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By *layful me OP   Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

I'm a single male and I go to clubs but I fill out of place and so alown I'm namely confident around ladys so can you please help me out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would ditch the bow tie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a single male and I go to clubs but I fill out of place and so alown I'm namely confident around ladys so can you please help me out "

I'm no expert but, perhaps you might benefit attending the clubs with other single guys who finds themselves in a similar situation .... just for mutual support and company .....

Best of luck anyway

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I would ditch the bow tie"

Or ditch everything else and keep the bow tie

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"I'm a single male and I go to clubs but I fill out of place and so alown I'm namely confident around ladys so can you please help me out "

I can't help you our but if I (as a single woman) attended any event where I didn't know anyone I'd feel the same. It must take huge confidence. I wonder if you went a few times you would make a friend or two.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would ditch the bow tie

Or ditch everything else and keep the bow tie "

hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a single male and I go to clubs but I fill out of place and so alown I'm namely confident around ladys so can you please help me out "

I had a similar problem when I started in the BDSM scene. I was fortunate though in that I got chatting to people in the uk.people.bdsm newsgroup first so once I said who I was it was a lot easier. Also, I started with munches and they generally had 'meeters and greeters' who's job it was to look out for anyone who turned up alone looking lost and point them in the right direction. For your situation I suggest you get to know people on here and arrange a few one to one meetings so that next time you go to a club you'll already know a few people there.

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By *layful me OP   Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"I'm a single male and I go to clubs but I fill out of place and so alown I'm namely confident around ladys so can you please help me out

I had a similar problem when I started in the BDSM scene. I was fortunate though in that I got chatting to people in theuk.people.bdsm newsgroup first so once I said who I was it was a lot easier. Also, I started with munches and they generally had 'meeters and greeters' who's job it was to look out for anyone who turned up alone looking lost and point them in the right direction. For your situation I suggest you get to know people on here and arrange a few one to one meetings so that next time you go to a club you'll already know a few people there."

thaks for yare help I will try that

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