give any reason. I still get responses that I'm 'up myself' - well no... if I was up myself I wouldn't be here looking for someone to do that now would I bozo?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

report and block works nicely for me

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

"report and block works nicely for me

I agree.

Any rudeness should be strictly consensual and reserved for meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"report and block works nicely for me

Seconded, they can't mail again if you block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I've had the odd insult, not always restricted to private message either. I can spot a cheap dig a mile off, its really entertaining isn't it

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"report and block works nicely for me

I agree.

Any rudeness should be strictly consensual and reserved for meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fear this site is becoming a victim of its own success. It's better than any other I've tried with a lot more genuine people but word gets around and now I think we're getting more wasters from elsewhere.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

The ones I love are the ones who message you saying how much they like your pics/profile/whatever and when you message back saying 'no thanks' they come back with 'well I didn't fancy you anyway, fatty'.

Wait a minute... YOU messaged ME!

Men! I'll never understand ya!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

here's my 2p worth......

i received around 70 messages in the past week from single guys in response to an event/meet that i had planned.

i would like to say that i received no abuse from the ones that i said thanks but no thanks to. in fact i received further messages to say thanks for getting back to me.

in my experiences on here i have never had any rudeness or abuse by pm, be it single guys, girls or couples

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Yeah, it doesn't happen a lot, but it DOES happen.

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By *ustyWoman
over a year ago

inverclyde

i had a message from a guy this morning who was wanting me to go and meet him, he was horny but have never met or chatted with guy before at all, i already had a meet for this morning with a nice guy i have met before and i was certainly not going to cancel my morning .......... told this other guy no thanks as was already busy he did get a little bit funny with me but hey ignored him after that

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

Find out where they live then have a lil poo in their letterbox.

That's what I hav... erm WOULD do.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Find out where they live then have a lil poo in their letterbox.

That's what I hav... erm WOULD do."

*Vows to be very very nice to Funkymonkey for ever!*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we need to start more threads then to let everyone know that people DO actually send nice messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Find out where they live then have a lil poo in their letterbox.

That's what I hav... erm WOULD do."

such a sharon osbourne thing to do lol

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By *icksfocusMan
over a year ago

Pontefract

If i get a reply saying no thanks, i always reply thanking them for there reply, but not many do reply

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"here's my 2p worth......

i received around 70 messages in the past week from single guys in response to an event/meet that i had planned.

i would like to say that i received no abuse from the ones that i said thanks but no thanks to. in fact i received further messages to say thanks for getting back to me.

in my experiences on here i have never had any rudeness or abuse by pm, be it single guys, girls or couples"

Snap...and to be honest, we never seem to get any.

I have just replied to 67 mails....and not had one back abusing us, in fact the only mails back have been people answering politely , even the people who got answered no thanks.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Funky's world is scary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"here's my 2p worth......

i received around 70 messages in the past week from single guys in response to an event/meet that i had planned.

i would like to say that i received no abuse from the ones that i said thanks but no thanks to. in fact i received further messages to say thanks for getting back to me.

in my experiences on here i have never had any rudeness or abuse by pm, be it single guys, girls or couples

Snap...and to be honest, we never seem to get any.

I have just replied to 67 mails....and not had one back abusing us, in fact the only mails back have been people answering politely , even the people who got answered no thanks."

oh i havent had a rude reply through saying no these where 1st messages

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"oh i havent had a rude reply through saying no these where 1st messages "

Sorry? Are you saying there are men on here who think that to get a women horny they just send an insult or two? Holy crap!!

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"If i get a reply saying no thanks, i always reply thanking them for there reply, but not many do reply"

Yes then the bastards don't reply to say thank you for the thank you for the no thank you!

I fucking hate that, rude twunts! I'm getting worked up now grrrrrrrrrr!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"oh i havent had a rude reply through saying no these where 1st messages

Sorry? Are you saying there are men on here who think that to get a women horny they just send an insult or two? Holy crap!!

thats it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

walks in walks out

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"Funky's world is scary

I only post the normal stuff I think wont frighten you.

What a pip!

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"oh i havent had a rude reply through saying no these where 1st messages "

lol now thats odd

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

"walks in walks out"

Bye!

*whispers* Glad he didn't stop...

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"walks in walks out

Bye!

*whispers* Glad he didn't stop...

I was going to say, talking about rude guys.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

"Funky's world is scary

I only post the normal stuff I think wont frighten you.

What a pip! "

You should see the stuff he sends me off the Tacyon Relay when he's in Uberspace.

Now that IS freaky!!

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"Funky's world is scary

I only post the normal stuff I think wont frighten you.

What a pip!

You should see the stuff he sends me off the Tacyon Relay when he's in Uberspace.

Now that IS freaky!!

Shhhhhhhh they aren't ready for that mate. It can make a normal human's eyes bleed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"oh i havent had a rude reply through saying no these where 1st messages

lol now thats odd

i no

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

"here's my 2p worth......

i received around 70 messages in the past week from single guys in response to an event/meet that i had planned.

i would like to say that i received no abuse from the ones that i said thanks but no thanks to. in fact i received further messages to say thanks for getting back to me.

in my experiences on here i have never had any rudeness or abuse by pm, be it single guys, girls or couples

Snap...and to be honest, we never seem to get any.

I have just replied to 67 mails....and not had one back abusing us, in fact the only mails back have been people answering politely , even the people who got answered no thanks."

Maybe it's because you're a Mod.

I bet a lot of the Rockers get most of the abuse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a couple afew months ago ask me if I was interested to which I wasn't so I politely said no thanks to which they messaged me back saying that I'm not likely to get any meets as I'm so far up my own arse.

I thought that they were being out of order so I reported them & they got booted.

There's no need for this type of abuse.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

"Funky's world is scary

I only post the normal stuff I think wont frighten you.

What a pip!

You should see the stuff he sends me off the Tacyon Relay when he's in Uberspace.

Now that IS freaky!!

Shhhhhhhh they aren't ready for that mate. It can make a normal human's eyes bleed."

Ph'nglui mglw'nafh Cthulhu R'lyeh wgah'nagl fhtagn!!!

*taps nose*

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Funky's world is scary

I only post the normal stuff I think wont frighten you.

What a pip!

You should see the stuff he sends me off the Tacyon Relay when he's in Uberspace.

Now that IS freaky!!

Shhhhhhhh they aren't ready for that mate. It can make a normal human's eyes bleed.

Ph'nglui mglw'nafh Cthulhu R'lyeh wgah'nagl fhtagn!!!

*taps nose*

IA IA!!

(I knew it!!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"walks in walks out

Bye!

*whispers* Glad he didn't stop...

"
lolol

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

"walks in walks out

Bye!

*whispers* Glad he didn't stop...

lolol"

*claers throat loudly*

Oh! Hello mate, your back!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"walks in walks out

Bye!

*whispers* Glad he didn't stop...

lolol

*claers throat loudly*

Oh! Hello mate, your back!

LMAO!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

knock knock

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"knock knock "

Who's there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"knock knock

Who's there?"

Boo

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"knock knock

Who's there?

Boo

Boo hoo?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"knock knock

Who's there?

Boo

Boo hoo?"

Don't cry, its only a joke!

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

"knock knock

Who's there?

Boo

Boo hoo?

Don't cry, its only a joke!"

*distant sound of a bell as a tumble passes into view...*

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"knock knock

Who's there?

Boo

Boo hoo?

Don't cry, its only a joke!

*distant sound of a bell as a tumble passes into view...*"

Now don't be mean. I think it's brilliant how this site embraces all sorts.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

"knock knock

Who's there?

Boo

Boo hoo?

Don't cry, its only a joke!

*distant sound of a bell as a tumble passes into view...*

Now don't be mean. I think it's brilliant how this site embraces all sorts."

Oh shite. I didn't realise it was him again. He's gonna get a complex.

I thought I was dissing Funky.

Marti, I love you man.... in a sort of Forumy, man-hug-but-no-kisses kinda way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol soz just in a funny wee mood the day

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By *irg71Man
over a year ago

leicestershire

I am always polite and to a degree pleased when someone actually takes the time to reply to a mail even if it is just to say "no thanks" I realise people get bombarded with mails but a not thanks doesnt take that much effort surely and makes it feel like mailing wasnt just a complete waste of time

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"I thought I was dissing Funky.

Oiiiii and it's OK to diss me!? I'm hurt other me, hurt!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Mmmm beginning to enjoy the manbutt in this thread.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

"I am always polite and to a degree pleased when someone actually takes the time to reply to a mail even if it is just to say "no thanks" I realise people get bombarded with mails but a not thanks doesnt take that much effort surely and makes it feel like mailing wasnt just a complete waste of time

I agree it is nice to get a reply, even if it is just a no thanks. I realise why the couple and ladies don't tend to do it though, they do get so many messages each day.

Maybe an automated button that just said no thanks could help?

Right, that was sensible... I need a break. see you later folks.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

"I thought I was dissing Funky.

Oiiiii and it's OK to diss me!? I'm hurt other me, hurt!"

Go stick a plasma coil up ya bum you deviant...

...and that wasn't even dissing him!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *razydriver8Couple
over a year ago

plymouth

"I thought I was dissing Funky.

Oiiiii and it's OK to diss me!? I'm hurt other me, hurt!"

* gives funky a big (((HUG))) and copes a feel of his arse*

its ok mate if Viccy picks on you too much we can confiscate his axe...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just trying to say not all guys are rude

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