FabSwingers.com forum: When someone hot messages and you don't know how to respond

By *ureTemptation OP Woman
over a year ago

Off the grid

Does anyone else get this? It's almost like when someone hot talks to you in real life and your brain just gets replaced by a comatose jellyfish, only capable of twitching mildly in a slightly disconcerting way.

I can talk for England to most people.

Unless I fancy them. Then I become an idiot.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I just think of them as a bloke and carry on as normal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if I don't really know how to respond then it's a sign that however hot, I don't really fancy them. When I like someone I can always think of something to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yup, all the bloody time

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I think you could get way with pretty much anything. You're rather hot yourself ...

Nita

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

If I don't know what to say, I will wait until I do. If it takes more than a couple of days to think of an appropriate reply, then I might well answer, "I don't know what to say" or "I don't understand".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm ok with messages as have the time to compose myself but totally get this in face to face situations - I occasionally get awestruck and completely lost for words then end up splurting out the first thing that comes to my head - normally something so random it kills the conversation dead!

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By *ureTemptation OP Woman
over a year ago

Off the grid

"I think you could get way with pretty much anything. You're rather hot yourself ...

Nita"

lol

Unfortunately I think I'm funny. Which comes out as sarcasm. Which in tune comes across as being totally twattish and not very friendly.

Husband thinks it's hilarious and says it's why I can't pull. Even my best mate says I have "Fuck Off" stamped on my forehead when a guy comes and talks to me. I'm not good at friendly.

Or I go too far and come across as slightly psychotic...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone else get this? It's almost like when someone hot talks to you in real life and your brain just gets replaced by a comatose jellyfish, only capable of twitching mildly in a slightly disconcerting way.

I can talk for England to most people.

Unless I fancy them. Then I become an idiot."

Sometimes it happens. Although it has happened where it kinda makes the safeties come off and I can speak more freely with them because I fancy them so much

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Not on here, no. I check their profile out and if I fancy them back talk about arranging a social or something

I don't get chatted up in real life!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, sort of. I should wait otherwise the send button turns into the world's best message editor and idea giver

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By *ureTemptation OP Woman
over a year ago

Off the grid

"Not on here, no. I check their profile out and if I fancy them back talk about arranging a social or something

I don't get chatted up in real life!!!"

That's cos you don't come out clubbing with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, sort of. I should wait otherwise the send button turns into the world's best message editor and idea giver

So apologies if you've been on the receiving end

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"I think you could get way with pretty much anything. You're rather hot yourself ...

Nita

lol

Unfortunately I think I'm funny. Which comes out as sarcasm. Which in tune comes across as being totally twattish and not very friendly.

Husband thinks it's hilarious and says it's why I can't pull. Even my best mate says I have "Fuck Off" stamped on my forehead when a guy comes and talks to me. I'm not good at friendly.

Or I go too far and come across as slightly psychotic..."

Ah, I see your problem.

Think I sometimes frighten people off too... Apparently I look mardy if I'm not smiling.

Maybe just send

Though that might be seen as sarcastic too ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm pretty shit at messaging - I seem to just leave the conversation there when the other person is expecting mor...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm ok with messages as have the time to compose myself but totally get this in face to face situations - I occasionally get awestruck and completely lost for words then end up splurting out the first thing that comes to my head - normally something so random it kills the conversation dead! "

Oh I'm shite at it face to face

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"Not on here, no. I check their profile out and if I fancy them back talk about arranging a social or something

I don't get chatted up in real life!!!

That's cos you don't come out clubbing with me.

Maybe it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone's appearance doesn't phase me, but when I'm really attracted to them, I stumble over my words and can't string a sentence together. This is because my mind is imagining us naked in bed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can talk for England to most people.

Unless I fancy them. Then I become an idiot."
being a single bloke that would never happen they just don't talk lol

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By *esiderataWoman
over a year ago

St Helier

Is it supposed to be easier to talk to someone if you imagine them naked? Oops that is public speaking..but hope it helps op.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a shy person so in real life I find it hard but do find it a little easier on here although in the back of my mind there's the....why have they messaged me part

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to get tongue tied so I don't always message a hot guy just have them in my hotlist and perv from afar

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire

I can talk for England to most people.

Unless I fancy them. Then I become an idiot."

But I haven't messaged you.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Luckily on here I don't clam up, babble or gesticulate so wildly I 1) knock things over or 2) whack someone across the face. I don't get chatted up in real life. Ever. On here if someone hot messages I tell them they're hot and to bear with me until my flabber is no longer gasted that they messaged me. Only I don't put it like that because it's a shite way of expressing it. Also, attaching a face pic is a visual "You messaged this. Are you sure?". No need to ask, no response means I got my answer.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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I often get a "damn I'm punching above my weight here" moments

Then the..."are you sure you wanna talk to me"

Then the filters just fall off and I talk waaaaay too much, then I apologise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm pretty shit at messaging - I seem to just leave the conversation there when the other person is expecting mor..."

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a shy person so in real life I find it hard but do find it a little easier on here although in the back of my mind there's the....why have they messaged me part "

They message because you are gorgeous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I almost always carry a watermelon in real life if a hot person talks to me. Last week an exceptionally hot guy came to a site visit I was on at work and I immediately started blabbing on about my carbon footprint

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I chat utter crap until they realise my quim isn't worth it. And then I regret it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first thought, based on past experience outside Fab is, what are they after.

Being reserved as a result is not the best way to start things going

Once I feel comfortable enough I'll pretty much tell you anything and need a filter.

So I'll either put you off by seeming uninterested or too interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I chat utter crap until they realise my quim isn't worth it. And then I regret it."

Your quim is delightful

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I chat utter crap until they realise my quim isn't worth it. And then I regret it.

Your quim is delightful

And you make it flutter (can they? I don't know but am going with it).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Replying on here is easy. In the flesh, I probably appear unimpressed and don't give too much away. I'll feel the butterflies though ~ love that feeling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I chat utter crap until they realise my quim isn't worth it. And then I regret it.

Your quim is delightful

And you make it flutter (can they? I don't know but am going with it)."

Haha they can! I wrote on a thread earlier saying mine was fluttering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I chat utter crap until they realise my quim isn't worth it. And then I regret it.

Your quim is delightful

And you make it flutter (can they? I don't know but am going with it)."

fanny gallops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I chat utter crap until they realise my quim isn't worth it. And then I regret it.

Your quim is delightful

And you make it flutter (can they? I don't know but am going with it).

fanny gallops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

(Homer voice) mmm, fluttering quim (Homer voice)

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"I chat utter crap until they realise my quim isn't worth it. And then I regret it.

Your quim is delightful

And you make it flutter (can they? I don't know but am going with it).

fanny gallops

Ah, the good old mimsy twinge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not good with flirty past the second message and if they want sexy talk i'm no good past the fourth message. I then just leave the messages until i can think of something to say (which is sometimes never!).

If you want a run down on all normal stuff that is not related to sex at all, and makes you lose the will to live, then i'm your gal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do!

We have been speaking to a particular couple today that has me tongue tied and I probably come across as ridiculous as I feel ha ha.

I'm even worse in reality, I'm really shy!

Eve. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I chat utter crap until they realise my quim isn't worth it. And then I regret it.

Your quim is delightful

And you make it flutter (can they? I don't know but am going with it).

fanny gallops

Ah, the good old mimsy twinge.

Haha love that one

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I chat utter crap until they realise my quim isn't worth it. And then I regret it.

Your quim is delightful

And you make it flutter (can they? I don't know but am going with it).

fanny gallops

Ah, the good old mimsy twinge.

Haha love that one

Oh I love a good fanny gallop or a minge twinge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think how attracted I am to someone changes how shit I am at conversing. I'm not very good at messaging/texting/etc. Unless we're talking politics, then I can chat all day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I chat utter crap until they realise my quim isn't worth it. And then I regret it.

Your quim is delightful

And you make it flutter (can they? I don't know but am going with it).

fanny gallops

Ah, the good old mimsy twinge.

Haha love that one

Oh I love a good fanny gallop or a minge twinge

Is that the same as a wide on? Asking for a friend obvs

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I chat utter crap until they realise my quim isn't worth it. And then I regret it.

Your quim is delightful

And you make it flutter (can they? I don't know but am going with it).

fanny gallops

Ah, the good old mimsy twinge.

Haha love that one

Oh I love a good fanny gallop or a minge twinge

Is that the same as a wide on? Asking for a friend obvs

Very much so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I chat utter crap until they realise my quim isn't worth it. And then I regret it.

Your quim is delightful

And you make it flutter (can they? I don't know but am going with it).

fanny gallops

Ah, the good old mimsy twinge.

Haha love that one

Oh I love a good fanny gallop or a minge twinge

Is that the same as a wide on? Asking for a friend obvs

Very much so

I'll let me er him know

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By *ureTemptation OP Woman
over a year ago

Off the grid

"I'm pretty shit at messaging - I seem to just leave the conversation there when the other person is expecting mor..."

There are two kinds of people.

1. Those who can extrapolate from incomplete data

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I meet someone I like.. I become clumsy...

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By *ureTemptation OP Woman
over a year ago

Off the grid

"When I meet someone I like.. I become clumsy...

Oooo I do this. Although I wonder if I'm clumsy anyway. And it's just that all my flaws become embarrassingly obvious around someone I fancy.

Why is this? There can't be any evolutionary advantage to a member of a species acting like a complete idiot around someone they fancy, surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I meet someone I like.. I become clumsy...

Me too! It's completely embarrassing.

Eve. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's easier to talk to people (online) and in the real world, when you want nothing from them or don't care what they think of you. Perfect example, guy that comes in the gym where I work that I've fancied since I first saw him 10 months ago. Before this black cloud descended upon me all I could think about was fucking him and would get tongue tied whenever I saw him, the last month or so and it's effort to even look people in the eye. Even when he came in and saw the Xmas decorations in reception and made a joke asking if there was any mistletoe I just looked at him and said "no, there's not."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They just want sex anyway. It's not like they want to take us on a date. I can fuck hot men all day long.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can talk for England to most people.

Unless I fancy them. Then I become an idiot.

Sometimes it happens. Although it has happened where it kinda makes the safeties come off and I can speak more freely with them because I fancy them so much

Oh god I do that or end up being too eager

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"They just want sex anyway. It's not like they want to take us on a date. I can fuck hot men all day long. "

What?! Nooooo

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"They just want sex anyway. It's not like they want to take us on a date. I can fuck hot men all day long.

What?! Nooooo"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They just want sex anyway. It's not like they want to take us on a date. I can fuck hot men all day long. "

I wish I could see it that way ha ha. Then I have to take my clothes off and I want to look sexy but all my silly insecurities are running through my head and they look awesome...

Then the sex starts and everything is well with the world again ha ha...

Eve. X

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

I usually just check that the message was meant for me, so some8like them could have got it wrong by sending me that message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can talk for England to most people.

Unless I fancy them. Then I become an idiot."

Not a problem for me.

Born idiot.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I can talk for England to most people.

Unless I fancy them. Then I become an idiot."

Ah. This explains why I think everyone else is a total idiot.

I'm just too beautiful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can talk for England to most people.

Unless I fancy them. Then I become an idiot.

Ah. This explains why I think everyone else is a total idiot.

I'm just too beautiful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the flesh, I'm terrible. I get embarrassed, my face starts to burn, then I get a sweat moustache and I ask them how they are about four times, before walking off and probably tripping over my own foot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They just want sex anyway. It's not like they want to take us on a date. I can fuck hot men all day long.

I wish I could see it that way ha ha. Then I have to take my clothes off and I want to look sexy but all my silly insecurities are running through my head and they look awesome...

Then the sex starts and everything is well with the world again ha ha...

Eve. X"

You have something they want, don't forget. However hot you think someone is, they want you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In the flesh, I'm terrible. I get embarrassed, my face starts to burn, then I get a sweat moustache and I ask them how they are about four times, before walking off and probably tripping over my own foot.

Ah see, my trick in real life is to have a drink to calm myself, then have another for courage, then a few more, then go home and cry into a cup of tea. without ever speaking to them.

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Yes, then your brain turns to mush and you start rereading everything you were just about to send, and realise that you're actually an imbecile. Every time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah see, my trick in real life is to have a drink to calm myself, then have another for courage, then a few more, then go home and cry into a cup of tea. without ever speaking to them."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can talk for England to most people.

Unless I fancy them. Then I become an idiot."

Yes, I usually think right this has to be a wind up. And then I start talking about boring shit like cake and they think im not interested

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I say anything, usually whatever comes out, which will be respectful and that's the most important thing. If I fancy them then this influence will be in there.

In clubs etc I get it that some people just get a little excited or nervous and I just accept that and assume that others would too, should I ever make a faux pas.

There's nothing more perfect, than when you are just being yourself. We frequently set our personal standards too high, when we should just be relaxing and enjoying our lives.

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By *ouple4biMMFCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"I'm pretty shit at messaging - I seem to just leave the conversation there when the other person is expecting mor..."

I have noticed...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, then your brain turns to mush and you start rereading everything you were just about to send, and realise that you're actually an imbecile. Every time."

An imbecile... Haha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah see, my trick in real life is to have a drink to calm myself, then have another for courage, then a few more, then go home and cry into a cup of tea. without ever speaking to them."

That might be a better option for me. I'm not sure how attractive a sweat beard is on a female...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm pretty shit at messaging - I seem to just leave the conversation there when the other person is expecting mor...

There are two kinds of people.

1. Those who can extrapolate from incomplete data"

That's my favourite statistics joke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turnip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm like you op when it comes to this lol, I've even asked the question sometimes of "have you seen my pics" totally off putting I know, but it's like come on are you for real lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just say exactly whats on your mind dont try to over think it

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

In the world, I'm very flirty with everyone, unless I fancy them, then I'm awkward and can barely string 3 words into one of those long phrase-like things with punctuation...

On here, I'm more consistent - I think it's more of of level playing field in some respects.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah see, my trick in real life is to have a drink to calm myself, then have another for courage, then a few more, then go home and cry into a cup of tea. without ever speaking to them.

That might be a better option for me. I'm not sure how attractive a sweat beard is on a female..."

I've learned that there is probably someone out there, somewhere that likes it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah see, my trick in real life is to have a drink to calm myself, then have another for courage, then a few more, then go home and cry into a cup of tea. without ever speaking to them.

That might be a better option for me. I'm not sure how attractive a sweat beard is on a female...

I've learned that there is probably someone out there, somewhere that likes it."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, a gorgeous lady from my hotlist winked me earlier today and I'm pretty sure I fucked it up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When someone hot messages you, you respond. And you don't get a reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When someone hot messages you, you respond. And you don't get a reply.

And then you listen to The Smiths.

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By *ams0nMan
over a year ago

london

I'm fine in person.

On here - it's like my fingers go jelly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No l just talk as normal.

l find that the hotter they are, the less effort they put in, especially the women. l don't care how hot you are, if you can't make half an effort, l don't want you.

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By *ureTemptation OP Woman
over a year ago

Off the grid

"I'm pretty shit at messaging - I seem to just leave the conversation there when the other person is expecting mor...

There are two kinds of people.

1. Those who can extrapolate from incomplete data

That's my favourite statistics joke

It can't be. It's my favourite stats joke. It can be your second favourite.

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By *duk70Man
over a year ago

langley

This is clearly why I don't many responses back lol

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

What are these things you talk of....messages ?

Tongue tied has been known in the real world, not on here ..on here I'm uber cool*

* this is not necessarily true.

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I can talk for England to most people.

Unless I fancy them. Then I become an idiot."

I know exactly what you mean, I struggle to be normal too and usually just overdo it and scare them off

Its usually when I rush on here that it happens though.

Maybe take your time with the messages and just try and be normal lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quite enjoy a bit of banter with someone who is similar minded to me but I if I feel they are trying to steer the conversation towards that of a sexual nature then I lose interest... especially if it's someone I don't know .. if I can engage someone in normalish banter on here then I am more likely to want to meet them.. it has nothing to do with looks a lot of the time

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Oh I'm shite at it face to face "

No you aren't. We got on swimmingly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I'm shite at it face to face

No you aren't. We got on swimmingly

I second that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

chat to them, they are just like normal guys and will objectify you all the same.

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By *ysnomiaMan
over a year ago

Preston

"I tend to get tongue tied so I don't always message a hot guy just have them in my hotlist and perv from afar

Feelings mutual

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

I become a mess when trying to chat to a guy I fancy. All my friends know if I can chat & flirt I don't actually fancy the guy

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"I'm pretty shit at messaging - I seem to just leave the conversation there when the other person is expecting mor..."

This is so us, but we know we do it!! But we don't know why & we know it pisses people off to cos when we think "Oh shit haven't messaged xyz for a while" we send a message & it gets ignored.

Our loss usually.

In our defense though we do say we are shit at messaging in our profile.

"Must try harder" as the ole school report used to say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only time I get all tongue tied & flustered is in a situation where I'm not expecting to meet a hot man, i.e. work, meetings, doctors, then I've been known to come out with all sorts of random shite

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Would be great to have the opportunity...!!!

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