FabSwingers.com forum: What were you thinking of

By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

when you wrote your profile? I mean were you writing it being accurate about yourself or were you writing it in a way that would attract a certain (whatever kind of) partner?

What influenced you in putting your profile?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Well i put some thought into, i dont say im good at anything and i dont say im attractive. Thats up to others to decide but i think its a positive profile and i do get alot of comments about it. My favourite are from straight females

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I was hoping it would get me laid. Going through a dry spell at the mo so maybe needs a bit of tittivating, but I don't want it to end up 3 pages long with a list of do's and don'ts. I want people to think I'd be a good person to meet for a drink, chat, and steamy knee trembler.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I just set out to explain what I was and wasn't lookoing for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"when you wrote your profile? I mean were you writing it being accurate about yourself or were you writing it in a way that would attract a certain (whatever kind of) partner?

What influenced you in putting your profile?

Question to everybody...

Dunno never really thought about it xx

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

Totally truthful, opened up about myself.

Hoped the profile shows my humour but also that I can be serious and am not a person who will be easily taken advantage of.

Added bits and pieces as and when over my time here have thought necessary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

good thread. I think i did mine to be compleatley honest and so that people reading my would show people im genuine, honest and reliable and can hold a good conversation.

The profile of me is a true reflection. Wether people are attracted to me, well, each to their own.

I have had people mail me and told me how good my profile is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was thinking about how to present myself in the best light. I wanted to be honest without being too apologetic about it.

I'm not everyone's cup of tea I know....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

found it hard to do profile as

A)not good at putting actions in to words

B) dont want to put silly wee things on it and put people off lol

everyone wants to make themselves known they are genuine and not false

not good with big words

just big boobs lol x

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

I had to write something.

too modest to simply write "God's gift".

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Someone said my profile belonged on a dating site.. I said I don't shag a person I would not want to date...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well my OH said to me one fine sunny morning,

Err honey Ive done something

What do you mean

Ive done something on the internet

You havent downloaded illegal porn again and weve got another computer virus have we

No but it is to do with sex

What is it

Ive just filled out a questionnaire to do with sex and us

What kind of questionnaire

A questionnaire in relation to swinging

Is that where pervs are indulging in those roman orgy type things

Nooo its not that at all, its just people expressing their sexuality

It is isnt it

Yeah it is

And you want us to do it?

Well you get to have lots of gorgeous young toned hard cocks

Oh yeah great, say what you like then

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place

i cant remember that far back

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I had to write something.

too modest to simply write "God's gift"."

as I recall... you said you were dyslexic...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines quite blunt, as is my everyday way of thinking. I tend to get on well with people who appreciate that way of thinking so it works for me.

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

I had to write something.

too modest to simply write "God's gift".

as I recall... you said you were dyslexic...

oll

PS only on the age sought by ladies age requirements.

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

wow some really interesting answers so far...thanks everybody

What makes people change their profile and what makes you add stuff?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"wow some really interesting answers so far...thanks everybody

What makes people change their profile and what makes you add stuff?"

Ya re writin ya profile and ya wants ideas admit it lol xx

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

hubby wrote 1st profile and ive amended ours a few times, still needs some more work, but as someone else said not very good at the big words or expressing myself.

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"wow some really interesting answers so far...thanks everybody

What makes people change their profile and what makes you add stuff?

Ya re writin ya profile and ya wants ideas admit it lol xx

damn, I have always been told that subtlety was not my most obvious skill...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive sometimes looked at other profiles and taken tips from thiers and tweak it to suit ourselves lol bit naughty i know lol xx

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"ive sometimes looked at other profiles and taken tips from thiers and tweak it to suit ourselves lol bit naughty i know lol xx

I think thatis smart...and lets face it - most people probably peep at others and get some ideas...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ive sometimes looked at other profiles and taken tips from thiers and tweak it to suit ourselves lol bit naughty i know lol xx

I think thatis smart...and lets face it - most people probably peep at others and get some ideas...

hoping to attract woman like you.

your stunning xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ive sometimes looked at other profiles and taken tips from thiers and tweak it to suit ourselves lol bit naughty i know lol xx

I think thatis smart...and lets face it - most people probably peep at others and get some ideas...

ooh im glad we arent the only ones lol x

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"ive sometimes looked at other profiles and taken tips from thiers and tweak it to suit ourselves lol bit naughty i know lol xx

I think thatis smart...and lets face it - most people probably peep at others and get some ideas...

hoping to attract woman like you.

your stunning xxx"

well thank you kindly

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"when you wrote your profile? I mean were you writing it being accurate about yourself or were you writing it in a way that would attract a certain (whatever kind of) partner?

What influenced you in putting your profile?

Question to everybody...

Just tried to be upfront and honesst in mine ...With as much info as possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get bored with it so refresh and update I think its fun because on here I can be the real me and say what I actually want and what I am looking for.

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"I get bored with it so refresh and update I think its fun because on here I can be the real me and say what I actually want and what I am looking for."

I guess we change in what we are looking for from time to time as well... I know I have "evolved" from what I was when I first started...and I have changed my profile a few times..

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

"I get bored with it so refresh and update I think its fun because on here I can be the real me and say what I actually want and what I am looking for.

I guess we change in what we are looking for from time to time as well... I know I have "evolved" from what I was when I first started...and I have changed my profile a few times.."

im always changing my mind

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"I get bored with it so refresh and update I think its fun because on here I can be the real me and say what I actually want and what I am looking for.

I guess we change in what we are looking for from time to time as well... I know I have "evolved" from what I was when I first started...and I have changed my profile a few times..

im always changing my mind

you sure it is the mind...;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ive sometimes looked at other profiles and taken tips from thiers and tweak it to suit ourselves lol bit naughty i know lol xx

I think thatis smart...and lets face it - most people probably peep at others and get some ideas...

hoping to attract woman like you.

your stunning xxx

well thank you kindly

xxx"

anytime xxxx

amaze me x

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

"I get bored with it so refresh and update I think its fun because on here I can be the real me and say what I actually want and what I am looking for.

I guess we change in what we are looking for from time to time as well... I know I have "evolved" from what I was when I first started...and I have changed my profile a few times..

im always changing my mind

you sure it is the mind...;-)"

nah not really ...lot of empty space there lol

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"I get bored with it so refresh and update I think its fun because on here I can be the real me and say what I actually want and what I am looking for.

I guess we change in what we are looking for from time to time as well... I know I have "evolved" from what I was when I first started...and I have changed my profile a few times..

im always changing my mind

you sure it is the mind...;-)

nah not really ...lot of empty space there lol

lol... not what I meant lol... I meant more like... what else you could be changing... hey, lets stick to the Pringles and Champers xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was fun but got eroded by experience and necessity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wanted people thinking i was fun and genuine, very little has change in my profile since my joining...of course I wanted to shag alot!!!

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

"I get bored with it so refresh and update I think its fun because on here I can be the real me and say what I actually want and what I am looking for.

I guess we change in what we are looking for from time to time as well... I know I have "evolved" from what I was when I first started...and I have changed my profile a few times..

im always changing my mind

you sure it is the mind...;-)

nah not really ...lot of empty space there lol

lol... not what I meant lol... I meant more like... what else you could be changing... hey, lets stick to the Pringles and Champers xx"

lol said there was alot of empty space there..... oh pringles and champers ...i like your style

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"It was fun but got eroded by experience and necessity."

aw that sounds a bit... like a negative experience? xx

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"I get bored with it so refresh and update I think its fun because on here I can be the real me and say what I actually want and what I am looking for.

I guess we change in what we are looking for from time to time as well... I know I have "evolved" from what I was when I first started...and I have changed my profile a few times..

im always changing my mind

you sure it is the mind...;-)

nah not really ...lot of empty space there lol

lol... not what I meant lol... I meant more like... what else you could be changing... hey, lets stick to the Pringles and Champers xx

lol said there was alot of empty space there..... oh pringles and champers ...i like your style

and not to mention the hot steamy.....

...

tub?

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

"I get bored with it so refresh and update I think its fun because on here I can be the real me and say what I actually want and what I am looking for.

I guess we change in what we are looking for from time to time as well... I know I have "evolved" from what I was when I first started...and I have changed my profile a few times..

im always changing my mind

you sure it is the mind...;-)

nah not really ...lot of empty space there lol

lol... not what I meant lol... I meant more like... what else you could be changing... hey, lets stick to the Pringles and Champers xx

lol said there was alot of empty space there..... oh pringles and champers ...i like your style

and not to mention the hot steamy.....

...

tub?

dam need a flight... quick

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

"I get bored with it so refresh and update I think its fun because on here I can be the real me and say what I actually want and what I am looking for.

I guess we change in what we are looking for from time to time as well... I know I have "evolved" from what I was when I first started...and I have changed my profile a few times..

im always changing my mind

you sure it is the mind...;-)

nah not really ...lot of empty space there lol

lol... not what I meant lol... I meant more like... what else you could be changing... hey, lets stick to the Pringles and Champers xx

lol said there was alot of empty space there..... oh pringles and champers ...i like your style

and not to mention the hot steamy.....

...

tub?

dam need a flight... quick

YES, and ring for the chaffeur AFTER you have landed.

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

"I get bored with it so refresh and update I think its fun because on here I can be the real me and say what I actually want and what I am looking for.

I guess we change in what we are looking for from time to time as well... I know I have "evolved" from what I was when I first started...and I have changed my profile a few times..

im always changing my mind

you sure it is the mind...;-)

nah not really ...lot of empty space there lol

lol... not what I meant lol... I meant more like... what else you could be changing... hey, lets stick to the Pringles and Champers xx

lol said there was alot of empty space there..... oh pringles and champers ...i like your style

and not to mention the hot steamy.....

...

tub?

dam need a flight... quick

YES, and ring for the chaffeur AFTER you have landed.

lifted and laid

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Mine has kind of grown like some weird organic creature that has been fed on Forum post leftovers and bizarre half-baked ideas that wake me in a sweat at 3am.

Oddly, it seems to work.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I rewrote mine fairly recently cause someone made reference to it being a little intimidating. I wanted to avoid being negative and having lists of things I don't want. I can't be anything other than me, it's too hard to keep up some sort of pretence so I don't bother to hide my quirky things and just be honest about who I am and what I want. Slightly more than no strings but definitely not a ball and chain!

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I set out to confuse and bewilder the weak minded.

I like to create an air of mystery.

I'm thinking of writing more I haven't updated it for about 7 month.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a lot, I thought better put something on here instead of fill in later

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"instead of fill in later

I've seen a few of those lately. Seems a bit odd to still have that up after several months but I guess it works for some people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"instead of fill in later

I've seen a few of those lately. Seems a bit odd to still have that up after several months but I guess it works for some people."

There are loads of them and pics coming soon ones as well

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By *acktilMan
over a year ago

Tewkesbury

I changed mine about 8 months ago and still give it a tweek every now and again.

Basicaly I set out to make it fun to read whilst being truthful and to the point. It appears to be working.

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

OH wrote the original one and I've added to it and tweaked it as we've gone along. It's still not finished as such - I don't think any profile should ever be considered a 'final version' - they should all (hopefully) slowly evolve along with the people behind them.

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

"I changed mine about 8 months ago and still give it a tweek every now and again.

Basicaly I set out to make it fun to read whilst being truthful and to the point. It appears to be working.

Well was late at night and wanted to just get on site to have a look around soooo.... lol just sat down and did it together. Have tweaked since then. Have made what we are looking for more clear so that guys find it easy and hopefully we cut down on junk mail. Also, guys who reply to it are usually the confident types which is what we like anyway so works for us. Once in a while get a stroppy message from a guy who doesnt fit our profile annoyed that we are so fussy and we think... thank god it works and filters out guys like that. lol

Mistress x

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Individuality in some way or other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It was fun but got eroded by experience and necessity.

aw that sounds a bit... like a negative experience? xx"

Just the constant stream of one liners and wrong 'uns. Some of them still don't read it, while some read it and still don't get it.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

"I set out to confuse and bewilder the weak minded.

I like to create an air of mystery.

I'm thinking of writing more I haven't updated it for about 7 month."

I've already seen your update Funky. It's a masterpiece mate.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"I set out to confuse and bewilder the weak minded.

I like to create an air of mystery.

I'm thinking of writing more I haven't updated it for about 7 month.

I've already seen your update Funky. It's a masterpiece mate.

You wrote it!

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

"I set out to confuse and bewilder the weak minded.

I like to create an air of mystery.

I'm thinking of writing more I haven't updated it for about 7 month.

I've already seen your update Funky. It's a masterpiece mate.

You wrote it!

Did I?

I mean we?

This time space worm hole thingy gets a bit taxing sometimes.

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