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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am often told that i am too young for this site... (19)...

I often reply with rude words... (JK)...

Though would like to know, whats your first thought when contacted by someone of my age?

& at what age do you believe someone reaches a level of maturity high enough to be taken seriously? (If not sign-up age)

Not looking to start arguments here, or moaning in any way. Am simply interested in your thoughts!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was contacted by a 19 year old? Probably winer winner chicken dinner

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

A 19 year old bloke? I'd say what CoD game you on?

A 19 year old woman? I'd think "crazy loon looking at an old middle aged git"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seriously, it depends on the personality, if she has the maturity in conversation then yeah why not

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By *he_Raggedy_DoctorMan
over a year ago

Some where in West Sussex

Your lucky as you can age I've just been told I'm to old even though their age range was 18 to 52 lol I'm only 45 so someone can't do maths to well lol

I can't make myself any younger lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A 19 year old bloke? I'd say what CoD game you on?

A 19 year old woman? I'd think "crazy loon looking at an old middle aged git""

Hey! I play CoD!

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I prefer guys my age and older - though I will at least consider up to three years younger than myself.

It's not a case of maturity for me - I'm a sub and just prefer those dominating me to be older and more experienced than myself.

You wouldn't make it past my message filters but the occasional ones that do (by having a profile age older than their actual age), I let down gently.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"A 19 year old bloke? I'd say what CoD game you on?

A 19 year old woman? I'd think "crazy loon looking at an old middle aged git"

Hey! I play CoD! "

Yeah but, you know.... standards and all....soz but street cred, yeah?

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

My response is usually along the lines of I'm old enough to be your Mum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i've met that age but i'm more into guys older. wouldn't tell you your too young for this site though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like younger but 1oway too young for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer women to be my age or above, and men to be at least 30/31.

If I was with a younger woman I'd feel a bit of a pervert, and I've always preferred older men. I'm submissive with the right man and I couldn't submit to a man who's younger than me. I like my lovers to show me new experiences and older men are simply better at that, imo.

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

Lol sorry just read your profile

I'll give it points for not being the usual crap.

If you messaged me...

I'd think you hadn't read my profile..not because of the age ( I'll assume you cover being outside my limits in an amazing message) but because of the smoking horrible habit

I'd wonder about the big intetests list... at 19 are you really into and know about all these or is it/some a wish list

Talking generally regarding age.... I think some people don't want the "younger/age of my child" situation

Some feel there would be no conversation

Potential of... don't want to be a trainer!

There are so many different things that can put people off.

I'd say get to local socials so people can see you and you can overturn any misconception

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't meet a 19 year old its way to young for me, i don't think its too young to swing though as lots of women like young guys, just not for me

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

OP you are not too young for the site, just too young for many of us on here.

Don't let that put you off though. There are still plenty of people who would meet you.

Your profile text is pretty original and made me smile. You come across as a bit of a cheeky guy with a good sense of humour. I think you will be popular with those who are into younger guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A 19 year old bloke? I'd say what CoD game you on?

A 19 year old woman? I'd think "crazy loon looking at an old middle aged git"

Hey! I play CoD!

Yeah but, you know.... standards and all....soz but street cred, yeah? "

I don't know what you are saying, actually do YOU know what you are saying?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just make a point of being rude to anyone who is younger and prettier than me

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By *ifferent69Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

Fuck!! wanna swap ages..?

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"I am often told that i am too young for this site... (19)...

I often reply with rude words... (JK)...

Though would like to know, whats your first thought when contacted by someone of my age?

& at what age do you believe someone reaches a level of maturity high enough to be taken seriously? (If not sign-up age)

Not looking to start arguments here, or moaning in any way. Am simply interested in your thoughts!

"

age is often a factor against young people. men often lie and make themselves at least 3 years older. this makes couples divide but women tend to be more interested in older men to a point.

however replying rudely indicates a lack of maturity which them enforced the other persons oppinion on younger men.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"A 19 year old bloke? I'd say what CoD game you on?

A 19 year old woman? I'd think "crazy loon looking at an old middle aged git"

Hey! I play CoD!

Yeah but, you know.... standards and all....soz but street cred, yeah?

I don't know what you are saying, actually do YOU know what you are saying? "

*sigh* its the hat

Although......what gun do you use?*

*answer could be the deciding factor.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just make a point of being rude to anyone who is younger and prettier than me "

Greath, nou limb off thoo the hothpital becauth off you hearth I bith my tongue

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

You're far too young for us but others will see you differently.We know plenty who wouldn't be put off by your age!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's to young for me personally and would assume at that age site is being more used for sex than swinging but that's personal feeling on those that have messaged at similar age x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I just make a point of being rude to anyone who is younger and prettier than me "

You're always polite to me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just make a point of being rude to anyone who is younger and prettier than me

You're always polite to me? "

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

i have two kids older than you one nearly your age, i don't believe in telling young adults what to do, the world is different that what it once was, however, i'm not prepared to go around just fucking them and possibly affecting thier young lives and journey..they can do the things they want, without me, being involved.

i find 30 young for me, mid to late thirties, suits my youthful outlook without me feeling, like a mother figure x

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

Most clubs won't let a 19 year old in I think the age starts from 21....but at ur age you should be dating girls of ur own age....because when you come to date it will be difficult....as to diferinceate between the 2 and the normal vanilla girls won't be what you want after swinging .....just my opinion

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots


"i have two kids older than you one nearly your age, i don't believe in telling young adults what to do, the world is different that what it once was, however, i'm not prepared to go around just fucking them and possibly affecting thier young lives and journey..they can do the things they want, without me, being involved.

i find 30 young for me, mid to late thirties, suits my youthful outlook without me feeling, like a mother figure x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am often told that i am too young for this site... (19)...

I often reply with rude words... (JK)...

Though would like to know, whats your first thought when contacted by someone of my age?

& at what age do you believe someone reaches a level of maturity high enough to be taken seriously? (If not sign-up age)

Not looking to start arguments here, or moaning in any way. Am simply interested in your thoughts!

"

We wouldn't be interested. Nothing to do with you. We have just found that meeting much younger people doesn't work for us. Too little in common.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair though op, looking at the tosh me and Brighton Steve have posted on this thread you are one of the more mature males on here, that's something to think about ladies

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"To be fair though op, looking at the tosh me and Brighton Steve have posted on this thread you are one of the more mature males on here, that's something to think about ladies "

Haha! It's cos he's got a beard!!!!

OP: ''tis but a true word spaketh

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"To be fair though op, looking at the tosh me and Brighton Steve have posted on this thread you are one of the more mature males on here, that's something to think about ladies "
you guys are just old enough, to know that youth is wasted on the young, but young enough to take complete advantage of that knowledge

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To be fair though op, looking at the tosh me and Brighton Steve have posted on this thread you are one of the more mature males on here, that's something to think about ladies "

Was wondering where that COD talk was headed... everyone knows the real men play battlefield.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"To be fair though op, looking at the tosh me and Brighton Steve have posted on this thread you are one of the more mature males on here, that's something to think about ladies

Was wondering where that COD talk was headed... everyone knows the real men play battlefield. "

battlefront

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By * Kiwis and a BananaMan
over a year ago

Part of your 5 a day


"A 19 year old bloke? I'd say what CoD game you on?

A 19 year old woman? I'd think "crazy loon looking at an old middle aged git"

Hey! I play CoD! "

Xbox right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A 19 year old bloke? I'd say what CoD game you on?

A 19 year old woman? I'd think "crazy loon looking at an old middle aged git"

Hey! I play CoD!

Xbox right? "

Thanks. I had been lost. My bad, as the youngsters say.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"A 19 year old bloke? I'd say what CoD game you on?

A 19 year old woman? I'd think "crazy loon looking at an old middle aged git"

Hey! I play CoD!

Xbox right?

Thanks. I had been lost. My bad, as the youngsters say. "

USED to say. Now they say 'peak'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be fair though op, looking at the tosh me and Brighton Steve have posted on this thread you are one of the more mature males on here, that's something to think about ladies

Was wondering where that COD talk was headed... everyone knows the real men play battlefield. "

Yeah that's true enough but I'm not a team player, I like the glory.

By the way, don't lower yourself to our standards, were not good role models for the young swinging gent about town

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By * Kiwis and a BananaMan
over a year ago

Part of your 5 a day


"A 19 year old bloke? I'd say what CoD game you on?

A 19 year old woman? I'd think "crazy loon looking at an old middle aged git"

Hey! I play CoD!

Xbox right?

Thanks. I had been lost. My bad, as the youngsters say.

USED to say. Now they say 'peak' "

Lol who is teaching you this waffle?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"A 19 year old bloke? I'd say what CoD game you on?

A 19 year old woman? I'd think "crazy loon looking at an old middle aged git"

Hey! I play CoD!

Xbox right?

Thanks. I had been lost. My bad, as the youngsters say.

USED to say. Now they say 'peak'

Lol who is teaching you this waffle? "

My kids!

Ps. Google image 'blue waffle'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being only 22 myself, a 19 year old messaging me would fortunately not come across as strange.

I'll admit, I would still be second-guessing, were it a 19 year old women or couple. There's of course plenty of exceptions, but many that age sem to be a lil' flakey/not really into it.

Some 18 year olds are definitely mature enough, though. Just lower odds of it.

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By * Kiwis and a BananaMan
over a year ago

Part of your 5 a day


"Being only 22 myself, a 19 year old messaging me would fortunately not come across as strange.

I'll admit, I would still be second-guessing, were it a 19 year old women or couple. There's of course plenty of exceptions, but many that age sem to be a lil' flakey/not really into it.

Some 18 year olds are definitely mature enough, though. Just lower odds of it."

I found a friend !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I found a friend ! "

Howdy, cowboy

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Hello O.P.

Many of the 'mature' males on here are far too mmmmm 'immature' for me to meet with.

I've worked with 19 year olds that have great foresight, empathy , humour..... they are very few and far between though.

At nineteen it's possible that you've had more sex than many 40 year olds. It's strange that people assume that being older makes you sex officionado.

Having said all that, I'd instantly reject any 19 year old that messaged me. Sadly or gladly depending on your gender, older women do not have to take the time to get to know 19 year old men. There are thousands of other men out there.

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By * Kiwis and a BananaMan
over a year ago

Part of your 5 a day


"

I found a friend !

Howdy, cowboy "

Yee haw welcome to the forums would you like a tour?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yee haw welcome to the forums would you like a tour? "

Luckily (or sadly...) I've been on the forums for a few years (on an old profile, too)!

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By * Kiwis and a BananaMan
over a year ago

Part of your 5 a day


"Yee haw welcome to the forums would you like a tour?

Luckily (or sadly...) I've been on the forums for a few years (on an old profile, too)!"

Well this is awkward

Tea?

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

You do have a good prof but you're only 4 yrs older than my eldest x sorry! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't worry Op , you will be swimming in fanny in no time.... just be prepared to travel far and wide for the right couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The first thing I'd think is 'fuckit my filters are broke'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a just turned 20 yr old from here. Admittedly, he had 22 on his profile, but anyway, he was one of the best experiences I've had from here.

Not all young men play PS4 or Xbox all day, or can't string a sentence together. Some are at Uni, don't live with their parents and know about pleasing a woman, sexually.

I'm more wary of the older men, who get their knowledge from porn videos.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I met a just turned 20 yr old from here. Admittedly, he had 22 on his profile, but anyway, he was one of the best experiences I've had from here.

Not all young men play PS4 or Xbox all day, or can't string a sentence together. Some are at Uni, don't live with their parents and know about pleasing a woman, sexually.

I'm more wary of the older men, who get their knowledge from porn videos. "

Streaming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A 19 year old bloke? I'd say what CoD game you on?

A 19 year old woman? I'd think "crazy loon looking at an old middle aged git"

Hey! I play CoD!

Xbox right?

Thanks. I had been lost. My bad, as the youngsters say.

USED to say. Now they say 'peak' "

Flip, now I am all at sea. Really no idea.

All I can say is "My bad," and I am pretty sure things have moved on since then.

*Hangs head in shame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What would I do if an attractive 19 year old woman messaged me?

*faps*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met a just turned 20 yr old from here. Admittedly, he had 22 on his profile, but anyway, he was one of the best experiences I've had from here.

Not all young men play PS4 or Xbox all day, or can't string a sentence together. Some are at Uni, don't live with their parents and know about pleasing a woman, sexually.

I'm more wary of the older men, who get their knowledge from porn videos.

Streaming "

You know what I meant

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I met a just turned 20 yr old from here. Admittedly, he had 22 on his profile, but anyway, he was one of the best experiences I've had from here.

Not all young men play PS4 or Xbox all day, or can't string a sentence together. Some are at Uni, don't live with their parents and know about pleasing a woman, sexually.

I'm more wary of the older men, who get their knowledge from porn videos.

Streaming

You know what I meant "

And wipe clean touch screen

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"The first thing I'd think is 'fuckit my filters are broke' "

Similar here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met a just turned 20 yr old from here. Admittedly, he had 22 on his profile, but anyway, he was one of the best experiences I've had from here.

Not all young men play PS4 or Xbox all day, or can't string a sentence together. Some are at Uni, don't live with their parents and know about pleasing a woman, sexually.

I'm more wary of the older men, who get their knowledge from porn videos.

Streaming

You know what I meant

And wipe clean touch screen "

You're sounding like someone highly experienced in porn streaming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started at 18 but I was with my ex GF. That being said we split before I was 20 and I continued.

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By * Kiwis and a BananaMan
over a year ago

Part of your 5 a day


"You do have a good prof but you're only 4 yrs older than my eldest x sorry! X"

Does that make me too young also?

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