FabSwingers.com forum: is it sad for a man

By *layful me OP Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

is it sad for a man to cry at a film like never been kissed??????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah I know one who cried watching tangled

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Men are human and so naturally have emotions. I'd find it sadder if someone was emotionally cold. Not that I know the film.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cried at the end of toy story 3 and Armageddon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

humans cry -

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Not at all

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"is it sad for a man to cry at a film like never been kissed?????? "

No, it isn't; men and women are the same species

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

My ex always cried at the end of Memphis Belle, and he was a big beardy biker type.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Never been kissed is a great film to cry at.

I admit to it being one of the ones that always gets me going.

It's hilarious and thought provoking at the same time.

The love is just ....well, beautiful.

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By *layful me OP Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

yes it so is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yes it so is "

Just out of interest, do you also think that ice cream makes you gay?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"is it sad for a man to cry at a film like never been kissed?????? "

It's a comedy though!

A rom com. But no. Weep if you want to, nowt wrong with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had tears for a movie but maybe not that one though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive teared up watching Gogglebox of all things so I'll say nah lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah, cry if you want. I'm female and I don't really cry at anything on TV or films and that doesn't make me cold either.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"is it sad for a man to cry at a film like never been kissed?????? "

hand over ya "man card" in reception...... thank you!!!!

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By *nsert user name hereMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"yes it so is

Just out of interest, do you also think that ice cream makes you gay?"

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I cried at the end of toy story 3 and Armageddon "

Toy Story 3 is a killer!!!

Ruby

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

"Nah, cry if you want. I'm female and I don't really cry at anything on TV or films and that doesn't make me cold either. "

I tend not to get emotional either. I always thought that being an adult was learning to control your emotions, so that you can choose when it is appropriate to share them with others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I cried at the end of toy story 3 and Armageddon

Toy Story 3 is a killer!!!

Ruby"
thankyou.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I tend not to get emotional either. I always thought that being an adult was learning to control your emotions, so that you can choose when it is appropriate to share them with others. "

And part of being an adult is also learning when not to be an arse?

I'm clearly not an adult then, because I often cry. Whether it's through joy, relief or a sense of the plight of another person.

But hey, I still play with balloon animals and face paint, so it must be true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I weep a bit at a lot of John Hughes movies, anyone who knows his films will get what I mean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nah, cry if you want. I'm female and I don't really cry at anything on TV or films and that doesn't make me cold either.

I tend not to get emotional either. I always thought that being an adult was learning to control your emotions, so that you can choose when it is appropriate to share them with others. "

I don't think it's necessarily inappropriate to cry on occasion but I'm definitely considered socially weird for not bursting into tears at sad films and weddings even though I'm female

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get emotional and cry at the wrong things - I've bawled over an episode of The Simpsons and I've cried when a friend gave me a present. I think it's because I keep it all in and I suddenly explode.

Only explode in private though - I'm not a public cryer. I look ridiculous when I cry - cross between a car coughing up a hair ball and having leg cramps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've cried when watching x factor and all the judges stand up and clap the winning performance ....

I live alone so can get away with it .

If I'm in company I nip to the loo and take deep breaths before returning ..

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

"Nah, cry if you want. I'm female and I don't really cry at anything on TV or films and that doesn't make me cold either.

I tend not to get emotional either. I always thought that being an adult was learning to control your emotions, so that you can choose when it is appropriate to share them with others.

I don't think it's necessarily inappropriate to cry on occasion but I'm definitely considered socially weird for not bursting into tears at sad films and weddings even though I'm female

That's what I mean. I have certainly cried, but with anything emotional, I try to consider other people before I inflict my emotions upon them. Just because I'm having a shit day, it doesn't mean that I should bring someone else down too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never cried at a film, ever

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By *rozacMan
over a year ago

london

With age and experience comes empathy.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Nah, cry if you want. I'm female and I don't really cry at anything on TV or films and that doesn't make me cold either.

I tend not to get emotional either. I always thought that being an adult was learning to control your emotions, so that you can choose when it is appropriate to share them with others.

I don't think it's necessarily inappropriate to cry on occasion but I'm definitely considered socially weird for not bursting into tears at sad films and weddings even though I'm female

But crying doesn't always mean you're sad or frustrated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"is it sad for a man to cry at a film like never been kissed??????

No, it isn't; men and women are the same species"
not according to some women lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex wept at `Cars' the animated film.

I dont have a problem with guys feeling emotional, makes them human.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With age and experience comes empathy."
I cry every time my football team play

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"With age and experience comes empathy. I cry every time my football team play "

Is it because they never win?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nah, cry if you want. I'm female and I don't really cry at anything on TV or films and that doesn't make me cold either.

I tend not to get emotional either. I always thought that being an adult was learning to control your emotions, so that you can choose when it is appropriate to share them with others.

I don't think it's necessarily inappropriate to cry on occasion but I'm definitely considered socially weird for not bursting into tears at sad films and weddings even though I'm female

Ah I see generally don't even want to cry, it's not that I'm stopping myself on anyone else's behalf. Especially when it comes to happy things - why the fuck would I cry at something I'm happy about

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

Nothing wrong with crying at something beautiful be a movie or real life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always a bit suspicious of a man who hides the fact that he cries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patch Adams was a killer for me. The bit where Robin Williams was talking to his dead wife. Gone completely.

Also the memorial shrouds display that was in Exeter to commemorate the battle of the Somme affected me a lot more than I thought it would.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"is it sad for a man to cry at a film like never been kissed?????? "
yes you sissy now get to the back of the man que haha

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By *heaspieswingerMan
over a year ago

Peak District

"is it sad for a man to cry at a film like never been kissed?????? "

Well, we have never seen that particular film so can't answer that one.

My OH has cried at The Notebook, Forrest Gump and The Orphange, and he's not afraid to admit it!

I think being unashamed to cry shows great strength and confidence, and that you're not cold inside!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just remembered the end of green mile........

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Ffs don't mention marley and me

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By *layful me OP Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

"With age and experience comes empathy. I cry every time my football team play "

so i tack in whith the name you you have seen the film twin town then

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By *layful me OP Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

"I'm always a bit suspicious of a man who hides the fact that he cries

I do cry but not in public will I have when I lots my son that was so different and my wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"is it sad for a man to cry at a film like never been kissed??????

Well, we have never seen that particular film so can't answer that one.

My OH has cried at The Notebook, Forrest Gump and The Orphange, and he's not afraid to admit it!

I think being unashamed to cry shows great strength and confidence, and that you're not cold inside!"

I really dislike the statement that people who don't cry are cold inside.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I really dislike the statement that people who don't cry are cold inside.

Me too. I very rarely cry (trump's victory being an exception) and I'm often told I seem cold. But I'm not and it's quite a judgement to make, really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I really dislike the statement that people who don't cry are cold inside.

Me too. I very rarely cry (trump's victory being an exception) and I'm often told I seem cold. But I'm not and it's quite a judgement to make, really. "

alone i can cry a lot - but on the outside i can appear hard especially at work but im practical there and chuck in being hurt too many times it becomes easier to block it and store it away

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"I really dislike the statement that people who don't cry are cold inside.

Me too. I very rarely cry (trump's victory being an exception) and I'm often told I seem cold. But I'm not and it's quite a judgement to make, really. "

Tears of joy?

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

If they're psychologically damaged it's perfectly understandable, yes

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I think being unashamed to cry shows great strength and confidence, and that you're not cold inside!"

No man should be ashamed of crying. British stiff upper lip can only go so far.

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

I get teary eyed watching people who are crying/sad etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always feel really uncomfortable when a man cry. I dunno what to do with them.

xxx

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"I always feel really uncomfortable when a man cry. I dunno what to do with them.

xxx"

Give him a hug. They are human too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I really dislike the statement that people who don't cry are cold inside.

Me too. I very rarely cry (trump's victory being an exception) and I'm often told I seem cold. But I'm not and it's quite a judgement to make, really. "

I do cry sometimes, if I'm particularly frustrated or angry. But only alone - and I wouldn't dream of calling a man weak for crying but plenty of people are happy to call a woman cold for not crying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I really dislike the statement that people who don't cry are cold inside.

Me too. I very rarely cry (trump's victory being an exception) and I'm often told I seem cold. But I'm not and it's quite a judgement to make, really.

Tears of joy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend not to get emotional either. I always thought that being an adult was learning to control your emotions, so that you can choose when it is appropriate to share them with others.

And part of being an adult is also learning when not to be an arse?

I'm clearly not an adult then, because I often cry. Whether it's through joy, relief or a sense of the plight of another person.

But hey, I still play with balloon animals and face paint, so it must be true. "

I think it depends on how you have been brought up. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mufasa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I really dislike the statement that people who don't cry are cold inside.

Me too. I very rarely cry (trump's victory being an exception) and I'm often told I seem cold. But I'm not and it's quite a judgement to make, really.

I do cry sometimes, if I'm particularly frustrated or angry. But only alone - and I wouldn't dream of calling a man weak for crying but plenty of people are happy to call a woman cold for not crying. "

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I used to only cry when I was angry. Then I had my daughter and every fricking NSPCC advert set me off like a fountain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always feel really uncomfortable when a man cry. I dunno what to do with them.

xxx

Give him a hug. They are human too

I'll try. I remember when my exs mum died I too was upset but felt I had to hold it togther for gaz n the kids. I ended up just rubbin him back n feeling void of emotion. Xxx

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I tend not to get emotional either. I always thought that being an adult was learning to control your emotions, so that you can choose when it is appropriate to share them with others.

And part of being an adult is also learning when not to be an arse?

I'm clearly not an adult then, because I often cry. Whether it's through joy, relief or a sense of the plight of another person.

But hey, I still play with balloon animals and face paint, so it must be true.

I think it depends on how you have been brought up. Xxx"

To be considerate to other people.

The only times I ever saw my mum cry was when she was extremely proud (which happened once) and when my nan died. I have never seen my dad cry.

I don't have a problem or an issue with those that don't cry, same as I don't with those that do. There are times when I think 'get a grip' if it seems excessive or if it's over something petty. But what's petty to one person could mean everything to another and I respect that.

My kid sees me cry at films or the pride of Britain awards regularly and it's a bit of a joke in our house, but when it comes to 'being strong' I can be when necessary. In my own house, in front of the goggle box I don't need to be.

Nb: these times are more likely to happen when I'm due on, tired, hungry etc lol

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"I always feel really uncomfortable when a man cry. I dunno what to do with them.

xxx

Give him a hug. They are human too

I'll try. I remember when my exs mum died I too was upset but felt I had to hold it togther for gaz n the kids. I ended up just rubbin him back n feeling void of emotion. Xxx"

I have seen men cry. Am not talking about wailing the house down; just a tear

My brother cried when we lost our mother. I have never seen him cry before or after

I don't know why but knowing that a man can cry makes him somehow seem more human and nicer

Don't know if this makes sense to anyone else but it does to me

We are all different, though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used to only cry when I was angry. Then I had my daughter and every fricking NSPCC advert set me off like a fountain."

anything children related is likely to set me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ballerina. Take tissues. For the kids of course

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