FabSwingers.com forum: Who is on their own tonight?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Like proper alone no kids either?

I am and it's making me feel sad, I'm trying not to dwell but I've had such a shit year.

My mother is working, my sister is going to a house party, she said I could go with her but I'm 33 and don't fancy a party with a load of 21 year olds.

My best friend is child free and this is her only night without her daughter before her boyfriend goes back to camp on the 3rd, can't really crash their alone time.

My daughter is staying over her fathers and other friends are going out, I'm not feeling going out at all so on my own it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me. I'm not sad about it, could've gone out with either randoms or guys who piss me off after chatting with them for some time.

It's only a new year, not the rest of your life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'd rather go out though, just don't wanna have a shit night out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. Want to stay of the booze. Easier to do that staying in. Not Sad though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just me and the dog

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I am alone and fine with it. I hate loud music, crowds, and being forced to feel happy for a countdown. After having Christmas regulated to an astonishing degree I am happy to spend New Years Eve doing what I want.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Me. I'm not sad about it, could've gone out with either randoms or guys who piss me off after chatting with them for some time.

It's only a new year, not the rest of your life.

I know but I always think of new year as a big deal. Just reinforces the fact I'm on my own.

Need to shake it off, finish cleaning whilst I'm child free, get most of my decorations down, do some nibbles and might even have a cider.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally on my own - no family left any more.

But a quiet night, spent with memories of much-loved times in the past.

Maybe next year will bring someone interesting - who knows?

Sending warm wishes to anyone else alone tonight...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could of come to mine to get d*unk and chat shit. I'm on my own too

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm gonna do my tarot cards and write a letter to the universe. Might even drive down to the beach and throw the letter in the sea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll be home alone tonight, hoping my arsehole neighbour doesn't have yet another party and actually gives me some peace and quiet. Last NYE I went to a swingers club. Glad to be at home really just for some rest. Been an exhausting year!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just my mum.

Go to the party. You don't look 33 from what I recall and they won't care. It's Hogmanay after all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Totally on my own - no family left any more.

But a quiet night, spent with memories of much-loved times in the past.

Maybe next year will bring someone interesting - who knows?

Sending warm wishes to anyone else alone tonight...

Yes, this! Let's spread warm wishes to one and all, whether you're alone by choice or not

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By *ackStrakerMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Damn shame, had a meet up, road trip to NYE party and back from S,Wales. Another time

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By *enjaminbutton321Man
over a year ago

london

I am and I do mind but Im making the most of it. I know Id rather be out having a glorious time celebrating!

I get that many have no troubles spending it doing as the they please alone or at home. Everyone has their own thing they prefer.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

OP, there might be other people in their 30s (or at least late 20s) at the house party.

You just have to decide to make it a good night, whether it's alone or at a party. It's one night.

Make a plan for Chinese New Year instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Like proper alone no kids either?

I am and it's making me feel sad, I'm trying not to dwell but I've had such a shit year.

My mother is working, my sister is going to a house party, she said I could go with her but I'm 33 and don't fancy a party with a load of 21 year olds.

My best friend is child free and this is her only night without her daughter before her boyfriend goes back to camp on the 3rd, can't really crash their alone time.

My daughter is staying over her fathers and other friends are going out, I'm not feeling going out at all so on my own it is. "

I'm the same age and feel im kind of in the too old to be out partying hard but too young not to be making the most of it, I'm just going to the local but could easily do without it a

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On my own n couldn't be happier. Just havin a nice soak then I'll be tucked up in bed watchin netflix n eating crap.

Had a very busy Xmas not all of it fun. So I'm lettin my fibro take over tbh. I need a recharge.

Enjoy your evening. Your daugther is safe n happy to relax n be yourself. If you dwell you will not be recharged for when she comes home n you won't be a happy mummy. Xxx

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham

Just me and the dogs and I prefer it to going out, New Years eves a little overrated in my opinion going out wise

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Just me and the dogs and I prefer it to going out, New Years eves a little overrated in my opinion going out wise "

York is like a bloody war zone on NYE and I don't have any friends doing a party this year. Next year I may go to a club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im alone too.

I dont really mind though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I'm all alone too, it has been the same all Christmas. No family local, kids in their 30's and no partner. I'm not too bothered, but it would be nice to have a snuggle with someone to see in 2017 though (sigh)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm gonna do my tarot cards and write a letter to the universe. Might even drive down to the beach and throw the letter in the sea. "

Are you very spiritual as well?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NYE is the only time of the year when I feel lonely, no matter who I'm with..

but these days I would much rather be in than out, stuffing my face with junk food and quaffing prosecco

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Me. I'm not sad about it, could've gone out with either randoms or guys who piss me off after chatting with them for some time.

It's only a new year, not the rest of your life.

I know but I always think of new year as a big deal. Just reinforces the fact I'm on my own.

Need to shake it off, finish cleaning whilst I'm child free, get most of my decorations down, do some nibbles and might even have a cider. "

yeah everyone celebrating seems like it's something special today.

think i'm gonna go to bed early, my inbox is so shit it's unreal and now i'm feeling depressed. never had so many crap offers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 33 and also home alone tonight. Don't feel sad or bad about it! I'm going to chill, watch movies, order a takeaway and drink as much Prosecco as I like

Tomorrow I have a booze lunch/all dater with my besties, and I'd much rather celebrate then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm alone too ... I'm just going to drown my sorrows with alcohol .

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Sorry youre not closer. I'm on my own. We coulda had a lasses night in xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me too.

Wish the ladies on this thread were just next door! X

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By *hekaiserMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Im alone and dont mind it at all.

Never been a big fan of new years eve....its an anticlimax if you ask me....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am, by choice.

I hate New Year's Eve. We had a tragedy in my family two years ago and I find this night pretty emotional so I like to be on my own.

New chapter starts tomorrow

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

I'm looking after my small child, who seems convinced that she's staying up until midnight....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would definitely be up for that x I really don't like NYE especially being alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are.

We were going to go out but have our sons dog with ours and she is terrified of fireworks so it's us on our own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate NYE makes you think about what we don't have but at 42 I'm sitting in , having Chinese and a movie with my son who's too hungover to go out, but instead of dwelling on the what nots etc I'm going to do a bucket list for 2017; thankful for what I do have, that tomorrow I will wake up and breath and able to do things for myself, only taken 20 yrs to finally accept my life the way it is and I am going to start enjoying it, feck I might not be 25, rich, Gorgeous etc but I'm a good person with a good heart with a few good friends a small family and I'm embracing it with all my heart, saying that I'll probably be in bed at 12 lol

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I'm on my own too... well I have the kitty for company and I'm actually happy with that. I have places to go but I'm not really bothered. A friend for work is having a house party and another mate is off to her local but I've just spent the day cleaning my flat and have just showered and put on clean PJs so it's unlikely that I'll be going over the door.

I have steak for dinner and a box set if the TV is shit. There's also a fridge full of booze but I'm not really in the mood for it. I've got lovely new champagne flutes from the sales too! Typical!

I don't really like New Year... it's full of promise that the next one will surpass expectations but I need to pull my finger out and be in control of my own destiny so I'm making a list of things I want to accomplish in the next twelve months and putting them in my forever jar.

I hope those of you who are alone turn it into a positive and have some quality 'me' time.

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By *anes HubbyCouple
over a year ago

Babbacombe Torquay

In around three hours we have about thirty people turning up to our NYE get together, we thought we'd start it at Ten this year because the last one we held two years ago started way too early and everyone was d*unk before midnight.....

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I detest new year. It was my dads favourite time of the year.I miss him terribly. I'm once again feeling very sorry for myself about my lack of family and even friends. I'm not happy that the person I want to be with most over silly season I never will be. Once the kids go to bed its just me. I feel very much alone to face the world most of the time. However it seems even more so at this time of year. I realise in many ways I'm very lucky. I've had the ,"focus on your boys and yourself" patronising chat. And I'm in no way not doing that. It would just be nice for once to be me, and have someone for me. To not be on the sidelines looking at everyone else enjoying life while I feel I snatch mere moments.

I'm sorry for the rambling poor me post. I'm actually quite a positive person most of the time!

OP I think your letter to the universe is a great idea. I may do something similar.

I hope everyone finds reason to smile as they begin the new year. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I'm just where I need to be

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I'm on my own too... well I have the kitty for company and I'm actually happy with that. I have places to go but I'm not really bothered. A friend for work is having a house party and another mate is off to her local but I've just spent the day cleaning my flat and have just showered and put on clean PJs so it's unlikely that I'll be going over the door.

I have steak for dinner and a box set if the TV is shit. There's also a fridge full of booze but I'm not really in the mood for it. I've got lovely new champagne flutes from the sales too! Typical!

I hope those of you who are alone turn it into a positive and have some quality 'me' time.

If you've got the time, could you make a list for me too, please?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Im alone and dont mind it at all.

Never been a big fan of new years eve....its an anticlimax if you ask me...."

It's the only holiday which is timed to the second. It seems a lot of people feel bad if they're not doing something, anything. I feel it's a night like any other night, although I do like the extra day off.

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

Quiet night in for me with bottle of bubbly, some finger food and 15 different varieties of fruit and veg across a salad and fruit salad for me.

Prawns for the cats.

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By *exatooCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth/ Fuerteventura

Mrs

Me as Mr working until 4am

Celebrating tomorrow with an intimate hotel meet.

Enjoy whatever you're up to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. I will be in the company of others this evening as I am DJing at a village pub.

Happy New Year everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I detest new year. It was my dads favourite time of the year.I miss him terribly. I'm once again feeling very sorry for myself about my lack of family and even friends. I'm not happy that the person I want to be with most over silly season I never will be. Once the kids go to bed its just me. I feel very much alone to face the world most of the time. However it seems even more so at this time of year. I realise in many ways I'm very lucky. I've had the ,"focus on your boys and yourself" patronising chat. And I'm in no way not doing that. It would just be nice for once to be me, and have someone for me. To not be on the sidelines looking at everyone else enjoying life while I feel I snatch mere moments.

I'm sorry for the rambling poor me post. I'm actually quite a positive person most of the time!

OP I think your letter to the universe is a great idea. I may do something similar.

I hope everyone finds reason to smile as they begin the new year. Xx"
Wyld I relate to you very well. Lost my dad at the start of this year. Miss him. I've hated this year. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am alone and fine with it. I hate loud music, crowds, and being forced to feel happy for a countdown. After having Christmas regulated to an astonishing degree I am happy to spend New Years Eve doing what I want."

Exactly this

Warm jammies, big tub of Quality Street, Harry Potter on later, enough supplies for lots of cups of tea and my fancy colouring stuff. I've never really been one for NYE.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me. And I want to end this year/start 2017 with a bang. I feel like riding a big thick cock. Hey ho - a girl can dream

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By *eepster1Man
over a year ago

birmingham

I am on my own with two cats but not sad at all l think l could be a child in hospital but l am in a nice house with me cats so l count my lucky stars there is all ways some one worse off than you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am, but my parents are in spain, so we will skype in the new year. I got the cheese board ready with pineapples and all sorts with haribos

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

My little ladies normally spend it with me this year they've decided to do a house party...

I'd posted a meet purely social to hopefully see in the new year with someone, not as successful as I'd have liked.

I might go out I'd be home before the stroke of midnight I don't need d*unken hugs and conversations about my single status.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Home alone here as well, just preparing a mini buffet for myself just now as we speak x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me - happily parked on the sofa in my pjs in front of a roaring fire - bliss!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was! Thought it would be a night in, but may have someone fun to spend time with now

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon

my sprog is just off to bed. so just me and the furry kids, and ill be off to bed soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Home alone myself. Not too fussed about it, i like my own company sometimes.

But i would not say no to a little company, maybe see the new year in with a bang.

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By *itzhallMan
over a year ago

birchington

Best wishes to all for tonight..... I'm alone here but it's just another night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sorry for the rambling poor me post. I'm actually quite a positive person most of the time!

OP I think your letter to the universe is a great idea. I may do something similar.

I hope everyone finds reason to smile as they begin the new year. Xx"

Don't apologize - I totally understand where you are coming from and know how it feels. Big hugs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If im honest mate i struggle this time of year,my mum died on xmas day of all days so i try to be happy for my kids whilst trying to mourn her death,it really is a lonely time of year for me too as my 12 year relationship ended a few years back,although i get to see and have my kids i do miss adult conversation and affection.

Hang in there mate things will get better,if your are feeling this strain a little to much tho maybe go and speak to your g.p.

Happy new year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All alone and heading off to bed so I can cough my way through the night there instead of on the sofa...being ill and alone on NYE sucks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me , just abt had it with fab ii was told it was fun all i found is fake people and women who think they are super models just how choosey, such a shame i was told it wld be fun just quite the opposite, any one reccomend a site where a single guy can actually get a meet???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm having a few d*unks with my mum.

I hate New Year. Last Year a wise woman who wasn't my mum, gave me a stern talking to and reminded me that despite all the hype it's just another day. Nothing changes, it's just one day passing into another that we strangely celebrate.

So just say "fuck it". Tomorrow is another day and hopefully the start of a better and brighter fresh year.

Chin up lovelies xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm having a few d*unks with my mum.

So just say "fuck it". Tomorrow is another day and hopefully the start of a better and brighter fresh year.

Chin up lovelies xx"

Few drinks not d*unks. My mum is vanilla

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By *attoguymeMan
over a year ago

heath and reach

Just me the dog and tv

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By *uttyjonnMan
over a year ago

SEA

just me and some wine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

me on my own :D

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By *onhorMan
over a year ago

here

I've been out and had an unexpectedly fun few drinks with mates. (Not sure whether to have another...).

Happy to be safely home thinking of a better future than an average past.

Cheers everyone. Here's to a fruitful 2017.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been out and had an unexpectedly fun few drinks with mates. (Not sure whether to have another...).

Happy to be safely home thinking of a better future than an average past.

Cheers everyone. Here's to a fruitful 2017.

Happy New Year bud , home here to , work in the morning.

Have a brilliant 2017

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I:m on my own, not a fan of NYE after being beat up and put in hospital on NYE about 25 years ago after beiung in the wrong place at the wrong time.

Will be at the Club Anti-Christ Not NYE party next week though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My boys are in bed and it's just me and my lovely cat girl. I'm very content with that as I love my alone time and I've never really enjoyed going out on NYE, it's always such an anti-climax.

Sorry you're feeling lonely OP, I hope you get some comfort from your tarot and letter writing.

Nell

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over a year ago

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By *inful pairCouple
over a year ago

Montrose

Just my eldest that's just up but not for long then all alone, bottle of jacques and jammies xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. Strangely my parents (yep, I live with my parents) have gone out and I'm relaxing watching the batman trilogy with a brew.

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By *P1964Woman
over a year ago

gillingham

If I was in my 30s I be at the party like a shot Now I'm 50s, now on the verge of being an OAP

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By *inful pairCouple
over a year ago

Montrose

"Yep. Strangely my parents (yep, I live with my parents) have gone out and I'm relaxing watching the batman trilogy with a brew.

Where is robin, lol x

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By *onhorMan
over a year ago

here

"I've been out and had an unexpectedly fun few drinks with mates. (Not sure whether to have another...).

Happy to be safely home thinking of a better future than an average past.

Cheers everyone. Here's to a fruitful 2017.

Happy New Year bud , home here to , work in the morning.

Have a brilliant 2017

And you Sir. I'm sure your positivity will assure it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been out and had an unexpectedly fun few drinks with mates. (Not sure whether to have another...).

Happy to be safely home thinking of a better future than an average past.

Cheers everyone. Here's to a fruitful 2017.

Happy New Year bud , home here to , work in the morning.

Have a brilliant 2017

And you Sir. I'm sure your positivity will assure it.

I predict a wonderful year for you young man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep. Strangely my parents (yep, I live with my parents) have gone out and I'm relaxing watching the batman trilogy with a brew.

Where is robin, lol x"
He's in the 3rd film.

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By *inful pairCouple
over a year ago

Montrose

lol I asked for that x

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By *ollydesireCouple
over a year ago

Torbay

Hi will you be partying in Alicante or Torquay? Have a good time xx

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By *ookworm258Man
over a year ago

Wythenshawe

Quiet night of just me, few beers and Assasins Creed on the firestick.

Now the lodgers are moving out my house is so quiet and peaceful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm married and have children yet I'm still sat here on my sofa alone. So I'm having some flirty chat and tying to make the best out of a bad job

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Home alone with the cats

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Home alone with the cats

My cat has fucked off to my bedroom and is currently sprawled across my bed sound asleep!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Home alone with the cats

My cat has fucked off to my bedroom and is currently sprawled across my bed sound asleep!

Think that's where I should be. On my bed I mean

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By *ouple4biMMFCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Just me and the cat oh and the goldfish

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By *antsguy007Man
over a year ago

Whiteley

"Like proper alone no kids either?

I am and it's making me feel sad, I'm trying not to dwell but I've had such a shit year.

My mother is working, my sister is going to a house party, she said I could go with her but I'm 33 and don't fancy a party with a load of 21 year olds.

My best friend is child free and this is her only night without her daughter before her boyfriend goes back to camp on the 3rd, can't really crash their alone time.

My daughter is staying over her fathers and other friends are going out, I'm not feeling going out at all so on my own it is. "

Alone as well - kids at their mothers and didn't fancy going to pub alone amd waking up with a hangover tomorrow.

Sitting watching "wha's like us" and getting my Scottish fix

Would have liked some company but in the end - it is just another night.

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over a year ago

New Years Eve is usually a built up, over hyped nothing of an evening. Everyone builds it up as this magical evening that something special is going to happen. Chances are it won't. It's just another evening out when you have to pay double the price for everything!

I can see why this can get you down, but you have to think positive and if you get out there (in whatever sense you want) something good will happen.

I've had a shit 2nd half to the year, but ended up on a spontaneous holiday this month and had a fantastic time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Like proper alone no kids either?

I am and it's making me feel sad, I'm trying not to dwell but I've had such a shit year.

My mother is working, my sister is going to a house party, she said I could go with her but I'm 33 and don't fancy a party with a load of 21 year olds.

My best friend is child free and this is her only night without her daughter before her boyfriend goes back to camp on the 3rd, can't really crash their alone time.

My daughter is staying over her fathers and other friends are going out, I'm not feeling going out at all so on my own it is. "
I am so drink and hope to find someone to chat too James Everyone have a great start to the year

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By *oddyWoman
over a year ago

between havant and chichester

Mine are trying to outdo robbie williams

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Drove to the seafront and walked down the pier, had a fag, ripped my letter up and scattered it into the sea. Stood in a load of fish gut entrails and a passerby stopped me to make sure I wasn't going to jump off the pier.

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over a year ago

I am in bed on my own because I've got a virus. Didn't want to infect anybody. I did get an early night but the fireworks and partying has woken me up. Anyway hopefully 2017 will only get better

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over a year ago

"Like proper alone no kids either?

I am and it's making me feel sad, I'm trying not to dwell but I've had such a shit year "

Cheer up! You're not alone! You never are.

Happy New Year!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, I'm all alone too, it has been the same all Christmas. No family local, kids in their 30's and no partner. I'm not too bothered, but it would be nice to have a snuggle with someone to see in 2017 though (sigh)"

I'm married, but haven't even had a snuggle either. Hey ho, worse things happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6dOwHzCHfgA

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am in bed on my own because I've got a virus. Didn't want to infect anybody. I did get an early night but the fireworks and partying has woken me up. Anyway hopefully 2017 will only get better

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I've got a lurgy too. Wanna share.

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over a year ago

By 20 past 11 I'd decided that it would surely be a good idea to go for a bike ride. I got home at half past midnight thinking that may have been the nicest way I've seen a new year in.

Now I'm decimating Christmas biscuits and watching University Challenge.

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By *heBlackPantherCouple
over a year ago

Guilford

"By 20 past 11 I'd decided that it would surely be a good idea to go for a bike ride. I got home at half past midnight thinking that may have been the nicest way I've seen a new year in.

Now I'm decimating Christmas biscuits and watching University Challenge. "

I tip my hat off to you sir!!! That's one of the best ways of starting the year.

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

Was with people earlier, but now sat alone in my car looking at a beautiful seaside view.

Feel quite lonely and empty, but I've felt way worse on NYE.

It'll pass and I don't really mind January.

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over a year ago

"By 20 past 11 I'd decided that it would surely be a good idea to go for a bike ride. I got home at half past midnight thinking that may have been the nicest way I've seen a new year in.

Now I'm decimating Christmas biscuits and watching University Challenge.

I tip my hat off to you sir!!! That's one of the best ways of starting the year.

Thank you... It really was rather fun

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By *arnsley man 43Man
over a year ago

barnsley

I have be out but was back home by 11 as was not that really in the mood to be out but do not mind be on my own some times so keep your chin up op x

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over a year ago

Alone but not lonely.

Like xmas,it's just another day.

Though I loathe the commercialisation of xmas,I enjoy spending that time with close family.

Can't be arsed with the hype that goes with hogmanay though.

Went to the street party here in Edinburgh a few times in my 20s n was d*unk enough to have fun n go along with the big countdown.

Now though,that's my idea of a fucking nightmare!

Glad it's all over for another year!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6dOwHzCHfgA"

Actually love that song!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6dOwHzCHfgA

Actually love that song! "

Can't beat a bit of 80's.

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over a year ago

"https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6dOwHzCHfgA

Actually love that song!

Can't beat a bit of 80's."

I've got this on my headphones in bed now!

https://youtu.be/1Cw1ng75KP0

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over a year ago

"https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6dOwHzCHfgA

Actually love that song!

Can't beat a bit of 80's.

I've got this on my headphones in bed now!

https://youtu.be/1Cw1ng75KP0

I just listened to what YouTube had to recommend after and I take it back - the 90's were fucking awesome too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a meet on new year's eve. He coudnt stay long as he had to get back to he's local pub to meet family. Least i have my son here who chose to stay at home rather than go out.

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over a year ago

"https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6dOwHzCHfgA

Actually love that song!

Can't beat a bit of 80's.

I've got this on my headphones in bed now!

https://youtu.be/1Cw1ng75KP0

I just listened to what YouTube had to recommend after and I take it back - the 90's were fucking awesome too."

My 90's were a mix of Helmet, compulsion, L7 and other bands or 90's dance!

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

"https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6dOwHzCHfgA

Actually love that song!

Can't beat a bit of 80's.

I've got this on my headphones in bed now!

https://youtu.be/1Cw1ng75KP0

You should get your hair done like that. Strong look

I was a teenager in the 1980s and saw that hair for real (and had a mullet, myself).

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over a year ago

"https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6dOwHzCHfgA

Actually love that song!

Can't beat a bit of 80's.

I've got this on my headphones in bed now!

https://youtu.be/1Cw1ng75KP0

You should get your hair done like that. Strong look

I was a teenager in the 1980s and saw that hair for real (and had a mullet, myself).

My sisters boyfriend has a mullet!

Mr LS, does your friend happen to have Wales v England tickets to sell?

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

"https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6dOwHzCHfgA

Actually love that song!

Can't beat a bit of 80's.

I've got this on my headphones in bed now!

https://youtu.be/1Cw1ng75KP0

You should get your hair done like that. Strong look

I was a teenager in the 1980s and saw that hair for real (and had a mullet, myself).

My sisters boyfriend has a mullet!

Mr LS, does your friend happen to have Wales v England tickets to sell?"

It's still 1985 in some places. I'm sorry, I couldn't resist a cheap gag.

It's the least likely one tbh, because he works in a world where shmoozing rich clients is important and obviously lots love that game.

He usually emails his plans in the NY. If he has them I'll send a message.

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